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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by MSEdLAW(m): 9:22am On Mar 18, 2019
Oyindidi:
You do babysitting job as she go see her ex grin no get me wrong, that baby for restrict them if something wrong be want happengrin

She just see them as friends and that friendship dey wrong. One of them fit do bad thing with her one day.

Make her see reason why e dey wrong to go visit any ex. Tell story how men dey take advantage of that kind relationship. Remind her sey old firewood no dey quench. Best of luck in your marriage, you go overcome this challenge, the marriage still young.


Which marriage an adult with a personality disorder can’t be helped it’s her personality to be a flirt .. That marriage is DEAD ON ARRIVAL
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by frank417: 9:22am On Mar 18, 2019
John is the ex, d preek is for sex.
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by STRENGTHesq(m): 9:22am On Mar 18, 2019
danniyal:
Guy you try o… you sit at home dey baby-sit another man pikin while your wife went out to get the second one
shocked

Chisos! !!
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Heffalump(m): 9:22am On Mar 18, 2019
@OP, sorry to say that your wife is not ready to settle down with you!

She has an ulterior motive and that makes it easy for her to still confabulate with her ex's
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by DonBenny77(m): 9:22am On Mar 18, 2019
Return her her to her parents now its just one kid and marry a good wife that will make you happy.

This your wife no get sense at all

Ex is ex

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by uuzba(m): 9:23am On Mar 18, 2019
kekemah:
you should have married a virgin.
Are you yourself a virgin?
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by bizza45: 9:23am On Mar 18, 2019
didn't u guys date b4 u got married, didn't u notice all these b4 saying i do, anyway simply take her to her papa house and tell her anytime she is done with her exterminator and ex-caliba weapon and exodus, she can call u let u decide her fate

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by LibraKing: 9:23am On Mar 18, 2019
You are not being man enough, even when your wife gets bold to talk about her ex, no problem, but visiting the ex in the excuses of condolences visit, join her in the 11th hour, tell her you need to go with her as a family with your kid , beside you plan visiting a friend next street. If she did not panic, maybe she is honest, there are chances your wife is getting and digging for opportunities to Bleep around.

Wise up. Condolence visit is not stricted, she should even urge you to join her to show case her pride to the ex. I dont see anything being friendly oooo . But chances are when the friendly goes lonely in a room between ex.....booom....pants will be off

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:23am On Mar 18, 2019
Please be very very careful of such woman. I have a lot of ex and some of them still disturb me. That's how our ladies of now does. She either likes money or dick. My exes likes me cos I'm a little better than their husband not because of my dick but because of money. Though I've run away from them not to spoil my marriage. Don't relax on this, she's very obsessed with exes for that two reasons nothing more. Don't wait till she kill you. Those are the type of wife that tell ex that my husband have big tommy, his dick is small, he can not Bleep me very well. Just a lot of bla bla bla. Watch your back

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by lastempero: 9:23am On Mar 18, 2019
To marry self don tire person.

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by olisaEze(m): 9:24am On Mar 18, 2019
Marriage is not boyfriend & girlfriend! Ur wife still doesn’t understand that she is not in a relationship but a marriage. If she just sends her condolences and refuses to attend the burial what will the ex do, Re-dump her again!? And what d hell does “he can’t think of anyone that’ll console him like her” mean!!? What kinda lame line is that? She’s not ready for marriage joor. Lay down the rules like a man and quit being used by ur old lady; it’s ur way or the good ol’ highway!

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Labsinp: 9:24am On Mar 18, 2019
All I know is, you cannot stop a woman from doing what she has in mind to do, thank God you know they are her exes, if the pressure is too much on her, she might starts lying to you , probably what you should do is, find a way to replace her Sim card to make her loose contact with some of them, since they are many and after that inform her parent to talk to her, if no visible progress then know fully that you married to a wrong fellow. You are too young to develop unnecessary high BP.

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by oshudu(m): 9:25am On Mar 18, 2019
Guy you better do something before something doing the wife is truly cheating on you since she still having the contacts off all her ex this is very serious you better do something before something you she's really cheating on you
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by MissingBudget: 9:25am On Mar 18, 2019
Relating at that level with exes is very wrong. She's married for goodness sake! Why didn't she marry them? Or maybe she married you because you're more financially stable?

Please involve her family as soon as possible. Let them talk sense into her. The world is becoming more twisted, those guys might sleep with your wife and it won't be funny.

I'm sorry to say, but I suspect she MIGHT be the type guys call 'free-giver'. Involve her family, because it also seems she's losing respect for you.
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Malawian(m): 9:25am On Mar 18, 2019
pansophist:
What I have noticed about women is that sometimes, they take actions without understanding the scope of its consequences, focusing only on their own frame, and not the whole picture.
You have made another error and our women will just be laughing at our gullibility. Exactly what makes you think they don't think things through before going ahead with it? Believe me when i tell you this, They have thought of it all and informing you before hand was just to cover their bases. If you think she wasn't intended to go have something fishy out there, why would she fight you for expressing your misgivings?

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by uuzba(m): 9:25am On Mar 18, 2019
DonBenny77:
Return her her to her parents now its just one kid and marry a good wife that will make you happy.

This your wife no get sense at all

Ex is ex
Why give bad advice?
What else destroys a marriage than a previous marriage with children?
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Till death do you part. Is that not the oath you swore at the alter? If you can't swear the oath, please, you are not mature for marriage. Forget it.!
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Oyindidi(f): 9:25am On Mar 18, 2019
MSEdLAW:



Which marriage an adult with a personality disorder can’t be helped it’s her personality to be a flirt .. That marriage is DEAD ON ARRIVAL
She may not be doing anything yet. The problem I see is a woman being childish. She will change

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Maski87: 9:25am On Mar 18, 2019
Now I miss the days you could marry as many women as you can afford,all this exes,me I know that I can still knack 90% of me exes.

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by UzomaFC: 9:26am On Mar 18, 2019
Bros, am married for 9 yrs now, one thing U should understand is this, marriage is a means where children born in Gods way will torment the devil, therefore the devil will always try to put a problem to cause disunity among husband n wife. I got to learn this in a hard way n since I knew about it, I enjoyed my marriage to this day.
As a man of the house U re a priest which should keep a watch over ur house, unless the Lord build the city, the builders build in vain.

Adam was not paying attention to Eve that was y satan the devil had his way in tempting her n both fell.
In the midnight, pray over ur wife n take ur stand to stop n close every lopehole U see.

Biko, stop her 4rm going to see any1 called ex in love n pray over her n ur family.

Marraiage was instituted by God, pls goto Him to help U.

Regards

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by egojeny1(f): 9:26am On Mar 18, 2019
GlorifiedTunde:


I support everything you said 100%

You're truly an experienced man and mature like the OP.

People still don't understand the value of clonning a suspicious partner's phone.

It's not always bad

I'm a strong advocate of being a good husband, but a lot of wives are abusing those privileges these days.
Abeg mk una teach me how to clone someone's phone
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Ten06(m): 9:26am On Mar 18, 2019
This is what happen when a guy use his wife to do girlfriend and use his girlfriend to do his wife. You better stand your ground and stop your wife from visiting her exes or you will later find out in life that the children you call your own are not yours. It is very clear that your wife does not love you. Gift her to one of her exes

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Orpe7(m): 9:26am On Mar 18, 2019
Your marriage is still very much fresh in her eyes, having a child for u doesnt mean she has fully grasped the concept of marriage
Just speak to her kindly i am certain she would understand and come around
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by LadyHal1(f): 9:26am On Mar 18, 2019
you mean she didn't even go with her baby to the so called condolence cost? That's serious

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Mutemenot(m): 9:27am On Mar 18, 2019
GlorifiedTunde:


My brother, it's not always so.

We're usually not 60% of who we are in marriage before marriage
For the woman to boldly mention her several EXs to the husband, it means she sang them like song even b3fore the marriage. There are certain things we don't have to underate before marriage...

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by uzoexcel(m): 9:27am On Mar 18, 2019
Y'all make people like us scared of marriage.

I am a partial introvert; i love having rest/peace of mind especially in my home.I honestly do not know how i am gonna react when/if faced with such issues.

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by siralos135: 9:27am On Mar 18, 2019
Please bro, Prayerfully consider your reactions to her deeds.Don't take every trash you hear here o.A whole lot of people who are still living with their parents offering advises.

I will strongly advise you consider her elder brother who is a pastor who can talk some sense to her
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Nobody: 9:28am On Mar 18, 2019
If you think some Celebrities' decision to remain single is wack, you're mistaken. This is the type of sh*t that happens in this Jet age. Alot of women just dont understand what is called "submission". If you are married, u dont have ANYTHING to do with your Ex anymore....i mean Anymore. This applies to both sides. You try your very best to do what pleases your spouse. That is what makes a Marriage work. Anything outside of this would lead to hurting your spouse. OP, your wife is fvcking her ex(s). Its a very simpu sturvz.

Since the day i made a simpu decision to remain single, my life has been soo great and enjoyable. Stable finances and all the good sh*t. It aint easy to stay single but trust me it doesnt have any pains whatsoever.
#MGTOW

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by degab148(m): 9:29am On Mar 18, 2019
This ur woman go sabi Mathematics o, she just dey find "X" Upandan.... How many Ex she get biko? Honestly bro, u're not at fault. Just be vigilant and be prayerful.... Devil wan follow back door get u, but e no go werk.

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by seenter84: 9:30am On Mar 18, 2019
Phunk her brains out.
She will have sense.
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by MissingBudget: 9:30am On Mar 18, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lies. I don't even have any ex number. Onward March code.

People make stupid generalizations. I've had only one ex, and I don't even remember her. Next girl I will have anything with, will be my wife. So how will I have a thing for the ex again? Mtscheew!
Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by Grupo(m): 9:30am On Mar 18, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
@Op don't allow unnecessary pressures break your home.

You guys should communicate more as an equal. Best you give her the benefit of the doubt.

Yes, continue to give benefit of the doubt until she carry HIV come give you, then you go die for nothing.

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Re: What Is It With My Wife And Her Past Boyfriends? by DanDeeBoss(m): 9:30am On Mar 18, 2019
creepsyme:
Sincerely your wife thinks she did you a favour by marrying you. Act fast otherwise you may end up becoming a virtuous man in your marriage.
I like your signature( I have always thought about it), it's a win-win for you smileysmiley

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