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Please correct me if I'm wrong, anonymous pls, I met this guy October last year while on transit. We clicked and exchanged contacts, he came to see me twice in December and we just hung out. I've been bragging about my cooking skills to him. So we made a bet to compare who cooks best.I decided to go visit him this weekend, and I went there without asking him for ticket money or anything.

He picked me, and we drove straight to the market to buy some things he said he didn't have at home and then got to his house he then returned to work. I decided to make the meal then rest once and for all, it was banga soup and jollof rice. The kitchen was a bit untidy but I didn't see it as a big deal cleaned up and started cooking, I got really pressed and wanted to go pee, opened the toilet and I was appalled by what I saw, had to pee in the bath tub which was not clean either and rinse with water. It really spoilt my mood.

So I finished cooking checked Google map for the closest hotel and went to Lodge there. I sent him a message and told him to come get his key at the hotel. When he came I asked him why he would know he was expecting a visitor and still leave his bathroom that dirty, he then asked me why I couldn't Wash it. I was enraged and just told him that I'm going home the next day so he left. He just sent me a message that he feels sorry for the man that will marry me as I'm not a wife material and that I'm very rude. Is this correct? Because I feel no iota of guilt...Read More


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U actually handled d situation maturely. It's courteous 2 tidy up ur home when expecting visitors.

But leaving like that was somehow.

coolestofall:
U actually handled d situation maturely. It's courteous 2 tidy up ur home when expecting visitors.

What l if the guy was trying to test her? Then she has failed woefully.

tooth4tooth:
What l if the guy was trying to test her? Then she has failed woefully.

Which stupid test?? By being dirty or what?? First impression matters alot, how will I go to a guy's house for the first time and all I see is dirt everywhere?? And he expect me to clean, God forbid, she did exactly what I'll do

tooth4tooth:
What l if the guy was trying to test her? Then she has failed woefully.

Testing her threshold 4 dirtiness? D guy is just dirty and lacks courtesy.

chiommy123:
But leaving like that was somehow.

She did exactly what I'll do, she even try to cook for him sef, if I was the one I'll first of all look round the house cos me I don't like dirtiness, and courtesy demands you tidy up when expecting a visitor, or is he looking for a girlfriend/housemaid

Sincerely I just love a clean environment, it is kind of soothing to see my place clean esp. when you get back home. Even if I go to somebody's place esp. after the first time, my rule has been to wash my plate immediately after use. I dislike somebody talking to me anyhow.

The guy is just dirty. Even when my guys call me and tell me they are comming I immediately tidy up the place talk less a female visitor. I remember my undergraduate days, I can't even read in my room if it's not tidy.