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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by sliqboy: 9:41am On Feb 28, 2019
Don't dwell your mind on all the good things you did for her in the past, it will only hurt you the more. Instead harden your heart to forget the THING and move on with your life. Even with zero naira in your account, you can still restart afresh and make billions in life. Trust God, pray harder and work harder. God who gives wealth will answer your cry.
P.S;:However, when things turn out fine, that THING will come back begging after she must ve done countless abortions and become very useless in life. You will now be the BIGGEST FOOL to accept the thing back

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by TanyLoe(f): 9:41am On Feb 28, 2019
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed



She isn't worth your stress
Your time
And whatever Is coming your Way don't let her words pull you down but let it be the reasons you have to work harder.
Don't let her foolish and cheap words make you see other ladies as gold-diggers. She wasn't yours at first, you were sent into her life to help her which you did even when it wasn't valued.
You helped her and she has taught you a lesson.
There are millions of ladies out there, who are looking for someone in their lives so don't let this darkened your mind
Don't overthink
Say no to SNIPER
Your someone's father
Uncle
And husband
Don't try to prove her wrong
Just be yourself
What if you have married her?
So it's a sign.
But it's just so funny why you guys would want to date a lady who looks up to you for everything and when you can't provide she looks else where.
And it's funnier why some of us ladies can't just work and stop frustrating the man your in a relationship with, if he doesn't have (support him) Not dump him or cheat on him
Anyone can cheat

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:41am On Feb 28, 2019
mozel247:


When u allow others give meaning to ur life which they were never part of its creation, it's sustenance, then u have surrendered the key to ur happiness to them. I chose not and will never allow myself to be swayed
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. I had to use it as a status.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Eberex(m): 9:43am On Feb 28, 2019
As long it is dating my guy, anything goes. you don't own her. Besides for an undergraduate? mhen, it was a gamble considering what the society is facing these days in the likes of yahoo boys.

I would advise you make new friends, preferably females. Nothing intimate okay? If you feel your thoughts are going in her direction, holla these new friends. With time you will get over her.

Lastly, prove her wrong by hustling double. I can guarantee you, you will have the last laugh.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Ubdavis(m): 9:44am On Feb 28, 2019
shege45:
“U are addicted to brokenness”
E touched me
Guy u are d one making the mistake, why beg a girl dat blocked you on watsapp at the first place.

He is a very stupid man!
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by olagbola45(m): 9:45am On Feb 28, 2019
Lol

Sorry,same happen to me too same story but I conquer d shit and m getting my money

She Is now waiting begging for my reply on all social media begging for money recharge cards

I give wen I feel I can but me self dey use her do lot of shakara now

We saw last month again I Bleep her like I never know her Ni lol

Just work hard and get money man u will rise again and she will b at ur toe holding and begging u again

Awom slaymama elebi Ni won cool

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by midehi2(f): 9:45am On Feb 28, 2019
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed
Broke for just 5 months and she dey display what of me that has been coping/carrying my guy along for 2yrs now without good job...oh see how sweet he whispered his words into my ears last night wink I know he is capable, he can get up again after falling and am ready to stand by him till then, so confident too he can't leave me when he finally succeed. Your girl can't cope with poverty, she will still leave the same guy that bought her iphone if paraventure he becomes broke, look for a girl that loves you for who you are not what you are/have...forget her, think positive of next thing to rise you again..you will be fine.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by MiaB(f): 9:45am On Feb 28, 2019
Many guys think that if only they were rich, or at least well off, their girlfriend would have never left them. It's not as simple as that. If you don't believe it, just tune into what is happening with the rich and famous around the world, be it movie stars or royalty. It quickly becomes apparent that people with a lot of money have no better luck - an obviously sometimes a lot worse luck - with staying within a relationship. How many movie stars can you think of in the next five minutes who have two, three or maybe four divorces under their belts?

The fact is, having a lot of money is no guarantee of relationship success. If you are feeling sorry for yourself because your girlfriend left you over financial problems, then it's time to start rethinking the whole situation. You could be filthy rich, and she might have left anyway.
What does this tell you about money? Clearly, it makes no difference how much you have or how little you have. If the fundamentals of your relationship are strong, even a terrible money situation should not be an excuse for your girlfriend to leave. Money is only a convenient excuse, an outward factor.
Okay, but let's also recognize that while money may not be the ultimate reason she left you, it certainly was a contributing factor. That's because constant stress over money creates an overall climate of tension and struggle. It is very difficult for any relationship to thrive in an environment of constant struggle.
Incredibly, many guys do exactly the opposite thing they should do when they have money problem, and their partner leaves - they plunge themselves into even more debt! That's right!

There is something about relationship problems that can drive many men to lose all common sense. For example, they think that if they only had a nicer car, maybe their girlfriend would come back to them. So they pull out all the stops, marshal all of their resources, and take out a huge loan to get some new wheels. So now they have a shiny new car, and even more debt and payments to worry about. To get that new car, maybe they had to take out a second mortgage on their house, or run up huge debts on credit cards.
Other guys blow cash on some kind of bribe - maybe an expensive piece of jewelry to dangle in front of their ex in a desperate attempt to lure her back. Even if this works in the short term, as soon as the new load of bills start coming due, the stress level increases to all-new levels. Under these conditions, the relationship is probably doomed.
.
What you need to do is start getting your financial life under control. Rather than buying a new car - maybe it's time to sell the one you have!
It's all about making priorities in your life. You have to decide if you want to put your relationship and personal life first, or continue to be a slave to all of your bills. Of course, getting one's financial life in order is never an easy task. If you think you can't handle it by yourself, by all means, seek out some financial counseling

Get some help formulating a solid plan to start paying down you debts, and to start earning more money.
Just taking that first step toward getting your financial life under control can be a tremendous relief. You will immediately get the feeling that you are finally doing something positive to take back control of your life. When you start getting financial control, you start reducing that all-pervasive stress that is tormenting you, and which made your relationship a living hell. It's a sad fact of our modern society that, even when two people love each other, a general condition of financial stress can cripple even great relationships.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Donchukz(m): 9:46am On Feb 28, 2019
Oyindidi:
Prove her wrong by hustling harder.

Next!!!
Mehn,I can fill your pain. You are addicted to poverty; if can ready too much meanings to those words,then ,u can now realised that she just got you inspired,one thing is for sure,she will ever regret using such words. I don't know the reason why men keeps investing on their girl friends,is better you spend on your niggaz than babes,guys will some how remember you,later in life,but girls,they can never . The only thing guys gain from babes,is just sex,but girls gains alot from men.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by anthonysegun(m): 9:47am On Feb 28, 2019
Just keep moving don't make any woman get you insane.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:48am On Feb 28, 2019
When a woman doesn't want you any longer she starts demanding for �
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by gunnersway(m): 9:48am On Feb 28, 2019
Why must it be her he's proving wrong?
Bro u don't have to prove anything to her, just stop worrying about her words on you cos it has just zero effect on you. Think positively and go back and make your money. It's as simple as that
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Ubdavis(m): 9:48am On Feb 28, 2019
U became so addicted to her .... Let me ask u, na only she get puna? . u plunged urslf into this mess that would have been avoided long ago. If u like, learn from this, if u like , continue to d mumu yourself.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ShawttySoFyne(f): 9:50am On Feb 28, 2019
look on the bright side; you're now free to stop wasting your money, and to look after yourself! Focus on your career, your health, your friends and family. You also just managed to dodge a bullet; any woman who will dump you for such a stupid reason isn't someone you want to be devoted to.
Work on yourself and wait for the right woman to come to you. Because trust me, eventually she'll come. All of this is just a learning curve.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Crysthaniel(m): 9:51am On Feb 28, 2019
Focus on your life bro as the time goes by we gonna know who is who!

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by wisdompeters35(m): 9:51am On Feb 28, 2019
Oga these same happen to me too but I learnt to ignored her n move on, work hard and make some money. Guess what after other guys has finished breaking her heart she came back begging I take her back. I pretended to agree thereafter I squeeze what I could find in her n deliver a righteous Justice. It is d sweetest thing I have experience so far.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by NwaliE01: 9:51am On Feb 28, 2019
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed

It's obvious it's her beauty that blind fold you from seeing reality.

She has cleared your eye now, so go and hussle like every other Nigerian and prove to her that you are not a magnet to poverty.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Shinjitsu: 9:52am On Feb 28, 2019
My friend put yourself together and move on...she might be the one holding back your blessing

Pray and Hustle

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by GoodGodmykeeper(m): 9:52am On Feb 28, 2019
hmmm.
check my signature
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by xrucifix05(m): 9:52am On Feb 28, 2019
Dear poster, your details just don't add up. U've been broke for 5 months and last week, u lost almost a million. Yet u sold your fone and gadgets wen u had money to pay her school fees? Is she schooling in UK? For you to be broke and lost almost a million means that when u were not broke u shud worth At least 50 million. So u want to tell me she help u squandered ur money through school fees and fones thats not even an I phone.
U may wish to reconstruct ur ordeals. Meanwhile work hard and make more money.
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by much123456(m): 9:53am On Feb 28, 2019
BRO take it as a challenge and 10× your hustle and you you will thank God she dump you because you gonna see alot of woundefull people out there. And you can tease her and broke her stupid as too. I did that to my 2 ex. Lol. Was fun. Go make alot of money bro and never take any woman serious when it comes to relationship
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by khalids: 9:53am On Feb 28, 2019
See the problem with men is we put too much value on this women....it is the ultimate trap of the devil.....

See forget all these women and their nonsense and enjoy your life.....live your life for you and not anyone else....anybody that is not ready to make you happy but is expecting you to make them happy should take a flying Bleep

By the way what is even the big deal in having a woman

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by IjebuWarrior: 9:53am On Feb 28, 2019
Oyindidi:
You have screenshot on you phone, right?
I believe you know how to use, snap the message she insulted your parents and use it as wallpaper. Make sure her name is in the pix. I'm scared if my son will mumu for a girl like this. To born boy no easy cry once them see nakedd woman their brain go knock
After that tell me how you feel about her.

Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:53am On Feb 28, 2019
lilmax:
The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp. After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticon



where I stopped reading


you're a big FOOL


the fact that Buhari won the election and seeing this foolishness from a guy pisses me off
Lol painful but true cheesy
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:54am On Feb 28, 2019
MY GUY YOU ARE A GOOD MAN AND A GOOD GIRL DESERVES AND COMPLIMENTS YOU. GOD HAS QUUETLY SHOWN YOU SHE IS NOT THE ONE. CUT HER OFF IMMEDIATELY SHE MIGHT BE HINDERING YOUR PROGRESS. I TELL YOU YOU WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE BECAUSE YOU ARE GENEROUS AND A GOOD HARD WORKING MAN. LET GO OF HER IMMEDIATELY YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL CHERISH YOU AND ALL YOU STAND FOR. BUT DON'T RUSH INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP FOCUS ON GETTING YOURSELF FINANCIALLY ON TRACK SO NO DISTRACTION.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by akinszz: 9:56am On Feb 28, 2019
Kalashnikov382:
Hello Nairalanders, My girlfriend of two years broke up with me. She broke up with me because of my financial situation right now.

I have been struggling for like 5 months now then she started acting weird and calling me names. The whole thing started when a guy I don't know bought her an iPhone last month. She lied she got it herself which I know is not true. We fought, argued then she went on to block me on WhatsApp.

After begging her for a month she later unblocked me and started posting pictures of different guys with love emoticons. Then she started asking for money everyday. I told her I would give her if I see her in person that I haven't even set my eyes on her for like 2 months.

She has has been avoiding me but asking me for money. Then Started saying She knew I would never gets out of this broke-ness. She told me I am addicted to brokeness that I can never make it in life. The same girl I pay part of her third year school fee, I paid her final year school when their school payment portal was almost closed, I sold my expensive iPhone and some other gadgets for a very shameful price. I once did everything any guy would do for a girlfriend. I used to spoil her with everything when I have money. I've bought her phone twice, Take care of her school bills time to time. Use my things to loan money to send money to her. I did some stupid things just to satisfy this girl.

After everything she told me I did nothing for her that I am addicted to poverty that they told her I'm destined to be poor. She text all sorts of terrible things and insulted my parents that's when I slammed her with some crazy text back (My parents? No No I won't take that shi.t).

This girl I lose my everything just to make her happy. Worst of it is that I am at the most toughest time of my life now. Last week I lose almost a million, I am still healing from that. Her words are affecting me mentally. I adore this girl because she was once a nice and good girl any guy would want to date in fact to be honest, she is the most beautiful girl I've ever meet all my life.

She believes her beauty can get her anything. Please Nairalanders how can I forget this girl and her words totally. Those words are really affecting me mentally, I am losing hope. Please how can I erase everything from my head. I'm frustrated and depressed
delete her phone number, her pictures and anything that can make you remember her. As time goes on, you will gradually become yourself... I guess she's your first love cheesy
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:56am On Feb 28, 2019
Here is a very bitter truth.... THINGS ARE NOT CHANGING FOR YOU ANYTIME SOON AND U WILL BE CHECKING ON HER TO SEE IF SHE'S DOING GOOD ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND GUESS WHAT.... SHE WILL BE DOING GREAT... IT WILL TAKE A LONG TIME AND SMART MIND FOR YOU TO COME BACK TO YOUR FEET BY THEN YOU WILL EVEN SEE HER GETTING MARRIED OR HAVING A CHILD ALREADY AND LOOKING HAPPY THEN SHE realized the man she ended up with is the wrong man and she's with a child.

By then u must have found someone else who even appear more beautiful to you... Though she won't be that beautiful but with her character... You will always choose her to any other girl.

I HAVE BEEN THERE EVEN WORSE

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ibietela2(m): 9:56am On Feb 28, 2019
You caused it
Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by ugoland2013: 9:57am On Feb 28, 2019
According to a movie "A Million Ways to Die in the West" which says that LOVE IS A TWO WAYS STREET. We men are always selfish in relationship,we always go after a lady we love or have lust for but never mind if she truly loves you as well. She has been with you for two years because you have been spending for her for two years not really that she loves you for that two years. Thanks.

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Re: She Broke Up With Me And Told Me I Am Destined To Be Poor by Nobody: 9:58am On Feb 28, 2019
She no get pant?.....

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