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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by highdon(m): 9:01am On Feb 11
After my encounter with Nigeria police, I fully understand that devil himself is better than them...
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by BigboysZ(m): 9:08am On Feb 11
Great submission.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by AHCB: 9:10am On Feb 11
I key into this whole heartedly. Even if you're financially stable, marriage shouldn't be your priority if and when you've not found the one person who can tolerate your bullsh1t.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Viking007(m): 9:12am On Feb 11
Afritop:
In Nigeria it is o. It is only here I have seen broke and jobless singles getting married where the sponsors of the wedding is their parents and will still stay with parents. They will even shout it as testimony. And that is what our pastors want to be hearing. And after few weeks or after childbearing they become debtors borrowing money up-and-down from singles without paying back giving stupid excuse.
Yet still they hold on that they got married because they are more matured than those singles they are borrowing money from.
I wish I can like this post a thousand times. Many young married couples live on debt. This is just the gospel truth nobody talks about.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 9:24am On Feb 11
Word of wisdom. Why should I be thinking of marriage when I have goals to persue. A big distraction and dream killer. Especially when you unfortunate marry the wrong person

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by pocohantas(f): 9:34am On Feb 11
All this one na online ramblings.

Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die.

If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. grin grin

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by millionboi2: 9:35am On Feb 11
Rosay15:
This is just d bitter truth cus I don't know why people go into marriage when they are nt financially stable. Even those that tried it then, are now regretting it. That they wish they are financially okay before going into marriage and this applicable to both gender.
I just pity those ladies that always see marriage as solution to poverty..
very true

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Glorymax: 9:36am On Feb 11
This is one of the most honest advice I ensure sinks into the sensibility of my female relatives and friends before they settle for marriage.
The summary is that females should not settle for a full house wife. If you already have a means of income, no matter how small before saying "YES", better. If not, ensure there's plan to get you doing something immediately you go into marriage.
There are however exceptional cases but it's in the best interest of any lady to have a "work" before going into marriage.
I will never encourage any of my female relatives to go into marriage without having a means of getting small stipends trickling into her purse at intervals

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by millionboi2: 9:36am On Feb 11
stinflame:
What is this one saying, when he married his wife was she financially stable. Lame advice. He doesn't know what the country entails in this time and how fast the years run...
My advice :Marry and in the course of it try gain financial stability. Marriage isn't something you need delay when the right individual comes, your kids will bless you at the latter end.
easier said than done
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:41am On Feb 11
eventsmallchops:
I can relate, its a terrible thing but people will be shouting marriage will bring goodluck, when it happen, they will run away, they just want to see us suffer and suffer with no means to cater for your family, my uncle who pushed me into it has turned his back. true story

I read your thread. I'm so sorry about your plight. I hope that you meet an helper sooner than you expect. Hang in there. Things will smoothen out. I think you should post in the family section too. smiley
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by ademijuwonlo(f): 9:43am On Feb 11
I powerfully agree with Ali Baba
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by yfreshie: 9:44am On Feb 11
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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by folake4u(f): 9:44am On Feb 11
stinflame:
What is this one saying, when he married his wife was she financially stable. Lame advice. He doesn't know what the country entails in this time and how fast the years run...
My advice :Marry and in the course of it try gain financial stability. Marriage isn't something you need delay when the right individual comes, your kids will bless you at the latter end.


Hei gawd! Wetin you dey yarn this bright beautiful morning?!

Bros wake up from your slumber undecided.

He's right.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by olatuneji: 9:47am On Feb 11
Afritop:
In Nigeria it is o. It is only here I have seen broke and jobless singles getting married where the sponsors of the wedding is their parents and will still stay with parents. They will even shout it as testimony. And that is what our pastors want to be hearing. And after few weeks or after childbearing they become debtors borrowing money up-and-down from singles without paying back giving stupid excuse.
Yet still they hold on that they got married because they are more matured than those singles they are borrowing money from.

God bless you for this.Majority of them rush into it,as if there is something special in the institution.practically speaking marriage is responsibility.many of them dont have job,it's still the parent giving them stipends.borrowing from singles and we be claiming they are man enough.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by folake4u(f): 9:51am On Feb 11
pocohantas:
All this one na online ramblings.

Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die.

If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. grin grin



This girl! The table you're shaking sha grin grin

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by smeag0l(m): 9:52am On Feb 11
His wife was financially stable at that time. She was already a banking officer in the bank and right now, she is an executive director in Heritage Bank. I'm not married but I have a been in a few relationships and what he's saying is the plain truth. The ones I've been in where the lady wasn't working were the most terrible because they were even more disrespectful than those that were working. Right now, there's a level of steady monthly income you should have as a lady before I even start looking towards you cos I'm looking to get married in the next one to two years.
stinflame:
What is this one saying, when he married his wife was she financially stable. Lame advice. He doesn't know what the country entails in this time and how fast the years run...
My advice :Marry and in the course of it try gain financial stability. Marriage isn't something you need delay when the right individual comes, your kids will bless you at the latter end.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Toseenlove: 9:59am On Feb 11
dairykidd:

Lool... Was about asking the same thing & you why u dey use Karo picture as ur dp So that guys go dey rush ur number for hookups abi Na wah oh.. So ur own still dey pay shebi?

Nairaland & criminals undecided

Lol savagery clapback of the highest order.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by monex(m): 10:11am On Feb 11
pocohantas:
All this one na online ramblings.

Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die.

If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. grin grin

true. It takes a lot to unlearn a culture that has nurtured you to be comes bread winner, head of home etc.

Even the recent "woke" era, a lot of men and women are still following the culture we were brought up in.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Ubdavis(m): 10:30am On Feb 11
A woman will be saying " I don't want him cus he doesn't have money" and I ask. Do u have the money?
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Teespice(f): 10:40am On Feb 11
Ali Baba has said the truth.

Ladies, the same way most of us are allergic to broke men is the same way most men are allergic to women who depend on them for every need.

If you are not financially independent, you have no business being in a relationship not to talk of getting married.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by morningstar55(m): 10:48am On Feb 11
This message should have been directed to the men...we need it most
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Gkemz(m): 11:15am On Feb 11
Acquire wealth first, every other thing will follow suit without any difficulty.

You don't run into marriage without making the preparation.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by DukeofNZ: 12:00pm On Feb 11
pocohantas:
All this one na online ramblings.

Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die.

If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. grin grin

dem never tell u say bitter woman wey has money worse pass devil. No alpha male go fall for blackmail of a bitter woman like you. A woman can have money and still submit to her man. i hope say this will sink into your empty head.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by ODUNEWUWURA(f): 12:14pm On Feb 11
Since marriage is an achievement for people in this part of world.they must get married by fire by force.nonsense

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by biztip: 12:22pm On Feb 11
olatuneji:


God bless you for this.Majority of them rush into it,as if there is something special in the institution.practically speaking marriage is responsibility.many of them dont have job,it's still the parent giving them stipends.borrowing from singles and we be claiming they are man enough.
that's how my manager I gave my biz to manage started making plans to marry few months I gave him d responsibility. he went and rented 3bedroom flat.to cut long story short he ate most of the money I invested in d biz.at times he says he doesn't have money to eat yet he went ahead and married. whenever I look at him , I shudder in agreement DT some people are first class in stupidity

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE(f): 12:44pm On Feb 11
Men also should nor get married unless they can cook for themselves, go to market by themselves and clean their living areas by themselves instead of waiting for their wives to do it.

smiley

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE(f): 12:52pm On Feb 11
Teespice:
Ali Baba has said the truth.

Ladies, the same way most of us are allergic to broke men is the same way most men are allergic to women who depend on them for every need.

If you are not financially independent, you have no business being in a relationship not to talk of getting married.

Let me understand this reasoning please.
You are independent and so you take care of yourself and provide for yourself without help from him


But

You bear his name
You submit to him
He is the head of your family
All the children you bear carry HIS name
You are primarily responsible for cooking, cleaning and childcare.

And you don't think you are being cheated/shortchanged?

What the hell are women getting married for then? What do they gain?

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE(f): 12:52pm On Feb 11
If men want to stop providing for women that nonsense about wives submission and bearing their name must stop as well.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Subonbon(m): 1:12pm On Feb 11
Now the problem I always have with these idiots are, you see two friends walking together for long now one gets a car the next thing is to start advising the other of his friend that has no car that he should start saving... Ali whatever you call yourself since you are married and financially stable and ur names is on Forbes list as the richest man..... I will buy you a seat so you can seat and stay out of matters that don't concern you.... Olofofo
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by MONIKERREVEALER: 1:20pm On Feb 11
pocohantas:
All this one na online ramblings.

Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die.

If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. grin grin

nobody should take this loser serious.

this moniker has been an unwholesome irritant on this website for far too long!

it's hard-wired in men to be masters of their domains and, as well, protectors of and providers for ALL who they see as being under their care.

men, consequently and in all fairness, expect a reasonable degree of tribute (largely in the form of respectful submission) for their troubles.

the increase in the incidence of "baby mamahood" is sure if this equation is tampered with!

ain't got any more time...

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