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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by MONIKERREVEALER: 1:26pm On Feb 11
CHoccolaTE:


If men want to stop providing for women that nonsense about wives submission and bearing their name must stop as well.

true, yet the lady must ensure her man knows EVERYTHING about her financial situation, as well as be prepared to contribute significantly to the family's upkeep.

by significantly I mean at least 30% in extreme cases

the rest is ALL on the man!!!

and why use the term "nonsense" to qualify what is a biblical directive?

you pro-feminists have refused to believe that it's been largely the freedoms encouraged by the Bible that has brought the women's rights movements this far. kwantinue!!!
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by pocohantas(f): 2:46pm On Feb 11
The truth is very bitter...

folake4u:

This girl! The table you're shaking sha grin grin

Alpha males are already crying. Last last, they will logout and face their dependent girlfriends... Then when they get heartbroken, they will use alternates to rant grin

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by pocohantas(f): 2:52pm On Feb 11
monex:


true. It takes a lot to unlearn a culture that has nurtured you to be comes bread winner, head of home etc.

Even the recent "woke" era, a lot of men and women are still following the culture we were brought up in.

Then they should stop trying to claim what they are not. It is the conditioning, online rants won't change it.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by generationz(f): 3:09pm On Feb 11
pocohantas:
All this one na online ramblings.

Naija men love submissive dependent women. Those ones they can throw back to her father's house...The thing dey sweet them die.

If you are a dependent lady, have no fear. Just be meek, apologize even when he is wrong, cook, wash his clothes, invoke sango and ogun on all feminist, tell him a man is supreme, majority will marry you. grin grin

you are very correct my dear

Also , she should give her opinion about things even in general discussions.

she should just smile ,nod and agree with his "wealth of knowledge" even 90% of what he spews doesn't make common sense.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CofOLandOfPeace(m): 3:35pm On Feb 11
CHoccolaTE:


If men want to stop providing for women that nonsense about wives submission and bearing their name must stop as well.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE(f): 5:33pm On Feb 11
MONIKERREVEALER:


true, yet the lady must ensure her man knows EVERYTHING about her financial situation, as well as be prepared to contribute significantly to the family's upkeep.

by significantly I mean at least 30% in extreme cases

the rest is ALL on the man!!!

and why use the term "nonsense" to qualify what is a biblical directive?

you pro-feminists have refused to believe that it's been largely the freedoms encouraged by the Bible that has brought the women's rights movements this far. kwantinue!!!


Men should also make sure their wives know about their financial situation and be ready to contribute significantly to cooking, cleaning, childcare etc. At least 30% bla bla bla


Am not religious so stop telling me about your fairytale bible.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by MONIKERREVEALER: 5:53pm On Feb 11
CHoccolaTE:



Men should also make sure their wives know about their financial situation and be ready to contribute significantly to cooking, cleaning, childcare etc. At least 30% bla bla bla


Am not religious so stop telling me about your fairytale bible.

you don't want to hear about the Bible, fine. your cuppa tea

a man can get a house-help to do those chores. no biggie. don't complain later.

a man is not under compulsion to reveal his financials to his woman. he doesn't report to her. he's the boss.

he could let her know where to go and what to do if he's no longer around. we don't want to give the devil reason to tempt the woman do we?

a man needs to know the financials of his woman so as to know when to call it quits if he sees, fair and just, no need of providing anymore for her. probably, letting her go and be free to hook up with a richer man. again, no biggie smiley

we men lose a lot of weight in marriage. with consequent downturns in our quality of life especially in 3rd world countries.

I would not be surprised if, 20 years down the line, baby mamahood becomes an acceptable practice. I am out...
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Teespice(f): 7:54pm On Feb 11
CHoccolaTE:


Let me understand this reasoning please.
You are independent and so you take care of yourself and provide for yourself without help from him


But

You bear his name
You submit to him
He is the head of your family
All the children you bear carry HIS name
You are primarily responsible for cooking, cleaning and childcare.

And you don't think you are being cheated/shortchanged?

What the hell are women getting married for then? What do they gain?



Let roles be reversed.

How would you feel when your husband or boyfriend asks you for every single thing down to the cream he rubs on his body and the airtime he uses for his phone.

Face it you will lose respect for that man and his presence will irritate you.

Your post is trying to stir up gender war and trust me I am not ready to argue in that direction.

If you choose to marry, your choice. It is your choice if you also choose to stay single.

We are women but sometimes we should put petty sentiments aside. Nobody be it a man or a woman wants anybody who is a liability to him/her.

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by folake4u(f): 8:50pm On Feb 11
pocohantas:




The truth is very bitter...



Alpha males are already crying. Last last, they will logout and face their dependent girlfriends... Then when they get heartbroken, they will use alternates to rant grin



Lmao! you no go kill me with laugh grin grin grin

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by DukeofNZ: 8:51pm On Feb 11
pocohantas:




The truth is very bitter...



Alpha males are already crying. Last last, they will logout and face their dependent girlfriends... Then when they get heartbroken, they will use alternates to rant grin

No de mistake alpha men like us for one of doss ur kolo mental exes like elder0001. elder0001 na gradeless man him be him fit fake to eat woman poo once ihm sense say a woman get small money, him be like cancer if ihm come near u him go take style harm ur money and personality and wen u dry him go kill u or abandon u and run to another woman. in fact two of una na desame mental problem una get

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Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by CHoccolaTE(f): 9:34pm On Feb 11
Teespice:


Let roles be reversed.

How would you feel when your husband or boyfriend asks you for every single thing down to the cream he rubs on his body and the airtime he uses for his phone.

Face it you will lose respect for that man and his presence will irritate you.

Your post is trying to stir up gender war and trust me I am not ready to argue in that direction.

If you choose to marry, your choice. It is your choice if you also choose to stay single.

We are women but sometimes we should put petty sentiments aside. Nobody be it a man or a woman wants anybody who is a liability to him/her.

I wasn't trying to start any gender war. Is that why you misinterpreted my post, because I didn't even say women should depend on men completely. Where did you get that from?

Thanks for sharing your views. Good night.
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by monex(m): 10:25am On Feb 12
pocohantas:


Then they should stop trying to claim what they are not. It is the conditioning, online rants won't change it.


they (men and women) often honestly think they are different and woke. It is not claiming. They truly believe it
Re: 'Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal If You’re Not Financialy Independent'- Ali Baba by Afritop(m): 8:34am On Feb 16
Ubdavis:
A woman will be saying " I don't want him cus he doesn't have money" and I ask. Do u have the money?
Those kind of women are oloshos. Most Nigeria women are guilty of that and that's why many fall victim to yahoo+

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