Hello Guys! Plz I need an advice on This.
I started dating a Girl In my Final Year in school. She is Lovely, Smart, Intelligent and Even Religious too. Things were really working out fine for Us Before I left school.
However, we had a Misunderstanding along the line, because I didn't support her Elder Sister's decision towards her Ex-Boyfriend and Her Family Treatment towards their Family Friend who happened to be someone I respect alot in church due to her Charisma and Leadership Traits. I tried to explain my reasons to her but she ignored me.
Furthermore, the issue dragged on till around Last Year August before my Youth Service Camping. I tried my Possibly best to resolve the issue by apologizing just to save Our Relationship but she wasn't Listening. I couldn't bear the effect so I had to tell my Two Closest Friends that She Knows very well, so they could talk to Her. All of a sudden, she began to complain that I involved a third party in our Relationship. The nxt thing she did was to block my Line.
I later went to Osun State Camp for my Three Weeks which gave me Lots of Psychological effects. While I was there, I tried her line one of those days and it went through. We just talked like "ordinary People" bcoz She wasn't flowing. At a point we began to chat and After much Pressure, she told me there was something She needed to tell me but she never did. To cut the long story short, I went back home For Christmas. But before then, I called her a night to that day, informing her of my Journey and the need for us to sit down and talk when. I get Home and She agreed. But getting home, she stopped picking my Calls and Even refused to return my texts. This got me worried that I had to text her With my Mother's Line that I was coming over to their family's House. I visited her but unfortunately, She wasn't around, so I met Her Dad Who asked me to drop my details with him which was 29th December Last Year.
I was so angry that She never called after the visit and I decided to shut my heart towards her, though I was Really Frustrated Because I loved her so much.
Furthermore, She Called me after I hv returned to Osun for my Service only to tell me that She was afraid of telling me what happened because she felt I will never forgive Her. I was Shocked when She told me that she got raped by A Guy, Who one of the Elder Sister's was advising her to date even when when we were still dating.
I couldn't believe my ears because She was a Virgin before She got raped by the Guy.
Now, That I am trying to move on with my life, She is coming back. She said she knows that I am seeing someone else because of some pics I took with my Female Corper (Friend) just to Steer her up .Plz what Should I do coz I am really confused. Plz no insult. I'm Really serious.

Lol.......you're about to be scammed and blackmailed emotionally!!! You don't sound mature enough to handle a relationship, no pun intended.

Honestly, i dislike what i hate; unnecessary drama. Young man, just gather yourself and move on with your life. Always look beyond what you see.

wow.. naija girls sha.
I hail.
Dude, I will just drop my advice here.. it's my opinion ooo.
I'm sure you know her more than I do.
I think she was having sex with Dt guy all this while she blocked you and wasn't picking your calls.
I don't think she was raped.besides why would her sister want her to date someone dt raped her.
oh and also, she's coming back cos maybe she's found out that the guy ain't shii..
so, it's up to you, if I were you, I'd pick the remnants of my heart,kiss her goodbye and block her everywhere,no single communication.
or maybe u can take her back, knack demons out of her while still looking around for a decent girl.
your choice sha

essohjay1:
Lol.......you're about to be scammed and blackmailed emotionally!!!
You don't sound mature enough to handle a relationship, no pun intended.

Thanks For your Opinion but I still don't get your Point

fayded:
wow.. naija girls sha.
I hail.
Dude, I will just drop my advice here.. it's my opinion ooo.
I'm sure you know her more than I do.
I think she was having sex with Dt guy all this while she blocked you and wasn't picking your calls.
I don't think she was raped.besides why would her sister want her to date someone dt raped her.
oh and also, she's coming back cos maybe she's found out that the guy ain't shii..
so, it's up to you, if I were you, I'd pick the remnants of my heart,kiss her goodbye and block her everywhere,no single communication.
or maybe u can take her back, knack demons out of her while still looking around for a decent girl.
your choice sha

Thanks For Your Advice. I can't really tell if She was dating the Guy but her attitude during Our Crisis is questionable. She is really a rare gem but I lost respect for her the moment I left her Family house in December. She is someone that my Family loved so much , and they Keep asking me about her and I do pretend that all is well.
While talking to her made a statement" I know You r seeing someone else already but just tell me Your intention towards us so that I can Know my nxt Step"

Emmakyz:

Thanks For your Opinion but I still don't get your Point

The rape story is an emotional play......I'm 98.89% sure she was never a virgin when she told you she was. Bro, I'm going to advice you to flee now because you won't be able to handle what's coming.

She wasn't raped by anyone, not even in her dreams was she raped.

She was seeing that guy she claims raped her. If you want to verify, collect the guy's details and talk with him. I believe he'll tell you they've been together. He's not a nice guy like you so he was able to fūck the shìt outta her tight pussy

essohjay1:


The rape story is an emotional play......I'm 98.89% sure she was never a virgin when she told you she was. Bro, I'm going to advice you to flee now because you won't be able to handle what's coming.

Well I believe She was a Virgin because I knew she Was. plz don't ask me How.
However, I want to invite Her Down to my PPA if She is really ready to talk about the Relationship.

hahahahahaha..
dude that chick wasn't raped I doubt she was ever a virgin..
dude read the hand writing on the wall better jump from that sinking ship you call a relationship

Newboss:
She wasn't raped by anyone, not even in her dreams was she raped.

She was seeing that guy she claims raped her. If you want to verify, collect the guy's details and talk with him. I believe he'll tell you they've been together. He's not a nice guy like you so he was able to fūck the shìt outta her tight pussy

Ok. thanks. Although, what baffles me is the fact that The Guy lives in her Sister's compound.
Sometime ago, she told me that The Guy has been disturbing her to the extent that He destroyed her phones, which according to her Disrupted Our Communication along the Line. But the Guy has been arrested now according to her.

When we tell you guys to always smash that pvssy, you form sissy claiming she is virgin, now another guy has helped you do your job. If you know what’s good for you, collect your own share and then move on. This type of girl can’t be trusted. Sometimes, how to know if you love a woman is by smashing her many many times and still have strong feelings for her. Prick dey loyal woman I swear...

marvin906:
hahahahahaha..
dude that chick wasn't raped I doubt she was ever a virgin..
dude read the hand writing on the wall better jump from that sinking ship you call a relationship

Thanks for your time Bro. It hasn't really been easy on Letting her go coz I truly loved her. How I wish I can get the Guy's number and talk to him.
Maybe I should really let go.

CyberWolf:
When we tell you guys to always smash that pvssy, you form sissy claiming she is virgin, now another guy has helped you do your job. If you know what’s good for you, collect your own share and then move on. This type of girl can’t be trusted.

Thanks. Plz I need the PDF File of the Bang Formula. Kindly share if you have.
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Emmakyz:

Well I believe She was a Virgin because I knew she Was. plz don't ask me How.
However, I want to invite Her Down to my PPA if She is really ready to talk about the Relationship.

I never intended asking you how.
Okay, but, to me, there is no 'relationship' to talk about.
You were or are dating her while she wasn't or isn't dating you.
Lastly, bro, if and when she honours your visit to your PPA, don't allow her play on your intelligence with the rape story because she'll paint the story in a way that you'll feel pity for her and if you think of getting serious with her, that's a bold step towards being her 'mumu'.

Emmakyz:

Thanks. Plz I need the PDF File of the Bang Formula. Kindly share if you have.
Okonkwoonichie92@gmail.com

I don’t have it bro.. I understand how you feel, have been there before.

Tell her that you’re aware that she is being fvcking that guy and if she wants to settle things with you, she should come over so that both of you can settle things otherwise, ladies are on queue to take her position. When she comes, bang her very well and then tell her that you will think about forgiving her or not.

Then continue banging her and when you’re tired, dump her. She might still be fvcking that guy but just want to seek validation and permission from you to legitimize her cheating ass, having seen you as a nice guy.

Girls are very good in emotional manipulation so, man up and let her know that you two can play the game. Finally and very important, shut your heart where she is..

tell her you are thinking about. form busy.
by the way she is at the verge of using you.

Emmakyz:

Thanks For Your Advice. I can't really tell if She was dating the Guy but her attitude during Our Crisis is questionable. She is really a rare gem but I lost respect for her the moment I left her Family house in December. She is someone that my Family loved so much , and they Keep asking me about her and I do pretend that all is well.
While talking to her made a statement" I know You r seeing someone else already but just tell me Your intention towards us so that I can Know my nxt Step"

Emmakyz:

Thanks for your time Bro. It hasn't really been easy on Letting her go coz I truly loved her. How I wish I can get the Guy's number and talk to him.
Maybe I should really let go.

Lol, talk to the guy about what?
Do you think you've got any business with the guy

inasmuchas I now try to avoid replying to posts like this, I need to make an exception with this.

I think the girl started behaving strangely after she thought she had met a better man.

I also think there was no rape, she has taken a bite from the forbidden fruit...

Then when she realised the grass is not greener on the other side, she came back to you.


All in all the choice to take her back is yours.

p.s Ignore the ones who have never been in a meaningful relationship shouting, destroy! destroy!!

Emmakyz:

Ok. thanks. Although, what baffles me is the fact that The Guy lives in her Sister's compound.
Sometime ago, she told me that The Guy has been disturbing her to the extent that He destroyed her phones, which according to her Disrupted Our Communication along the Line. But the Guy has been arrested now according to her.

Come on man, someone can't just destroy a stranger's phone and the sister would still ask her to date him. They were dating. They have always been. You were the other guy (side guy).

From what you just said, he's not a nice guy. Nice guys having access to pussy is an abomination in the book of ladies. He wasn't arrested for rape, if at all he was arrested. Probably for domestic violence.

Get to their place and talk with the guy. Don't tell him about you guys because he might descend on you for messing with his babe in school. I believe they were fully in contact and doing each other way before she entered university

CyberWolf:
I don’t have it bro.. I understand how you feel, have been there before. Tell her that you’re aware that she is being fvcking that guy and if she wants to settle things with you, she should come over so that both of you can settle things otherwise, ladies are on queue to take her position. When she comes, bang her very well and then tell her that you will think about forgiving her or not. Then continue banging her and when you’re tired, dump her. She might still be fvcking that guy but just want to seek validation and permission from you to legitimize her cheating ass, having seen you as a nice guy. Girls are very good in emotional manipulation so, man up and let her know that you two can play the game. Finally and very important, shut your heart where she is..

Thanks alot Man. I Really do appreciate. Sometimes, I feel I am just too nice for Ladies and This is beginning to change my "Person" towards Girls. I brought her so close to my family that my Mum sees her as Her Daughter. And My Siblings like her a lot. Maybe I should harden my Heart a bit. Maybe I am too nice

Emmakyz:

Thanks alot Man. I Really do appreciate. Sometimes, I feel I am just too nice for Ladies and This is beginning to change my "Person" towards Girls. I brought her so close to my family that my Mum sees her as Her Daughter. And My Siblings like her a lot. Maybe I should harden my Heart a bit. Maybe I am too nice

Of course she sees you as a nice guy, a qaulity husband material, that’s why she wants to keep you on reserve while fvcking around. Then when she is tired and ready to settle down, she will fall back on you. That’s how 98% of this ladies behave. Her conscience is really disturbing her, that’s why she is stylishly seeking validation from you so she can continue without feeling guilt. If you must continue with her, make sure you start fvcking her and don’t give her your heart again.

Newboss:


Come on man, someone can't just destroy a stranger's phone and the sister would still ask her to date him. They were dating. They have always been. You were the other guy (side guy).

From what you just said, he's not a nice guy. Nice guys having access to pussy is an abomination in the book of ladies. He wasn't arrested for rape, if at all he was arrested. Probably for domestic violence.

Get to their place and talk with the guy. Don't tell him about you guys because he might descend on you for messing with his babe in school. I believe they were fully in contact and doing each other way before she entered university

Well I appreciate you for stopping by and giving your Words. I actually thought She really loved me because She was a novice in relationship stuffs when we started and I thought her lots of Things. I shared A wide range of knowledge with Her. She was cool and very supportive then.
About going to her Place, She is Studying in Delta presently ,While I am serving in Osun State. AND I CAN'T GO TO DELTA BECAUSE OF HER AGAIN

Emmakyz:

Well I appreciate you for stopping by and giving your Words. I actually thought She really loved me because She was a novice in relationship stuffs when we started and I thought her lots of Things. I shared A wide range of knowledge with Her. She was cool and very supportive then.
About going to her Place, She is Studying in Delta presently ,While I am serving in Osun State. AND I CAN'T GO TO DELTA BECAUSE OF HER AGAIN

Delta state? Lol

The guy's probably one of those street guys, illiterate maybe. She came to university and thought she had found an educated and enlightened guy better than the one at home. So she took you serious. But when she got home, she was back to the reality that she must deal with. The guy suspected she was cheating on him with someone in school...


Summary: You were not the main guy. If you doubt it, just try to hear the other guy's side of the story. Better still, forget her because she successfully played you.

Newboss:


Delta state? Lol

The guy's probably one of those street guys, illiterate maybe. She came to university and thought she had found an educated and enlightened guy better than the one at home. So she took you serious. But when she got home, she was back to the reality that she must deal with. The guy suspected she was cheating on him with someone in school...


Summary: You were not the main guy. If you doubt it, just try to hear the other guy's side of the story. Better still, forget her because she successfully played you.

Ok. There was a time A Guy Even threatened to deal with me while in school because of her, although I didn't take him serious. The dude hacked her number to send me a serious death Threats. But I just ignored them. Maybe I should really harden my Heart the more coz I hv learnt a great lesson.

Rigel95:
inasmuchas I now try to avoid replying to posts like this, I need to make an exception with this.

I think the girl started behaving strangely after she thought she had met a better man.

I also think there was no rape, she has taken a bite from the forbidden fruit...

Then when she realised the grass is not greener on the other side, she came back to you.


All in all the choice to take her back is yours.

p.s Ignore the ones who have never been in a meaningful relationship shouting, destroy! destroy!!

Thanks for your advice. I was Really building the Relationship for the Future coz I thought she had the qualities I needed. Thanks all the same.

She used you as an emotional tampon. You were too nice and basically your life revovled around her and what she wants. Its cool to care about your woman but as a man your life should come first.

If she was raped then that is a criminal act and justice must be served!
You got played as she was ignoring your calls and messages. She most likely knew this guy but she won't tell you as that would make her look bad . Your a young man and still got your whole life ahead of you, use this expierence to better yourself and do what you can to become the best version of yourself.

Emmakyz:

Ok. There was a time A Guy Even threatened to deal with me while in school because of her, although I didn't take him serious. The dude hacked her number to send me a serious death Threats. But I just ignored them. Maybe I should really harden my Heart the more coz I hv learnt a great lesson.

If she wasn't in school when that happened, he didn't hack anything because she was actually at his place and he saw your calls, texts and all in her phone. Or he was in school to see her. You're lucky because most of those guys are cultists or have cultists within their circles.

University girls, just fūck and go. Some of them are even engaged o but won't tell you

Draken:
She used you as an emotional tampon. You were too nice and basically your life revovled around her and what she wants. Its cool to care about your woman but as a man your life should come first.

If she was raped then that is a criminal act and justice must be served!
You got played as she was ignoring your calls and messages. She most likely knew this guy but she won't tell you as that would make her look bad . Your a young man and still got your whole life ahead of you, use this expierence to better yourself and do what you can to become the best version of yourself.

Thanks Bro. I appreciate your advice especially the last part that drew my attention.

One thing I've learnt is to run away from ladies with drama. If you're a nice guy, they'll just be turning your head anyhow. Just forget this relationship, time will heal your broken heart.

Emmakyz:

Well I believe She was a Virgin because I knew she Was. plz don't ask me How.
However, I want to invite Her Down to my PPA if She is really ready to talk about the Relationship.

All they have been telling u sounds most close to the truth but you won't listen. You want to invite her and talk things out.
The reason I hate advising some persons is that, they already made their decisions even before asking for your opinion. Guy, do whatever u feel it's best. The best advice, they already gave you. Don't forget good gals fall easily for bad guys. So, don't be surprised your good gal fell for that bad guy she is claiming raped her.

I think what happened was that she started seeing him on the side after the sister advised her to and things got outta control. If the nigger raped her why didn't she tell you immediately instead of all the drama she put up?
Another thing I don't get is what could give the guy the guts to smash her phone if he's just toasting her? Run away bro,she's tryna play you.

BTW,this shit is gonna hurt you hard and long but don't let it scar you nor change you from the nice and soft guy you are. Always bear in mind that there's someone out there that's searching for your xtics in every guy she comes across. I pray you find her bro. Peace!!!