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I have met many guys who are of the opinion that all the ladies in Abuja are RunsGirls. I was conversing with an acquaintance who told me "Abuja girls ain't wife material" of which I innocently asked, what about the working class ladies? Dude let out a loud laughter before telling me that those ones are even the worst.
He mentioned bankers closing from work and resuming "Night Duty".

Out of Curiosity I asked him where he met his wife and he said "definitely not in Abuja".

Do you guys out there really see Abuja Based Ladies as such?

What brought about these negative mindset towards Abuja based Ladies?
I know hardworking responsible ladies here. As a lady if you can make it in Abuja, you can make it anywhere.

Not all but unfortunately that's the perception... I have seen ladies from remote locations do runs like their lives depends on it.

That's a hasty generalization mehn

89% of them are..

An average girl will do runs when the opportunity presents itself
It has nothing to do with location
Why Abuja seems to be on the front burner is because it situates the seat of power hence, easy leech for politicians
Girl na girl.....Money for hand, back for ground

tosyne2much:
That's a hasty generalization mehn

It is. I don't know who gave them that perception

dairykidd:
89% of them are..

99% even the ones working are hoes. Trust me i live there. Once you ready to pay or have the money. Its crazy

Pusyiter:
An average girl will do runs when the opportunity presents itself
It has nothing to do with location
Why Abuja seems to be on the front burner is because it situates the seat of power hence, easy leech for politicians
Girl na girl.....Money for hand, back for ground

One that relocated from Lagos when we got talking was saying his family warned him about Abuja girls. I didn't even bother to say anything sef.

Hmmm nice post.... abj girls are wired differently if u observe verywell... most abj girls have side hustle, if you know what I mean.... ashana

Robnectar:
Hmmm nice post.... abj girls are wired differently if u observe verywell... most abj girls have side hustle, if you know what I mean.... ashana

you sabi well.

finalboss:
99% even the ones working are hoes. Trust me i live there. Once you ready to pay or have the money. Its crazy

You are very correct.Those working class ones are even worse off.. I'm talking from experience bro

finalboss:
99% even the ones working are hoes. Trust me i live there

How so? Why would 99 percent of working class ladies be hoes? I thought working means financial independence? Or they hoe for the fun of it?


Please let's leave sentiments aside and discuss intellectually. As a sociologist, this is a social problem.

dairykidd:
You are very correct.Those working class ones are even worse off.. I'm talking from experience bro

Elaborate sir. How so?

80% true

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
It is. I don't know who gave them that perception

Experience my dear.. Experience

Robnectar:
Hmmm nice post.... abj girls are wired differently if u observe verywell... most abj girls have side hustle, if you know what I mean.... ashana

Abuja men thread loading soon. So why do you think that is so? What's so different about a Lagos girl and an Abuja girl?


This mindset is affecting the good ones.

I am in Abuja, but dunno what they keep saying about ABJ babes
Only thing is that, I don't really dig ABJ Babes

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
One that relocated from Lagos when we got talking was saying his family warned him about Abuja girls. I didn't even bother to say anything sef.

dairykidd:
Experience my dear.. Experience

How many experiences for you to conclude?

dairykidd:
You are very correct.Those working class ones are even worse off.. I'm talking from experience bro

once they collect your number thats all. Mostly female boutique owners And ones working in banks.

lilmax:
80% true

80%?

dairykidd:
Experience my dear.. Experience

hahaha. You nor need talk much brother

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Elaborate sir. How so?

I'm not saying all tho.. but a larger percentage of the working girls are ready to do anything to climb up the ladder above u or to sustain the fake lives they live and they got no fvcking conscience doing that. They are never satisfied with what they earn.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Abuja men thread loading soon. So why do you think that is so? What's so different about a Lagos girl and an Abuja girl?


This mindset is affecting the good ones.

really dunno abt lag sha. But abj Its business

finalboss:
once they collect your number thats all. Mostly female boutique owners And ones working in banks.

Even married ones sef.. Na that one dey make me fear pass. The way them dey bold and sometimes they forget someone can be watching. That was how i almost fell for one who had a big shop. She come young and fine + set join. The way she would touch and act like say she no get husband when i know the man and the guy dey try cos she clearly lacked almost nothing. It was God's grace that just helped me because i don already fall since.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
How many experiences for you to conclude?

If u are not among them just stay that way.. we all know the truth of the matter.

thats what first comes to my mind when i see an abuja based babe though i know not all are runz babes

dairykidd:
I'm not saying all tho.. but a larger percentage of the working girls are ready to do anything to climb up the ladder above u or to sustain the fake lives they live and they got no fvcking conscience doing that. They are never satisfied with what they earn.

okay. There's a pattern. I've been observing the social life here and the men are not helping matters.

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dairykidd:
If u are not among them just stay that way.. we all know the truth of the matter.

hmmm

lefulefu:
thats what first comes to my mind when i see an abuja based babe though i know not all are runz babes

Abuja based men, what do u think are people's perception about you guys?

Oyimeoyimemua:
... I have seen ladies from remote locations do runs like their lives depends on it.

those na local mgbekes dat sleep with bikemen and bus conductors for 2k

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
okay. There's a pattern. I've been observing the social life here and the men are not helping matters.

Yeah... the old rich married men