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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by highdon(m): 9:01am On Feb 11, 2019 |
After my encounter with Nigeria police, I fully understand that devil himself is better than them... |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by BigboysZ(m): 9:08am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Great submission. |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by AHCB: 9:10am On Feb 11, 2019 |
I key into this whole heartedly. Even if you're financially stable, marriage shouldn't be your priority if and when you've not found the one person who can tolerate your bullsh1t. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Viking007(m): 9:12am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Afritop:I wish I can like this post a thousand times. Many young married couples live on debt. This is just the gospel truth nobody talks about. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 9:24am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Word of wisdom. Why should I be thinking of marriage when I have goals to persue. A big distraction and dream killer. Especially when you unfortunate marry the wrong person 1 Like |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by pocohantas(f): 9:34am On Feb 11, 2019 |
All this one na online ramblings. Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die. If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by millionboi2: 9:35am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Rosay15:very true 1 Like |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Glorymax: 9:36am On Feb 11, 2019 |
This is one of the most honest advice I ensure sinks into the sensibility of my female relatives and friends before they settle for marriage. The summary is that females should not settle for a full house wife. If you already have a means of income, no matter how small before saying "YES", better. If not, ensure there's plan to get you doing something immediately you go into marriage. There are however exceptional cases but it's in the best interest of any lady to have a "work" before going into marriage. I will never encourage any of my female relatives to go into marriage without having a means of getting small stipends trickling into her purse at intervals 1 Like |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by millionboi2: 9:36am On Feb 11, 2019 |
stinflame:easier said than done |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:41am On Feb 11, 2019 |
eventsmallchops: I read your thread. I'm so sorry about your plight. I hope that you meet an helper sooner than you expect. Hang in there. Things will smoothen out. I think you should post in the family section too. |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by ademijuwonlo(f): 9:43am On Feb 11, 2019 |
I powerfully agree with Ali Baba |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by yfreshie: 9:44am On Feb 11, 2019 |
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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by folake4u(f): 9:44am On Feb 11, 2019 |
stinflame: Hei gawd! Wetin you dey yarn this bright beautiful morning?! Bros wake up from your slumber . He's right. |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by olatuneji: 9:47am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Afritop: God bless you for this.Majority of them rush into it,as if there is something special in the institution.practically speaking marriage is responsibility.many of them dont have job,it's still the parent giving them stipends.borrowing from singles and we be claiming they are man enough. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by folake4u(f): 9:51am On Feb 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: This girl! The table you're shaking sha 1 Like |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by smeag0l(m): 9:52am On Feb 11, 2019 |
His wife was financially stable at that time. She was already a banking officer in the bank and right now, she is an executive director in Heritage Bank. I'm not married but I have a been in a few relationships and what he's saying is the plain truth. The ones I've been in where the lady wasn't working were the most terrible because they were even more disrespectful than those that were working. Right now, there's a level of steady monthly income you should have as a lady before I even start looking towards you cos I'm looking to get married in the next one to two years. stinflame: 1 Like |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Toseenlove: 9:59am On Feb 11, 2019 |
dairykidd: Lol savagery clapback of the highest order. 1 Like
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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by monex(m): 10:11am On Feb 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: true. It takes a lot to unlearn a culture that has nurtured you to be comes bread winner, head of home etc. Even the recent "woke" era, a lot of men and women are still following the culture we were brought up in. |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Ubdavis(m): 10:30am On Feb 11, 2019 |
A woman will be saying " I don't want him cus he doesn't have money" and I ask. Do u have the money? |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Teespice(f): 10:40am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Ali Baba has said the truth. Ladies, the same way most of us are allergic to broke men is the same way most men are allergic to women who depend on them for every need. If you are not financially independent, you have no business being in a relationship not to talk of getting married. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Nobody: 10:48am On Feb 11, 2019 |
This message should have been directed to the men...we need it most |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Gkemz: 11:15am On Feb 11, 2019 |
Acquire wealth first, every other thing will follow suit without any difficulty. You don't run into marriage without making the preparation. |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Nobody: 12:00pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: dem never tell u say bitter woman wey has money worse pass devil. No alpha male go fall for blackmail of a bitter woman like you. A woman can have money and still submit to her man. i hope say this will sink into your empty head. 3 Likes |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 12:14pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Since marriage is an achievement for people in this part of world.they must get married by fire by force.nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by biztip: 12:22pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
olatuneji:that's how my manager I gave my biz to manage started making plans to marry few months I gave him d responsibility. he went and rented 3bedroom flat.to cut long story short he ate most of the money I invested in d biz.at times he says he doesn't have money to eat yet he went ahead and married. whenever I look at him , I shudder in agreement DT some people are first class in stupidity 4 Likes |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE: 12:44pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Men also should nor get married unless they can cook for themselves, go to market by themselves and clean their living areas by themselves instead of waiting for their wives to do it. 2 Likes |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE: 12:52pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Teespice: Let me understand this reasoning please. You are independent and so you take care of yourself and provide for yourself without help from him But You bear his name You submit to him He is the head of your family All the children you bear carry HIS name You are primarily responsible for cooking, cleaning and childcare. And you don't think you are being cheated/shortchanged? What the hell are women getting married for then? What do they gain? 2 Likes |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE: 12:52pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
If men want to stop providing for women that nonsense about wives submission and bearing their name must stop as well. |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Subonbon(m): 1:12pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
Now the problem I always have with these idiots are, you see two friends walking together for long now one gets a car the next thing is to start advising the other of his friend that has no car that he should start saving... Ali whatever you call yourself since you are married and financially stable and ur names is on Forbes list as the richest man..... I will buy you a seat so you can seat and stay out of matters that don't concern you.... Olofofo |
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by MONIKERREVEALER: 1:20pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
pocohantas: nobody should take this loser serious. this moniker has been an unwholesome irritant on this website for far too long! it's hard-wired in men to be masters of their domains and, as well, protectors of and providers for ALL who they see as being under their care. men, consequently and in all fairness, expect a reasonable degree of tribute (largely in the form of respectful submission) for their troubles. the increase in the incidence of "baby mamahood" is sure if this equation is tampered with! ain't got any more time... 1 Like |
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