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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Tonalphs(f): 3:56pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


It is a mental world. The physical reality is just a 'manifestation' of our mental clockwork. I believe if most people can figure that out, they will understand that even their wives or husband are most times taken over by forces who seek to expose them to circumstances that will make them outgrow their levels and become a greater version of themselves.

It is an interesting world for me, but I find it hard to express it to people. It is a magical interconnected world and there are no coincidences. What we feel is what we attract.

The key is to feel nothing and do all that we can to be nature's robot and be used to build a great new Earth for Consciousness to thrive in, either in this body or the new bodies being built and function in perfect song, One Song meaning - Uni Verse.

I read everything, mostly online so I can read, research, build prototypes for businesses and corporate operations as well as teach others in great fora worldwide, as a citizen of the Universe. I am not perfect, and I can't expect to be, cos this world requires some measure of ego to balance the tides and Survive.
Thanks a bunch.... I read online stuff too
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Chubhie: 3:59pm On Mar 01, 2019
Tonalphs:
@Capensis.... The level at which you talk about mind power is mind blowing. I believe everything you wrote. We live in a mental world and not at all in the physical world. As long as OP continues to complain, he'll attract more reasons to complain..... It takes discipline and humility to connect with your higher self like Capensis is saying. It's only those with big Ego that will take your words with a pinch of salt. I've read quite some few books but I'll be glad if you recommended some more for me
Speaking about higher self, Not all higher selves are benevolent. Some people's higher selves could be deadly and brutal. I'm giving you a headstart.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 5:05pm On Mar 01, 2019
Chubhie:

Speaking about higher self, Not all higher selves are benevolent. Some people's higher selves could be deadly and brutal. I'm giving you a headstart.
This is impossible. The higher self is sublime and seeks only your highest good. How did you come about your own conclusions?

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Chubhie: 5:39pm On Mar 01, 2019
ThothHermes:
This is impossible. The higher self is sublime and seeks only your highest good. How did you come about your own conclusions?
Even Gods in far more higher realms are capable of both good and evil.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 5:48pm On Mar 01, 2019
Chubhie:

Even Gods in far more higher realms are capable of both good and evil.
The Atman is incapable of evil. Don't know where you got this from.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Chubhie: 5:51pm On Mar 01, 2019
ThothHermes:
The Atman is incapable of evil. Don't know where you got this from.
Shekeleke is capable of evil.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 01, 2019
Chubhie:

Speaking about higher self, Not all higher selves are benevolent. Some people's higher selves could be deadly and brutal. I'm giving you a headstart.

This is true, but just as humans on 3D, people are not bad all the time and good all the time, good people do bad things and bad people do good things, it all depends on what is on the timeline, sometimes it is happening for you to learn and grow or so you can resolve an issue or back off from doom, but then again it has to be based on your definition of good and evil. I see actions, I ascribe no feeling to it, so bad and good are so 3D.

I see actions, so if actions are interpreted as good or bad has more to do with the actions itself and the motive for it as well as if you are the originator of the action or the recipient of the effect.

The trick is always to be the originator, so you decide how to interpret it but if you end up being the target, you can choose how you feel by mastering your emotion.

Can you share your experience with Higher Selves and what actions were terrible to you?
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 5:56pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


This is true, but just as humans on 3D, people are not bad all the time and good all the time, good people do bad things and bad people do good things, it all depends on what is on the timeline, sometimes it is happening for you to learn and grow or so you can resolve an issue or back off from doom, but then again it has to be based on your definition of good and evil. I see actions, I ascribe no feeling to it, so bad and good are so 3D.

I see actions, so if actions are interpreted as good or bad has more to do with the actions itself and the motive for it as well as if you are the originator of the action or the recipient of the effect.

The trick is always to be the originator, so you decide how to interpret it but if you end up being the target, you can choose how you feel by mastering your emotion.

Can you share your experience with Higher Selves and what actions were terrible to you?
Da heq

What is the higher self?
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Mar 01, 2019
ThothHermes:
Da heq

What is the higher self?

You are still having your 3D experience. I do not think you'd actually understand until you have evolved further in consciousness.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 6:00pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


You are still having your 3D experience. I do not think you'd actually understand until you have evolved further in consciousness.
Billy.

Na today? grin
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 6:02pm On Mar 01, 2019
ThothHermes:
Billy.

Na today? grin

Young man, go and help momma with the dishes. We are having a conversation here.

And hey, Capensis, not Billy.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ThothHermes: 6:03pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


Young man, go and help momma with the dishes. We are having a conversation here.

And hey, Capensis, not Billy.
Of course.

Why should I deprive you of your flights of fancy

Enjoy.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 01, 2019
ThothHermes:
Of course.

Why should I deprive you of your flights of fancy

Enjoy.

Very much expected of a 3D human.

Thanks for passing by.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by ogawisdom(m): 6:34pm On Mar 01, 2019
Raalsalghul:
You are a very senseless human being. Ewu gambia

Lol
I assume that a woman is currently feeding a lazy idiot like u better go n hustle before it's too late mumu
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Chubhie: 7:20pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


This is true, but just as humans on 3D, people are not bad all the time and good all the time, good people do bad things and bad people do good things, it all depends on what is on the timeline, sometimes it is happening for you to learn and grow or so you can resolve an issue or back off from doom, but then again it has to be based on your definition of good and evil. I see actions, I ascribe no feeling to it, so bad and good are so 3D.

I see actions, so if actions are interpreted as good or bad has more to do with the actions itself and the motive for it as well as if you are the originator of the action or the recipient of the effect.

The trick is always to be the originator, so you decide how to interpret it but if you end up being the target, you can choose how you feel by mastering your emotion.

Can you share your experience with Higher Selves and what actions were terrible to you?
I agree with you. Not a terrible personal experience but, I've seen cases where so called enlightened ones mask their true intents in love and light while perpetuating their true selves under the radar. Take your time to see this observable reality all around you.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Mar 01, 2019
Chubhie:

I agree with you. Not a terrible personal experience but, I've seen cases where so called enlightened ones mask their true intents in love and light while perpetuating their true selves under the radar. Take your time to see this observable reality all around you.

We are not talking about 'enlightened humans', our discussion was about 'Higher Self'. If you have no direct experience of 'Evil' Higher Self, there is no point equating it with 'con gurus'

Thanks by the way.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Chubhie: 8:44pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


We are not talking about 'enlightened humans', our discussion was about 'Higher Self'. If you have no direct experience of 'Evil' Higher Self, there is no point equating it with 'con gurus'

Thanks by the way.
Enlightened/Higher self is it not about self-realization?
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Mar 01, 2019
Chubhie:

Enlightened/Higher self is it not about self-realization?

Not at all.

Enlightened is in nowhere associated with higher self as it does not need enlightenment, it is totally lightened and Self-Realization is totally on the 3D. In fact Higher Self is beyond God-Realization because Higher Self is not even Human on 3D. It is your Spirit Archetype, your future self outside Earth. It has always been the one holding the console of your life and has always been there pre-earth life and after. It is the real you outside this matrix.

You can likened the Higher Self to the Game administrator.

Do a little search online.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Chubhie: 9:05pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


Not at all.

Enlightened is in nowhere associated with higher self as it does not need enlightenment, it is totally lightened and Self-Realization is totally on the 3D. In fact Higher Self is beyond God-Realization because Higher Self is not even Human on 3D. It is your Spirit Archetype, your future self outside Earth. It has always been the one holding the console of your life and has always been there pre-earth life and after. It is the real you outside this matrix.

You can likened the Higher Self to the Game administrator.

Do a little search online.
I will take your word for it. I've got no urge for arguments.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 01, 2019
Chubhie:

I will take your word for it. I've got no urge for arguments.

How do you intend to argue about something you have zero knowledge of.

Ego belongs to the trash can sometimes.
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Martinez39(m): 11:29pm On Mar 01, 2019
Simplep:
Billionaire indeed,send me 50k na
Lol. If I hear say Capensis be billionaire. Who dash monkey banana? grin
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Martinez39(m): 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2019
EmpresFIDEL:
I thought you are intelligent from your previous post, you don't need to type this and think is funny.
Capensis is not intelligent. He has the delusion that he is intelligent and operating a higher level of understanding but in reality he is full of ridiculous garbages and a laughable sophistication. Just like all failed thinkers in an argument, he was trying to stir my emotions unto rage rather than face the argument but I am mature to not give him what he wants. grin
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Martinez39(m): 11:36pm On Mar 01, 2019
Capensis:


Gentlemen,

Ishilove is just one of the very many aggressive women out there, who have so much gamma energy in them due to your failure to 'tame' them seductively. I can not for any reason condescend so low to exchange words with a woman. They are our wives, our daughters, and our mothers.

I blame the man in her life for making her so aggressive because he has not made enough love to her to quench this aggression, which is just a feedback loop from excessive adrenaline secretions. Multiple orgasms would have generated enough sex hormones to neutralize this aggression. It is not her fault, it is our fault as men, for not doing it right to quench this aggression and I think you will aggree with me when I say, Ishilove is not the only victim of lack of enough orgasm. There are very many other unfuccked women like her.

So, please I will write a little template on how to tame the Lioness in 'Case Studies' like Ishilove:

Setting:

Place: Bedroom with a massage table readied.
Temperature: 23 Degrees
Sound: 2 Bluetooth wireless Boombox (Surround Sound preferably BlueRay)
Music: Boombox 1 - Jazz @ 15 decibels
Boombox 2 - 7.83Hz Binaural for Earth grounding @ 12 decibels.
Both sounds will mix to produce a sedating effect as if the lady is on crack-cocaine laced on cannabis sativa.
Lighting: Blue and Red Incandescent Light that mixes to produce Green in a dark room.
Tools: 3 Vibrators, 1 Love Machine, Massage Oil, Rosemary Candle.
Time: 2hrs.

Process: Let the Ishilove, steam for 15 minutes, run cold water through the body and clean up, lay her on the massage table for 5 minutes, get her just a glass of wine, not more, not less. Let the music, the temperate, the dark green room give her the necessary sedated effect.

Then place one vibrator in-between her thigh, one each nipple. And set it to vibrate at the lowest. Use the Love Machine, first to engage. Be creative there, cos although I can actually teach you the strategy on how to use, it is too graphic for the kids who might stumble on this.

Take is slow,but ensure she has at least 20 Orgasms within the 2 hours, then you can begin your sexual explorations as a man for the next 1hr or 2.

When you are through, walk her to the bathtub, and bath with her and keep her in warm embrace then clean her up and lay her on bed. Ensure you lie with her and 'pretend' to sleep along with her.

When she falls asleep. Sneak out and go to the club and be with the guys and get BJ from a slay queen and return soon enough to ensure she thinks you were with her all along. BUT if she finds out you went out, tell her a story that touches the Soul. How a friend of yours had so a terrible experience with the police and you had to go bail him out.

Learn to lie, it is a part of the game. BE A MAN, MASTER THE GAME.
You didn't disappoint in the spectacular art of absurdity. grin

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 02, 2019
Martinez39:
Capensis is not intelligent. He has the delusion that he is intelligent and operating a higher level of understanding but in reality he is full of ridiculous garbages and a laughable sophistication. Just like all failed thinkers in an argument, he was trying to stir my emotions unto rage rather than face the argument but I am mature to not give him what he wants. grin
nice one
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by eroticboy: 6:37pm On Mar 02, 2019
I am very eager to learn as much as I can.......
My philosophy in life is already very different from most.
Sometimes I feel like I am the only sane person when dealing with others.
I know I need to tweak what i know intuitively with practicality and more application.

I would be very glad if you could answer the following questions;
How can i get access to your masterclass?
How would you maximize time and money variables if starting from ground zero


Capensis:


Building Generational Wealth for your bloodline requires strict discipline and you must utilize uncommon laws of life as a guiding principle.

Many people 'hope' to succeed, yet they depend on 'prayer' 'hope' and 'faith' as well as 'belief'.

Yet we can not scientifically measure efficacy 'prayer','hope', 'faith' and 'belief'. So I teach my mentees, to discard all these parameters and work with only physical parameters that are quantifiable using the scientific scale.

The following Parameters are to be taken into consideration:
1. TIME - It is limited, just 24hrs in a day and everyone has just 24. But you can steal someone's else Time by enslaving them, or buy their Time by hiring them. Time is measurable.
2. Money - This is measurable, and it is just a tool, what you do with it, will either make it grow or fraction it, you must check inflation daily against your interest even for the cash at bank and if the bank interest rate is not higher than inflation, then your money has no business being in the account, so you need a vehicle that drives interest rate or ROI higher than inflation.

These and many more things I teach at MasterClasses for people who can not come to Business Schools locally and abroad.

When it comes to relationships, I will continue to take their girlfriends and wives, because I have the formula and the wealth and there is nothing anyone can do, not even their Gods can come close, cos I will fucckk with them real hard.

I'm I humble ? No!
Will I ever be Humble? Hell fucckking No!

Will I continue to share these advice for free. Not at all. I will just let the masses continue to live in the illusion of religions and suffer and die and be buried, and even the Luciferans will recycle their Souls and they will come back here and start again, cos they are too stupid to study the universe and develop generational wealth and secure their bloodline from the illusions of Sin.

This ofcourse is why women love me, and can die for me. Cos I tell them what their husbands and boyfriends will never know. And even after that, I still have great massages with them, and offer them tea on the bed.

Happily married but I must always play away, it is the nature of this planet.

You wanna learn from me? You should be prepared to become a new person, cos all that you were taught by your parents, are wrong. They do not know the facts of Truth because they had no access to the information I have from 5th Dimension. grin
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Mar 02, 2019
eroticboy:
I am very eager to learn as much as I can.......
My philosophy in life is already very different from most.
Sometimes I feel like I am the only sane person when dealing with others.
I know I need to tweak what i know intuitively with practicality and more application.

I would be very glad if you could answer the following questions;
How can i get access to your masterclass?
How would you maximize time and money variables if starting from ground zero



Take from others' 24hrs and use your 24hrs wisely, use every minute of the 24 hrs wisely and as many people's 24hrs you can use, the better. You can pay less (employer), or not pay them but have them work ignorantly for you (religions/mind control) or you force them to work free for you (slavery).

b) Find a free unlimited resource, use your brain and technology to transform it to products or service and sell it the ignorant masses. Eg Softwares, Games, Mining, Manufacturing, housing, banking etc.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Laadeh(f): 8:58pm On Mar 02, 2019
Capensis:


Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to do, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving you pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

Do you think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.
You are wise.
How can I give you a hug?!
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Mar 02, 2019
Laadeh:

You are wise.
How can I give you a hug?!

Hug Hug grin
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by sisieko02: 10:14pm On Mar 02, 2019
[quote author=Treasured4eva post=76130625]I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.

Awww, So sorry to hear this. She can change though. Some women already had enough of men before getting married and what I mean by had enough of men is that she probably had been through the worst in hands of men, so she’s become so hard at heart towards men and then she met you though she knew she wouldn’t stay single forever, got married and then continued taking the anger inside her towards men out on you her husband. So sorry.

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Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Akious2k2(m): 9:26am On Mar 03, 2019
Treasured4eva:


First of all,run a thorough background check to know the kind of family she comes from because a lion can't give birth to a lamb.

Second,try to know her past.If you find anything messy she's done that you can't forgive her for,end it there.

Thirdly,check her temperament and the manner she reacts to the silly things you do.If she tends to be rude and aggressively challenges you;don't think twice,end it.

Also,check how much she values and respects you when you're alone,with family members and friends.
If she's angry and you ask her to calm down,how does she react?

Finally,check how she handles your home when she comes around."Charity truly begins at home".A woman without good home training can never make a good wife.

I obviously saw all these red flags but ignorantly overlooked them,hoping that she'll change,but I got more than what I bargained for.
Noted... It beats me to think that we usually don't talk about love, beauty, stature and those other things that used to matter, when much younger, when it comes to marriage... I hope our 21st century ladies learn from this
Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Nobody: 12:37pm On Mar 03, 2019
[quote author=sisieko02 post=76294392][/quote]

You're obviously correct.

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