So the Nigerian feminists want equality but will stay all day at home watching Nollywood instead of going out to find a job or starting a small business, they will tell you a woman has every right over her how she uses her body but will control how their daughters use their own bodies, they will tell you how women can be single mothers but will not allow their own daughters to be single mothers, she will call you names especially the famous name of calling all men Misogynist but will stay with their husbands and boyfriend even though he beats her dead blue, for as long as the sex is good and he takes care of my needs, I will stay with him, every man is a misogynist except her boyfriend and husband.

The Nigerian feminist will tell you that just because a woman dresses naked on the street doesnt mean she is an olosho or a prostitute but advices her daughters to dress well and even go on to tell them that "first impression makes a lasting impression", she will tell you that paying pride price is evil and that it makes women property to the man but goes on to list the pride price for her daughter, she will tell her daughter that a woman can be whatever she desires to be and whatever she set her heart to do but tell other young girls that the cause of their suffering and lack of progress in life is MEN and their patriarchy system. The only non eveil men is her brother, father, uncles and husband or boy firend, if that is not retardness, i wonder what is it.

I wonder if she is trying to make a career out of being called a Feminist, maybe that is why many of them have NGOs to collect money from western donors and pretend they are fighting a cause.

Other men can be arrested for rape but her brother who rapes a girl should be forgiven and she will do everything possible to free her brother especially when she has connections, the case becomes no more a police affairs but a family affair.

I have come to understand that the Nigerian feminist is just a hypocrite and nothing more than that, when a man act and defend himself, it is called toxic masculinity but when her son or husband do the same thing, it is called being a man.

I have told myself, if I see a woman trying to attack me with full force, i will attack her back with full force because as an individual, i have the right to protect myself, morality is different from the law, even in war times, a woman with a gun will be taken seriously by potential enemies and she won't be seen as a woman but as a combatant.

A hypocrite is always a hypocrite and should not be trusted, any individual that creates a rule for others and do not obey that rule should not be trusted and that is what the Nigerian feminist is all about, she is all about getting control and power, to control other women in the pretence of fighting for their survival.

Anytime, you see one run, the Nigerian society has proven that we do not practise what we preach, allow the Nigerian feminist at your own risk because she will lead you to the deepest part of hell while she tells you, you weren't smart enough to think for yourself.

Stop looking for trouble.

Feminism is a foreign ideology that needs to be thoroughly carefully domesticated before it can be acceptable and useful to African ethos. Sadly, like all foreign concept and idea, there is a high tendency to misunderstood or abuse its core principles and objectives. The notion of worldwide feminist movement is a myth. Arising from this premise, it becomes obvious that the Nigerian feminists have deep ideologica puzzle to unravel.

Unfortunately, what we tout today as feminism is apparently a half-digested concept, which in many ways reflect the pathetic status of the black race. To be honest, the dominant patriarchal culture in Africa -- which instigated this idea -- needs to undergo reformation in order to liberate women. In this way, no one can completely dismiss the message of feminism as baseless; but it needs to align with realities not emotions.

Even in Europe, feminism is not a monolithic movement. We have different categories of feminism: benign, moderate, and radical. These categories are not clearly defined in Nigeria, hence the inevitability of confusion and ignorance amongst feminists. Until Nigerian feminists state clearly where they belong, misconceptions and mistrust about their ideology will abound.

However, any movement that champions the emancipation of women from obsolete and dehumanising cultural practices -- whatever label it takes -- should be supported and promoted. Then we have the problem of paying allegiance to an ideology, even when we know what its tenents propagate. In this aspect, again, the Nigerian feminists have refused to practice what they preach.

someone will just come online and will be bashing Nigeria women like he wasn't born by one.
If you dont like Nigeria women, stop bashing, go and look for a foreign woman.
Simple!!

chivera018:
someone will just come online and will be bashing Nigeria women like he wasn't born by one.
If you dont like Nigeria women, stop bashing, go and look for a foreign woman.
Simple!!

next time learn to read and comprehend information before commenting,

there are Nigerian women and their are Nigerian Feminists who are women

not all Nigerian women are feminist, only 0.99% of Nigerian women are feminist.

so where is the bashing

Ranchhoddas:
Stop looking for trouble.

LOL

wetdick:


next time learn to read and comprehend information before commenting,

there are Nigerian women and their are Nigerian Feminists who are women

not all Nigerian women are feminist, only 0.99% of Nigerian women are feminist.

so where is the bashing

sorry, I never knew bunch of retards was a nice compliment that originated from your village.

wetdick:


Yes it is, instead of being emotional and ranting, try to be logical for once.

people must have called you retard a lot,
am guessing that is your middle name.

But you said 0.99 Nigeria females are feminists, that number is very insignificant, why should it bother you ?
Does that mean apart from bad-mouthing Nigerian women, you have no other purpose in life?

chivera018:
sorry, I never knew bunch of retards was a nice compliment that originated from your village.

Yes it is, instead of being emotional and ranting, try to be logical for once.

What exactly is your problem? Tell us!
BTW, learn not to generalize your opinion.

wetdick:


next time learn to read and comprehend information before commenting,

there are Nigerian women and their are Nigerian Feminists who are women

not all Nigerian women are feminist, only 0.99% of Nigerian women are feminist.

so where is the bashing

If 0.99% Nigerian women are feminists, how come you are this riled up? shouldn't that be an insignificant number

Another day. More fresh tears from a pained Nairaland male.

Everyday fresh tears

Always crying about women. All over the internet. Jobless

cococandy:
Another day. More fresh tears from a pained Nairaland male.

Everyday fresh tears

Always crying about women. All over the internet. Jobless

LOL...... so why are you crying here.... you fascist.

TimiRume:
If 0.99% Nigerian women are feminists, how come you are this riled up? shouldn't that be an insignificant number

it is nothing to do with the number rather the hypocrisy of these type of Nigerian women that are feminist.

After my brief stay in Nigeria I’ve come to conclusion that there are no true feminists in Nigeria .

Elder0001:
After my brief stay in Nigeria I’ve come to conclusion that there are no true feminists in Nigeria .

Most are either building a career out of it, looking for attention or looking for an opportunity to work with foreign NGOs

It is funny how some of these boys think they have opinion over women matter. No one should take you serious, from that your name "wetdick", it is obvious,all that you can offer in life.

carammel:
It is funny how some of these boys think they have opinion over women matter. No one should take you serious, from that your name "wetdick", it is obvious,all that you can offer in life.

Do you consider yourself a feminist?

Elder0001:



Do you consider yourself a feminist?

Hell NO..... i despise them

carammel:
It is funny how some of these boys think they have opinion over women matter. No one should take you serious, from that your name "wetdick", it is obvious,all that you can offer in life.

lol..... another emotional individual and cry baby..... so boys can't have an opinion in so called "women matters" but girls like you can have an opinion in men matters and how we behave

Truth be told, i have never seen any girl on nairaland that has answer any question or thread logically with good civil discourse

it is either they are throwing emotional tantrum or abuse...... LOL , it shows they are disturbed by the truth

wetdick:
Truth be told, i have never seen any girl on nairaland that has answer any question or thread logically with good civil discourse

it is either they are throwing emotional tantrum or abuse...... LOL , it shows they are disturbed by the truth

There used to be a time when some really intelligent dudes made it a duty to constantly destroy "Nigerian feminist wannabes" with facts and logic. All they got in return were emotional tantrums and rants. They probably got bored and left the forum.

This is no place for logic, man.

I once dated one like that and oh my goodness, come and see double standard at its peak. When it comes to many areas of discuss or matter, she’s always at the fore front wanting to be heard but when it comes to financial matters, the rate at which she picks race and throws up the ‘you are the man’ phrase, even Usein bolt is still learning. Most of them are like that. They only take the part that suits them and leave the responsibility part. It’s like the right of expression thingy, without right of obligations/ responsibility to match.

cooldood:
I once dated one like that and oh my goodness, come and see double standard at its peak. When it comes to many areas of discuss or matter, she’s always at the fore front wanting to be heard but when it comes to financial matters, the rate at which she picks race and throws up the ‘you are the man’ phrase, even Usein bolt is still learning. Most of them are like that. They only take the part that suits them and leave the responsibility part. It’s like the right of expression thingy, without right of obligations/ responsibility to match.

Never ever judge a woman by her words rather her actions

cooldood:
I once dated one like that and oh my goodness, come and see double standard at its peak. When it comes to many areas of discuss or matter, she’s always at the fore front wanting to be heard but when it comes to financial matters, the rate at which she picks race and throws up the ‘you are the man’ phrase, even Usein bolt is still learning. Most of them are like that. They only take the part that suits them and leave the responsibility part. It’s like the right of expression thingy, without right of obligations/ responsibility to match.

From my understanding, Nigerian female feminists only support the movement at the social level . Meaning they only support women having equal rights and opportunities in the society and not in relationships and marriage .

They want you to continue your role in marriage

Elder0001:



From my understanding, Nigerian female feminists only support the movement at the social level . Meaning they only support women having equal rights and opportunities in the society and not in relationships and marriage .

They want you to continue your role in marriage

what equal rights and opportunities again. They have that already.