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GAME OF EMOTIONS.
women are emotional, men are logical: making practical use of the stereotype.
PROLOGUE
You have heard women say "I don't want just sex, I want something real!". Meaning sex on its own is not real enough for them but only when something is added then it becomes "real". that something is EMOTIONS (or an emotional connection). When emotions are part of the sex then it becomes real for her. Meaning Emotions are a woman's reality.
A WOMAN'S MOST EMOTIONAL MOMENT IS ALSO A WOMAN'S WEAKEST MOMENT.
the girl who visits you to cry on your shoulder when her father dies and the girl who visits you to celebrate a big achievement and the girl who just lost her dream job and the girl who just got diagnosed with the worst disease in medical history, will all have sex with you; the common denominator being they're all EMOTIONAL.
being emotional for a woman makes her vulnerable to dick because her "shield" (the c0ck-blocking shield) is down. a girl will Bleep during a funeral as easily as she'll Bleep during a wedding. its not about the ceremony but about how emotional the ceremony makes her. The more emotional she is the "easier" she will be.
an angry woman and an overly-happy woman are both easy to seduce. wherever there's an outpouring of emotion, painful or joyful, a woman's C0ck-Blocking shield will be down. To get pussy learn to hang around places or identify situations that make women emotional, because you will get luckier then. Places like Hospitals and situations like funerals, weddings, graduations days etc...
EMOTIONAL THINKING VS LOGICAL THINKING
What Is Emotional Thinking?: it is Processing feelings not facts where the solution is not what is truthful but what feels good to the person. That's how women generally make decisions, checking how good or bad a situation makes them feel. The same reason women grow to love lies because lies are sweet but hate truth because truth hurts. With women flattery will get you everywhere.
Do Men Ever Think Emotionally? Yes: take Your choice of Presidential candidate as an example. that's an emotional decision that no amount of facts for or against him/her will ever change. Just like your favourite Football Club is "the best football club in the World" no matter how bad it plays and your tribe is the greatest no matter how small or useless it is. these are all emotional decisions that come from the heart and feelings not the mind and logic. And as such no amount of logic or facts can change them. and anyone trying to reason with you on these decisions will be wasting his time and energy because you're not prepared to be reasonable.
women are labelled Emotional Thinkers because this type of thinking (processing feelings), is their default factory setting. emotions are a woman's thought process. while men process facts, women process feelings. a woman weighs statements/situations/developments against how they make her feel, not how true they are; and a man weighs statements/situations/developments against how true they are, not how they make him feel.
You ask a man "What do you THINK of x and y" but you ask a woman "How do you FEEL about x and y". and because you ask a woman how she "feels" about things it is then counter-productive to try to REASON with her. You can't reason with emotions. men consider women complicated and hard to deal with because men employ logic where logic won't work. While logic is about rationality, consistency, fairness, justice, predictability, and common sense (the male approach to the world), emotions are about HOW A SITUATION MAKES A PERSON FEEL AT THAT SPECIFIC MOMENT. regardless of whether there is justice, fairness, consistency or common sense. And what sort of people does that make women? Crazy people! Hence the popular phrase: "women are crazy".
Some men try to be emotional like women hopping to connect with them. But emotional women find that although emotional men may be easy to get along with, understand pain and are a shoulder to cry on, (they are Emotional Tampons) because these men are "in touch with their feminine side", it is however the cold-hearted psychopaths without emotion that make the pussy wet.
now, men (by processing facts), see the world in black & white / good & evil/ right & wrong/ Yes & No/ 1s & 0s; while women (by processing feelings), see the world in shades of gray, where there is no absolute good or absolute evil but where everything is relative ("it depends" ). where "Maybe" is as good an answer as Yes and No.
This is all to say - with emotions, "under the right circumstances" anything is permissible. If the "emotional weight of the moment" is correct, a woman will agree to anything. Be it cheating, homosexuality, murder or suicide.
because women think with their feelings, Any problem a woman encounters, she views it in an emotional setting, complicating simple things by bringing in unnecessary emotions (try working with your wife if you want headaches); meanwhile, because Men are logical, Any problem a man encounters, he views it in a logical setting, making him take cold businesslike steps to solve even problems that needed an emotional touch (you cant break up via Whatsapp. Its logical, but emotionally insensitive).
THE WEAKNESS OF WOMEN
Now, because women process feelings not facts ( "guys, i don’t know how i feel about this!" ) things don’t have to be right to be accepted but they have TO FEEL RIGHT: and herein lies the weakness of women: IF SOMETHING FEELS GOOD THEN IT IS RIGHT and if it feels bad it is wrong. How many times have you heard songs by women about cheating with lyrics that go something like: "How can something that feels so good be wrong?" Or "how can something that feels so right be wrong?"
To a woman if it feels good or right, then its good and it's right.
And by the same logic, the quickest and easiest way to spoil something for a woman is to MAKE HER FEEL BAD ABOUT IT. No matter how perfect and healthy it is for her. Either by shaming her for it or straight-up bad-mouthing it.
THE LIMITS OF LOGIC.
the most important thing to know about logic is that Logic is a C0ck-Blocker. follow logic and you'll die a virgin because logic will always misinterpret, explain away and find an excuse to ignore Green Lights. Why? Because Green Lights by nature use logic as a defense. A girl gives you a Green Light in such a way that it can be logically denied if you shame her for it. Its how she protects herself and her reputation around prudish people. E.g "can you come fix my TV?" where "Can You Come?" is the green light and "fix my TV" is the logical reason she uses as a cover.
And men who excel in logic: geniuses, nerds, geeks and professors are usually hopeless with women, because all the logic in the world will not help you with an emotional situation. Emotional situations require emotional solutions, just like logical situations require logical solutions. Its the reason why girls tell guys "Don’t over-think it, just do it". because men wait for things to make Logical Sense (which never happens in sex) before acting, even though things already make Emotional Sense (she just got engaged but is calling you non-stop? zero logical sense; but lots of emotional sense: she wanna use your dick to double-check her emotions concerning her fiance). a woman tests the strength of YOUR love for her by putting temptation in your path (setting you up) or by watching you deal with other women; meanwhile she tests the strength of HER own love for you by putting temptation in her own path (tasting the forbidden fruit). If After cheating with you a woman's feelings for her fiance still remain as strong as ever, then she knows those feelings are real and she'll marry him with confidence. Your dick was a litmus paper test. no matter how sweet it was, it did not make her forget her man. her feelings for him were bigger than your dick. So they must be real. She reasons.
Just like a lesbian will fvck a man to establish beyond doubt that dick ain't for her.
meanwhile, Logic is about analysing and predicting situations and problems safely from afar (e.g learning from other people's mistakes or reasoning from Cause and Effect to predict an unpleasant outcome and avoiding it); meanwhile emotions are about feeling or experiencing something first hand to form a conclusion. Emotions cant be predicted ("I will keep having sex with this guy i know i will never fall in love with him" - NO!! there is a chance your heart will surprise you and fall in love).
most women will be advised over and over about Bad Boys but still they will fall for and be hurt by the Bad Boys. Why? because Its the nature of emotions. With emotions experience is the best teacher, making women generally bad at taking advice. Women only learn by experience (or personal mistakes) while men learn by others' mistakes (or from the advice of others). Men "watch and learn" from others because logic is predictable and men are logical; but women have to "experience and learn" personally because emotions can't be predicted and women are emotional. Men can learn sex by watching porn, but women must actually have sex to learn sex because it is by actual experience that she can discover what she likes and hates. Women are Emotional and emotions are feelings and feelings need to feel to discover what feels good or bad.
PREDICTABLE LOGIC; UNPREDICTABLE EMOTIONS
logic is predictable: if you run something in your mind and it makes sense, run it by another mind it will make sense also. Laws, rules, formulas etc all rely on logic. Logic doesn't change, making it predictable. the ever-fixed never-failing Laws of Nature make Nature the most predictable thing known to humans: what goes up must come down, the higher you go the cooler it becomes, heat water and it will boil etc. It is this predictability of nature that makes it possible to cook, build, fly and forecast the weather. Similarly, If you know how a person THINKS you know that person forever. People seldom change their mind. You can predict and anticipate how that person will react in almost every situation for the rest of their life. Because how a person thinks today is how a person will think tomorrow. This is how men are predictable.
If a man tells a woman he loves her you can bet 10 years later he will still love her because his love is a DECISION unlike the love of a woman which is a FEELING.
But emotions are unpredictable: if you run something in your heart and it feels good, it doesn’t mean if you run it by another heart it will feel good also. emotional sensitivity varies from heart to heart; women being the most emotionally sensitive. with emotions there's no standard and no two people process emotions the same way. That is: no two people love the same way, no two people grieve the same way, no two people revenge the same way etc. Now because of these variations, there can be no law that can be created to direct people to behave in a common manner in emotional matters. Where emotions rule there can be no law. And because women are emotional, they have a natural disdain for rules, regulations and standards. Consequently they find themselves attracted to men with an equal and identical hatred of rules and regulations: Bad Boys, criminals and generally anyone going against the grain of society. It is with these men that women find a kindred spirit and experience true freedom to be who they are.
emotions are unpredictable and because women are Creatures of Emotion no two women are the same. what works on Sandra is not guaranteed to work on Maria.
Women view logic as too rigid, too fixed and too unbending to have any fun and spontaneity with because logic is uncompromising (hence women always urge men to "lose themselves in love" or "to surrender to the moment" that is, to put a pause on their logic for once and think with the heart); on the other hand, men view emotions as too fluid, too unstable and too unpredictable to build anything of lasting value on. both are correct. logic is unchanging, making men predictable (how a person thinks today is how a person will think tomorrow) which makes men reliable in the long term because they don't change, but unspontaneous and boring in the short term because they cant compromise and "let go and enjoy the moment"; meanwhile emotions are ever-changing making women unpredictable (how a person feels today is not necessarily how a person will feel tomorrow, feelings come and go) which makes women unreliable in the long term because they are always changing, but fun and spontaneous in the short term because nothing with them is set in stone, they can " flow with the moment" and follow where the wind blows. the unpredictability of women's emotions is such that women themselves cant predict themselves and regularly end up surprising themselves ( "one thing led to another" / "i don’t know what came over me" ). with a woman and her forever-changing and unpredictable emotions you win by getting all you can TODAY while you still have her emotional goodwill and her feelings are still favourable to you; making the most of the present moment, because tomorrow the weather changes. emotions are an extremely perishable product. More perishable than milk. every moment counts and tomorrow nothing will be use-able. your goal is to keep pushing on and on TODAY - until you hear the girl say "i don’t usually do this but,...".
You exploit what is unpredictable (women/emotions) by making maximum use of it while the mood favors you. and you exploit what is predictable (men/logic) by attending to it last when you have explored other options, after all its not going anywhere and its not going to change. thats why women have men as Plan B, C and D lined up that they love one at a time. Some of these men will have their chance 10 years from now. there's no hurry with logic. Logic is like wine. Time only makes it better. You can forecast and count on logic. Thats how women save the Good Men for last (AKA Nice Guys Finish Last)
A Player wins the Game of Emotions with women because the age when a woman is at her freshest (late teens and early 20s) is also the age when her emotions are the most unpredictable to herself as well since she's discovering herself as a young woman. Knowing that, the Player catches them young. While other men cry out: "women give their best years to the Bad Boys!". Players 1 - Emotions 0.
A Woman takes advantage of the predictability of logic to make men a reliable Landing Gear for when she wanna retire from fvcking around. She wins the Game of Logic with men because the age when a man is at his best career and financial-wise (30-35) is also the age when he's set in his ways and even more predictable than in his earlier poorer years! So having slept with dozens of men and aborted dozens of pregnancies, the woman goes through her phone book and that boring good guy with a steady job and money saved up who, for years, has wanted to wife her up and "save her" finally gets a call from her...the Nice Guy is finishing last! And himself he can't believe his luck that after so long the girl of his dreams is actually available! Women 1 - Logic 0.
WOMEN DONT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
because women's emotions are unpredictable even to themselves, they end up contradicting themselves when what they claim to hate today pleases them tomorrow (you cant predict how something will make you feel until you feel it), earning them the infamous reputation: Women don’t know what they want!
its a little flaw in women that a Player capitalizes on with statements like: "try this, you might like it" or "lets try it once, if you don’t like it we'll never do it again".
And true to the unpredictability of emotions, some things that his GF previously claimed to hate, she will try out and find that she now likes them. For whatever reason!
C0CK-BLOCKING WITH LOGIC; PUSSY UNLOCKING WITH EMOTIONS.
Although Emotional Creatures, women themselves use logic for C0ck-Blocking. where logic rules sex rarely happens, remember "when a woman has beauty without brains its her private part that suffers", so a woman with brains protects her pussy. so she'll block with logical statements like "im married/ i don’t cheat/ its wrong/ i don’t know you" etc. common sense excuses.
But a Player is never logical (that's for Nice Guys) and he is never emotional (thats for Emotional Tampons). he is a cold-hearted manipulator who uses the EMOTIONAL WEIGHT OF THE MOMENT to counter: "You've an innocent face and i know you don’t usually do this but its Dec 31st baby" /" you just told me its your birthday", etc knowing Dec 31 (last day of the year), birthdays etc, are situations with "emotional weight" and that with women, the more emotional weight a moment carries the more she will do.
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