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Elliot2:
There is nothing new under d sun. If Queen Sheeba who also had all the best in d world but still was attracted to king Solomon's wealth n fame,should tell you that that is what life means. It is not materialism, it is common sense. truth is,men are becoming lazier by the day.

Lol. So a book of fairytales is informing you about your reality? King Solomon never existed. Besides, Queen Sheeba visited Solomon because of his great wisdom. Men are becoming more vanity filled and are seeking quick wealth but they are not lazy. Being materialistic is a thing. Stop being naive.

This one is indirectly looking for husband, i know their types,

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
She should shut it.... When men see a lady who will build up with them but decide to go for the flashy, classy ones he'll spend to maintain, whose fault is that?

There's seriously no need thrashing out some realities.

"Build them up" at what cost? You didn't realise that finance is not the first requirement expected by men from women. Unfortunately, a lot of ladies tend to be overbearing when they have strong financial base. Nevertheless, I think the lady is partial by completely laying the blame at the door-steps of ladies -- without chastising the menfolk for the role they play. Both genders are guilty in mainstreaming this unhelpful but disturbingly widespread mentality.

Famousqueen:
This one is indirectly looking for husband, i know their types,

The social media is a veritable marriage/relationship marketing platform. A lot people have find their significant other via the social media. Even if her message is tainted by her "self-serving" intention, as you claimed, the message, to me, appears to be a brilliant obversation and partly correct. Plus, a lot of teenagers and men might learn a thing or two from her self-inspired intervention.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
She should shut it.... When men see a lady who will build up with them but decide to go for the flashy, classy ones he'll spend to maintain, whose fault is that?

There's seriously no need thrashing out some realities.

Older an married women are also to blame.

These days it's rare to find women giving each other good advice.

For instance a married elder Sister would know two single men, she can hook her younger one up with. She would always choose the wealthier guy whom often cannot explain exactly what he does for money or even rarely talks about business; businessmen always talk about business.

It's no more about family names and good genes. It's like men's standard for wives never changed but women just keep going lower and lower.

They should make a drug that cures or reduces konji (sexual arousal) instead of the present sex enhancers littered everywhere then no one will advice women (especially the very beautiful beauty induced arrogant ones) to follow the advice she gave as few men will be confused to fall victim to their seductions but focus on a woman's attitude and affectionate bent.

princfred:
They should make a drug that cures or reduces konji (sexual arousal) instead of the present sex enhancers littered everywhere then no one will advice women (especially the very beautiful beauty induced arrogant ones) to follow the advice she gave as few men will be confused to fall victim to their seductions but focus on a woman's attitude and affectionate bent.

na true you talk bro, take away konji from guys and girl's market no go sell, in fact na them go rush guys

Nice one.

mrblessed:
"Build them up" at what cost? You didn't realise that finance is not the first requirement expected by men from women. Unfortunately, a lot of ladies tend to be overbearing when they have strong financial base. Nevertheless, I think the lady is partial by completely laying the blame at the door-steps of ladies -- without chastising the menfolk for the role they play. Both genders are guilty in mainstreaming this unhelpful but disturbingly widespread mentality.

Please what is expected? What exactly does "what's she bringing to the table" mean?

UncleJJ:
Older an married women are also to blame.

These days it's rare to find women giving each other good advice.

For instance a married elder Sister would know two single men, she can hook her younger one up with. She would always choose the wealthier guy whom often cannot explain exactly what he does for money or even rarely talks about business; businessmen always talk about business.

It's no more about family names and good genes. It's like men's standard for wives never changed but women just keep going lower and lower.

Family names and good genes? Well we've outgrown such. We interested in the individual in question

booket:
Then who loses more at the end.After flirting and trying to satisfy their never-ending desires.when they ve exhausted their marriagable age,many stayed alone all their life while the men will marry n move ahead.The best advice i can gave is here. Proverbs 31:3-13 Don't spend all your energy on sex and all your money on women; they have destroyed kings

I agree with your later sumbmission. But our society is been run on sex. We men only complain when we are broke and can't afford it. But as soon as we get small change our mumu start.

It's not women faulth. We are leaders naturally so..if we stand straight and steadfast. Women have no choice but to fall in line. They are not stronger than us. It's because silently we crave it that's why it's so.

Obodo999:
Yes, I have my blood, semen, body fluid, energy, time, Spiritual blessing to lose if I have sex anyhow

Na xo bro

Capensis:
My mind tells me this lady is a retired olosho trying to rebrand herself on social media to get a husband. Weak men will fall for this. Her look is unrelated to the advice.

No offence.

A real man must provide 101% of everything at home and not expect women to leave their traditional roles of being mothers, sexy romantic better half and wife and start hurstling for coins.

Women's body was not built for stress, that is why they look fragile as sexual animals.

Hahahahaha women are not built for stress?! lol brain surgery needed.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Please what is expected? What exactly does "what's she bringing to the table" mean?

A whole lot is expected from both sexes. Note that individual preferences have a lot of role to play. By and large, a woman who is a money bag is not the totem pole of a man's expected qualities from his prospective wife. So, jettison the idea of building a man up, because it is not the major criterion.