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To Me O, What The Daughter-in-law Did On All Levels Was Wrong, The Mother-in-law Wasn't Wrong. The Problem Most Women Have Is, They Don't Consider Their Husband's Mother As Their Own Mom. If Her Mom Had Slapped Her, Would She Have Retaliated? Of Course Not! My Prayer Is To Always Have A Mom-in-law Who Would Treat Me As Her Daughter, So Dat Wen We Have Issues, I Will Take It Dat She Is Doing This Becos She Cares. He Reported Her To Her Mom, Yet She Didn't Heed Her Own Mom's Advice. That Says Alot About The Lady. To Celebrate No Be By Force, 5, 10... Years Old Celebration Still Dey There. This Is What Happens When U Enter A Marriage With The Notion That 'marriage Is A Bed Of Roses'. Women Be careful Don't Spoil The Name Of The Remaining Good Women Outside.

A woman that can't be controlled won't be easy to maintain in a marriage


and by control I don't mean she is your slave ( she respects your decision good or bad ) if his decisions are always in the wrong ,why the hell did you choose a man who isn't wise ,in your next life choose wisely.

[quote author=ElsonMorali post=75590742][/quote]1. God help her if I am pregnant and she slaps me and causes me to lose my balance and I lose the child, see it can go both ways.

2. It would be better for me to put the Monster in law out of my house than to retaliate according to you.

3. It would be better for her to be in jail than to be in the hospital.

4. If I don't want those uncivilized people in my life you are correct, there is the door they can use it to walk out of my house. Yes there was a time the husband didn't know the wife but that time isn't now, he needs to get off of his mother's breast and suckle his wife's.

5. My Monster Inlaw slaps me = abuse, I slap my Monster Inlaw back=don't start no shyt and there won't be any shyt. If my husband wants to leave the house that is his choice but he can not throw me out of our house.

khiaa:
1. God help her if I am pregnant and she slaps me and causes me to lose my balance and I lose the child, see it can go both ways.

2. It would be better for me to put the Monster in law out of my house than to retaliate according to you.

3. It would be better for her to be in jail than to be in the hospital.

4. If I don't want those uncivilized people in my life you are correct, there is the door they can use it to walk out of my house. Yes there was a time the husband didn't know the wife but that time isn't now, he needs to get off of his mother's breast and suckle his wife's.

5. My Monster Inlaw slaps me = abuse, I slap my Monster Inlaw back=don't start no shyt and there won't be any shyt. If my husband wants to leave the house that is his choice but he can not throw me out of our house.

You are a funny babe. I know you just kidding. You aren't so bad as to slap you mother-in-law.

ElsonMorali:
You are a funny babe. I know you just kidding. You aren't so bad as to slap you mother-in-law.

Of course I'm joking, I would leave my own house before I let that happen.

khikhella:
To Me O, What The Daughter-in-law Did On All Levels Was Wrong, The Mother-in-law Wasn't Wrong. The Problem Most Women Have Is, They Don't Consider Their Husband's Mother As Their Own Mom. If Her Mom Had Slapped Her, Would She Have Retaliated? Of Course Not! My Prayer Is To Always Have A Mom-in-law Who Would Treat Me As Her Daughter, So Dat Wen We Have Issues, I Will Take It Dat She Is Doing This Becos She Cares. He Reported Her To Her Mom, Yet She Didn't Heed Her Own Mom's Advice. That Says Alot About The Lady. To Celebrate No Be By Force, 5, 10... Years Old Celebration Still Dey There. This Is What Happens When U Enter A Marriage With The Notion That 'marriage Is A Bed Of Roses'. Women Be careful Don't Spoil The Name Of The Remaining Good Women Outside.

Well said.

khiaa:
Of course I'm joking, I would leave my own house before I let that happen.

Lol.

emeraldknytt:
Who is this mega dweeb? It is clearly evident that you are unfit under this clime. These THOT be thinking marriage is one fairy tale where little doves sing songs in the morning... She even had to use the word 'violent' like the mother dragged her out and scalded her with hot water... I have been reading your many abhorrent comments on this thread and you are ignoring the obvious (all y'all thots be looking at is the topic- was mum justified?), that the lady in question not only put the husband in a tighter fix by buying on credit (to make it worse, unbeknown to him) she also had a shop owner embarrass her husband in front of his mother.... You had better lay to rest your pompous attitude and see life for what it truly is.... You will tolerate a lot of shits in life... So hush.


You should learn from Michelle55


It's never stupidity to forbear or show respect. A woman who blessed their union... Fvck this shît.. These THOT are making me lose my cool.

That stupid kid you’re quoting is just a regular broke kid in unilag. She stays in okokomaiko and their family house is in ijora badia. I know her very well. She’s from a broke family, she’s short, in fact a dwarf, she’s too fat, big head, big stomach and very broke. Don’t waste your time on her because she’s frustrated from the kind of family she came from. A wretched family

mhizdebbygold:
I hate it when this topic comes up and some ignorant people will take sides with the wife....so her mum have been slapping her and she have been retaliating?..
Is she high on something?
That is a big insult no matter what. That means slapping her husband won't be a problem to her. Bia who born her sef?
If I were the husband that divorce will be immediate
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The matter tire me.
And I'm shocked by the people who are supporting the woman.
Why tf would she raise her hand to slap her MIL back.It doesn't make sense.Marriage is all about endurance and so many young girls nowadays don't have patience. The MIL wouldn't forget what the woman did to her and that would cause serious problems in the marriage.
Okay, let's take for instance she does something bad and her mum is angry with her and slaps her will she slap her mum back?? There is nothing like self defence in this issue, the woman doesn't have good manners.
Pls ladies should learn how to behave and control their temper before getting married, because marriage is not easy and you need wisdom in it.

mozele:
masturbate with your picture ? guys don kolo finish. so they can't man up courage to approach you or slyly get your contact.

nairaland o...

Why you dey fall for her lie. She’s ugly as Bleep. She’s a very broke dwarf. Make she show me where 1 guy don masturbate on her picture before

Check my signature to migrate to Canada

JONNYSPUTE:
... Let's be civil here for once. First of all,I will blame the op for not being able to have control over his family. Reason is because as a married man,both his parents and his in-laws should be able to restrict their involvement in his marriage. So he failed on this. Secondly, for his wife to be taking actions without his knowledge also says it all. We should all agree that both his mom and his wife are not in good terms before this particular incident. The op's mother took her anger to the extreme,yes agreed but for his wife to retaliate is also very wrong. I guess she wouldn't have slapped back if its her own mother that slapped her?. The op should put his house in order ASAP. Why do you always call people broke?

it is the word that pain these small boys the most and almost in all cases it is true.if you are a man of means you won't take offense

Volumetriceff7:
Why you dey fall for her lie. She’s ugly as Bleep. She’s a very broke dwarf. Make she show me where 1 guy don masturbate on her picture before

Check my signature to migrate to Canada

how many monickers will you open you jobless prick? Just to show the low frequency you roll with

funmisticqueen:
it is the word that pain these small boys the most and almost in all cases it is true.if you are a man of means you won't take offense

Says a kid still in the university from a poor okokomaiko

MannieA:
The matter tire me.
And I'm shocked by the people who are supporting the woman.
Why tf would she raise her hand to slap her MIL back.It doesn't make sense.Marriage is all about endurance and so many young girls nowadays don't have patience. The MIL wouldn't forget what the woman did to her and that would cause serious problems in the marriage.
Okay, let's take for instance she does something bad and her mum is angry with her and slaps her will she slap her mum back?? There is nothing like self defence in this issue, the woman doesn't have good manners.
Pls ladies should learn how to behave and control their temper before getting married, because marriage is not easy and you need wisdom in it.

maybe your marriage is about endurance but please don't generalise to others abeg

funmisticqueen:
how many monickers will you open you jobless prick? Just to show the low frequency you roll with

Shut up village girl. Wretched fool. I’m always online. My job doesn’t stop me from being online. How is your sick father? Have you done a go fund me page for your wretched father?

teresafaith:
The foolish woman deserves more than the slap.

What even gave her the gut to slap the poor girl in the first place, I swear if I'm the girl I'll break her head and if her stupid son tries any rubbish, e go follow im mama chop.

Arrant nonsense

Mtcheewww!!

It's easier said than done.Try it my dear, na that day your eye go clear

Volumetriceff7:
Says a kid still in the university from a poor okokomaiko

I thank God I didn't trust you with my personal details. Trust naira land guys at your risk. Vivi was right. You lot are not dateable

funmisticqueen:
I thank God I didn't trust you with my personal details. Trust naira land guys at your risk. Vivi was right. You lot are not dateable

Lol defense mechansim but at least i don know 50%

Ishilove:
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.

Some women need slap to reset their brain.
The woman isn't supposed to slap her MIL back.That woman is the mother of her husband and as such she should respect her.
If she had taken her MIL as her own mum she wouldn't have had the nerves to slap her MIL.
If it was your mother that slapped you would you slap her back??
My dear,marriage is not easy.. you need sense to keep your marriage. When the family members hate you..your marriage will not be peaceful and the woman has just triggered that hatred.

If your brother's wife slaps your mum won't you beat the demon in her out of her body??
Self control is key here.

Volumetriceff7:
Lol defense mechansim but at least i don know 50%

who told you what I said is true. He even thinks I am a unilag studen

funmisticqueen:
I thank God I didn't trust you with my personal details. Trust naira land guys at your risk. Vivi was right. You lot are not dateable

Don’t ever mention me, you and date in the same sentence. Like i told you, i don’t date black girls, broke girls and short girls. Even though I’m Yoruba, you my Yoruba sister is ugly as Bleep with that your 1960 skirt

Check my signature to migrate to Canada

Volumetriceff7:
Shut up village girl. Wretched fool. I’m always online. My job doesn’t stop me from being online. How is your sick father? Have you done a go fund me page for your wretched father?

lol. You are not even a quarter the man my father is

khiaa:
What gives your family members the right to lay hands on your spouse when the spouse isn't harming them? How are you going to protect your spouse from your family when you are not there. There is only so much a person can take, if this were me and his family thought they could place hands on me they can be ready for a take down. To hell with him if he puts his family above me, I'm out.

In church today, Leke Alder was the guest speaker. He talked about this issue of men putting their mothers above their wives. He said it is an African thing... mostly Nigerian.

People get the concept of a man and wife wrong.

funmisticqueen:
who told you what I said is true. He even thinks I am a unilag studen

Shut up. I have your I’d card. Have you forgotten?

Women are jst illogical
A little wonder why dey are called d "fish brain homo sapiens" .
Reading d lady's extreme jst for birthday
Makes me want to spit her on d face
Wot is these obsession with women and birthdays sef

funmisticqueen:
lol. You are not even a quarter the man my father is

Yes and i believe that’s why non of your family members could settle 200k bills for his health mumu and that’s why you started olosho business even though guys dey price am to 3k cos you’re ugly as Bleep

funmisticqueen:
maybe your marriage is about endurance but please don't generalise to others abeg

I am not married.
Marriage is about endurance and patience.. I'm not advising any woman to stay in an abusive marriage..No...that is not what I mean.I don't support that at all.

But there are some situations where you need to endure and be patient.
Marriage is not all rosy,don't be deceived.. it has it's good and bad sides.
For the fact that you can't slap your mother,you don't have any right to raise your hands on your MIL. Simple

I'm not generalizing any shii,I am telling you the truth

funmisticqueen:
who told you what I said is true. He even thinks I am a unilag studen

Dare me to upload your I’d card. I would upload it now now mofo

emeraldknytt:
OP, ignore the THOT on this thread. What your mother did was wrong but it doesn't make it unright. Sending her(your wife) out was far-fetched too (let alone filing a divorce). Tolerance isn't a woman's virtue alone, it is man's too (what is good for the goose is good for the gander). You will call your wife's mother or father/both to tell either/them what happened (please only offer the narrative to whichever is more approachable between them and know that your wife would have said her own side of the story). Look on the bright side, she's been helping you with your transport fare for about two months or so (she's a good woman in that regard and will make a fine mother too).

You will have to tell her parents to help speak to her and when she is ready to come as a suppliant to apologise to your mum, you'd have to plead on her behalf too (perhaps after speaking with mum not to bear any further resentment cos it is grave offence what your wife did).

Lastly, you have to tell your mum about keeping her impulse in check and not acting on it. Your wife isn't a kid neither is she one with a down syndrome. Words are more painful and implementing more than the most thunderous of slaps when used effectively. Even if a child behaves like a child, a sage will behave like a sage. Bring back your wife and you need a lot of manning up to do as well. When there is no tolerance/forbearance in marriage, it crumples like a withered leaf. God help you and help save your marriage too.

.

Well said.Thanks a lot for this good comment

Volumetriceff7:
Dare me to upload your I’d card. I would upload it now now mofo

upload it Na and I will upload the pics you sent me including that of your flaccid prick and pimple laden face.

I cut off all contact with you when I realized you were just looking for someone to fuel your ego and you have nothing positive to impart into my life. You are the only person I know that can chat with someone and insult the person in every single sentence.

When you were Telling me to come to your place you didn't remember that you don't like short dàrk Yoruba ladies.

#statawayfromnegativevibes#

Ishilove:
But why will your mum slap her?? Violence begat violence. It will take a lot of self restraint not to retaliate in that kind of scenario.

Na lie. It won't take even an aounce of will power to restrain yourself especially not when morality is top value for you...

funmisticqueen:
upload it Na and I will upload the pics you sent me including that of your flaccid prick and pimple laden face.

I cut off all contact with you when I realized you were just looking for someone to fuel your ego and you have nothing positive to impart into my life. You are the only person I know that can chat with someone and insult the person in every single sentence.

When you were Telling me to come to your place you didn't remember that you don't like short dàrk Yoruba ladies.

#statawayfromnegativevibes#

Lol like i sent you picture of my prick idiot or i made any sexual advance towards you. I don’t want to make you depressed but check WhatsApp chat if you haven’t deleted it to know i have The I’d card idiot