Admin401:
Make time for everything, especially your books. Enjoy your youth.

SaucyBenks:
Rat wey suppose dey for im hole inside bush talk say na my house im prefer to stay... We go see how e go end.

WinningEleven:

Please what do you mean

SaucyBenks:
Focus Wholly On Your Studies N Leave Women Alone For Now, You'd Be Glad You Did.

Tamarapetty:
Puberty! It's normal. . . Just focus on your scores that u wanna get this year, having such feelings right now will make u lose concentration if u're not determined.

WinningEleven:

That's what I'm trying to do but the present structure of things is not agreeing with me.
How can I kill the feelings?

WinningEleven:
I'm a 16 year old boy preparing for jamb. I applied for a high course but my score was too low... So I'm bucking up more this year.
So I read everyday now. And now its attracting unnecessary attention to me. Girls in my neighborhood now disturb me for me to teach them(I swear I'm not lying) and I just passed out from secondary school last year.
And there is another problem. There was a young girl that's way younger then me(I think 13 or 14) that just came to our neighbourhood. Immediately I saw her, I fell for her but I had to think it through. The girl was too young, her class(academic) is very low to mine(she's in SS1). So I started to avoid her and try to get her off my mind.
But her mum came to beg me to teach her last week but I couldnt tell her no(that would be rude). Now the girl I'm trying to forget comes to my house regularly. And each time I see her, my flames for her is increased.
Please how can I deal with all this?.

Anytime I'm reading, her thought comes to my mind and I won't be able to concentrate

And please forget that I'm a child and advise me.
Thank you

SaucyBenks:
by thinking about what you in 10 years would look like if you follow this path n also how it'd look if you fūck the feelings do what I said.

FuckBots:

. guy just play along and toast(and possibly Bleep ) her already.

FuckBots:

. guy just play along and toast(and possibly Bleep ) her already.

faithfull18:

Would you give this kind of advice to your younger brother/sister. That's if you are not same age with the op.

WinningEleven:
I'm a 16 year old boy preparing for jamb. I applied for a high course but my score was too low... So I'm bucking up more this year.
So I read everyday now. And now its attracting unnecessary attention to me. Girls in my neighborhood now disturb me for me to teach them(I swear I'm not lying) and I just passed out from secondary school last year.
And there is another problem. There was a young girl that's way younger then me(I think 13 or 14) that just came to our neighbourhood. Immediately I saw her, I fell for her but I had to think it through. The girl was too young, her class(academic) is very low to mine(she's in SS1). So I started to avoid her and try to get her off my mind.
But her mum came to beg me to teach her last week but I couldnt tell her no(that would be rude). Now the girl I'm trying to forget comes to my house regularly. And each time I see her, my flames for her is increased.
Please how can I deal with all this?.

Anytime I'm reading, her thought comes to my mind and I won't be able to concentrate

And please forget that I'm a child and advise me.
Thank you

SaucyBenks:
Rat wey suppose dey for im hole inside bush talk say na my house im prefer to stay... We go see how e go end.

Tamarapetty:
Puberty! It's normal. . . Just focus on your scores that u wanna get this year, having such feelings right now will make u lose concentration if u're not determined.

Kennydoc:


Tell her that unfortunately, you won't be able to teach her again as you're getting distracted and losing focus. I need to remind you that she's a minor, so if you misbehave, you can be charged for rape whether she gives you consent or not.
The feelings you have for her is normal. It's ur testosterone raging inside your blood and it shows you're healthy. You only need to sever completely the connection you have with her. Let her and her family say you're selfish, it doesn't matter. You're only trying to secure your future. If you allow your emotions lead you, I can assure you that you will regret it later on.
As for the other people coming for you to teach them, you can devote a few hours a week for a joint study session with them. Let nobody drag you back. I believe you won't want to look at yourself in 10 years time and wish you disciplined yourself now.

brian750:

"Laying aside every weight" Try and imagine the future of this new friendship with this girl. Hmm .... You obviously know attaching yourself emotionally to this girl will have a sad end. Now, don't try to avoid her for any reason, this is a war and you must learn to handle it. Conquer this war, learn to control your urge.

If you avoid her, you've only postpone your struggles cos there are many attractive girls you will still meet in the university. If you can't handle your emotions now, what will you do later in school ?

Any time your body tells how beauty and attractive she is, tell your body how bad your life and future will be affected if anything goes wrong eventually. Don't avoid her.

Another important thing, make sure you don't see her for anything personally or Private. Make sure you don't have any form of friendship with her except the coaching which should be done in an open place where people can see you guys.