Youngpo413:
even cheating?

Emaprince:
service? Haha haha... I know what you talking. In my NYSC days in camp especially, married women hid all their rings and did their thing Like the single ones did. They came to have fun.. And none of them wants to be left out. They wanted the attention and the sex fun.

victorian:







Yes even cheating


Couples who want their marriage to work, forgive each other.

Celebs whose marriages are still standing firm, simple forgave each other in cheating. Cause they want it to work
Do u think Omotola is faithful to her husband? But they are still together. The husband sef is doing his own, far away abroad. But chose to stay together for the kids and for glam.

Rmd and jumobi, u think they were both faithful to each other abi? Their own almost break them up but they realised they need each other, more than ever.

Ben Bruce and his wife. You think Ben is so faithful abi? He's doing his own codedly and the wife simply turned blind eyes to it.

I'm not supporting cheating but at the end. Some couples do forgive each other, if they are remorseful about it and promise to change? Marriage continues

While some nah Divorce straight or stabbing the partner. While some will kill the cheating partner and all their children with himself or herself join and burn house on top.

That's complete massacre.

Na WA o.

FalklandOIO:
Lemme shed a bit of light on the "Fons et origo" in bros Patrick's voice . They started having issues a few years into the union when after a minor disagreement the husband left for work and the her mum called to tell her that her wife had come around to drop the only child with her ( she was just 1 year plus at the time). She came in early that morn, to her Hubby's hometown and told the mums she wanted to buy something around the area. She later called an hour later to tell her "she has come to drop their child and that Olorun a wo a toju e" . Hubby got home to discover that she has moved her belonging away from the home and it was her mother (giving full consent) whom facilitated the whole thing.

FalklandOIO:
Hanty Vic, I hear you o... But abeg if na only one partner dey cheat e go bust person brain nah, but if to say nah both of them dey cheat as you alluded than its easy to mend the marriage. But in this scenario na only one party "allegedly" ( cuz the real truth of the matter neva surface) dey enjoy am e come be d woman .

And to think my couz was one of those boiz wey dey always like to "rum n sing n f**k during his Uni days but left that life on the altar of being responsible and faithful

victorian:










In some marriages, na only one dey cheat, while the other turns a blind eye. While in some both cheats but later forgive themselves and make amends.
So in your cousin scenario, he's having a taste of ladies he has bleeped and dumped in his university days. Karma has decided to rear its ugly head on your cousin, smiles.

If he like let him be, Mr faithful and Mr responsible in marriage, karma will still knock on his door. Except he's lucky to marry a virtuous woman.

Chiefjosy:

Is the happiness not worth it? You 1 make e put olosho for house ?
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Bestinstinct:
Stories like this just dey increase person trust issues. Bro. As much as I hate judging from one angle, I just have to conclude that the woman is not just a cheat but a dangerous one. Yoir cousin is just risking his life getting involved with her. I can boldly tell you she's this 'I must be successful' kind of person, believe's so much in 'I can do without you', she's super secretive and she never agrees to misdeed, even if she does, it's going to be aggressively. Please tell me I'm wrong....

sage111:

He is not the husband but his cousin.....


Now U get me right?

Chiefjosy:


I know and he has to be happy for his cousin. Because if his cousin put olosho for house, he himself go feel am

FalklandOIO:
I would like to hear what other men think and their reaction(s) if they were in his shoes. Contributions from elderly married men welcomed (fuckboys stay off )

sage111:

Hmmmm.....

No problem being happy but he is being OVER happy like he is being vindictive

Chiefjosy:
Are you female ?

JuanDeDios:

This is nonsense. She broke his TRUST. Do you know what trust means? What else was she hiding? It's enough to end a marraige.

sage111:

Hmmmm.....

No problem being happy but he is being OVER happy like he is being vindictive

sage111:

Chiefjosy:

That’s why you’re not happy that the guy is over happy
Women matter just tire me nowadays

FalklandOIO:
I'm sorry if I come across as being gleefully happy about this whole issue but you have to understand that this isn't a 1-5 year Union. Na 8 years plus marriage and ur nigga suffering several indecencies left, right and center from "most" of the wife's family (bar 2 of them that really tried to settle issues when she first packed out of the house, special respect/recognition goes to them). The matter noh be here bros. If na to catalogue that one, we go die for here. My guy as his own mistake would be that he lacked tact and wasn't diplomatic enough and there are some times his temper got the better of him. But bros if it was ur relative or ur immediate family, you will also heave a sigh of relief that finally its over.

sage111:


Why

Chiefjosy:
Infidelity and irritating behavior

FalklandOIO:
So, I've got a cousin whose wife aborted a child without the Hubby's knowledge a few years back and the hubby found out months after she lost another son same day she delivered. Her excuse(s) were:

1. That she underwent an x-ray and unbeknownst to her, she was already pregnant and she only saw the warning on the x-ray card that stated that the child may have birth defects.

2. That she and her husband were feuding during that period and she couldn't tell him (or his sister of mother who were by the way her strong allies then).

She then arbitrarily went for the abortion with her landlady and her cousin was the only person she told.

ValCon888:


There's nothing love cannot forgive.

victorian:










In some marriages, na only one dey cheat, while the other turns a blind eye. While in some both cheats but later forgive themselves and make amends.
So in your cousin scenario, he's having a taste of ladies he has bleeped and dumped in his university days. Karma has decided to rear its ugly head on your cousin, smiles.

If he like let him be, Mr faithful and Mr responsible in marriage, karma will still knock on his door. Except he's lucky to marry a virtuous woman.

Chiefjosy:


Infidelity in men can be managed. Can a woman marry 2 husband? Whereas a man can marry 2 wives. Imagine your wife getting pregnant for another man after spending huge amount on wedding

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ValCon888:
Its really horrible for her to carry out such an act without her husband's knowledge.

But the totality of the act is not enough for the marriage to crash - if he still loves her. After all, they can always have another kid.

But if he does not love her or want the marriage again, the act is serious enough for him to use as an excuse to start seeing other women.

If a man does not want you, even putting excess salt in his soup is enough reason for him to collapse the marriage .

Chiefjosy:

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