Our relationship was smooth until she's pregnant.. and demanded we abort the child,even though l'm not ready for it but l decided to keep the innocent baby.. .l sat her down to speak some sence into her and how to bring my people to their place... round up marriage things.
She insisted not yet ready for marriage now, abortion is the only best solution..then l told her straight away l'm not in support of that,but if she dare try it without my approval be prepared to face Arrest...l have the lab-result and also inform her mother about the situation,promise that l'm ready to marry her daughter...l can't believe a lady at 24yrs will be this naive?.. Without her acceptance there nothing my people can do,.l'm now having double mind toward marry her again .. focusing to secure the baby's life only...menn pls l need you guys advice oo...

It's a pity that you are not in her book of record again however, she has alternative in place pls delete her in your memory and move on with your life
Lobatan

she's doesn't love you bro, she's not seeing a future with you. Maybe because you're not financially balance. just allow her to abort the baby and get as far away as you can.


don't force anybody to marry you! How sure are you that the child is yours? You know how much you go use train pikin till the pikin grow? just allow her to abort the child, don't do something you'll regret later. Use your head bro

Baba she doesnt like u. Ur just a stop gap . If she born u ruin her chances of marrying richer dudes. Let her abort it jor

The pregnancy was a mistake. She doesn't see u in her future. Cuz at 24 most women would grab this opportunity. Let her be b4 u end up regretting tomorrow.

omoolorire:
It's a pity that you are not in her book of record again however, she has alternative in place pls delete her in your memory and move on with your life
Lobatan

My concern is the innocent baby..Even her best friend have warn her if she ever try abortion that's the End of their friendship,my guy also speak with her..will involve police arrest if she dare..

NNAMDIII:
she's doesn't love you bro, she's not seeing a future with you. Maybe because you're not financially balance. just allow her to abort the baby and get as far away as you can.


don't force anybody to marry you!

I'm no more interested in her again.. it's have open my eyes self..but Aborting the child no way..

Don't let her abort that baby,buh how sure are you that d baby x yuhs,cos Dix gals can be very funny most times, n don't marry her cos she's pregnant,dat ship can sink yuh life...find a common ground wiv her n her ppl

Joromi12:
Baba she doesnt like u. Ur just a stop gap . If she born u ruin her chances of marrying richer dudes. Let her abort it jor

Sorry sir no way..the child life must be Secure..her mother supported me and all her friends...

Ziel20:
The pregnancy was a mistake. She doesn't see u in her future. Cuz at 24 most women would grab this opportunity. Let her be b4 u end up regretting tomorrow.

l'm not interested in marry her again..but will never support abortion..

MRsoftapple:
Focus on keeping the baby alive and forget about marrying her.

She is of no good to you or your future, and your relationship with her was never smooth, if it was smooth, she would not have insisted on aborting her pregnancy.

She feels like the pregnancy is a stumbling block to her other runs which she have been engaged in, since you both started going out.

So my advice is to make sure she didn't abort the baby but don't ever ever get married to her.

Thanks that's exactly the families decision..

chikeorji123:
Our relationship was smooth until she's pregnant.. and demanded we abort the child,even though l'm not ready for it but l decided to keep the innocent baby.. .l sat her down to speak some sence into her and how to bring my people to their place... round up marriage things.
She insisted not yet ready for marriage now, abortion is the only best solution..then l told her straight away l'm not in support of that,but if she dare try it without my approval be prepared to face Arrest...l have the lab-result and also inform her mother about the situation,promise that l'm ready to marry her daughter...l can't believe a lady at 24yrs will be this naive?.. Without her acceptance there nothing my people can do,.l'm now having double mind toward marry her again .. focusing to secure the baby's life only...menn pls l need you guys advice oo...

Perhaps you not that which she seeks for a life partner. Perhaps she doesn't love you enough to birth you child. Don't force a woman into settling down with u to avoid stories that touch tomorrow

Headlesschicken:
Don't let her abort that baby,buh how sure are you that d baby x yuhs,cos Dix gals can be very funny most times, n don't marry her cos she's pregnant,dat ship can sink yuh life...find a common ground wiv her n her ppl

That's my next step,but need to make sure she doesn't play pranks... I which this is a dream.

chikeorji123:


l'm not interested in marry her again..but will never support abortion..

so who go come marry am with after one Wicked guy

chikeorji123:
Our relationship was smooth until she's pregnant.. and demanded we abort the child,even though l'm not ready for it but l decided to keep the innocent baby.. .l sat her down to speak some sence into her and how to bring my people to their place... round up marriage things.
She insisted not yet ready for marriage now, abortion is the only best solution..then l told her straight away l'm not in support of that,but if she dare try it without my approval be prepared to face Arrest...l have the lab-result and also inform her mother about the situation,promise that l'm ready to marry her daughter...l can't believe a lady at 24yrs will be this naive?.. Without her acceptance there nothing my people can do,.l'm now having double mind toward marry her again .. focusing to secure the baby's life only...menn pls l need you guys advice oo...

Arrest her, for what? She will miscarry the baby and you will arrest her? Sense is far from you.

chikeorji123:


Sorry sir no way..the child life must be Secure..her mother supported me and all her friends...

lol . I was once in ur shoes. Dated a gal for sex only and she carry belle. She removed it. Today she is a married woman with 2 kids. If she born den who for marry am. Dont be selfish

chikeorji123:


l'm not interested in marry her again..but will never support abortion..

And who is going to marry her?

chikeorji123:

I'm no more interested in her again.. it's have open my eyes self..but Aborting the child no way..

How sure are you that the child is yours?

chikeorji123:


Sorry sir no way..the child life must be Secure..her mother supported me and all her friends...

You can't force a person to birth your child. What if she ends up transferring aggression on d child

chikeorji123:


l'm not interested in marry her again..but will never support abortion..

you don't wasn't to marry her again, but you want her to keep your parasite. Abeg let her abort it joor.

Even theway you are threatening her, says a lot about you. Probably why she doesn't want to marry you or have your child. You must be that irresponsible.

You just want to ruin someone's life.

Joromi12:
lol . I was once in ur shoes. Dated a gal for sex only and she carry belle. She removed it. Today she is a married woman with 2 kids. If she born den who for marry am. Dont be selfish

thank you o. The op is just a hit and run guy.

funmisticqueen:
thank you o. The op is just a hit and run guy.

jeez coming from a lady. Abortion is illegal in nigeria. She could lose her life

Tina26:
jeez coming from a lady. Abortion is illegal in nigeria. She could lose her life

in the hands of a quack, not a licensed professional under standard medical conditions. That is why there's a difference between safe and unsafe abortion

chikeorji123:


My concern is the innocent baby..Even her best friend have warn her if she ever try abortion that's the End of their friendship,my guy also speak with her..will involve police arrest if she dare..

Talika Alagidi.
Young man, if U like invite God
Let the young lady choose what she wants for herself
& u, WORK EXTRA HARDER

I will advise you abort the baby and marry the lady when she's ready for marriage.
Do not let the baby spoil/hinder the love both of you share.

funmisticqueen:
in the hands of a quack, not a licensed professional under standard medical conditions. That is why there's a difference between safe and unsafe abortion

if there is no treat to the womans life it is illegal in nigeria. Stop supporting evil. They had sex what did they expect A car

funmisticqueen:
you don't wasn't to marry her again, but you want her to keep your parasite. Abeg let her abort it joor.

Even theway you are threatening her, says a lot about you. Probably why she doesn't want to marry you or have your child. You must be that irresponsible.

You just want to ruin someone's life.

I hate it when women play the victims card.

Did you read the part were the OP said he wants to marry her,but she blatantly refused? If he was selfish, do you think the OP would have involved her mum,her friends and even his?

You didn't also read the part were he said he wasn't ready to get married ab initio, but had to be responsible enough to want to marry her and keep the child, for me the girl is the irresponsible person here,if the story is anything to go by.

And FYI doctors can determine if a woman actually aborted or miscarried

By the way I am not wiping up sentiments here

chikeorji123:
Our relationship was smooth until she's pregnant.. and demanded we abort the child,even though l'm not ready for it but l decided to keep the innocent baby.. .l sat her down to speak some sence into her and how to bring my people to their place... round up marriage things.
She insisted not yet ready for marriage now, abortion is the only best solution..then l told her straight away l'm not in support of that,but if she dare try it without my approval be prepared to face Arrest...l have the lab-result and also inform her mother about the situation,promise that l'm ready to marry her daughter...l can't believe a lady at 24yrs will be this naive?.. Without her acceptance there nothing my people can do,.l'm now having double mind toward marry her again .. focusing to secure the baby's life only...menn pls l need you guys advice oo...

Shes probably not sure who the pregnancy belongs to. Double dating maybe .

MRsoftapple:
Focus on keeping the baby alive and forget about marrying her.

She is of no good to you or your future, and your relationship with her was never smooth, if it was smooth, she would not have insisted on aborting her pregnancy.

She feels like the pregnancy is a stumbling block to her other runs which she have been engaged in, since you both started going out.

So my advice is to make sure she didn't abort the baby but don't ever ever get married to her.

Please this is wrong advice! If she keeps it better marry her. Why tie down a woman with a child when you wont marry her?

chikeorji123:

I'm no more interested in her again.. it's have open my eyes self..but Aborting the child no way..

Hope you can cater for the child when born. No be Atutupoyoyo kind of pikin o! Standard upbringing is no joke o!

LyfeJennings:


Talika Alagidi.
Young man, if U like invite God
Let the young lady choose what she wants for herself
& u, WORK EXTRA HARDER

She have aborted the child ..now started apologizing.. have called off the relationship.. place a curse on her.