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How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by mespusinglez(op): 1:52pm On Jan 07, 2019
Hey Guys,
Whats the First thing that comes to your mine when he/she is online for almost an hour without even saying HI to you....how do you feel?�
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by zyzxx(m): 2:12pm On Jan 07, 2019
something must be wrong somewhere, well it depends on the kind of relationship you are and how you guys defined it.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Sugarcious(m): 2:14pm On Jan 07, 2019
Most times I would believe that she doesn't know that I'm online but if it continues persistently then some guy somewhere is driving her nuts. I would :
☑ Step up my chatting game
☑ Tell her about it
☑ Find out what's going on between us
☑ Take her out and make sure she doesn't miss anything

That's how you make her confused and she'll be left with no other option than to love you more
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by bedspread:
You better don't feel anything because the moment you begin to feel something, you have Conciously used your hands to destroy your home........

Don't create what is not !

Someone's line could be on line and the person is not on line..

Speaking from Personal Experience
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by XhosaNostra(f): 3:35pm On Jan 07, 2019
Lol, that's why you got to understand yourself. I don't have messaging apps for that reason because I know how I am. Things like that are a major trigger for me. They make me suspicious, jealous, angry etc. Basically, I become a lunatic tongue
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Headlesschicken(m): 3:41pm On Jan 07, 2019
undecided Nothing comes to mind.... They r all wh0res,if she ain't chatting with me while online,then i guess she's billing another n!gga grin,not my problem
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Martin0(m): 4:39pm On Jan 07, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Lol, that's why you got to understand yourself. I don't have messaging apps for that reason because I know how I am. Things like that are a major trigger for me. They make me suspicious, jealous, angry etc. Basically, I become a lunatic tongue
hmmmmmm very very true, I'm sure 90% ladies are like this, oh you made me remember someone, are of any of this tribes , ImiDushane , or AmaNdlambe? I know the Xhosa people are divided into tribe's but i can only remember two coz i had someone then....
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by meelorlah(f): 4:52pm On Jan 07, 2019
I don't feel anyhow, he has his friends so do I. Some relationships have trust issues and it is suspicions arising from trivial things like this that brought about the issue. Stop being jealous or suspicious when she's online but not chatting with you..live and let her live

Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by chachanga: 4:57pm On Jan 07, 2019
Give pple their space...

Didn't y'all grow up in homes where folks did their various biz and chores alone atimes?

Bring your A-game to your relationships and stop being an awaiting Monitoring Spirit!

Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by akaahs(m): 5:03pm On Jan 07, 2019
Hmmmmmm, mine is worst. We can be both online without saying anything to each other. I have tried to engage her but isn't good at all. It wasn't like this before oo. Now we just ignore each other online. D thing dey pain sha but nothing I can do.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Spectre007: 5:07pm On Jan 07, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Lol, that's why you got to understand yourself. I don't have messaging apps for that reason because I know how I am. Things like that are a major trigger for me. They make me suspicious, jealous, angry etc. Basically, I become a lunatic tongue
acrimony style grin
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Rickjordan(m): 5:09pm On Jan 07, 2019
sometimes I snub her chat even if am chatting no one,just to make her jealous.. then I pet her cheesy
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Tamarapetty(f): 5:20pm On Jan 07, 2019
it is PRIDE, simple as that! When u don't have a boring partner, u'd always wait for them to come online, infact other chats becomes boring compared to the way your partner chats you. . . . Interesting topics, u argue, fight, talk bout movies, gossip together, abuse and yab eachother. .lol, and so on
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Professorcplus(m): 5:21pm On Jan 07, 2019
mtcuuuuch. Your fellow guys are making money online every second u here looking after online status of a girl that wont think twice when a guy with money come chat her up.

No girl wants a broke lover boy.

Find hustle and Get money and be the rich nigga she has been dreaming about.

Go make money nigga and stop this heartbreak talk
#advice
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by SmellingAnus(m): 5:23pm On Jan 07, 2019
I don't feel anyhow.... We all need our space... Wether you feel somehow or not, it will not stop the person from cheating.... I once had an ex that was chatting with me on Whatsapp, flirting with her coursmate/Bestie and also sending nudes to her immediate ex within a particular time interval...

Good a thing I had my pound of flesh back that kept her in shock for years... Don't mind me, I believe in payback but I am trying to change that part of me grin
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 07, 2019
Tamarapetty:
it is PRIDE, simple as that! When u don't have a boring partner, u'd always wait for them to come online, infact other chats becomes boring compared to the way your partner chats you. . . . Interesting topics, u argue, fight, talk bout movies, gossip together, abuse and yab eachother. .lol, and so on
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Professorcplus(m): 5:28pm On Jan 07, 2019
Tamarapetty:
u'd always wait for them to come online,
it is only idle guy that does that.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:29pm On Jan 07, 2019
SmellingAnus:
I don't feel anyhow.... We all need our space... Wether you feel somehow or not, it will not stop the person from cheating.... I once had an ex that was chatting with me on Whatsapp, flirting with her coursmate/Bestie and also sending nudes to her immediate ex within a particular time interval...

Good a thing I had my pound of flesh back that kept her in shock for years... Don't mind me, I believe in payback but I am trying to change that part of me grin
cheesycheesycheesy
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by donMIG(m): 5:38pm On Jan 07, 2019
I don't feel a tin
because my babe can give wahala
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by iphanyi10(m): 5:41pm On Jan 07, 2019
of course you'll get jealous, if you don't get jealous even a tiny bit, it means you aren't into him or her

even when ordinary friends don't chat with us we get jealous not to talk of lovers

but realising that you need to give people their space and allow them live their life coupled with trust always keep me at peace.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by ashewoboy(m): 5:45pm On Jan 07, 2019
Hmmmmm. read it here. ladies are like swimming pool. you should not care about who swam before you, who will swim after you, just enjoy your swimming.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by XhosaNostra(f): 5:51pm On Jan 07, 2019
Martin0:
hmmmmmm very very true, I'm sure 90% ladies are like this, oh you made me remember someone, are of any of this tribes , ImiDushane , or AmaNdlambe? I know the Xhosa people are divided into tribe's but i can only remember two coz i had someone then....
Lol, no I'm none of those.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Martin0(m): 6:04pm On Jan 07, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Lol, no I'm none of those.
oh really, remember our discussion oogrin so how was your day?
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Deicide: 6:14pm On Jan 07, 2019
Most 9ja females would rather die than text you first grin there pride e to heavy....the worst part is if you start a conversation with them they would be enjoying it but to text first? grin reason why I don't chat with people again I'll rather call if I need something.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jan 07, 2019
grin sexchatting prolly grin grin
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by CAPSLOCKED: 6:18pm On Jan 07, 2019
mespusinglez:
Hey Guys,
Whats the First thing that comes to your mine when he/she is online for almost an hour without even saying HI to you....how do you feel?�
YOU SAY HI FIRST IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO THEM. IF THEY KEEP DOING THIS EVERYTIME YOU GO AHEAD TO BLOCK & DELETE THEM.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Paxie55: 6:20pm On Jan 07, 2019
Nothing, if I wanna tell him anything, I just chat him.
Life's not that hard.
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:21pm On Jan 07, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:
YOU SAY HI FIRST IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO THEM. IF THEY KEEP DOING THIS EVERYTIME YOU GO AHEAD TO BLOCK & DELETE THEM.
Way to go bro.... I hate pride with passion...
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Kantebets(m): 6:23pm On Jan 07, 2019
Headlesschicken:
undecided Nothing comes to mind.... They r all wh0res,if she ain't chatting with me while online,then i guess she's billing another n!gga grin,not my problem
billing anoda nigga grin
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by smat101(m): 6:59pm On Jan 07, 2019
XhosaNostra:
Lol, that's why you got to understand yourself. I don't have messaging apps for that reason because I know how I am. Things like that are a major trigger for me. They make me suspicious, jealous, angry etc. Basically, I become a lunatic tongue
I LOVE NON VOILENT LUNATIC girls... grin grin grin
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by Stargurl20(f): 7:10pm On Jan 07, 2019
unimportant
Re: How Do You Feel When Your Lover Is Online But Not Chatting With You? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:12pm On Jan 07, 2019
Martin0:
oh really, remember our discussion oogrin so how was your day?
Good & yours?
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