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Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by MissRaine69(f): 3:49pm On Jan 06, 2019
Last night I found out a friend was killed by her husband who then killed himself. Their bodies were discovered by their children the next morning. This lady told the pastor’s wife , other church ladies that the level of domestic violence had reached unbreable levels and she wanted to leave. She left once but was told to think of her marriage and try to save it. Save it from what?
She was encouraged to pray and bare with it.
My friend prayed and stayed but she paid dearly for it.
Why do we encourage women to prioritise status? Why do we as women make it so hard for a women to be a single mother

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by demo4ril97(m): 3:52pm On Jan 06, 2019
One of the greatest weapon of leverage in life is learning to mind your own business.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by CAPSLOCKED: 4:02pm On Jan 06, 2019
MissRaine69:
Last night I found out a friend was killed by her husband who then killed himself. Their bodies were discovered by their children the next morning. This lady told the pastor’s wife , other church ladies that the level of domestic violence had reached unbreable levels and she wanted to leave. She left once but was told to think of her marriage and try to save it. Save it from what?
She was encouraged to pray and bare with it.
My friend prayed and stayed but she paid dearly for it.
Why do we encourage women to prioritise status? Why do we as women make it so hard for a women to be a single mother

THIS PERSON DIED BECAUSE SHE BELIEVED IN THE POWER OF PRAYERS. SHE WAS ENCOURAGED TO PRAY BY HER CHURCH MEMBERS, AND SHE WAS ALSO PRAYED FOR BY THESE PEOPLE. NOW SHE'S DEAD, AND THEY'RE ALIVE. THE SERMON WILL SAY THAT SHE DIED BECAUSE OF GOD'S WILL AND SHE'LL BE IN A BETTER PLACE WITH GOD NOW THAT SHE'S DEAD.

PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW THAT IT PAYS WHEN THEY ACTUALLY TAKE ACTIONS INSTEAD OF SAYING WORDS OF PRAYERS TO AN UNEXISTING ENTITY.

PEOPLE SHOULD ENCOURAGE OTHER PEOPLE TO TAKE LEGAL ACTIONS AND ENGAGE WITH OTHER POSITIVE THINGS THAT ACTUALLY WORK INSTEAD OF BELIEVING IN RIDICULOUS MYTHS AND IMAGINATIONS, IN ORDER TO AVOID DISAPPOINTMENTS, AND IN CERTAIN CASES DEATH.

WOMEN SHOULD ENCOURAGE OTHER WOMEN TO BE BOLD, INDEPENDENT, AND TO NOT TOLERATE ABUSIVE PARTNERS.
WHEN THERE'S A SITUATION THAT IS TOO BIG FOR YOU TO HANDLE YOU TAKE IT TO THE LAW AND NOT A CHURCH.. CUS WHEN YOU'RE DEAD, THE CHURCH HAS NOTHING TO DO FOR YOU, JUST LIKE WHEN YOU WERE ALIVE.
BOTTOM LINE -- CHURCH HAS NO USE.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 06, 2019
never let a pastor or any religious leader make any decision for u.his role is to advice but everything lies on u to make dat decision or not.
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by MissRaine69(f): 4:15pm On Jan 06, 2019
demo4ril97:
One of the greatest weapon of leverage in life is learning to mind your own business.
One of the least appreciated aspect a human can have is empathy.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by MossLuv: 4:17pm On Jan 06, 2019
Something must kill a man. she stood for the marriage and she was killed for the marriage. If you don't die for what you love then what will you die for? May her soul resting in peace.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by MJBOLT: 4:20pm On Jan 06, 2019
pray and bare with it undecided WTF,the right move could have saved her life

MissRaine69:
Last night I found out a friend was killed by her husband who then killed himself. Their bodies were discovered by their children the next morning. This lady told the pastor’s wife , other church ladies that the level of domestic violence had reached unbreable levels and she wanted to leave. She left once but was told to think of her marriage and try to save it. Save it from what?
She was encouraged to pray and bare with it.
My friend prayed and stayed but she paid dearly for it.
Why do we encourage women to prioritise status? Why do we as women make it so hard for a women to be a single mother
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by demo4ril97(m): 4:21pm On Jan 06, 2019
MissRaine69:

One of the least appreciated aspect a human can have is empathy.
ok mummy
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by XhosaNostra(f): 4:30pm On Jan 06, 2019
She was a grown woman though. She chose to stay in an abusive marriage. Unless she was gullible & naive of course, otherwise I don't think people have that much power to convince someone to do something they're truly against. She must have had a glimmer of hope that things will improve. Unfortunately, it ended the way it did & imo, that falls squarely on her. Abusers rarely ever change. She should have realized that the 2nd time he ever raised his hand on her. It's a pity many figure this out too late, as they're lying there bleeding to death.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by MissRaine69(f): 10:08pm On Jan 06, 2019
XhosaNostra:
She was a grown woman though. She chose to stay in an abusive marriage. Unless she was gullible & naive of course, otherwise I don't think people have that much power to convince someone to do something they're truly against. She must have had a glimmer of hope that things will improve. Unfortunately, it ended the way it did & imo, that falls squarely on her. Abusers rarely ever change. She should have realized that the 2nd time he ever raised his hand on her. It's a pity many figure this out too late, as they're lying there bleeding to death.
It still hurts.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by pryme(m): 8:48pm On Jan 07, 2019
MissRaine69:
Last night I found out a friend was killed by her husband who then killed himself. Their bodies were discovered by their children the next morning. This lady told the pastor’s wife , other church ladies that the level of domestic violence had reached unbreable levels and she wanted to leave. She left once but was told to think of her marriage and try to save it. Save it from what?
She was encouraged to pray and bare with it.
My friend prayed and stayed but she paid dearly for it.
Why do we encourage women to prioritise status? Why do we as women make it so hard for a women to be a single mother

And her parents? Did she run to them?
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jan 07, 2019
MissRaine69:
Last night I found out a friend was killed by her husband who then killed himself. Their bodies were discovered by their children the next morning. This lady told the pastor’s wife , other church ladies that the level of domestic violence had reached unbreable levels and she wanted to leave. She left once but was told to think of her marriage and try to save it. Save it from what?
She was encouraged to pray and bare with it.
My friend prayed and stayed but she paid dearly for it.
Why do we encourage women to prioritise status? Why do we as women make it so hard for a women to be a single mother
simple misery loves company
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Ishilove: 11:48pm On Jan 07, 2019
I'm a firm believer of 'when a thing is broken, fix it. Don't throw it away'

However, the situation I will never compromise is domestic violence. It is someone who is alive that can fix something.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by sacajawea: 10:13pm On Jan 10, 2019
MissRaine69:

One of the least appreciated aspect a human can have is empathy.
Sorry For your loss oh
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Shabaleo19: 10:05am On Feb 07, 2019
MissRaine69:

One of the least appreciated aspect a human can have is empathy.
Conflicts of opinion
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by MissRaine69(f): 11:29am On Feb 07, 2019
Shabaleo19:

Conflicts of opinion
I wish I understood what it is you are trying to say.
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Nobody: 1:10pm On Feb 07, 2019
MossLuv:
Something must kill a man. she stood for the marriage and she was killed for the marriage. If you don't die for what you love then what will you die for? May her soul resting in peace.
or you can simply stay alive and find new things to love.. whats the point of the marriage sef if all you get from it is pain
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by TIDDOLL(m): 1:33pm On Feb 07, 2019
[/b]She shouldn't have heeded to the advice of fools!

You mistakenly got into a long life journey with a toxic being, just jejely pack your bags, and run for your life!! whilst you get ready to fight off any psychotic attacks.
So sad
She had fools as friends![b]
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Biglittlelois(f): 2:03pm On Feb 07, 2019
It's a pity, really a pity smh!!!
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Nobody: 2:38pm On Feb 07, 2019
The worst thing that can happen to someone especially a woman is staying in an abusive relationship or marriage
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by ubunja(m): 3:01pm On Feb 07, 2019
Women can't help themselves. Their very biology betrays them. The instinct to want to change a man from a beast to a sheep is built into their core.

The other day I was at a big hospital at night talking to this other lady who had brought her child for Medical attention and we were being surprised at the number of men brought into the Casualty Department with knife and gunshot wounds. The lady made a comment that stayed with me for a long time. She said "Men like fighting". I argued with her at that point but later on alone I admitted it to myself. Fighting, for men is built into our core. That's why we readily fight and die for those we love. It's nature. We can't help it. You can tell yourself as a man you won't ever fight again to stay safe and live long. But when a threat comes, without even making a conscious effort, you enter Fight Mode. And fight. And get hurt.

Same as with women. They may try to leave violent men and what not, but the instinct to stick around and try to change him always wins. It's a part of what makes women who they are.

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Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by Randy100: 3:13pm On Feb 07, 2019
The reason why most women stay in abusive relationship is that they can't afford to live independently. This is Nigeria, not America where the man could be forced to pay alimony and equally cater for the children.
Re: Women Do This To Other Women ...not Men by ImaIma1(f): 3:30pm On Feb 07, 2019
One of the worst things a person can be is gullible. We should learn to think of our situation since we are the ones in it, and make a decision, not allowing background noises affect us.

No woman or man did this to her. Your friend has most of the blame

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