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Re: Relationship Advice Needed by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:23pm On Feb 19, 2019
Just move on bro
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Jeterry(m): 6:46pm On Feb 19, 2019
[quote author=Emmakyz post=75895643]Hello Guys! Plz I need an advice on This.
I started dating a Girl In my Final Year in school. She is Lovely, Smart, Intelligent and Even Religious too. Things were really working out fine for Us Before I left school.
However, we had a Misunderstanding along the line, because I didn't support her Elder Sister's decision towards her Ex-Boyfriend and Her Family Treatment towards their Family Friend who happened to be someone I respect alot in church due to her Charisma and Leadership Traits. I tried to explain my reasons to her but she ignored me.
Furthermore, the issue dragged on till around Last Year August before my Youth Service Camping. I tried my Possibly best to resolve the issue by apologizing just to save Our Relationship but she wasn't Listening. I couldn't bear the effect so I had to tell my Two Closest Friends that She Knows very well, so they could talk to Her. All of a sudden, she began to complain that I involved a third party in our Relationship. The nxt thing she did was to block my Line.
I later went to Osun State Camp for my Three Weeks which gave me Lots of Psychological effects. While I was there, I tried her line one of those days and it went through. We just talked like "ordinary People" bcoz She wasn't flowing. At a point we began to chat and After much Pressure, she told me there was something She needed to tell me but she never did. To cut the long story short, I went back home For Christmas. But before then, I called her a night to that day, informing her of my Journey and the need for us to sit down and talk when. I get Home and She agreed. But getting home, she stopped picking my Calls and Even refused to return my texts. This got me worried that I had to text her With my Mother's Line that I was coming over to their family's House. I visited her but unfortunately, She wasn't around, so I met Her Dad Who asked me to drop my details with him which was 29th December Last Year.
I was so angry that She never called after the visit and I decided to shut my heart towards her, though I was Really Frustrated Because I loved her so much.
Furthermore, She Called me after I hv returned to Osun for my Service only to tell me that She was afraid of telling me what happened because she felt I will never forgive Her. I was Shocked when She told me that she got raped by A Guy, Who one of the Elder Sister's was advising her to date even when when we were still dating.
I couldn't believe my ears because She was a Virgin before She got raped by the Guy.
Now, That I am trying to move on with my life, She is coming back. She said she knows that I am seeing someone else because of some pics I took with my Female Corper (Friend) just to Steer her up .Plz what Should I do coz I am really confused. Plz no insult. I'm Really serious


Look forget the she a rear gem, no one like her my guy. She's been fucking with that dude all along that's how they start that's what they do. Now you need to find you a bad bitch to cool you off and if I was you I'll take her back only to screw her over you feel? Dont be a fool, she fooled you once, now you're in charge. OR be a gentleman man "SUCKER FOR LOVE" and let her go and cut all connections. But whatever you decide don't be a fool.
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Seandisputed(m): 6:54pm On Feb 19, 2019
This *Rape" line still works on niggas??
Wow
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 19, 2019
Emmakyz:
Hello Guys! Plz I need an advice on This.
I started dating a Girl In my Final Year in school. She is Lovely, Smart, Intelligent and Even Religious too. Things were really working out fine for Us Before I left school.
However, we had a Misunderstanding along the line, because I didn't support her Elder Sister's decision towards her Ex-Boyfriend and Her Family Treatment towards their Family Friend who happened to be someone I respect alot in church due to her Charisma and Leadership Traits. I tried to explain my reasons to her but she ignored me.
Furthermore, the issue dragged on till around Last Year August before my Youth Service Camping. I tried my Possibly best to resolve the issue by apologizing just to save Our Relationship but she wasn't Listening. I couldn't bear the effect so I had to tell my Two Closest Friends that She Knows very well, so they could talk to Her. All of a sudden, she began to complain that I involved a third party in our Relationship. The nxt thing she did was to block my Line.
I later went to Osun State Camp for my Three Weeks which gave me Lots of Psychological effects. While I was there, I tried her line one of those days and it went through. We just talked like "ordinary People" bcoz She wasn't flowing. At a point we began to chat and After much Pressure, she told me there was something She needed to tell me but she never did. To cut the long story short, I went back home For Christmas. But before then, I called her a night to that day, informing her of my Journey and the need for us to sit down and talk when. I get Home and She agreed. But getting home, she stopped picking my Calls and Even refused to return my texts. This got me worried that I had to text her With my Mother's Line that I was coming over to their family's House. I visited her but unfortunately, She wasn't around, so I met Her Dad Who asked me to drop my details with him which was 29th December Last Year.
I was so angry that She never called after the visit and I decided to shut my heart towards her, though I was Really Frustrated Because I loved her so much.
Furthermore, She Called me after I hv returned to Osun for my Service only to tell me that She was afraid of telling me what happened because she felt I will never forgive Her. I was Shocked when She told me that she got raped by A Guy, Who one of the Elder Sister's was advising her to date even when when we were still dating.
I couldn't believe my ears because She was a Virgin before She got raped by the Guy.
Now, That I am trying to move on with my life, She is coming back. She said she knows that I am seeing someone else because of some pics I took with my Female Corper (Friend) just to Steer her up .Plz what Should I do coz I am really confused. Plz no insult. I'm Really serious.
she was raped and religious, did she report to the police or church leaders about her rape. most ladies lied that they are raped
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by KingSatan: 7:55pm On Feb 19, 2019
My Son, there is nothing else I had wanted to say to you that haven't been listed up there in the comment box.

Truth is, you were a fool all these while. She has been dating 2 guys all this while and had sex with the two of them. As a matter of fact, March 28 last year she had sex with with "King".

So get yourself off that relationship now.


To the female folks, I think it's high time you stop the "Rape" strategy. It's not working anymore and it makes you appear stupid.
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:36pm On Feb 19, 2019
KingSatan:
My Son, there is nothing else I had wanted to say to you that haven't been listed up there in the comment box.

Truth is, you were a fool all these while. She has been dating 2 guys all this while and had sex with the two of them. As a matter of fact, March 28 last year she had sex with with "King".

So get yourself off that relationship now.


To the female folks, I think it's high time you stop the "Rape" strategy. It's not working anymore and it makes you appear stupid.


King Satan calling someone his son, Fear catch me.
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Emmakyz(m): 9:54pm On Feb 19, 2019
[quote author=Jeterry post=75902068][/quote] Thanks
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Emmakyz(m): 9:56pm On Feb 19, 2019
KingSatan:
My Son, there is nothing else I had wanted to say to you that haven't been listed up there in the comment box.

Truth is, you were a fool all these while. She has been dating 2 guys all this while and had sex with the two of them. As a matter of fact, March 28 last year she had sex with with "King".

So get yourself off that relationship now.


To the female folks, I think it's high time you stop the "Rape" strategy. It's not working anymore and it makes you appear stupid.

Thanks Bro. I appreciate your opinion. And I have equally learnt alot from you Guys
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Emmakyz(m): 10:00pm On Feb 19, 2019
labanj1:
One thing I've learnt is to run away from ladies with drama. If you're a nice guy, they'll just be turning your head anyhow. Just forget this relationship, time will heal your broken heart.
Thanks. I have to think twice. Thanks once more.
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by SmellingAnus(m): 10:31pm On Feb 19, 2019
Mark this write up... If you don't move on and you go back to her, you will regret going back to her... She is very unstable apart from the fact that she has lied to you that she was raped so that you don't see her as cheap since she didn't consent to the sex...

Finally, you don't have to change your good nature cos of her, just be prepared for break up at any given time in your next relationship...

By the way, go through this and be wise..

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Emmakyz(m): 12:03pm On Feb 20, 2019
SmellingAnus:
Mark this write up... If you don't move on and you go back to her, you will regret going back to her... She is very unstable apart from the fact that she has lied to you that she was raped so that you don't see her as cheap since she didn't consent to the sex...

Finally, you don't have to change your good nature cos of her, just be prepared for break up at any given time in your next relationship...

By the way, go through this and be wise..

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

Thanks Bro
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by Emmakyz(m): 12:41pm On Feb 20, 2019
Emmakyz:

Thanks Bro
Those tips are very Wonderful and an Eye Opener. Plz I do like you to share THE BANG RULE PDF FORMAT If You have it Please.
Re: Relationship Advice Needed by blackgold2018(m): 1:25pm On Feb 20, 2019
Emmakyz:

Thanks For Your Advice. I can't really tell if She was dating the Guy but her attitude during Our Crisis is questionable. She is really a rare gem but I lost respect for her the moment I left her Family house in December. She is someone that my Family loved so much , and they Keep asking me about her and I do pretend that all is well.
While talking to her made a statement" I know You r seeing someone else already but just tell me Your intention towards us so that I can Know my nxt Step"
Gosh you are too emotional and it's a very huge weakness. You still can't tell if she was actually dating the guy!.
And how do you know she was actually a virgin?

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