Wuraola01:



Na so

baiaon:
Whether light skinned or dark skinned I still don't give a poo about women
#MGTOW

Valerie47:
Its their body, so mind your business.

nemille:
you must be a struggle-gerian.

MariaLavina:
Lol, I see some feeble minds here indirectly and opposing and shading my view, ladies i don't bite. If you think otherwise, quote directly and let's converse. I don't bite

So yes self esteem isn't easy to build, it's complex and can only be achieved by experience, I get that but the question is when do you want to start? When will you ever be ready for it? Is it something you can just decided on and build when feel you are ready? No Darling, it's a gradual process and it can start away, anytime and anyhow. Maybe with your skin colour.

For how long will you take the easiest routes? So because your light skin friends gets more attention than you do, does that mean you have to bleach your skin off? Have you tried evaluating the bases , benefits and Havocs that comes with this attention? Is it really worth it? Do you also want to be a shiit flies perch on? These should be sane questions that should come into your mind and not what bleaching cream should I use.

Yes self esteem is complex but do you have to be taught self love too? If you don't love who you are how do you expect people to love you?
For how long will you walk in someone else shadow? Do you have to be taught how to accept your being?. Lol.


You ladies humor me! Wuraola01 believe me, over self esteem self dey over worry me. No be for mouth , still working on bringing it down self. So don't type trash next time.

ibkayee I expected much more from you.

luminouz:

Lmaoooo...
For what?? I ain't gonna bite u know
Its the location that intrigued me!!! A NL Geh in Ibadan is cool...
Unless ur married!!! I don't make friends with these!!!

CreamyBanana:


but una dey do makeup.

na the same low self esteem all of una dey suffer from. you bleach, you do makeup, all of una get low self esteem.

that is why i love chichipeperenpe. my chinyere. natural lightskinned, no makeup, no braids. chai, my one and only chinyere.

Paxie55:
But truth be told, Nigerian men are hypocrites.
They will advice the dark ladies not to bleach, but keep going after the fair ones.

If they wanna do video shoot, na fair ladies.
Miss this or that, na fair ladies.
So, what encouragement are you giving the dark skinned ones.


My dad married fair woman cos he loves fair ladies, my bro wants to follow suit.
So,what options do you guys have for the dark skinned ones for encouragement.
Op, I think it's their body too, let's mind our business.

Wuraola01:






Trash? Really :

The truth is bitter. You will agree that not everyone is strong minded like you!!
There are those with fragile minds!!

You've got to see from others point of view.
Not yours alone ma'am.
Besides you didn't have to mention me cos I didn't mention ur name when I said those talking about self esteem are d ones suffering from it

Valerie47:
Its their body, so mind your business.

ibkayee:

Lol don't mind them, big hypocrites

MariaLavina:
Please let's call a spade a spade! Men aren't responsible for anything. The problem here is YOU! Any Lady that changes her skin colour because she wants to be seen and appreciated lacks self esteem! Her self value is zero!

So black skinned aren't appreciated, yet black women get married every weekends.Are they marrying themselves?
Black women aren't valued yet the rant and cliché' Black is beautiful' is everywhere. Abeg ii !
Black is neglected yet Agbani and that Angola lady won miss world.
Let's hear word jare! It's high time ladies start working on their inner minds than their bodies. No one can make you feel bad about yourself if you don't give them permission to.

MariaLavina:
You've denied referring to me, that's cool. You are excused.

MariaLavina:
Lol, I see some feeble minds here indirectly and opposing and shading my view, ladies i don't bite. If you think otherwise, quote directly and let's converse. I don't bite

So yes self esteem isn't easy to build, it's complex and can only be achieved by experience, I get that but the question is when do you want to start? When will you ever be ready for it? Is it something you can just decided on and build when feel you are ready? No Darling, it's a gradual process and it can start away, anytime and anyhow. Maybe with your skin colour.

For how long will you take the easiest routes? So because your light skin friends gets more attention than you do, does that mean you have to bleach your skin off? Have you tried evaluating the bases , benefits and Havocs that comes with this attention? Is it really worth it? Do you also want to be a shiit flies perch on? These should be sane questions that should come into your mind and not what bleaching cream should I use.

Yes self esteem is complex but do you have to be taught self love too? If you don't love who you are how do you expect people to love you?
For how long will you walk in someone else shadow? Do you have to be taught how to accept your being?. Lol.


You ladies humor me! Wuraola01 believe me, over self esteem self dey over worry me. No be for mouth , still working on bringing it down self. So don't type trash next time.

ibkayee I expected much more from you.

luminouz:

I know u were a bit cranky!!!
Some men love colour, others don't..just as some girls love light skin guys or not
Some triggered that, glad u could apologize....that's a wife material quality right there

sassysure:

Wise saying.
Talk is so cheap. For an average dark skinned girl whom 10 guys have asked out for a date in a year, the fair skinned girl must have gotten the same requests from 20 and counting.
Yet, they love dark skin. Add those that asked the dark girl out too.
Quite hypocritical.

Yewandequeen:
you dont have to bite with teeth you can bite eith other things#ifuknowuknow

Kikikikik so you never expected to have an Ib based person on NL i feel like spanking you

Paxie55:

True.
@emboldened lol

franchasng:
99% of ladies who answer sweet, sexy names like:

Sweetestchick
Sexylizy
Liziliciousbae
Lindibae
Cutiepie
Zendyxie
Vickyswt
Swtbae
Chocosweet
Queeniecutie
Sexyqueen
Etc etc etc


Are usually ugly looking in real life, guys that's how to spot ugly girls online; they twist their names or handles to appear sexy to make guys think they are cute

Oya guys pay your offerings asap for this revelation

lefulefu:

the one u talk about videoshoot u no lie bu then in many body lotion commercials they make use of dark skinned ladies nau

Carlyscales:

Does it in anyway make sense, that a lady bleaches her skin so she can be asked out, or to increase her no of hits

luminouz:

Lmaoooo....i don't bite with anything.. I'm a gentleman!!


Truth is,u will be the 2nd Geh whose profile bear the Ibadan location tag...maybe its my luck but I just don't see them here...

Lol@spanking me.....hmmmm...don't awaken the dragon

luminouz:

Why these ladies dey quarrel of light and dark,day and night,heaven n hell naaaaaa...

Men need ass and boobs....have small brains too...n lastly

MAKE UR OWN FVCKING MONEY!!!!

Paxie55:
But truth be told, Nigerian men are hypocrites.
They will advice the dark ladies not to bleach, but keep going after the fair ones.

If they wanna do video shoot, na fair ladies.
Miss this or that, na fair ladies.
So, what encouragement are you giving the dark skinned ones.


My dad married fair woman cos he loves fair ladies, my bro wants to follow suit.
So,what options do you guys have for the dark skinned ones for encouragement.
Op, I think it's their body too, let's mind our business.

Yewandequeen:


Gentleman? I smell scam

Yeah, your luck.

Look better wake up, i meant flogging you. You are there thinking of the other room spank, corrupt mind

lefulefu:

i tire oo
a lady can be beautiful weda light or dark

luminouz:


Lol..I'm for real..like a cool nigga....get to know me jor..

N yeah..I'm for real..don't meet them here at all...everybody na Lagos and Abuja

N who told u what I was even thinking huh if u ain't a bad Geh ursef....
I mean spanking could awaken the money making dragon in me,u know

SamOyovwi:
My mother is a very fair beautiful woman. Why should I marry a black woman? I must marry a fair woman.
I love fair ladies