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Just talk to her before another person do it. Just talk to her in a manner that will make her feel secure even if she doesn't want to date you.

Christty:
Just talk to her before another person do it. Just talk to her in a manner that will make her feel secure even if she doesn't want to date you.

She told me she has a boyfriend but i don't even know how true that is coz I'm like the first and only person she's talking with whenever she's online,we've told each other everything about ourselves (our fears,likes, taste of music which we happen to share the same) she schools in the south and i,in the north.

Now this is a dilemma, I understand the part where you're scared of loosing your friendship with her if things go south just go with your heart bro

ERORR404:
(Sweet Dreams, "have you eaten" and so many things i can't go through right now)

Mtcheww

Its all in your head.

Deicide:

Mtcheww

Its all in your head.

How do you mean?

lordofajajsa:
Now this is a dilemma, I understand the part where you're scared of loosing your friendship with her if things go south just go with your heart bro

My heart is confused

Love na scam ..
only Jesus can love you truthfully

AONE555:
Love na scam ..
only Jesus can love you truthfully

U won't let her be now that she has told you that she has a Bf, soon u will open a thread about how your gal that claimed she loves u cheated on you with her ex

ERORR404:
We were friends in primary school cos we live in the same area, until secondary school and then we departed for long. Long story short we got back together last year and during our chatting, she told me she had a boyfriend but we chat with eachother like we are dating, (Sweet Dreams, "have you eaten" and so many things i can't go through right now) I wanted to pay her a visit but she said she'd come over and she did. I see the stare in her eyes when we lock eyes but I'm just so confused on what to do, I don't want to start something with her that will make us loose our friendship. I know i like her and i know she feels something for me but i don't know if it's what i feel

She said she has someone already, the best is to let her be.

Don't conclude you are the only one she is chatting with as it can be more than 5 people at a time. The boyfriend might even be the type that doesn't use social media much.

If you cannot hold it, then, there is need for space. Just create that space anyhow. At times, we get wrong impression of women, do not take her social attitude for relationship signal.

If you talk her into relationship there is possibility she agrees but since there is no complaint that the boyfriend is irresponsible, there is need for you to create that space so as not to get too attached. If you get too attached you will only destroy the friendship as you will end up having sex with each other which can lead to huge regret.

ERORR404:
We were friends in primary school cos we live in the same area, until secondary school and then we departed for long. Long story short we got back together last year and during our chatting, she told me she had a boyfriend but we chat with each other like we are dating, (Sweet Dreams, "have you eaten" and so many things i can't go through right now) I wanted to pay her a visit but she said she'd come over and she did. I see the stare in her eyes when we lock eyes but I'm just so confused on what to do, I don't want to start something with her that will make us loose our friendship. I know i like her and i know she feels something for me but i don't know if it's what i feel

She said she has someone already, the best is to let her be.

Don't conclude you are the only one she is chatting with as it can be more than 5 people at a time. The boyfriend might even be the type that doesn't use social media much.

If you cannot hold it, then, there is need for space. Just create that space anyhow. At times, we get wrong impression of women, do not take her social attitude for relationship signal.

If you talk her into relationship there is possibility she agrees but since there is no complaint that the boyfriend is irresponsible, there is need for you to create that space so as not to get too attached. If you get too attached you will only destroy the friendship as you will end up having sex with each other which can lead to huge regret.

ERORR404:
We were friends in primary school cos we live in the same area, until secondary school and then we departed for long. Long story short we got back together last year and during our chatting, she told me she had a boyfriend but we chat with eachother like we are dating, (Sweet Dreams, "have you eaten" and so many things i can't go through right now) I wanted to pay her a visit but she said she'd come over and she did. I see the stare in her eyes when we lock eyes but I'm just so confused on what to do, I don't want to start something with her that will make us loose our friendship. I know i like her and i know she feels something for me but i don't know if it's what i feel

Ewu. Girlfriend snatcher. Anumanu. Ezi ofia.

my brother kiss her and see her reaction

Fyi0:


Ewu. Girlfriend snatcher. Anumanu. Ezi ofia.

Seriously?

Cholls:
my brother kiss her and see her reaction

I know she won't resist we'd probably just laugh afterwards but my fear is risking what we are now (good friends) for that.

bamisepeters:
She said she has someone already, the best is to let her be.

Don't conclude you are the only one she is chatting with as it can be more than 5 people at a time. The boyfriend might even be the type that doesn't use social media much.

If you cannot hold it, then, there is need for space. Just create that space anyhow. At times, we get wrong impression of women, do not take her social attitude for relationship signal.

If you talk her into relationship there is possibility she agrees but since there is no complaint that the boyfriend is irresponsible, there is need for you to create that space so as not to get too attached. If you get too attached you will only destroy the friendship as you will end up having sex with each other which can lead to huge regret.

Thanks for this advice man,really makes sense

I will just stand up... Clean my trousers and tell her to learn how to fall by her self

slimsky:
I will just stand up... Clean my trousers and tell her to learn how to fall by her self

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yungz:




Old school......if u tell her ur intentions she will gradually start avoiding you..just leave things the way they are and focus more on building rapport and b4 u know it she will be all over you.

Thanks for this

When you guys locked eyes, that was your moment to shine, to go for the kiss, but you have let your moment to pass you by. You re just a loser like the rest of us.

Gaspardd:
When you guys locked eyes, that was your moment to shine, to go for the kiss, but you have let your moment to pass you by. You re just a loser like the rest of us.

"Like the rest of us"? Dude no be american film na, this is real life.

ERORR404:

"Like the rest of us"? Dude no be american film na, this is real life.

U shld try it man. Do it for your country

Gaspardd:

U shld try it man. Do it for your country

I will when next i get the chance

ERORR404:

I will when next i get the chance

Mumu! They tell you to jump enter fire and you jump.

Just tell everyone you are looking for a quick means to sleep with a lady that is just supposed to be your friend and sister.

HungerMustGo:


Mumu! They tell you to jump enter fire and you jump.

Just tell everyone you are looking for a quick means to sleep with a lady that is just supposed to be your friend and sister.

I just answered him, doesnt mean I'll do it

ERORR404:
Seriously?

Very seriously

ERORR404:
Seriously?

Very seriously

Fyi0:

Very seriously

okay man

ERORR404:
We were friends in primary school cos we live in the same area, until secondary school and then we departed for long. Long story short we got back together last year and during our chatting, she told me she had a boyfriend but we chat with eachother like we are dating, (Sweet Dreams, "have you eaten" and so many things i can't go through right now) I wanted to pay her a visit but she said she'd come over and she did. I see the stare in her eyes when we lock eyes but I'm just so confused on what to do, I don't want to start something with her that will make us loose our friendship. I know i like her and i know she feels something for me but i don't know if it's what i feel

Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one:

"each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.
Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.--James 1:14-15

How can a young man keep his behavior pure? By guarding it in accordance with your word.--psalm119:9

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

A word is enough for the wise.

Abcruz:


Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one:

"each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.
Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.--James 1:14-15

How can a young man keep his behavior pure? By guarding it in accordance with your word.--psalm119:9

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

A word is enough for the wise.

Okay thank you