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NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Not all.

Lol, I am telling you that the majority are. It's risky dating an undergraduate not in this dispensation of brain dead people. They are in school exploring themselves, cohabiting, and doing all sort of things for the fun of it. Thinking there are exceptions is funny. The low number of these exceptions are negligible and as such you can't make a conclusion with them.


Are you an undergraduate? Are you an exception?

forgive her but don't accept her back. you will see someone better

Please search for this book and read it. The rational male by Rollo Tomassi. I promise you, that after finishing the book, you will transform into a better man, and have a thorough understanding of gender dynamics. Your ignorance is your weakness, and you must cure it. Be warned, your whole perspective of women will change after reading this book, you will be sad your father/guardian didn't teach you all these, to make your life easier navigating dating scene and dealing with women. It is a secret girl don't want you to know, their power lies in your ignorance. Goodluck.

Goldstar24:
forgive her but don't accept her back. you will see someone better

Should I forgive you?

mrphysics:
Should I forgive you?

me? what did I do

Goldstar24:
me? what did I do

For resurfacing online on this post makes me think you're OP's girlfriend.

mrphysics:
Lol, I am telling you that the majority are. It's risky dating an undergraduate not in this dispensation of brain dead people. They are in school exploring themselves, cohabiting, and doing all sort of things for the fun of it. Thinking there are exceptions is funny. The low number of these exceptions are negligible and as such you can't make a conclusion with them.


Are you an undergraduate? Are you an exception?

I was. No I wasn't an exception to be frank.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I was. No I wasn't an exception to be frank.

Cool, glad to get an honest response from you.

Undergraduates should be for undergraduates. It's very risky having anything to do with a student.

mrphysics:
Cool, glad to get an honest response from you.

Undergraduates should be for undergraduates. It's very risky having anything to do with a student.

Aii

mrphysics:
For resurfacing online on this post makes me think you're OP's girlfriend.

lol
i am not
I saw the post and decided to give him my own advice

Goldstar24:
lol
i am not
I saw the post and decided to give him my own advice

lol. This is not your main account

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Aii

I don't trust you

mrphysics:
I don't trust you

I never asked to be trusted.

mrphysics:
lol. This is not your main account

it is

Why?? Dont be falling for this bs it's crazy she'll Bleep you up again mothafucker. Use your energy for better things. "Choose wisely"

CyberWolf:
Another loser crying here.. Promise her marriage and project her hopes to high heaven, then get another nice girl and marry while she is waiting.. Make sure she finds about it on social media. When she confronts you, tell her that she is a cheat and a fvcking animal.

I support you bro

Goldstar24:
it is

Lol, I see. Stay safe

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I never asked to be trusted.

You just did Nwanyi

daddytime:
Kill her..joking oo

I no even understand how and why una dey mumu for women matter aswear....women wey jabrata for town sotey e don become buy one get two free?

You were/are dating an unrepentant whoring bitch who'd never change. You'd be doomed if you wifed this bitch.

Her actions were premeditated without any recourse or remorse to your feelings.

She isn't sorry for cheating on you...she's mad at herself for getting caught and busted because she'd be losing all the goodies from your end with which she and her original boyfriend were flexing on.

You were just a spare tyre means to an end funding another man's pussy and paying him handsomely for fuckiing his own pussy indirectly.

To the pit latrine girl...her question would be " why didn't I carry my brother along in this work" she'd have a hard time forgiving herself but she has learnt a new lesson for her next victim. Her work for never tear and you for still dey for e-dating (whatever that means). Me I dey live for real world and deal with every issue as such.

For your mind you get babe for Nigeria...how a man who is awoke will buy a story of my cousin slept in my house so so and so time is mind boggling.

The other part wey make me laff come pee for body...na say na the number of times wey she Bleep una come dey argue about...whadaheck? This just gave me an idea to develop an app or meter that could tell how many dickks has gone in and out a pussyy same for a dickk...na you go be my first customer for this amazing product wey I wan invent...

Are there no women in your neck of the woods in the Abroad.

Me thinks only weak men who are looking for some cheap naive girls who they can impress and oppress with whatever opt for this kinda mail order bride arrangement.

Find woman around you wey dey see the same kevel wey your eye dey see marry am you and am go work well because you both know whats up...

Anywhere wey man dey fit make him life get sense na im be him Lagos or abroad o...

Na toilet full the streets pass these days I don tell una...
I hail una...

You must shine eye for today's world like my daughter here...

I just read this comment and my desire to continue reading more comments just vanished. Guy, u have said it all and even beyond. I love your expression and presentation.

Nothing to add or remove. Everything you said here are 100% true. Am not the op but if I were to be the op, I will break my safe to buy this comment.

MrLankeeee:
Forgive her bro, but go get yourself a new bae, what she will do next might kill you.

That's it bro! You nailed it!

pansophist:
Thanks man, although I prefer money instead. Make I send account number?

you bad gan!! Nor worry, your next killer comment, I’ll reward you hugely.

mrphysics:
You just did Nwanyi

when kwanu

starring:
She's 22 yrs.. I'm faithful, I don't have time hoeing around. If I do the same, I don't have any right to be hurt

Obviously, bringing the matter here shows you really love the girl and you are seriously considering forgiving her and letting her back into your life.

If you do let her back, prepare to go for regular medical checkups for STDs, make sure you don't have any risk of high BP, be willing to swallow her lies like fufu.

And if you do decide to marry her, every time God blesses your family with child make sure you do a DNA test on the child and be prepared to share your wife's warm thighs with her numerous "cousins" and "uncles".

stupidity:
you bad gan!! Nor worry, your next killer comment, I’ll reward you hugely.

Why you de postpone me na ?

If this comment deserve a reward, then you suppose change the reward to money. Oya tell me say na play

Make I send account number ?

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

jst tell her u need more space for nw

Nairalanders. Sorry to interrupt. Kindly assist to complete 3 questions about an international oil company in France?

It is for my academic project.

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Thanks alot!

starring:
I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

Same thing ubunja keep hitting on in his epistles, the easiest time to sex a lady is when she is in an emotional state. If at all she felt guilty on the first trial with the so-called cousin, turned out the nigga was a good fucker and he ended up entering in and out of the gate with freewill.

If at all this story is legit, I for one would not accept a lady that cheated on me once, I don't know about you Op.

Though nut to crack

Sparro:
I just read this comment and my desire to continue reading more comments just vanished. Guy, u have said it all and even beyond. I love your expression and presentation.

Nothing to add or remove. Everything you said here are 100% true. Am not the op but if I were to be the op, I will break my safe to buy this comment.

Thanks bro

Are u crazy ?

D poor gal must chop D na while u are away, it's normal

starring:
Good day fellow Nairalanders

I met this girl last year July through a good friend, while I was oversees, we started e-dating and everything went smoothly although, we had series of misunderstandings during December last year but we resolved it afterwards

She called me and told me to me about a particular guy that comes to sleep at her room (she's still schooling), she said the guy was her cousin. I had to believe her because according to her, he is a cousin and I don't think they will be romantically involved in anyway.

The guy slept in my GF's room 3 different times that I'm aware of. He spent 5days the first time, the second time he spent close to a week, the third, he slept and left the following day. She told me each time the guy was visiting, this made me trust her and believed that the guy was her cousin.

My GF and I had a serious argument and misunderstanding this January, my girlfriend's brother had to step in and begged on her behalf. GF's brother and I spoke at length and I used that opportunity to ask my GF's bro about the guy my girlfriend introduced to me as her cousin.

Her brother told me they are not related by blood in any way, that they are JUST close family friends and nothing more and moreso, the guy in question once asked my gf out but due to the closeness of the family, my guy's mum playfully declined the request. Immidately he said this, my blood pressure increased, my heart beat increased 100x faster, one million and one thoughts ran through my head.

Though, I once asked her why the cousin always come to her room and stay longer period of days before leaving, the answer she gave me was that the guy is a serving corps member and whenever he wants to visit his family, he branches to her place and spend some time with her before going home (when I was in Nigeria, I do visit my cousins and spend time with them before leaving so I had no issues with the guy coming over if truly they are related)

To cut the long story short, I asked her about the true identity of the guy, she told me the truth and she swore that they did nothing during her so called 'cousin' numerous sleepovers in her room. I forgave her for lying to me and we moved on.

I got back to Nigeria last month and a source disclosed to me that my GF and her 'cousin' had sex more than five different occasions. (I don't want to reveal my source, my gf is an active nairalander)

I called her and told her about what I heard. She denied at first but later told me that they had sex 4 different times while I was away. (I'm dead sure it must be more than 4 times) She said they made out when we had issues during the December time. If this is true, they had sex 4 DIFFERENT OCCASIONS within the space of 31 days. (if not more than 10 times sef)

I'm so devastated right now. We saw over the weekend, she wasn't feeling too well, I picked her from her school to the school hospital and later brought to my house. She spent the night at my place and begged me all through the night for me to forgive her and that she is truly sorry for the pain she caused me, she also begged in the car with tears and mucus all over her face while I was dropping her off to her place. She said she is a changed person and that her life will be meaningless if I leave and that everybody deserves a second chance.

I honestly don't know what to do at this juncture. I don't tolerate infidelity of any kind more reason why I'm straightforward and loyal to her. I told her I have forgiven her because she wouldn''t leave my car if I don't forgive her. She kept crying and crying making passers-by wonder if I'm trying to kidnap her or something, I felt uncomfortable with the whole situation. The truth is that my heart is far from her the very moment she admitted to having sex with the guy while in a relationship with me. I find it highly disturbing.

How do I leave her without making her hurt herself because she may get herself killed once it's obvious that i am gone for good and secondly, if truly she's changed, is her sin really forgivable and forgettable?

oga, take this advice from a man who has seen things and have interacted with a lot of elderly men.

If you want to live long and be happy, flee from her. Unless you don't really like yourself.