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Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:36pm On Jan 12
I'm a 16 year old boy preparing for jamb. I applied for a high course but my score was too low... So I'm bucking up more this year.
So I read everyday now. And now its attracting unnecessary attention to me. Girls in my neighborhood now disturb me for me to teach them(I swear I'm not lying) and I just passed out from secondary school last year.
And there is another problem. There was a young girl that's way younger then me(I think 13 or 14) that just came to our neighbourhood. Immediately I saw her, I fell for her but I had to think it through. The girl was too young, her class(academic) is very low to mine(she's in SS1). So I started to avoid her and try to get her off my mind.
But her mum came to beg me to teach her last week but I couldnt tell her no(that would be rude). Now the girl I'm trying to forget comes to my house regularly. And each time I see her, my flames for her is increased.
Please how can I deal with all this?.

Anytime I'm reading, her thought comes to my mind and I won't be able to concentrate

And please forget that I'm a child and advise me.
Thank you
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:38pm On Jan 12
P.S

I scored 263 in my first jamb and passed my waec once. This year will be my second year of writing jamb. I applied for MBBS but my score was too low
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by Admin401(m): 4:38pm On Jan 12
Make time for everything, especially your books. Enjoy your youth.

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:40pm On Jan 12
Admin401:
Make time for everything, especially your books. Enjoy your youth.
Please sir, I don't want women for now. I don't chase them but they seem to chase me. How can I deal with it
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by SaucyBenks(m): 4:42pm On Jan 12
Rat wey suppose dey for im hole inside bush talk say na my house im prefer to stay... We go see how e go end.

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:42pm On Jan 12
lefulefu explorers chidorx80 Dominique kennydoc lagusta pes14 oautemidayo lalasticlala and others please help
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:44pm On Jan 12
SaucyBenks:
Rat wey suppose dey for im hole inside bush talk say na my house im prefer to stay... We go see how e go end.
Please what do you mean
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by SaucyBenks(m): 4:47pm On Jan 12
WinningEleven:

Please what do you mean
Focus Wholly On Your Studies N Leave Women Alone For Now, You'd Be Glad You Did.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by Tamarapetty(f): 4:48pm On Jan 12
Puberty! It's normal. . . Just focus on your scores that u wanna get this year, having such feelings right now will make u lose concentration if u're not determined.

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:50pm On Jan 12
SaucyBenks:
Focus Wholly On Your Studies N Leave Women Alone For Now, You'd Be Glad You Did.
That's what I'm trying to do but the present structure of things is not agreeing with me.
How can I kill the feelings?
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:50pm On Jan 12
Tamarapetty:
Puberty! It's normal. . . Just focus on your scores that u wanna get this year, having such feelings right now will make u lose concentration if u're not determined.
Thank you ma
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by SaucyBenks(m): 4:52pm On Jan 12
WinningEleven:

That's what I'm trying to do but the present structure of things is not agreeing with me.
How can I kill the feelings?
by thinking about what you in 10 years would look like if you follow this path n also how it'd look if you fūck the feelings do what I said.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by FuckBots: 4:53pm On Jan 12
WinningEleven:
I'm a 16 year old boy preparing for jamb. I applied for a high course but my score was too low... So I'm bucking up more this year.
So I read everyday now. And now its attracting unnecessary attention to me. Girls in my neighborhood now disturb me for me to teach them(I swear I'm not lying) and I just passed out from secondary school last year.
And there is another problem. There was a young girl that's way younger then me(I think 13 or 14) that just came to our neighbourhood. Immediately I saw her, I fell for her but I had to think it through. The girl was too young, her class(academic) is very low to mine(she's in SS1). So I started to avoid her and try to get her off my mind.
But her mum came to beg me to teach her last week but I couldnt tell her no(that would be rude). Now the girl I'm trying to forget comes to my house regularly. And each time I see her, my flames for her is increased.
Please how can I deal with all this?.

Anytime I'm reading, her thought comes to my mind and I won't be able to concentrate

And please forget that I'm a child and advise me.
Thank you
. guy just play along and toast(and possibly Bleep ) her already.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:56pm On Jan 12
SaucyBenks:
by thinking about what you in 10 years would look like if you follow this path n also how it'd look if you fūck the feelings do what I said.
Thank you sir
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 4:57pm On Jan 12
FuckBots:

. guy just play along and toast(and possibly Bleep ) her already.
nonsense undecided

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by faithfull18(f): 4:59pm On Jan 12
FuckBots:

. guy just play along and toast(and possibly Bleep ) her already.
Would you give this kind of advice to your younger brother/sister. That's if you are not same age with the op.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 5:02pm On Jan 12
faithfull18:

Would you give this kind of advice to your younger brother/sister. That's if you are not same age with the op.
Please ask him o. Some people sha undecided
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by AnonymousBee: 5:03pm On Jan 12
You should learn to control your john Thomas at this stage. You can be everything you want to be if you have control over yourself.


Start now to program your mind to positivity.

Don't let pussy rule you.

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by Kennydoc(m): 5:08pm On Jan 12
WinningEleven:
I'm a 16 year old boy preparing for jamb. I applied for a high course but my score was too low... So I'm bucking up more this year.
So I read everyday now. And now its attracting unnecessary attention to me. Girls in my neighborhood now disturb me for me to teach them(I swear I'm not lying) and I just passed out from secondary school last year.
And there is another problem. There was a young girl that's way younger then me(I think 13 or 14) that just came to our neighbourhood. Immediately I saw her, I fell for her but I had to think it through. The girl was too young, her class(academic) is very low to mine(she's in SS1). So I started to avoid her and try to get her off my mind.
But her mum came to beg me to teach her last week but I couldnt tell her no(that would be rude). Now the girl I'm trying to forget comes to my house regularly. And each time I see her, my flames for her is increased.
Please how can I deal with all this?.

Anytime I'm reading, her thought comes to my mind and I won't be able to concentrate

And please forget that I'm a child and advise me.
Thank you

Tell her that unfortunately, you won't be able to teach her again as you're getting distracted and losing focus. I need to remind you that she's a minor, so if you misbehave, you can be charged for rape whether she gives you consent or not.
The feelings you have for her is normal. It's ur testosterone raging inside your blood and it shows you're healthy. You only need to sever completely the connection you have with her. Let her and her family say you're selfish, it doesn't matter. You're only trying to secure your future. If you allow your emotions lead you, I can assure you that you will regret it later on.
As for the other people coming for you to teach them, you can devote a few hours a week for a joint study session with them. Let nobody drag you back. I believe you won't want to look at yourself in 10 years time and wish you disciplined yourself now.

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by Fourwinds: 5:09pm On Jan 12
SaucyBenks:
Rat wey suppose dey for im hole inside bush talk say na my house im prefer to stay... We go see how e go end.

Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by Fourwinds: 5:11pm On Jan 12
Tamarapetty:
Puberty! It's normal. . . Just focus on your scores that u wanna get this year, having such feelings right now will make u lose concentration if u're not determined.
hmmmmm puberty for girls right
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 7:12pm On Jan 12
Kennydoc:


Tell her that unfortunately, you won't be able to teach her again as you're getting distracted and losing focus. I need to remind you that she's a minor, so if you misbehave, you can be charged for rape whether she gives you consent or not.
The feelings you have for her is normal. It's ur testosterone raging inside your blood and it shows you're healthy. You only need to sever completely the connection you have with her. Let her and her family say you're selfish, it doesn't matter. You're only trying to secure your future. If you allow your emotions lead you, I can assure you that you will regret it later on.
As for the other people coming for you to teach them, you can devote a few hours a week for a joint study session with them. Let nobody drag you back. I believe you won't want to look at yourself in 10 years time and wish you disciplined yourself now.
Thanks sir
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jan 12
I feel the best thing is to find a hobby, something that will require a great deal of your attention after your books. Focus your energy on it. It will help get your mind off her.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by DrSam4(m): 9:30pm On Jan 12
If You have a father, just present this ur post 2 him.
Again, I say present it humbly!
Then come back here, okay?!

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Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by zackon: 9:56pm On Jan 12
Am having the same trouble oooo.
But I just applied one trick one myself ,i.e I just channel my energy on positive things like increasing the rate of my studying, minding my business, and inform my brothers that any girl that comes to look for me tell them am not around period.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by brian750: 6:14pm On Jan 13
"Laying aside every weight" Try and imagine the future of this new friendship with this girl. Hmm .... You obviously know attaching yourself emotionally to this girl will have a sad end. Now, don't try to avoid her for any reason, this is a war and you must learn to handle it. Conquer this war, learn to control your urge.

If you avoid her, you've only postpone your struggles cos there are many attractive girls you will still meet in the university. If you can't handle your emotions now, what will you do later in school ?

Any time your body tells how beauty and attractive she is, tell your body how bad your life and future will be affected if anything goes wrong eventually. Don't avoid her.

Another important thing, make sure you don't see her for anything personally or Private. Make sure you don't have any form of friendship with her except the coaching which should be done in an open place where people can see you guys.
Re: Please I Need Advice... Nairalanders Help Me by WinningEleven(m): 9:15pm On Jan 13
brian750:

"Laying aside every weight" Try and imagine the future of this new friendship with this girl. Hmm .... You obviously know attaching yourself emotionally to this girl will have a sad end. Now, don't try to avoid her for any reason, this is a war and you must learn to handle it. Conquer this war, learn to control your urge.

If you avoid her, you've only postpone your struggles cos there are many attractive girls you will still meet in the university. If you can't handle your emotions now, what will you do later in school ?

Any time your body tells how beauty and attractive she is, tell your body how bad your life and future will be affected if anything goes wrong eventually. Don't avoid her.

Another important thing, make sure you don't see her for anything personally or Private. Make sure you don't have any form of friendship with her except the coaching which should be done in an open place where people can see you guys.
Thanks for the advice sir

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