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| Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by JustAstrangeGuy: 10:37pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Good evening All and am sorry for bringing this up here but I got no one to talk to right now ... I have been dating this Girl for 4years plus now, It's been a Really Sweet relationship, she loves me she cares for me , I could feel it in her words and everything she does.. But I got this one lil issue with her, She hardly hardly let anyone know she has a Boyfriend . It's been 4 years and most of her friends don't even know who I am , None of her family members know who I am She Hardly or doesn't post my pic on social media Not even on her WhatsApp status.. Fast forwarding to what actually Happened Recently. Few days ago was her birthday and she asked me not to wish her a happy birthday on any of the social media platforms which I actually accepted. Days after her birthday she made a post on Facebook and I replied telling her I love her .. Few hours later she came to my inbox asking me why I had to do such , she called it unnecessary and uncalled for. We went into an argument and she said I was forcing her to do something she doesn't want to which is actually letting people know she has a Boyfriend .. she said we are just dating and not married and for that she can't and won't let everyone know we are dating .. Please I need an advice Should I be worried?? Cause Apparently I am very worried, I feel am not part of her life |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Olalan(m): 10:46pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
if she's against making her relationship private on social media it's understable but not knowing any of her friends and family seems fishy for that duration of time. Guess it time you MAN UP she either informally introduce you to them or QUIT the relationship. 7 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by samysmoothfresh: 10:50pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Lmao..........Oga doesn't know he's the back up boyfriend.  the sooner you realise and accept or reject your position, the better for you. 18 Likes
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| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by baralatie(m): 10:53pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
you are a spare tyre!
until when the main tyre is useless then you will be called up 11 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by JustAstrangeGuy: 10:54pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Olalan: I know just 2-3 of her friends.. I was cool with it for years , I felt with Time she would open up probably when she trust me more.. but it's been 4 Good years and she feels she can't be open about her relationship cos am not her husband! |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by JustAstrangeGuy: 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
baralatie: No bro I don't think so.... Yea am defending her, cos am practically so sure she isn't the cheating or side Guy type |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by baralatie(m): 11:01pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
JustAstrangeGuy:when a lady fights you for saying I love you and the excuse is she does not want the world to know there is q guy ........ reminds me of a friend who said his girlfriend said she was a virgin.he had heart attack when she saw her bedding skills with another dude 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by ifex370(m): 11:06pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Be deceiving yourself or better still, allow yourself to be deceived 5 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by JustAstrangeGuy: 11:08pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
baralatie: Am not so handsome Am not even rich I don't have any special bed skills Why would anyone want to make me a side Guy for years? .. seriously! Lafz.. it's actually funny |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by internationalman(m): 11:17pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
you are not good looking enough. If u Were u would be begging her to stop Displaying you to her friends like some kind of treasure... Fine boys like us can attest to that.. Babe always begs me to accompany her to events even though it's girls-only events. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Poorboy: 11:22pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
If you want the truth, answer this simple question.... What do you do, and what does she do? I will tell you the truth.... I mean are you working and is she working and your type of job and hers |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by JustAstrangeGuy: 11:36pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Poorboy: Schooling bro We're both schooling Tho I work and school at same time |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by baralatie(m): 12:05am On Jan 19, 2019 |
JustAstrangeGuy:if the above is your relationship CV.then that is your answer to your question of why blah blah blah 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:39am On Jan 19, 2019 |
samysmoothfresh:
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| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Liliyann(f): 7:56am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Let me laugh first 4years of dating and you couldn't come and see her parent and wife her??  I love your girl the more for hiding you coz it's obvious you are a disgrace to her and probably her No3 option!! I can never post my boyfriend pix, I don't care how much I love you!! You can post mine but please try not to tag me!! Why should I send potential suitors away all in the name of dating?? If you insist I post your pix, I will just do it on WhatsApp where I can block some people or just use your pix as my mancrush, boo of life, sweetheart, my bestie, my gist partner or anything!! I have even posted all my boyfriends pix at the same time and the three idiots were commenting on each others pix!! 6 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Nobody: 8:09am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Dude the babe doesn't love you. It is nakedly obvious |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Nobody: 8:10am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Liliyann:you are really funny. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by JustAstrangeGuy: 8:22am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Liliyann: Hmmm ok Thanks for your advice! |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Nobody: 8:27am On Jan 19, 2019 |
what you said is not enough for us to make definite conclusions. probably she just is not ready to make your relationship public (maybe she is thinking of how her family or church will see it). but after 4 years  when most relationships would have lead to marriage it is most likely that she is playing different cards pending when one of you is ready. Liliyann:fear women 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Poorboy: 9:08am On Jan 19, 2019 |
JustAstrangeGuy:ok what she is doing is the best for now..... Focus on yourself, she may love you geniuely. |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by MJBOLT: 10:05am On Jan 19, 2019 |
are you married? Liliyann: |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by abbasajao(m): 10:09am On Jan 19, 2019 |
That lady actually get another guy. You don't need any pastor to tell you that you are a back up boy friend just in case the real one don't work out 3 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Gpopsicle(m): 11:11am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Hmmmmm.....well it's obvious to the blind that she doesn't want to be tied down as she wants her freedom. This is the reason why she doesn't want to make the relationship known to even her friends. She has every tendency to cheat on you in the nearest future. if I were you, I will start looking elsewhere because I think she has a guy. 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Gofwane(m): 12:00pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
baralatie:spare tire ?? haha... guy, you no get chill @all |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Liliyann(f): 12:04pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Marcelo290(m): 1:39pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
From my experience, when a girl truly loves you, she would show you to anybody who cares to listen. When girls love, they love with everything in them. One used my picture as her cover photo then on FB, tho I wasn't comfortable with it and told her to remove it which actually got her sad. So here is my verdict. 1. You aren't good looking enough, or rather, let me say she ain't proud of you. Even a girl who doesn't want her relationship public would not get upset you stated you loved her in the comments. 2. She is just using you to pass time cos she knows you two ain't gonna end up together. She may have reached a marriageable age and is only being protective, lest they would think she's taken, a chance she doesn't wanna take. 3. You are simply a side dude..but again you said you guys been dating for 4 years. But brother, do not be deceived, these daughters of eve are smarter than you think. She might just been keeping you till a better person comes around and you be dumped like a pack of refuse. In conclusion, be with someone who is proud of, and appreciates you. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Ogbenimax(m): 2:26pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
JustAstrangeGuy:you children of nowadays self |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Michelle55: 2:46pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
 I just tire.. She might actually love you for real though even without the display of pictures on any social media. I don't upload my bf's pics on any of the SM platforms, it doesn't mean I love him the less and he's least worried about it. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Innobee99(m): 2:57pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Olalan:The earlier you take this advice, the better for you |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by KingOfAllIgbos: 3:29pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
You are the Assistant BF incharge of Phone Credit & Suya Affairs [img]https:///media/3-18-2018/Mgd9b8.gif[/img] "ATM 3, Neighbourhood Branch" 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by mibrims: 3:37pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
JustAstrangeGuy:bro lemme advice you, something is going wrong or about to go wrong. My gf of 4yrs suddenly started hiding our relationship and all dat.. guess what? They don’t wanna scare potential suitors away.. I later caught her cheating n leing |
| Re: Should I Be Worried? Please I Need An Advice! by Hector09(m): 4:00pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Lol this guy u ve alot of problem, if my gf refuse to showcase me whats my business with it as long as i'm fucking her, eventhou i marry and my wife refuse to upload my pix in any of her social media acct i wont bother myself |
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