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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 2:40am On Feb 27, 2019
Anchor111:


Hi,

Chiefqueen or whatever is your name. You are an evil person

So you are above the age of being a minor, old enough to be a lesbian (or feminist as you call it) with the right to talk to people anyhow and crawl around adult trends, yet not old enough to take the consequence when called out?


You are 18 insulting a person you feel is 40, over twice your alleged age? And see how you do it? So vulgar!

You are just as evil as the wife of this man who started this thread

Lol.
Jerking off is an insult? Well, okay. Since that was the only thing you were able to grab from all the argument. Isn't it funny how it's disturbing because I'm a woman? I bet if it was a guy, you would have ignored because it would have sounded different.
This is the equality I'm hoping would be achieved someday. I'm evil? Thanks. I've heard worse. Y'all would say Everything you want, still won't change my thought about the topic of discussion or about equality. Sleep tight
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 3:24am On Feb 27, 2019
Capensis:


Thank you DrTee1,

Marriage is a real job. I mean it as it sounds. A real career, the longest carrier we might ever have. Even after retirement, we are in this marriage career if we ever want to be happy.

Just as in any career, it requires specialized skill-sets designed for professionalism and mastering.

We must identify the fault systems because there is always a fault system in any system processes. We must accept that things will naturally go bad, and MUST go bad except we identify the fault systems and engineer processes to fix them and do actually troubleshoot for prospective fault systems and ensure we protect the system with serious firewalls and ensure that it dont go bad.

Marriages are going bad, because partners have introduce ego into the equation. Husband is a husbandry job. We must understand that we are shepherds, and must follow even the last calf into the ditch and bring it out. That is how to be the best master - a wise Master.

How we do one thing, is how we do everything. Because the Universe is an interconnected computing system. If this man was a good husband at home, there is no way he would have lost his job. It is the same strategy that he applied at home that he applied at work. And it is called being a snowflake.

HUmans of Nigeria should erase the erroneous impression that they deserve something. The fact that you married the woman does not mean you deserve the pusssy. That is what our tradition informed us, but it was never true, it is just that they had control over women and were enslaving our grandmothers. I personally hate slavery, so even my house-helps are treated with utmost respect. So, I ensure that my home systems are managed.

Money itself is the root of happiness, but it does buy somethings that you make you happy, yet there is a way to make a woman very happy even without money, and that has a lot to do with mind control using legitimate tools.

Learn to dominate your women with excellent strategic romances, sex, chores, lies, truth, science and even fiction.

Ensure that you win. If not, men like me will take your wives and there is nothing you can fucccking do. Trust me, when I say that. grin

oga eh from your first comment i just taya for you. Tufiakwa!

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 3:51am On Feb 27, 2019
baby124:
Oga sincerely, nothing wrong with you washing your hands and taking your plate to the kitchen after eating. You are a full grown adult and not a kid. She already has 3 children she is taking care of. You should try your best to help out around the house, especially when you are not working to show gratitude for the stress she may be goin through to provide. Your ego is hurt because you are out of a job and you are now reading meaning into everything. Please grow up and act like a full grown man. If you think the environment is too toxic then you are free to leave.

you can easily spot them. Spoilt and shallow children with no common sense
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by QuietHammer(m): 3:52am On Feb 27, 2019
What do you do when a radio set gives that annoying buzz? You tap it, right?..to nudge it back to working well.
Just give her some mild resetting slaps once in a while.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 4:03am On Feb 27, 2019
Capensis:


Hahahahaha. Very few humans are ready to win in life. I got the secret key to success in everything in life, so marriage is just one of what I am good at.
hmm. And he brags too... Tufiakwa!
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Eze2000(m): 4:04am On Feb 27, 2019
Anchor111:


You sound like a hooker from one of the slums downtown New York but even that kind can claim to be a woman as well... bitch.. y'all, cummy... your slang...

Yeah, I did read em all. Equality wasn't the topic on this trend but it's what is eating you seeing as you wanna become president one day and you are already claiming chieftaincy tiles on social media. But wait, of what interest are such topics to an 18-year-old. That's what those hookers do downtown. You see an old hag of 40 claiming to 20 and you wonder if she did reverse plastic surgery, which seems to be your case.

You so rude, you lack manners, you don't know how to talk or what entails insult.

You wanna be equal? Who made you a slave in the first place? Get off your ass, go get a six-figure income job and build a home in your name then go get a mail order husband to take away your masturbation problem and there is your equality.

Take action and stop insulting random people who can house and feed you in the name of equality


Nonsense!


That girl is beyond redemption. She's just a disaster waiting to happen to an innocent man
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 4:08am On Feb 27, 2019
mercy87:


I have sent you an email....please reply. I will love to chat with you if you don't mind.
when that man will finish with you you'll know there's a difference between an imaginary world and a real one

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by CioAngels(f): 4:34am On Feb 27, 2019
Yes, divorce/separation is very painful, but would you rather die? Christian would tell you don't divorce because it not of God, same group will blame you when the inevitable happens. Why the self pity.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 4:39am On Feb 27, 2019
No woman in this life will ever in this life disrespect me. Whether wife or girlfriend. Once you do that you have triggered a danger zone. Am not unreasonable, so from all judgement and i see that you are plainly stupid being insulting then you've triggered hell
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 4:56am On Feb 27, 2019
OmoAlata1:
You sound like a very low self esteem man. You had your wife arrested bc she was not following orders?I only blame all these desperate women who are making all you small boys believe you have huge balls




if people like us jam you eh. You'll break into pieces. You'll not even know how to type on nairaland
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:32am On Feb 27, 2019
johnkey:
Never marry a terrible girlfriend no matter the love.
very key...
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 6:00am On Feb 27, 2019
Capensis:


Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.
Uncle, Marriage does NOT need manipulation and all those tips you said up there do not in any way make a bad person change.
One person cannot always be the one making up for the other. Its a two way thing.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nicoddemus(m): 6:08am On Feb 27, 2019
Capensis:


Very married and my home is an Empire. Building an Empire requires teaching your wife the 100 years goal of the family and how generational wealth should be sustained in the event of your death.

Most men are timid. You can not have time to keep teaching different women these Secrets of Bloodlines if you keep divorcing. Marriage is greater than sex. Building a bloodline is something beyond the level of understanding of an average black man. So, when I say marriage is huge, I mean it and you must learn to control the waves, the air, the sounds, the lighting and the emotion that flows at your home.

It is even my responsibility to stop religions from infiltrating the mind of my family and ban news that shouldn't filter in. I do not even let my family watch Nigeria news or monitor the elections. So they do not lose hope.

If they know, they are on the next jet abroad and I will have to finance different homes. Money is just a tool, wise men know this. But for a poor man, once he has a few million, he wants a woman to be his slave because he does not even know why he was born, neither does he know why the world exists.

When you get to my point of understanding, you will understand how and why you must use mind control, positively to keep your home safe.

comon shatap!. Look at him trying to sound intelligent. What we do with people like u eh
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 6:59am On Feb 27, 2019
Anchor111:


You sound like a hooker from one of the slums downtown New York but even that kind can claim to be a woman as well... bitch.. y'all, cummy... your slang...

Yeah, I did read em all. Equality wasn't the topic on this trend but it's what is eating you seeing as you wanna become president one day and you are already claiming chieftaincy tiles on social media. But wait, of what interest are such topics to an 18-year-old. That's what those hookers do downtown. You see an old hag of 40 claiming to 20 and you wonder if she did reverse plastic surgery, which seems to be your case.

You so rude, you lack manners, you don't know how to talk or what entails insult.

You wanna be equal? Who made you a slave in the first place? Get off your ass, go get a six-figure income job and build a home in your name then go get a mail order husband to take away your masturbation problem and there is your equality.

Take action and stop insulting random people who can house and feed you in the name of equality


Nonsense!

I see what your problem is. You didn't quote me to correct me. No



Perpharps we've had a disagreement somewhere or you've been sending pms I haven't replied. You sound hateful and unserious. You went from complaining about vulgar words to insulting me. I don't think I have to listen to you. You should swallow your words and advice. I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to insult someone or use any of those words here. So go correct them or something.





Like I said, you wouldn't be quoting me If I was a man. I'll say what I want. The worst you can't do is names calling and slut shaming. It's what y'all are good at.





Keep nagging like a bitch about something that didn't concern you. Perhaps you want to jerk off too.




Stooopid.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by greatman247(m): 7:16am On Feb 27, 2019
This is because money is no longer flowing pike it used to be. That wife is a plain hold digger. I don't believe in marriage. Most happy marriage is due to the fact the man has money or potentials. Most women changes negatively when the man becomes broke.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Raalsalghul: 7:35am On Feb 27, 2019
Treasured4eva:
I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.

Another victim of the scam called marriage grin grin
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by adesbreath: 7:36am On Feb 27, 2019
Chubhie:
She insults you,sends the accountant to embarrass you,the sister and the family also insults you?

Role reversal. She's now in a place of power and control while you are weakened.

How were you treating her and family when you were at the peak of your powers?

What are the lessons this situation is currently showing you?

What are your plans for a sizzling comeback to reclaim,restore and install true exemplary leadership?

You could put in the work and reclaim your world or take the easy way out.

Retrain your mind and hands to always get your water to wash your hands and serve yourself. Now, if someone perhaps your wife or maid offers to help out of love or service, be grateful and let them know about it.




GOD BLESS YOU. We also need you to talk and change Nigeria...well said.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by adesbreath: 7:41am On Feb 27, 2019
Capensis:


Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.


WOW!!! Hope your marriage is working perfectly on these terms because this is a master piece for every man. GOD BLESS YOU.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Ishilove: 8:13am On Feb 27, 2019
Daeylar:


He was able to win them because they either were not perceptive enough to see the misogyny he hid in his first post where he first started his "good" "nice" husband act
Or
They just didn't want to see it.
I guess it's the two.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Ishilove: 8:18am On Feb 27, 2019
QuietHammer:
What do you do when a radio set gives that annoying buzz? You tap it, right?..to nudge it back to working well.
Just give her some mild resetting slaps once in a while.
Are us women allowed to give our husbands resetting slaps, be it mild or strong?
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by iamHighDee(m): 8:29am On Feb 27, 2019
Treasured4eva:
I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.


The ultimate test of females these days is how they see you and treat you when you have absolutely nothing and they have more. I feel for you because I know quite a lot of cases of men like this who wouldn't even come forward to say anything because of the fear of being humiliated and disgraced.

This serves as a lesson to the rest of us men out there. Be the best man you can ever be and let God be your ultimate backbone. Even though you are married, always have a backup plan, especially for your kids. No matter how strong or deep you think her love for you is, she could turn a serpent. Doesn't happen to everyone but don't be caught unaware in case the unfortunate happens.

Find you a girl to love you because of who you are, not because of what she thinks you are worth or what you can provide. Marry for love, not for business. If you will marry for business, make sure your risk appetite won't kill you.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Dammy2me: 8:37am On Feb 27, 2019
dante0147:
Someone started as a terrible girl friend and you thought you could fix her ?Man not all that glitters is Gold
Don't mind him he married a beautiful woman senseless men that will see death and hug it
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Anchor111: 8:38am On Feb 27, 2019
chiefqueen:

I see what your problem is. You didn't quote me to correct me. No



Perpharps we've had a disagreement somewhere or you've been sending pms I haven't replied. You sound hateful and unserious. You went from complaining about vulgar words to insulting me. I don't think I have to listen to you. You should swallow your words and advice. I'm pretty sure I'm not the first person to insult someone or use any of those words here. So go correct them or something.





Like I said, you wouldn't be quoting me If I was a man. I'll say what I want. The worst you can't do is names calling and slut shaming. It's what y'all are good at.





Keep nagging like a bitch about something that didn't concern you. Perhaps you want to jerk off too.




Stooopid.


Have you seen how many times you talk about jerking off? it would seem that you are one of those girls that love swallowing sperm. Year you are correct I won't be quoting you if you were a man cos then you won't be this disrespectful... you would be equal to a man! Did you notice how the person you have been insulting did not really insult you back?

Your self-importance is just stupidity at its highest level.

Back to that jerking off. I'm under 21 by the way and i would love to fuuuck you in the ass and jerk off in your mount cos that's all that you are good for

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by QuietHammer(m): 8:49am On Feb 27, 2019
Ishilove:

Are us women allowed to give our husbands resetting slaps, be it mild or strong?
If a woman paid a substantial amount as her husband's groom price then she can go ahead
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nikkygold4life(f): 9:01am On Feb 27, 2019
[quote author=Treasured4eva

The simple truth is that your wife never loved you from the beginning, love, understanding and mutual respect have a lot of role to play in a successful marriage. Her heart isn't with you at all so there can't be a synergy that is needed in marriage.

I recommend you get this movie; Fireproof. You will be the one to Kickstart the process of saving your marriage and having a joyful life. Please, do this coupled with prayers. Do all you can for the sake of your children.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by waywardpikin: 9:04am On Feb 27, 2019
Simplep:
Lol..smh.some ladies sha,very easy to deceive, this one has already wetted her pant because of a guy who is typing from a book of fairy tales

I have no energy to type but I have to say that you are very wise. That guy is just a scam. Everyone is perfect, godlike and all knowing when typing from behind a keyboard. Sounds like the liar billyonaire, seems he has come back with a brand new swag and moniker.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 27, 2019
Anchor111:



Have you seen how many times you talk about jerking off? it would seem that you are one of those girls that love swallowing sperm. Year you are correct I won't be quoting you if you were a man cos then you won't be this disrespectful... you would be equal to a man! Did you notice how the person you have been insulting did not really insult you back?

Your self-importance is just stupidity at its highest level.

Back to that jerking off. I'm under 21 by the way and i would love to fuuuck you in the ass and jerk off in your mount cos that's all that you are good for
You should have gone straight to the point instead of acting like a moralist.




21 year old dick isn't mature enough. Maybe I'll give you a chance when you're able to make yourself Cum.

The person I insulted didn't insult me back, yet you in my mentions calling me a hoe for using words you're using now. You see that you're a hypocrite? Remove that hate from your heart, no dey carry person for mind like that. I won't like you no matter what. All this pretence...


I bet now it's cool that you're talking about jerking off. Mumu

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by TheKingIsHere: 9:55am On Feb 27, 2019
Treasured4eva:
I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.


I have so many friends in this similar situation.

Now let me ask you. Does your wife display over 50% these characters;

1. Anger: A perfect tool of the devil

2. Abusive mouth: A mouth that abuses and curses is sharper than a double edged sword

3. Never submissive: Wives are meant to submit to their husbands according to the bible

4. Deceit: She makes everyone around you look like the bad wicked husband. She paints a picture that you are wicked to her or maltreats her, which is not true.

5. Lies: same with deciet

6. Sudden toxic mood swings that leads to unnecessary arguments. For example, you guys were sitting together happy and all of a sudden she just gets angry for no reason, brings up a senseless argument and that happy moment is crushed.

7. No iota of respect: if she is not submissive she can't be respectful

8. Never believes she is wrong

9. Never helps you financially even when you ask for her help.


If she posesses over 50% of these traits, then you are married to a destiny destroyer. A destiny destroyer wife is a woman/wife possessed by a spirit of the devil.

It sounds funny but that's the bitter truth.

Let me ask you.

Since you got married to her, things that were moving well all of a sudden started to take a negative turn right? Financially, maritally, family wise etc?

You only have yourself to blame because you saw the signals and writings on the wall.

I am sure when you were dating, she gave you se,x anytime you asked for it? This is one of the wicked tools these destiny destroyers use to capture their victims.

I have a friend who divorced his destiny destroyer wife recently. Luckily for him, they had no children together. Since then, things are working well for him again.

Another of my friend is still tied because he has children, so it is difficult for him to escape her evil claws.

However, I have given him some advice which is helping him so far.

The first advise is, do not let her know of anything that you intend to do which will boost you financially or career wise. These set of women have an evil spirit or head that hinders the man from moving forward. The more she knows about your potential success, the more she crushes it spiritually or via unnecessary arguments to dampen your spirit

Let me get a response so I can give you other tips that will assist you if you want.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Anchor111: 9:56am On Feb 27, 2019
chiefqueen:

You should have gone straight to the point instead of acting like a moralist.




21 year old dick isn't mature enough. Maybe I'll give you a chance when you're able to make yourself Cum.

The person I insulted didn't insult me back, yet you in my mentions calling me a hoe for using words you're using now. You see that you're a hypocrite? Remove that hate from your heart, no dey carry person for mind like that. I won't like you no matter what. All this pretence...


I bet now it's cool that you're talking about jerking off. Mumu

Ahhh, a hoe after my own dick. Now the truth is out. So 21-year-old dick ait mature enough for you? Your cunt must be very old and stretched to limit!

Alright, I'll fuuuck you the mouth only. You can thank me later
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 10:01am On Feb 27, 2019
Anchor111:


Ahhh, a hoe after my own dick. Now the truth is out. So 21-year-old dick ait mature enough for you? Your cunt must be very old and stretched to limit!

Alright, I'll fuuuck you the mouth only. You can thank me later


I don't smoke cigarette. Oh shit, that was your dick? grin




I said no. You cant handle rejection?Oversensitive baby Bitch.

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