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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by OdiaI(f): 11:59pm On Feb 07, 2019
About the "Fake it till you make it", I think the person who coined the sentence didn't mean it the way it is being interpreted. True.

I used to be very active in Paulo Coelho's Facebook page because I loved reading from him. I remember him posting 'Fake it till you make it' in one of his posts one day and I commented that I am surprised that came from him, I asked if he was encouraging people to be who they were not. Then one of his followers replied me and actually explained it in its actual context. Far different from how we see it. Of a truth, the explanation made sense but I didn't store it in my long term memory because then I was still holding on to my own understanding of the sentence.

Modified:

So I just looked up results from google for 'fake it till you make it' and I enjoin you all to try to read up the meaning. It actually means something good, more in line with the explanation given to me by one of Paulo's followers.

Please, let us clearly understand the origins of certain things before representing them as bad.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by RexTramadol1: 12:00am On Feb 08, 2019
No fakies
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Nobody: 12:01am On Feb 08, 2019
IrokoOluwere:

Says someone that claims to be overseas. But scream “back to Daura” on Nairaland everyday .
I didn’t know there’s now a polling unit online.
Sugomu

Hmm. grin Charity begins at home.
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Toseenlove: 12:04am On Feb 08, 2019
ceeroh:
All thanks to social media... Introverts like us have nothing to worry about. We hardly take pictures sef.
Something happened in one of the places I've worked, we recruited this new guy (a graduate) as an office assistant. So on the day of resumption, I was showing him around the office and I also took him to the MD's office to intimate him with his duties (the MD wasn't around yet) but I had access to his office. So I quickly left to answer a call in my office, then I returned to the the MD's office not knowing what had happened.
That same evening, I saw on this guy's WhatsApp status, the pictures he took while I was briefly away. He went as far as taking one on the MD's seat. First day at the office fah!! He even captioned it..'When Grace finds you'. This was someone whose salary was barely 25k.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by excell123: 12:10am On Feb 08, 2019
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All unrighteousness is sin
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Martinez39(m): 12:11am On Feb 08, 2019
OdiaI:
About the "Fake it till you make it", I think the person who coined the sentence didn't mean it the way it is being interpreted. True.

I used to be very active in Paulo Coelho's Facebook page because I loved reading from him. I remember him posting 'Fake it till you make it' in one of his posts one day and I commented that I am surprised that came from him, I asked if he was encouraging people to be who they were not. Then one of his followers replied me and actually explained it in its actual context. Far different from how we see it. Of a truth, the explanation made sense but I didn't store it in my long term memory because then I was still holding on to my own understanding of the sentence.

Modified:

So I just looked up results from google for 'fake it till you make it' and I enjoin you all to try to read up the meaning. It actually means something good, more in line with the explanation given to me by one of Paulo's followers.

Please, let us clearly understand the origins of certain things before representing them as bad.

I used it as a lot of people here in Nigeria use it. I am relating with them based on their knowledge. wink
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Nobody: 12:11am On Feb 08, 2019
FruitCakes:
If you deceive yourself, it will be hard to get helpers. If you appear to be rich on social media, people will conclude you are rich

you again with this?
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by KingOfThePay(m): 12:11am On Feb 08, 2019
Lovely thread. You all should go and watch NiGHT SCHOOL

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Waksdabos(m): 12:13am On Feb 08, 2019
alaye123:
grin TO THE OP AND ALL THE PROPONENTS ON THIS TOPICS grin grin grin grin

My psyche tells OP of this thread is suffering from chronic jealousy or low self esteem. Nobody has the right or moral justification to tell people how to live life. As far as they are not breaking the laws of the land. There is no crime prescribed as FAKE LIFE. Humans are distinct and varies with different character. So you cant expect people not to show off or look presentable on a picture that is public. Do you expect people to put on worn out dress or a slum background just to prove they aint got money yet.

Some people are rich yet they hardly show off publicly while others galivant every where on cyber space. Same as the average or broke guys. Live your life and dont force others to agree on your school of thought.

You sounds pained by this write up. Did OP hit you below the belt? You can still change from living a FAKE LIFE!

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Martinez39(m): 12:18am On Feb 08, 2019
Waksdabos:

You sounds pained by this write up. Did OP hit you below the belt? You can still change from living a FAKE LIFE!
No mind am. He got so defensive as if I struck a nerve.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by dododawa1: 12:18am On Feb 08, 2019
FREE WORLD,to display.
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by BluntBoy(m): 12:19am On Feb 08, 2019
ceeroh:
All thanks to social media... Introverts like us have nothing to worry about. We hardly take pictures sef.
Something happened in one of the places I've worked, we recruited this new guy (a graduate) as an office assistant. So on the day of resumption, I was showing him around the office and I also took him to the MD's office to intimate him with his duties (the MD wasn't around yet) but I had access to his office. So I quickly left to answer a call in my office, then I returned to the the MD's office not knowing what had happened.
That same evening, I saw on this guy's WhatsApp status, the pictures he took while I was briefly away. He went as far as taking one on the MD's seat. First day at the office fah!! He even captioned it..'When Grace finds you'. This was someone whose salary was barely 25k.

When Grace finds you. grin grin

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Estellie: 12:20am On Feb 08, 2019
Fake people always have a reputation to maintain, real people just don't give a shiit.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Martinez39(m): 12:21am On Feb 08, 2019
Estellie:
..My nebors need to read this... I love being myself, the crazy, happy, earthy Stella.. buh you'll see them blabbing all the time that I'm fuvking up, how??... This is me, Oga.. I can't be struggling to be who I'm not....


Fake people always have a reputation to maintain, real people just don't give a shiit.



Correct pickin. Carry go, nothing do you.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by KiZiie(m): 12:22am On Feb 08, 2019
"I live, they assume. "

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by ItzGee(m): 12:23am On Feb 08, 2019
alaye123:
grin TO THE OP AND ALL THE PROPONENTS ON THIS TOPICS grin grin grin grin

My psyche tells OP of this thread is suffering from chronic jealousy or low self esteem. Nobody has the right or moral justification to tell people how to live life. As far as they are not breaking the laws of the land. There is no crime prescribed as FAKE LIFE. Humans are distinct and varies with different character. So you cant expect people not to show off or look presentable on a picture that is public. Do you expect people to put on worn out dress or a slum background just to prove they aint got money yet.

Some people are rich yet they hardly show off publicly while others galivant every where on cyber space. Same as the average or broke guys. Live your life and dont force others to agree on your school of thought.





Like it or yes there's always a moral on a platform like this, the only barrier for you now is perspective...fake life is a different ball game all together from where you digressed to, cos we all wanna look good and feel good buh fake life goes farther down than being that so i think you should be a little perspicacious about the issue.
Tankio

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Nobody: 12:23am On Feb 08, 2019
Etsyl:

Did you guys fire him? angry angry angry angry angry

No, didn't tell my boss. I just had to warn the guy not to let such repeat itself. I was so disappointed.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by KiZiie(m): 12:25am On Feb 08, 2019
BluntBoy:

When Grace finds you. grin grin


I feel a polar vortex engulfing me rn. chaaai � grin
BluntBoy:

When Grace finds you. grin grin


I feel a polar vortex engulfing me rn. chaaai �
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by BluntBoy(m): 12:34am On Feb 08, 2019
My little cousin worries a lot because she thinks her friends are doing better than her. And she deduced all this from FB posts and pictures. Very sad.

I tell her constantly that she might even be doing better than them. Why worry because of ordinary pictures?

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by BluntBoy(m): 12:42am On Feb 08, 2019
KiZiie:


I feel a polar vortex engulfing me rn.
chaaai � grin

I feel a polar vortex engulfing me rn.
chaaai �

grin

The guy that services my generator, an apprentice o, describes himself as a Civil Engineer on his FB profile. He has not even written WAEC o. But you need to see his page. He has pictures of himself wearing civil engineering helmets with captions such as "at work with my Chinese bosses. Money tings". You never get to see these Chinese bosses because they are imaginary.

May God help these fake people.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Martinez39(m): 12:43am On Feb 08, 2019
BluntBoy:
My little cousin worries a lot because she thinks her friends are doing better than her. And she deduced all this from FB posts and pictures. Very sad.

I tell her constantly that she might even be doing better than them. Why worry because of ordinary pictures?




Show her the OP to read and emphasis that she is not obliged to impress anyone. Social media is full of fake stuffs. Some celebrities are even living fake lives. Don't worry about her, with proper guidance, she will mature with time.
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Martinez39(m): 12:44am On Feb 08, 2019
BluntBoy:


grin

The guy that services my generator, an apprentice o, describes himself as a Civil Engineer on his FB profile. He has not even written WAEC o. But you need to see his page. He has pictures of himself wearing civil engineering helmets with captions such as "at work with my Chinese bosses. Money tings". You never get to see these Chinese bosses because they are imaginary.

May God help these fake people.


grin Very soon, na oil and gas.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by BluntBoy(m): 12:50am On Feb 08, 2019
Martinez39:
Show her the OP to read and emphasis that she is not obliged to impress anyone. Social media is full of fake stuffs. Some celebrities are even living fake lives. Don't worry about her, with proper guidance, she will mature with time.

Hopefully, she will. I have told her severally about something called packaging and even gave her examples. One is a small boy who services my generator but calls himself a civil engineer on FB. This is a boy who is yet to sit for WAEC, but he is already working with Julius Berger as a civil engineer; and he has Chinese bosses who pay him in dollars and per hour.

But she seems to believe that her friends are all truly doing as fine as the pictures portray.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by davillian(m): 12:50am On Feb 08, 2019
If you do it regularly you don't need pictures for it.

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by BluntBoy(m): 12:50am On Feb 08, 2019
Martinez39:
grin Very soon, na oil and gas.
grin

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by KiZiie(m): 12:51am On Feb 08, 2019
BluntBoy:


grin

The guy that services my generator, an apprentice o, describes himself as a Civil Engineer on his FB profile. He has not even written WAEC o. But you need to see his page. He has pictures of himself wearing civil engineering helmets with captions such as "at work with my Chinese bosses. Money tings". You never get to see these Chinese bosses because they are imaginary.

May God help these fake people.






tbh, I guess I'm so lucky. I haven't seen this level of fakeness. I guess it's cause of when I got back home from school my brother was all over me 'bout this candour challenge and well I got in and my left went Right for the better. hardiest thing ever. I ain't gonn' lie I do all 'em small-small lie sometimes. you know, the have you had ice cream yet type lie.. ugh life, xD

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Martinez39(m): 12:54am On Feb 08, 2019
BluntBoy:


Hopefully, she will. I have told her severally about something called packaging and even gave her examples. One is a small boy who services my generator but calls himself a civil engineer on FB. This is a boy who is yet to sit for WAEC, but he is already working with Julius Berger as a civil engineer; and he has Chinese bosses who pay him in dollars and per hour.

But she seems to believe that her friends are all truly doing as fine as the pictures portray.
Small children sha. She needs to learn that she owes nobody anything and she is not obliged to live up to anyone's expectations or standard. Just give her time.
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by unity004(m): 12:57am On Feb 08, 2019
grin back then on campus i took my crush to my friend's flat claiming it was mine, our day was moving well until his younger sis who happen to be her friend show up. when i left them at the sitting room, i over heard my friend's sis telling my crush "this is not his flat, he live in a one room apartment. he always beg my brother for money, food & cloths etc". as i hear all what dat witch said abt me to my crush, i felt like disappearing. my crush blast me hard that day and since then our little romance reach a full stop

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by dingbang(m): 1:12am On Feb 08, 2019
True..
Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by Buke26: 1:18am On Feb 08, 2019
broadally2:
Fake it till you make. My opinion.


FAITH it till you make it. A better Option

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Re: Boys And Girls, Stop This Fake life Nonsense. Get In Here. by daveP(m): 1:18am On Feb 08, 2019
That moment every one were carrying toygun and making people think it was shakaboola, and then, OP enters with StealthBombers to reset some people's factory settings. grin

folake4u, if i mention that celeb's name now, calling M.A the Last PillarBender, you'd say i'm mean. This post is meant for her likes.


The other crew that bothers me are the "For the haterz" crew. All they ever do is to prove haterz wrong; from the bedsheets to their bodies, to their designers and to their devices, etc. sick set of people i would say!!



OP


A girl jammed one maga for one univ in lag years back. She was sure this guy was gonna take her shopping. She connived with the boutique owner to inflate the prices so they split the cash.... undecided


Dude paid and all, and las las when yawa explode, she had to run, leave better husband material cos of greed and lack of intergrity. smh.


(in daddy Showkey accent)
one day
one day
one day,
e go reach your turn eo,
one day

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