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a womans mind is a mystery to the average man. for he struggles on endless steps to capture the heart of either his spouse or his crush and mostly gets nowhere .to an average man women are indeed complicated because he fails to understand that what triggers womens attraction lies deep in her subconscious mind not the conscious that is why he fails most times he struggle to please the emotional with logical,he tries hard to treat women like babies by been overcaring,loving ,asskissing forgeting they are adults capable of taking care of herself and all hoping to get a chance with her and yet he get friendzoned or rejected if this trend of rejection continues for long he may start to hate women or come up with flimsy excuses why he doesnt get laid or get a girlfriend he may claim to ignore women because he has a career to pursue or he is looking for money .nothing wrong with ignoring women and pursuing your career but women can only be a disttraction to a weak woman rapper who makes women a priority such man is not even attractive to women .

believe it or not women make choices of their mates based on instincts and other biological factors because they are mammals too.their attraction switch are triggered by "survival instincts"it is a wiring of nature that guarantees them survival and the survival of their offspring if they dont find such a mate that stimulate their instincts they will never be moved sexually .because women are intelligent animals they are always attracted to men with great societal value such men come in two rammifications listed below.

(1)the wealthy and influential men :women will always be gravitated to such men because they are good providers and guarantee them survival.anybody who tells you women will love you for you is lying .but before you money can attract women you have to be rich and powerful to the extent that it becomes too obvious you are rich or by the time she sees you car,mansions and all .but the attraction women feel for the rich guy is on the surface level he is just a provider but she is still attracted to him most importantly.

(2) men with many female options :though most women will deny this but from experience women love the player or fuckboy because they believe if other beatiful women like him then he is special .fear a womanizer he can snatch your serious girlfriend who you believe iz a good girl.i can bet you the controversial IndecentStar kingtblackhoc has many females crushing on him secretly, i can bet you most women on nairaland have a crush on harddon ,charles nneji and the rest because this men have given them the impression other women adore them .i av used this trick to get girls and it works ....


insult and crictisms iz allowed .....have a nice day niggas...





(3)the mysterious men :these are men with low testesterone levels they are not necessarily gay but they are not desperate to fuuuck or date they treat women they same way they treat their fellow men they are blunt and sacarstic .these are the kind of men are what women call not romantic,not caring ,emotionless but still they cant help but fall for such men.....

kollinzgee:
(1)the wealthy and influential men :women will always be gravitated to such men because they are good providers and guarantee them survival.anybody who tells you women will love you for you is lying .

Not always true though.

Chepy:
Not always true though.

maybe

Nonsense and grounded pepper

SweetBuns:
Nonsense and grounded pepper

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SweetBuns:
Nonsense and grounded pepper

lets buy goat meat and cook pepper soup! lol!

Op you might not get many positive responses but your write up is on point. Humans by default don't like uncomfortable truths, so the women will deny that they look for security and protection in a partner, no matter how successful they may be themselves in life.

Broke men will also deny the truth of your piece because they hate feeling left out and don't like thinking about the possibility of being unattractive to any proper woman because of their financial state.

For my guys out there I say forget the Notebook, Titanic or any other stupid romantic movie you watched, this is real life if you don't make them greens u will be MISERABLE. Don't deceive your lazy self that you're dating an angel who won't leave despite your penury. Work hard and focus on making it, trust me with success comes so many other things, including the very best partner.