Hey Fam... Name's (****) I'm just 21 but i would clock 22 by April.

I graduated December Last year from Olabisi Onabanjo University as a Botanist..
Despite having 90 percent of my friends as Yahoo boy's, I never joined them to do fraud...
Although, i always try to do it but within 3 days or maximum of 5 day's, I would stop it grin . I don't know why

Now, I'm back home.. Back to the trenches grin.

I'm tired of eating and waking up everyday In my parents house...

[b]Now, I'm thinking of what to start doing, Starting a Blog or settling for Graphic designing?/b]


Or should I just leave the house and hustle anyhow, joining my friends and ignoring my parents because at the end of the day, it is my life.

My parents are over protective, till now, I don't even know my real behaviour smiley ... I think I should explore.

Throughout my 4 years in school, I went from home... I did not rent an apartment near campus... I used to be an extrovert... Maybe this was part of the reason why I became an introvert..

I remembered I left home recently, and my Dad was threatening me not to return, but I was like who wants to stay in his house before...
I booked an Hotel and the next day, I went to stay with my friend with the mindset of not going back home..


My parents found out that I wasn't even moved by their threats, they began to beg me to come back home, still I declined not until one of my senior cousin whom I respected so much begged me to return home...

So I returned on the 4th day..

I don't know what to do.. I really don't wanna stay at home no more..

Advise me in regards to everything I poured out here.

Thank you fam

You want to leave your parents house and explore or you want to start something doing?

What do you want actually?

You graduated in December last year... Aren't you planning to serve? Aren't you planning to start applying for jobs?

What did you study? Don't you have plans to actually practice it? If blogging or graphic design was an interest, why haven't you started since?

Fact is, if 90% of your friends are yahoo boys, then you are too, especially since you've already tried but gave up cause you lack patience or laziness. You can't tell me otherwise. Even yahoo yahoo requires a certain amount of dedication and discipline.

You're too immature judging by your write up, and you're being oppressed or better yet, influenced by your friend's wayward lifestyle.

Imagine booking a hotel How many months were you planning to stay there? I only blame your parents. You sound like a spoilt brat.

Until you taste the bitter side of life, I don't think you'll ever have sense. Better cool down and plan your life.

Not all that glitters are gold.

HenryDion:
Hmmm

hmm what

The two biko Thanks

garriAndsugar:
You want to leave your parents house and explore or you want to start something doing?

What do you want actually?

Hmmmmm

HenryDion:
Hmmm

Your talking like your parents are not African parents.
You left home and they called you begging you to come back
Its like you no receive reasonable beating when you were a child.

What's the rush?
Anyway I'm not surprise you're in the wrong company already.

That thing that you're looking for, you will soon get it.

So, u respect your senior cousin more than your parents. Okay na
I wonder why your body no wan stay for your parents house.
Why can't you just tell them your plans?
They'll understand where you're heading too.

I'm very sure my parents disciplined me more than the way yours treated you... Me wey receive cane enter 200 level...
My dad own a school , so just imagine... There would be no scarcity of cane in our house.
And did you read what I wrote atall... Mr Man ? I was actually threatend to be dealt with if I should come back home and I was like is it me they are using this line's for? Not until they saw traces that I don't really give a damn

Medianna:
Your talking like your parents are not African parents.
You left home and they called you begging you to come back
Its like you no receive reasonable beating when you were a child.
Cuz some of the folly that spanking was suppose to remove is still in your head

That thing that you're looking for, you will soon get it.

Lol. This was the guy that is always covering
my mess at home, buy me stuffs e.t.c.. Thanks boss.. I would try and sit them down for some discussion

Beebah2000:
So, u respect your senior cousin more than your parents. Okay na
I wonder why your body no wan stay for your parents house.
Why can't you just tell them your plans?
They'll understand where you're heading too.

Tfrost21:
I'm very sure my parents disciplined me more than the way yours treated you... Me wey receive cane enter 200 level...
My dad own a school , so just imagine... There would be no scarcity of cane in our house.
And did you read what I wrote atall... Mr Man ? I was actually threatend to be dealt with if I should come back home and I was like is it me they are using this line's for? Not until they saw traces that I don't really give a damn

OK bro. I get.

I don't stay with you in the same house so I shouldn't conclude.

Its like you're tired of the whole 'house thing'

If you can fend for yourself and take care of yourself like an adult. Why not?
You can be whatever you want to be. Just be careful

Bro...
I know say body dey shakk you to leave house, but see eh, it's better you leave that house with a blessing from your parents than with a curse ...

Hmmmm....
This hustle you're rushing to go and hustle is not moi moi o... Not everyday in the streets will stew like that so....

So calm down and collect "God be with you my pikin" from your parents before you japa o...

This treatment is mostly given to first son....

Do what you think is good for you so you don't grow up blaming your parents....
No parents will ever be happy seeing their child leaving home and you know they will be happy happy to hear you are SUCCESSFUL....

Tfrost21:
Hey Fam... Name's (****) I'm just 21 but i would clock 22 by April.

I graduated December Last year from Olabisi Onabanjo University as a Botanist..
Despite having 90 percent of my friends as Yahoo boy's, I never joined them to do fraud...
Although, i always try to do it but within 3 days or maximum of 5 day's, I would stop it grin . I don't know why

Now, I'm back home.. Back to the trenches grin.

I'm tired of eating and waking up everyday In my parents house...

[b]Now, I'm thinking of what to start doing, Starting a Blog or settling for Graphic designing?/b]


Or should I just leave the house and hustle anyhow, joining my friends and ignoring my parents because at the end of the day, it is my life.

My parents are over protective, till now, I don't even know my real behaviour smiley ... I think I should explore.

Throughout my 4 years in school, I went from home... I did not rent an apartment near campus... I used to be an extrovert... Maybe this was part of the reason why I became an introvert..

I remembered I left home recently, and my Dad was threatening me not to return, but I was like who wants to stay in his house before...
I booked an Hotel and the next day, I went to stay with my friend with the mindset of not going back home..


My parents found out that I wasn't even moved by their threats, they began to beg me to come back home, still I declined not until one of my senior cousin whom I respected so much begged me to return home...

So I returned on the 4th day..

I don't know what to do.. I really don't wanna stay at home no more..

Advise me in regards to everything I poured out here.

Thank you fam

You have to plan on where to stay and how to feed before living home to run uoir race as a man

Seat your parents down ams let them know that you have to change location to start hustling

You don't need them to be quarrelling with you to achieve what you want

They are your parents and loved you more

Give them peace and they will pray for your successful life

Thanks Fam.. God bless you

Medianna:


OK bro. I get.

I don't stay with you in the same house so I shouldn't conclude.

Its like you're tired of the whole 'house thing'

If you can fend for yourself and take care of yourself like an adult. Why not?
You can be whatever you want to be. Just be careful

I am the first son ... You're a perfect analyst sir

Uzomacharles:
This treatment is mostly given to first son....

Do what you think is good for you so you don't grow up blaming your parents....
No parents will ever be happy seeing their child leaving home and you know they will be happy happy to hear you are SUCCESSFUL....

Lol.. Some people just open their mouth and make some crappy conclusions. But thank You sir.. I got my answer already from your points, you said even Yahoo Yahoo requires time and dedication... I would try to put in pressure.
Spoilt brat lol.. I wish you can see the scars on every part of my body as a result of excessive punishments from beating with both koboko, belts, and cane...

HenryDion:
You graduated in December last year... Aren't you planning to serve? Aren't you planning to start applying for jobs?

What did you study? Don't you have plans to actually practice it? If blogging or graphic design was an interest, why haven't you started since?

Fact is, if 90% of your friends are yahoo boys, then you are too, especially since you've already tried but gave up cause you lack patience or laziness. You can't tell me otherwise. Even yahoo yahoo requires a certain amount of dedication and discipline.

You're too immature judging by your write up, and you're being oppressed or better yet, influenced by your friend's wayward lifestyle.

Imagine booking a hotel How many months were you planning to stay there? I only blame your parents. You sound like a spoilt brat.

Until you taste the bitter side of life, I don't think you'll ever have sense. Better cool down and plan your life.

Not all that glitters are gold.

Tfrost21:
I am the first son ... You're a perfect analyst sir

Same thing here but I've never left home yet...
The time will come just chill.

First son face more challenges in life and have a lot of people to look and take care of and I believe your parents don't want you to miss your way along the line ...
If they are gone,you will be the next person family and relatives will contact.
They know what's best for u