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Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by akaahs(m): 9:04am On Feb 09, 2019
Op just use her bad attitude nd criticise her whenever the though if calling or picking her calls.
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 10:35am On Feb 09, 2019
placeofallure:
Obi88

тωσ ∂αуѕ, αgσ, ι ωαѕ ωαт¢нιиg αn American мσνιє ωιтн му нυѕвαи∂. тωσ fяιєи∂ѕ, α gυу αи∂ α gιяℓ, ѕєємє∂ ℓσѕт ιи тнє Woodѕ. тнєу ωєяє tired soon єиσυgн αи∂ тнє gυу нα∂ тσ ¢αяяу тнє gιяℓ. му нυѕвαи∂ тнєи ѕαι∂,
"We men, ωє ∂σи'т нανє α life σf συя own, ωє ℓινє fσя уσυ."
ι яєρℓιє∂ нιм "Before икσ? ιѕ ιт иσт α ωнιℓє αgσ тнαт ι ¢αℓℓє∂ уσυ тσ ¢σмє αи∂ σρєи тнє ∂σσя тσ тнє кιт¢нєи, ωнєи αℓℓ ι ωαѕ нσℓ∂ιиg ωαѕ α ρℓαтє σи α тяαу?"

уєѕ, ωσмєи ωαит αттєитισи, ωє ωαит тσ вє ραмρєяє∂, ωє ωαит tender, ℓσνιиg ¢αяє. α man, єνєи the αιρнα мαℓє, ωσυℓ∂ ∂σ ωєℓℓ тσ єиѕυяє αℓℓ σf тнєѕє. уσυя gιяℓ, ωнєиєνєя ѕнє'ѕ ιи ѕнσят ѕυρρℓу fяσм нєя мσиєу-мιѕѕ яσα∂ ¢υѕтσм σffι¢єя ℓσνєя, яєтυяиѕ тσ уσυ, нєя ρℓαи в, fσя яєѕuscιтαтισи.

вυт тнєи, ιт ιѕ єиєяgу ѕαρριиg тσ яєαℓℓу ℓσνє αи∂ ¢αяє fσя αиσтнєя ρєяѕσи. ιт мαкєѕ ѕєиѕє ιf ωє єχєят тнαт мυ¢н єиєяgу σиℓу σи ѕσмєвσ∂у ωнσ'ℓℓ яє¢ιρяσ¢αтє. тнєяє'ѕ иσтнιиg ωяσиg ιи тяυℓу ℓσνιиg α ρєяѕσи αи∂ ѕнσωιиg ιт вυт ιт мυѕт вє gινєи вα¢к! ℓσνє ιѕ α ∂υαℓ-ωαу єχρяєѕѕ.

ι'ℓℓ тєℓℓ му уσυиgєя вяσтнєя тнє ѕαмє. кєєρ уσυя ℓσνє, тнαт уσυя вєαυтιfυℓ нєαят fσя тнє иєχт ∂єѕєяνιиg gιяℓ. тнιѕ σиє ѕєєѕ уσυ αѕ нєя ¢αяρєт αи∂ яυg, нєя яє¢у¢ℓє вιи. ѕнє'ѕ α νιяυѕ тнαт ωιℓℓ ∂єѕтяσу уσυ ѕσσиєя тнαи later. Show her the way out of your life. тαкє conscious α¢тισи иσω!
I love this, thanks jare, na history she be now shaa
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by jidenna21(m): 11:57am On Feb 09, 2019
Obi88 Keep your head up bro
Leave her now for good, I've been there (Last Year) Yeah
Your dear girlfriend is a narcissist (go read up)
Download and join 'Quora' read up on narcissists it will help you trust me or download the reddit app search narcs
I was in a similar situation last year, it was like a pleasure - pain kinda stuff, I gained nothing from the goat yeah she's a goat now cos when I look back I feel nothing but anger. The goat even have the nerve to call my phone last month, I had to pick up cos it was an unknown number, well I don't pick unknown numbers anymore that's how bad it is now. Cut her off, block her everywhere (social media) you will be doing yourself a favor, trust me.
Brace up and tell her to fvck off.

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Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by bigheart7: 1:04pm On Feb 09, 2019
Op @ jidenna21 is right 100%
Suffered the same fate last year, in fact few days to my birthday, a friend of mine notified me of her wedding.
I was devastated, heart broken & totally shattered.

She got married to her Ex I complained about initially, but she always called off my bluff, saying her Ex meant nothing to her, that I wasn't married to her & as such have no right to dictate to her. I am naturally a quiet & cool guy & she took advantage of that.
My only regret was not having the courage to call off the relationship on time.

My Ex was extremely manipulative & an unrepentant narcissist.
She even still have the nerves to call me up till this moment to ask for friendship using unknown numbers.
I mean how wicked can some girls really be.

But that is the thing with any lady that is a narcissist. They are always selfish & only look out for what is best for them in a relationship without any considerations for the feelings of their partners.

So my candid advice to you Op is to be courageous & call off the relationship now because the brutal truth is that, your girlfriend will never change.

It will hurt a lot, because I have been in your shoes too. But trust me when I say you are better off single than being in a manipulative relationship with a narcissist lady. Your self esteem could be severely damaged in the process.

It took the grace of God & the bible to find my feet again, regain my self confidence & move on with life.

Trust me, you will meet better girls out there. Just give yourself a little break from relationship & reevaluate your life. Get back your confidence & start afresh.

Wish you all the best

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Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by BareFacedLies(m): 2:38pm On Feb 09, 2019
Obi88:
I want to make my story short, I've been dating this my girl since April 2015 when i was in final year in the university while she was in year one, she reciprocated the love infact she made me feel heaven on earth until November 2016 when she started uploading several pictures in a car with a particular guy who happens to be a customs officer,prior to this her attitudinal change, I promised her i'll marry her and from the depth of my heart i meant everything I told her, I even had to influence my state of deployment during my nysc programe to her town of residence, uploading pictures in the car with the guy has never been my problem but the worst happened when she reluctantly (unlike her that usually begs that she wants to visit ) came to spend the weekend with me), right in my presence she was making a call with this particular guy, I mean using this intimate and sexy voice, I left the room in anger to avoid troubles, I returned like after 20 minutes and she was still on the call, I had to take the phone from her and in her bid to resist me, the angel i always loved, cherished and adored hooked my shirt by the neck such that I was shocked to my marrow that such thing will ever happen, i gave a her a resounding slap

You were wrong to have slapped her... she's not your slave.

Move on with your life and stop whining over a girl.

There are millions of ladies out there!

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Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by gabinweb: 3:45pm On Feb 09, 2019
Since you can't call it a quit. I will advice you to commit suicide. That's the shortest cut to end it. I hate weak guys, this is why GEJ lost to Buhari
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 9:43pm On Feb 09, 2019
jidenna21:
Obi88 Keep your head up bro
Leave her now for good, I've been there (Last Year) Yeah
Your dear girlfriend is a narcissist (go read up)
Download and join 'Quora' read up on narcissists it will help you trust me or download the reddit app search narcs
I was in a similar situation last year, it was like a pleasure - pain kinda stuff, I gained nothing from the goat yeah she's a goat now cos when I look back I feel nothing but anger. The goat even have the nerve to call my phone last month, I had to pick up cos it was an unknown number, well I don't pick unknown numbers anymore that's how bad it is now. Cut her off, block her everywhere (social media) you will be doing yourself a favor, trust me.
Brace up and tell her to fvck off.
thanks bro, I've moved on for real! it's forward ever
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 9:45pm On Feb 09, 2019
BareFacedLies:

You were wrong to have slapped her... she's not your slave.
Move on with your life and stop whining over a girl.
There are millions of ladies out there!
acknowledged boss! thanks
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 9:29am On Feb 10, 2019
gabinweb:
Since you can't call it a quit. I will advice you to commit suicide. That's the shortest cut to end it. I hate weak guys, this is why GEJ lost to Buhari
lol, I was weak then but i think I'm stronger now, I've moved on
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by kindredspirit(m): 10:20am On Feb 10, 2019
Obi88:
lol, I was weak then but i think I'm stronger now, I've moved on

You didn't tell us how you managed to end it na, bros. Or was she the one that eventually ended it and moved on with her " best friend" the customs dude ?
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by madone: 9:59am On Feb 15, 2019
Dantepet3000:

I must confess, u are not only smart but experienced too.
thanks
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by ochibuogwu5: 10:52am On Feb 15, 2019
Just enter into A GENUINE RELATIONSHIP WITH JESUS CHRIST then every frustrating and tormenting relationship gets uprooted permanently.
GREAT GRACE TO YOU IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.
And now I commend you to God [placing you in His protective, loving care] and [I commend you] to the word of His grace [the counsel and promises of His unmerited favor]. His grace is able to build you up and to give you the [rightful] inheritance among all those who are sanctified [that is, among those who are set apart for God’s purpose—all believers] IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by bigpicture001: 3:37pm On Feb 15, 2019
.....i want all guyz yo know that at the stage of huzling even angels of God will dump you...

At that stage,do not take any lady serious..cuz dey too wouldnt take u serious.dont cling to wot is not willing to b held..

Invest only in urself and just bleep gals for the sake of it..only money can sustain love.

Chatting from.multiple experinec!!!
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 6:33pm On Mar 02, 2019
kindredspirit:


You didn't tell us how you managed to end it na, bros. Or was she the one that eventually ended it and moved on with her " best friend" the customs dude ?
sorry I replied late bro, the main thing is that the girl does not even know what she wants, I don't even care to know who she is dating or not dating, she's the least of my problems now
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 6:37pm On Mar 02, 2019
bigpicture001:

.....i want all guyz yo know that at the stage of huzling even angels of God will dump you...

At that stage,do not take any lady serious..cuz dey too wouldnt take u serious.dont cling to wot is not willing to b held..

Invest only in urself and just bleep gals for the sake of it..only money can sustain love.

Chatting from.multiple experinec!!!
I concur
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by zealblinks(m): 6:41pm On Mar 02, 2019
Na wah o

which advice you wan hear again on how to end relationship undecided

Wanna end a frustrating relationship,
call the hoe to ur house,
give her beer or what ever the fvck her favourite drink is,
tell her you love her,
then fvck her mercilessly and aggressively while moaning any radom female name........
after the sweet fvck tell her you love her again
and give her t-fare...........
.walk her to the gate,
stop a cab (no go stop bike o......stop a cab) let her enter the cab, pay the driver (forget the t-fare money you gave her before), kiss her and tell the driver to move


once he moves starts the car and is about to or already moving, bring out your phone and send her this text

"bitch its over between us......dont fvcking call me again cos i dont wanna see or hear your who*re self and olosho voice"

then with your hands in your pocket walk ambly into your apartment


shikena!!
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Uche844: 8:20pm On Jul 31, 2019
This one is strong
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Treasureprince1: 9:35pm On Nov 11, 2019
This is so sad!

@OP I hope you've moved on and you're very strong now?

Some girls are mean and heartless
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Sluvist(m): 10:34pm On Nov 11, 2019
First of all, it shows that your are a beginner. But man did not suppose to love a girl with complete emotion, it is a disaster to the man. You only needs confidence and plan. Secondly, as she see all your weaknesses now, you have to stay strong and discard her out of your life, try and control any urge that will makes you to call her back or accept her apology for like 3 months. Staying away for such a period will make her work on her stupidity if she really loves you, she will still check on you. The time will also be enough for you to highlight all the areas you needs to improve emotionally. You can't become a man enough to control a woman if you cannot over power your emotion.
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by obi4eze(m): 10:47pm On Nov 11, 2019
I read till I got to the point where you said she said she had a boyfriend and was still demanding from her mum.

I don't know what to say to both of you. angry
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 4:03pm On Nov 17, 2019
Sluvist:
First of all, it shows that your are a beginner. But man did not suppose to love a girl with complete emotion, it is a disaster to the man. You only needs confidence and plan. Secondly, as she see all your weaknesses now, you have to stay strong and discard her out of your life, try and control any urge that will makes you to call her back or accept her apology for like 3 months. Staying away for such a period will make her work on her stupidity if she really loves you, she will still check on you. The time will also be enough for you to highlight all the areas you needs to improve emotionally. You can't become a man enough to control a woman if you cannot over power your emotion.
thanks a lot, everything about her is in the past now, i already moved on completely
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Obi88(m): 9:25pm On Nov 17, 2019
obi4eze:
I read till I got to the point where you said she said she had a boyfriend and was still demanding from her mum.

I don't know what to say to both of you. angry
lol, I'm okay
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by Treasureprince1: 10:16pm On Jul 23, 2020
I bumped into this thread again grin
Re: Please Advice Me On How To Quit This Frustrating And Tormenting Relationship by timy22(f): 12:00am On Jul 24, 2020
Na wah o

which advice you wan hear again on how to end relationship undecided

Wanna end a frustrating relationship,
call the hoe to ur house,
give her beer or what ever the fvck her favourite drink is,
tell her you love her,
then fvck her mercilessly and aggressively while moaning any radom female name........
after the sweet fvck tell her you love her again
and give her t-fare...........
.walk her to the gate,
stop a cab (no go stop bike o......stop a cab) let her enter the cab, pay the driver (forget the t-fare money you gave her before), kiss her and tell the driver to move


once he moves starts the car and is about to or already moving, bring out your phone and send her this text

"bitch its over between us......dont fvcking call me again cos i dont wanna see or hear your who*re self and olosho voice"

then with your hands in your pocket walk ambly into your apartment


shikena!!



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