Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now. I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp. After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months month. She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl. After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t). This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life. She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

Oyindidi:
Prove her wrong by hustling harder.

Next!!!

Telvin7:
guy forget about that girl ....u've seen her inner side........
Just hustle hard and don't let the past hurt your mind .....

Telvin7:
guy forget about that girl ....u've seen her inner side........
Just hustle hard and don't let the past hurt your mind .....

Telvin7:
and guy read motivational quotes ....it really helps

shege45:
“U are addicted to brokenness”
E touched me
Guy u are d one making the mistake, why beg a girl dat blocked you on watsapp at the first place.

hoodedjaystrim:
Go and make money and stop wailing on Nairaland

She gave you uppercut though

1StopRudeness:
iPhone ....the breaker of relationships......

Shey Una don hear now.??...if u can't afford an iPhone don't date material driven ladies....they don't care...they don't love...they are not paitient...they want it fast, they want it now.......
The only thing they have to offer you, you can get it elsewhere, they are hoes, let that sink, hoooooooessss!!!!!!they are not different from those at Allen jnctions, it's the same give and take transaction. don't let the wig and make up fool u...it's the same prostitution...u even get to pay more
better still..try abstainance.....lack of sex no dey kill person ooooooooo...
Una go just they let worthless women make Una life miserable.....now this dude is frustrated...just because a lady that doesn't give a damn about u is fvcking other guys for material gain and still have the guts to insult ur life and parents..and u are sad....shouldn't u be happy she's gone??

guys Una dey fvck up......

hoodedjaystrim:
Go and make money and stop wailing on Nairaland

She gave you uppercut though

Omoge87:
I am sorry this happened to you, but in the same vein you should be happy and thankful to God. Sometimes man's/woman's rejection is God's protection. Love should never be based on what one has or what one can do for someone, those things are just benefits of the relationship. Hence marital vows state for 'Better or for Worse' and 'in sickness and in health'. Nobody knows tomorrow, but she has shown you if a time comes and your tomorrow is sour she will leave you. Today you have a job, tomorrow one can be made redundant. Today someone has two legs and is walking about able-bodied, tomorrow that same person may be involved in a car accident and loose their two legs, paralysed and stuck to a wheel chair for life... Just know that she would have left you. It is not bad for her to want to marry a super rich man ... she is allowed to want what she wants ... but she should not put someone else down in the process. She has show you her true colours. What you do with what she has shown you is your prerogative.

Please thank God for what he has released you from. Find somebody that loves you not because of what you have, but simply because of who you are. In the mean time just work on yourself. As people have said the best consolation to yourself is working hard and becoming a man of substance. I just pray when you do and she comes back begging you don't take her back as you have done in the past.

She never loved you. No situation is permenant unless you make it that way. You had funds before... so far you continue to work hard and hustle the funds will come .... don't let this girl get to you. Words are powerful, for every negative thing she has said... just reject it and speak positive things into your life...

Unfortunatley her greed may get her into the wrong hands....She will soon find that people go for character over beauty ...hence why many beautiful girls are very much single, whilst the so called 'ugly' girls are very much married... Just let her be.

.... You too in future learn from this mistake to be paying for school fees of girlfriend up and down is just silly - I mean where are her parents/family members. You have better use of the money...like siblings, parents you could have invested the money in... business ventures... I mean you bought her 1 phone, then went to buy her another phone... till she now collected phone from another guy... and you feel you can marry someone like that?What is she collecting all the phones for ?

Aside from beauty - did she add anything to your life - aside from her vagina - what else did she add to you? The relationship seems from your account as though it was one-sided. You give she takes. You are lamenting over someone who insulted your parents - so if she was going to marry you she has insulted her potential in-laws? Abeg. Chin up and keep it moving. Soldier on...

Please let her go and be thankful to God from what he has brought you out off. She is someone else headache now. Your days of taking paracetamol are since over. Abeg...

Take care of yourself

Telvin7:
and guy read motivational quotes ....it really helps

mhizdebbygold:
My sweetheart am a lady and I urge u for no reason what so ever to think about going back to her. if u did all that for her and she insulted u for being broke karma has a way of dealing with this type of girls leave her to God u deserve a better woman in ur life that wouldn't take ur current state as a leverage to insult u. It's not like u have never given her something u paid her fees, bought her phone twice spoiled her naughty with money and now she turned her back on u just because the flow is no more.. u should be happy u got to know her for who she truly is before u slip a ring to her finger...I don't want to hear after she abandoned u things later returned back to normal for u and she comes back begging u'll come here and start asking us if u should accept her

Michelle55:

It's not funny bro.
Op you've got to prove her wrong, the best revenge in life is to be successful.

Anndrew:
send me dis ur meme

hoodedjaystrim:

You know what's funny

Claiming to be grown up and still letting someone play on your emotions like ping pong

Michelle55:

Not everyone is as strong hearted as you
I understand how the Op feels, he loved with everything yet he got nothing but pain and misery in the end.
It's really painful.

hoodedjaystrim:

He is a victim of day light robbery

This isn't love cause I know love

Google1111:
You're fool for coming here and cry over your brokenness, a real man will move on and use the challenge to make it in life to prove her rough... but you're here crying.

Michelle55:

Robbery keh... Impossicant!
Even at that, I still feel sorry for the situation he found himself in.. It's not funny to be played by someone you love