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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by CyberWolf: 10:23pm On Feb 28, 2019

You want us to clap for you because you messed up? Like the said, truth is always bitter. You won’t be missed so, ho ahead.

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by dmgr(m): 10:49pm On Feb 28, 2019

So u want to disactivate because of the truth u were told...even thou some people can be abusive with words sometimes, but u really fuked up nd u needed to be told the truth.

Just try to make amendments,because even if u disactivate now,that won't change anything

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by EmperorGE: 11:01pm On Feb 28, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

hahaha look at this one, you were hungry and went to a guy to feed you and you want us to clap for you?

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by anochuko01(m): 11:21pm On Feb 28, 2019

you dont help someone nurse an agenda you wont be part of.
i had a lady back in school who was fond of rubbing hands on me when she comes to our room. at some point i started using belt and wire on her until she stopped.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Deicide: 1:38am On Mar 01, 2019

Romance section is even calm enter Religion section and see grin

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Erums(m): 3:19am On Mar 01, 2019

Can you just get de Bleep out

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 3:31am On Mar 01, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

Sorry. I RETRACT my comment. Why do you post here if you don't have the hearts for it?

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 5:34am On Mar 01, 2019

Undertaker001:
same way women and their money entitlement mentality is annoying.
Deal with it

Then you guys should deal with it too.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 5:37am On Mar 01, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

lol don't go,just visit the family section or gaming section grin

you will like it there, my humble advice to you.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by starstaz(m): 5:40am On Mar 01, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

..
... So touching. U have to develop a thick skin to impervious commentaries from virtual faceless community. what are u gonna do if u are face with real time live people and event. U will want to commit suicide!! which is never an option.

The truth is people are programme to pull others down. The moment u realizes that the difficulties issues in Life have been solved by u.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 5:59am On Mar 01, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
..So by telling her the truth means I'm insensitive? I will say it again. Her boo called her cheap because she behaved cheaply. So if she is going to leave the forum because people here told her the exact thing her boo said,she should also leave him.Simple.Seems you can also call a guy that has been bugging you for sex anytime you are hungry to buy you food?

She said d guy has been keeping in touch with her and not bugging her for sex o. No I don't, unless I'm interested in that too.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 8:26am On Mar 01, 2019

EmperorGE:
hahaha look at this one, you were hungry and went to a guy to feed you and you want us to clap for you?

Not just a guy...this one has been pestering her to get down on it and she needed to explore and have fun.cheaps girls with shallow brain

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:46am On Mar 01, 2019

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
She said d guy has been keeping in touch with her and not bugging her for sex o. No I don't, unless I'm interested in that too.

..OK. Which means she was interested in the said guy?. If so,why are you then angry that she was called a cheap lady?.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 8:54am On Mar 01, 2019

JONNYSPUTE:
..OK. Which means she was interested in the said guy?. If so,why are you then angry that she was called a cheap lady?.

I don't understand your reasoning John. One can agree to hangout with someone just for d mere fun of it. Must I b interested in every guy I agree to go on a date with? Off course No

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Daeylar(f): 9:01am On Mar 01, 2019

Don't allow any of these internet gangsters to bully you out of this forum. See them trying to force you to accept abuse as a way of life. undecided

Just ignore and take the good advice, if you can't give the insults back hot or call the mods.

If only seun can give us a block button so we can block all these demons, but no. cry

Imagine a forum over 12 years old with 2m+ members yet no block button. cry

Seun why??

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by dreamwords: 9:55am On Mar 01, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 10:29am On Mar 01, 2019

dollytino4real:
wen am depressed I come to laff out my ribs. I will post and people will bash, beat, slap me it will make me laff aloud my neighbours dat saw me will even wonder just n.a. u carry ur phone u are laffing like dis! just enjoy ur stay here dont go

Yea sis, u got it, i com 2 nairaland wen i really need 2 laf grin

For serious issues, i knw where to go

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 10:37am On Mar 01, 2019

Deicide:
Romance section is even calm enter Religion section and see

Asin ehhh, dat Religion section na die n Politics section too...If u cant tolerate insults, dont even go ther

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 01, 2019

starstaz:
..
... So touching. U have to develop a thick skin to impervious commentaries from virtual faceless community. what are u gonna do if u are face with real time live people and event. U will want to commit suicide!! which is never an option.

The truth is people are programme to pull others down. The moment u realizes that the difficulties issues in Life have been solved by u.

She may not b a strong type, i agree wit dat n she needs 2 change.

However, d "ppl ar programmed 2 pull others down" tin is not true,leave NL for a while n go to "quora", u'l see "ppl ar programd 2 lift others up" cos d way quorans wil adress ur issue, half of ur problem will becom solved,u'l feel relaxed immediately.

If u dont av good contribution u simply pass n if u get more "downvotes" ur comment will be hidden from public eye.

Reddit is better too, i just dont know why we are like dis on NL

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Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 3:33pm On Mar 01, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

You aren't likely to find many matured posters on the Romance and Politics section of Nairaland. You should have posted your story on Family section.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 01, 2019

Deicide:
Romance section is even calm enter Religion section and see

You probably haven't checked out Politics section.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Deicide: 3:55pm On Mar 01, 2019

Daeylar:
If only seun can give us a block button so we can block all these demons, but no.
Imagine a forum over 12 years old with 2m+ members yet no block button.
Seun why??

So you handle life problem by blocking it away instead of facing them?

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 01, 2019

Hmmm.

@OP post.... i don't really see something wrong with those response from nairalander....except you want a pastor to advice you..

Most nairalander who comment hv develop a sense of hitting the nail directly at its head so its better you don't post it here.. grin

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Deicide: 5:42pm On Mar 01, 2019

5thElement:
You probably haven't checked out Politics section.

Am not into politics

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by bdchange(m): 6:03pm On Mar 01, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

See there are different kinds of people in this world no matter where you are, be it online or off-line. You just try to find balance in tolerating everyone as you dim fit. But concerning your last post.....https://www.nairaland.com/5052597/being-free-boo-ruin-relationship .. I believed by now if you have read through every comments there you should have known where your mistake lies. If you insist that you were not wrong at all then you still have a lot to learn when it comes to relationship. Note this: many will comments just choose the relevant ones and spit on the irrelevant ones and move on with your life.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Nobody: 6:53pm On Mar 01, 2019

Deicide:
Am not into politics

Doesn't matter, but I'm just saying that Politics section is more caustic than religion section.

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by Fidelismaria: 7:35pm On Mar 01, 2019

Lol

Cyber bully has gotten to you

Ndo

Develop a thick skin

The only section they don't bully is literature section cause people go there to actually read and escape reality unlike romance section where majority come just to bash and bully

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by JujuSugar(f): 5:25am On Mar 02, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

This post had me in stitches grin

.
My dear queenice7, what can i say?.....
This is the internet afterall..... hate it or love it.....
wink

Re: Finally Leaving An Abusive Forum by ReeLoaDead(m): 11:50pm On Mar 03, 2019

queenice7:
it amazes me the kinda people we av here in nairaland. I mean their thinking faculty is so poor and backward it baffles me... few times I av posted stuffs and seek for their advice's, but wot I get from u guys are mean, abusive, thoughtless, insensitive... like wtf, it make matters worst. do u guys know there's sth like depression?? u guys comments fuels it, insensitive most of de times.
the last straw that broke the camel's back was de last story I posted, few hours ago... almost non of the people that commented understood my story, ion know if dey read upside down even as I modified some parts several times and I tried to correct some people, yet you were so in a hurry to hurl abusive words @ me, u were so biased even when its obvious that its de guy I went out with that lacks good conduct, the guy that bulged me by calling me from time to time, asking me wen we'll see, nothing more...maybe coz am a girl in this part of the world... with my experience so far, I think this will be the last time am gona be posting anything here... and I'll advice that you don't av to use abusive words to make a point, you can still sound mature and yet make sense, moreover try to read and understand, and yes, respect the ladies and be equal in judgement...

What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. Do not leave NL because of a few miscreants/trolls/mean spirited individuals.
Cheers and good luck.

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