I thought I should share this with all my brothers. Many already know this and Many more do not already know these things I am going to be listing here.
I know a lot of ladies are going to come in here with the typical comments:
"Someone must have hurt this poster very badly"
"Not all ladies Poster, Just speak for the ones you have met"
"Men also do these too"

And many other silly defensive statements, they will make because they are uncomfortable with what I am about to share.
But this post is not for the ladies, these are for my guys who want to preserve their peace of mind this year and not be toyed with.
These are facts that you simply must keep in mind when dealing with ladies this year.

1. That she likes you, agrees to date you and promised exclusivity does not mean that she won't like other guys.

2. It also does not mean that she currently does not like and is attracted to other guys.

3. It does not mean that she does not have guys she keeps as back burners; guys that she knows are attracted to her, that she might not want to do anything with but she keeps them around for their attention.

4. That she tells you about that guy that keeps toasting her and pestering her while sounding like she doesn't like him does not mean that she cannot go and sleep with him.
Showing you screenshots of guys that are asking her out does not mean that she cannot cheat or is not cheating on you. Most times, it's a manipulation tactic to instill a false sense of security.

5. If she keeps in touch with her ex then there is a likelihood that feelings for that ex still exist.

6. If she talks about her ex angrily then she most likely still has feelings for him.

7. If she goes to see her ex or visits him or has in any way a reason for physical contact to exist between her and an ex she was sexually active with then she most likely will have sex with that ex especially in the period where you and her are having issues.

8. Females can get tired or bored in a relationship and it can have nothing to do with you. When this happens is when they are most likely to cheat. When they cheat, it is not with a new guy, it is going to be with one of her backburners.

9. No matter how much you two share and claim to be honest with each other, remember one fact: Girls will never tell you everything.

10. If she wears a waist Chain, don't expect a long relationship where she is loyal throughout.
I'm not telling you that the fact that she doesn't wear a waist chain does not mean she will not cheat.
I am telling you that 100% of girls who wear waist chains cannot stay in a relationship for long and cannot stay loyal.
Telling her to take it off does not change anything.
You're free to doubt me at your own risk.

11. If she misbehaves and she starts crying when you confront her. It's most likely crocodile tears. A tactic to manipulate you.
Don't fall for it, hold her accountable for her actions.

12. If she's done it once she will do it again. Hoes don't change.

13. You will see the signs and when you do, the only way you can get out without further damage, while preserving your peace of mind and mental state, is to not deceive yourself. Don't deceive yourself that you can change her. Don't deceive yourself that she will change. End it and don't take her back if she comes.

The qualities you should be on the lookout for, in a Real Woman, whom you should take seriously are:
1. Commitment
2. Honesty/Integrity/Transparency
3. Consistency. (Her word and her actions should match)





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DanDeeBoss:
I don't think I am dating anyone this year..... Nice write up BTW

why?

I haven't been in one for some years now. I doubt I'll get into one this year except somebody exceptional comes along. Also wiith the kind of ladies I see, that's gonna be hard.

What should women keep in mind while dating?

labanj1:
I haven't been in one for some years now. I doubt I'll get into one this year except somebody exceptional comes along. Also wiith the kind of ladies I see, that's gonna be hard.

True it is going to be hard. But you should not settle for less. Your peace of mind and progress depends on it.

nigga ur post are so powerful