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Ishilove:
I suspect you're ovulating that's why you're super _horny. When it passes you will have more control over your emotions

Omoluabi16:
I really wanted to type something but I don forget wetin I wan type.

Twoclans:
LOL at bolded .

What ovulation does to the female body can only be imagined if one is not careful you will make love to the wrong person.

When I read the OP's comment I knew it could be ovulation driving her crazy.

MissJoy29:
@Chiomadim, I have been there and done that. It works, depending on the people involved. One thing you gonna know though is that TRUST is the bedrock of a LDR. There has to be trust between you two otherwise you will just drive each other nuts with suspicion, jealousy and drama.

Again, (very important) find something doing. It will help distract you & take your mind (when it wants to play tricks on you)off things.

Also, please take yourself away from anything(or anyone) that could lure you into temptation especially times when you are so needy for affection, closeness, sex etc.

Finally, it requires maturity to succeed in a LDR. Trust me, it's not for the feeble-minded. You both have to be focused at the end result which is being together at the end & not sway up & down.
I'm gonna give you a link to go through. I hope it helps 'cause it sure does for me.
https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/being-long-distance.amp

But please, before you do all these things, ensure the person is worth the wait so you don't go wasting time, energy, resources, emotions etc on a futile journey. Good luck.

luvyaself95:
Ever since have been on nairaland,
you're First Lady that talk wise and have virtue..
Honestly I like the way you talk...

chiomadim:
If you have done long distance relationship, how did you get successful at it.

Me and my bf having dating for sometime now,and I really love him and I know he does too. Our communication OK,we talk almost daily chats,calls,video calls. I am a very monogamous person especially when I really love someone,a lot of cheating temptations have come but I get pass it,is not easy. I have been celibate for almost 2 yes but right now my body is revolting it...is crazy. My sister told me that's no way on earth he is doing same. I can't say because I haven't seen the signs.
I have done trial breakup with him recently, those few days I was depressed,unhappy & irritable like if you're around me u will notice that something is wrong.

Before o I use to love with my head but this one have got stamped in my heart.

Of course we have discussed this and he said I should have more patience that living in a foreign country is not easy.

MissJoy29:
@Chiomadim, I have been there and done that. It works, depending on the people involved. One thing you gonna know though is that TRUST is the bedrock of a LDR. There has to be trust between you two otherwise you will just drive each other nuts with suspicion, jealousy and drama.

Again, (very important) find something doing. It will help distract you & take your mind (when it wants to play tricks on you)off things.

Also, please take yourself away from anything(or anyone) that could lure you into temptation especially times when you are so needy for affection, closeness, sex etc.

Finally, it requires maturity to succeed in a LDR. Trust me, it's not for the feeble-minded. You both have to be focused at the end result which is being together at the end & not sway up & down.
I'm gonna give you a link to go through. I hope it helps 'cause it sure does for me.
https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/being-long-distance.amp

But please, before you do all these things, ensure the person is worth the wait so you don't go wasting time, energy, resources, emotions etc on a futile journey. Good luck.

MissJoy29:
Thanks but jeez, you just joined NL today so how many posts have you read already?

Except this is an alternate 'cause "ever since can't suddenly mean "just today"

MissJoy29:
@Chiomadim, I have been there and done that. It works, depending on the people involved. One thing you gonna know though is that TRUST is the bedrock of a LDR. There has to be trust between you two otherwise you will just drive each other nuts with suspicion, jealousy and drama.

Again, (very important) find something doing. It will help distract you & take your mind (when it wants to play tricks on you)off things.

Also, please take yourself away from anything(or anyone) that could lure you into temptation especially times when you are so needy for affection, closeness, sex etc.

Finally, it requires maturity to succeed in a LDR. Trust me, it's not for the feeble-minded. You both have to be focused at the end result which is being together at the end & not sway up & down.
I'm gonna give you a link to go through. I hope it helps 'cause it sure does for me.
https://swoon.theodysseyonline.com/being-long-distance.amp

But please, before you do all these things, ensure the person is worth the wait so you don't go wasting time, energy, resources, emotions etc on a futile journey. Good luck.

stephleena:
Thank u so much. this will be my guide..
Trust is really important

luvyaself95:
Make i first laugh Cmon i know what am saying,
Well I deactivate my old account of 5 to 6 yrs for personal reason for this new one..
Don't just jump into conclusion anyhow...

chiomadim:
Thanks so much. I truly appreciate this

MissJoy29:
I'm not jumping int conclusion. That's why I put the clause, "except you have an alternate".

Konquest:
^^^^^
^^^^^

... One of the major causes of unwanted
pregnancies and DNA paternity testing to
prove the actual father of a child.


Better not to neglect your wife during that
period or she strays... like bingo!


But I respect women more knowing full
well that they have emotional needs
too and are not just logs of wood or
something...