XhosaNostra:

Good & yours?

fine fine fine!

Martin0:



fine fine fine!

Awesome

XhosaNostra:


Awesome

please can i ask something? what your name?

XhosaNostra:


Awesome

please can i ask something? what your name?

Martin0:
please can i ask something? what your name?

Shelley

XhosaNostra:


Shelley

Shelley OK! I can now go to bed now so tired from the long journey,let talk tomorrow!

Martin0:


Shelley OK! I can now go to bed now so tired from the long journey,let talk tomorrow!

Good night, Marty. Sweet dreams.

XhosaNostra:

Good night, Marty. Sweet dreams.

you too!

If he's online but he's not chatting with you, please don't disturb him.







He's trying to get marriage list from your uncles.

Some mumu girls you go send them msg they go reply you 10years later I look like person way wan toast you, who you day play with?

mespusinglez:
Hey Guys,
Whats the First thing that comes to your mine when he/she is online for almost an hour without even saying HI to you....how do you feel?�

Simple English you can't spoke.
No way oooo

lol...it's normal nau if you guys started that way..but if it wasn't like that from the onset, something is going on

akaahs:
Hmmmmmm, mine is worst. We can be both online without saying anything to each other. I have tried to engage her but isn't good at all. It wasn't like this before oo. Now we just ignore each other online. D thing dey pain sha but nothing I can do.

hmmmmmm..make I no talk sha...had the same scenario with my EX...believe me, it's very wrong...start keeping tabs on her..you never can tell..this gals ain't loyal one bit

Forget all the space talk and chatting with Friends nonsense... Once you notice this, you either nag about it which is a terrible idea or you slowly take off your mind from such relationship. Trust me, a guy or lady who truly loves you wouldn't be online without communicating with you unless the person hardly comes online and prefers calling instead, but no calls no chats? My dear.... Use your brain!

DONADAMS:
hmmmmmm..make I no talk sha...had the same scenario with my EX...believe me, it's very wrong...start keeping tabs on her..you never can tell..this gals ain't loyal one bit

D thing dey make me to consider breakup after discussing without improvement.To me isn't healthy.

akaahs:

D thing dey make me to consider breakup after discussing without improvement.To me isn't healthy.

aint healthy bro...make her see reasons bro

CAPSLOCKED:


YOU SAY HI FIRST IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO THEM. IF THEY KEEP DOING THIS EVERYTIME YOU GO AHEAD TO BLOCK & DELETE THEM.

No need blocking/deleting them as long as they haven't showed some sign of disdain and snooty behaviors to you in your previous meeting.

People not replying messages on instant messaging app shouldn't be seen as an offence.

Most people I know don't take online instant messaging app serious. May be it because they dont see it as a good platform to have an interesting or cool conversation.

I guess it better to book an appointment, voice/video-call or just hangout with some people instead of trying to force a random conversation through texting.

Some people are naturally lazy when it comes to texting!.

When I was new to relationships, it hurts and I get mad if my partner don't chat me up, but now I couldn't care less, anytime the partner decides to chat, I'm game, also I'm pretty occupied to notice someone is not chatting with me.

BecaciaBarbie:
Forget all the space talk and chatting with Friends nonsense... Once you notice this, you either nag about it which is a terrible idea or you slowly take off your mind from such relationship. Trust me, a guy or lady who truly loves you wouldn't be online without communicating with you unless the person hardly comes online and prefers calling instead, but no calls no chats? My dear.... Use your brain!

But most times, ladies always put all the work on guys. A guy will be the one to call, text, chat you up without the girl using her own mind to do same in return. That's where most girls missed it. Relationship is not just one directional flow. It should be in two directions. That's what spice it up.

But once one person is the one always checking on the other person, one day the person will get fed up and take a walk. And pride will not even make the other to contact to see what the problem is.

Valerie47:
When I was new to relationships, it hurts and I get mad if my partner don't chat me up, but now I couldn't care less, anytime the partner decides to chat, I'm game, also I'm pretty occupied to notice someone is not chatting with me.

Liar.... It pains you.....

meelorlah:
I don't feel anyhow, he has his friends so do I. Some relationships have trust issues and it is suspicions arising from trivial things like this that brought about the issue. Stop being jealous or suspicious when she's online but not chatting with you..live and let her live

With this comment I am liking you already

Mcslize:


But most times, ladies always put all the work on guys. A guy will be the one to call, text, chat you up without the girl using her own mind to do same in return. That's where most girls missed it. Relationship is not just one directional flow. It should be in two directions. That's what spice it up.

But once one person is the one always checking on the other person, one day the person will get fed up and take a walk. And pride will not even make the other to contact to see what the problem is.

In most cases this happens when the girl isn't really into you or a pride thing which I really don't blame ladies for as men usually value or generally people value the person who gives them less attention compared to the sweet one who is always calling and checking on you.

Valerie47:
When I was new to relationships, it hurts and I get mad if my partner don't chat me up, but now I couldn't care less, anytime the partner decides to chat, I'm game, also I'm pretty occupied to notice someone is not chatting with me.

See what social media is turning the human species into

Sugarcious:
Most times I would believe that she doesn't know that I'm online but if it continues persistently then some guy somewhere is driving her nuts. I would :
☑ Step up my chatting game
☑ Tell her about it
☑ Find out what's going on between us
☑ Take her out and make sure she doesn't miss anything

That's how you make her confused and she'll be left with no other option than to love you more

But but but this is stress nah. As far as she's not my wife I have no problem with it.