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Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OILOFGLADNESS: 12:36pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
1StopRudeness: I READ IT FULLY WELL YU ARE THE ONE THAT CANT COMPREHEND.. HE SAID THAT SHE DOESNT CARE IF HER HUSBAND POSTS HER PIC OR NOT, THAT IF HE POST AND TAG HER SHE WOULD UNTAG HER SELF>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> I REPEAT, THEY ALREADY HAD @ KIDS, THE GUY IS HANDSOME AND TALL AND ALSO WELL TO DO, MARRIED THE LADY AT THE AGE OF ABOVE 30!, SHE IS A MEDICAL DOCTOR! NOT EVERYONE LOVE DISPLAYING THEIR HUSBANDS OR WIVES THEY CAN POST PIX OF OTHERS BUT , NO< NO ,NO, NOT Their LEGIT PARTNER!! LET ME TELL YOU, I DO THE SAME AS WELL AND MY ADVISE TO THE OP, PLEASE IF U WANT IT, ROMANTICALLY TELL HER< WITH ALL HUMILITY, AND SEE IF SHE CANT, AFFECTION, FRIENDSHIP, ROMANTIC.. YOU CAN GET ANY LADY DO ANYTHING FOR YOU, IF YOU THE ABOVE, SHE NO DEY CHEAT, SHE DON BORN BABy< HSE TAKES CARE OF YOU, NA TO ADVERTISE YOU FOR SOCIAL MEDIA>>>>>>>>>> MY GUY YOU NO GET PROBLEM>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> TOUCH HER SOFT SPOT AND TELL HER THAT YOU WANT HER TO ADVERTISE YOU, AND SEEE THE OUTCOME>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> GOODLUCK 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by nwanyionitsha: 12:36pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:She also posted pictures of her male colleagues on their birthdays and said sweet things about them on social media. Comma dey. For me, the flag came up when i read the above 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Omoluabi16(m): 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
nwanyionitsha:Don't mind them. They want the man to pretend all is well, when it isn't. Nobody would take this coldness. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OILOFGLADNESS: 12:44pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
@ OP I Promise you, if you follow all these childish nairalanders advise , you will have problems in your sweet home!!!!!! YOU GOT NO PROBLEMS I AM A LADY, EVEN TOWARDS THE TIME I WANT TO MARRY, BECAME SCARCE IN SOCIAL MEDIA ESPECIALLY FACEBOOK SHE LEAVES HER PHONE AND DONT BOTHER CHECKING YOURS ( EXACTLY MY KIND OF PERSON) LIKE I SAID< CHECK WHETHER YOU PAMPERS HER OR YOU ARE A BIT HARSH OR NON AFFECTIONATE, MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING <<AFTER ALL SHE WORKS AND CAN BUY A CAR< SO WHATS BIG DEAL YOU ARE THE MAN OF THE HOUSE AND CAN GET HER DOWN ANYTIME, IF YOU WANT HER TO POST YOUR PIX TODAY< SHE WILL, JUST DO THE NEEDFUL< IN FACT FORCE HER ROMANTICALLY, THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM AT ALL>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.............. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Nicole995: 12:47pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
The major difference between you and the posters wife is im guessing you make your husband feel loved. He knows you love him. In the case of the poster, he knows she doesnt love him. He cant feel it. This isnt about showing off on Social Media. The dude doesnt just feel loved. megareal: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by LordKO(m): 12:47pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
@OP You may not have married the most altruistic and conscientious woman in the world - perfection is still of the most high God - but, believe you me, that you're married to a strong-minded woman. . . a gold. Her non-PDA "imperfection" towards you isn't an act of manipulation, this is what matters the most in a case like this. Her non-PDA towards you doesn't mean that she loves you less - talking about the compound/bigger love here, the love that matters, not fancy/physical love. Her non-PAD imperfection is an attitude present in almost all altruistic and conscientious people - some are more extreme than others though - so non-altruistic and non-conscientious people (egotists, egoists and narcissists) must learn to tolerate it when dealing with her type. In her you won't be dealing with an insatiable woman, contentment and self-effacement are her major hallmarks/attributes - she'll only rebel against you if you become lazy and/or irresponsible. I have no doubt that she's reserved, however, she's neither introverted nor timorous. Obviously she's powered by grit rather than greed. In her you've a woman that'll be forever loyal in particular and faithful in general to you, so long as you remain good towards her in particular and every good thing she sincerely holds dear in general. Yes, I feel your pain, but the best thing you can do at this point is to master the act of accepting her for whom she's. If you can conquer your entitlement of wanting her to embrace PDA towards you, I can assure you of a near perfect marriage till the end of time - all things being equal. She's more like a woman version of me. In fact, she's even better than me in the sense that she does post photos of her parents and siblings and colleagues and celebrate with them on their special occasions like birthday and its ilk. Personally, you can't/can hardly caught me doing any of such. Also, I'm more inclined in giving than in receiving, but I don't fancy my beneficiary expressing needless excitement. A sincere "thank you" is always enough for me. Of course, I don't express excitement when someone does something good for me, except a sincere thank you too and effort (at the back of my mind) in reciprocating the good gesture in multi-fold in the near future. More so, I find it easy to send congratulatory message on birthday or similar celebration to acquaintances than doing so towards my close relations, not because I love the latter less, in fact, I can die for them. I don't see any new acquisition or accomplishment as a big thing, so I neither revel when opportune to get something new and great done nor communicate same to anyone. I have been privileged to be in some of the most interesting and beautiful places in the world, but I don't have a single photo to show for same because such isn't my thing - it doesn't make those that have interest in such bad though. Once more, you have a gold, just strive to conquer your entitlement of wanting her to embrace PDA towards you and accept the hard fact that perfection is of the most high God. Liberty - her liberty - will surely be her priciest/most cherished asset, avoid trying to take it away from her if you need continual peaceful coexistence with her. Her behavior towards you didn't suggest that she married you out of availability rather than desirability as many have suggested, because she didn't mete out any form of psychopathic action and inaction against you - one who marries you out of availability rather than desirability will surely do that. Yet, she can do better if she puts in some effort. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by manitoba(m): 12:48pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
I don't know why young people of nowadays prefers Social media validation for their life. Mr Man, it is not everyone that prefers living their life on SM. It is good for you if you reveal less about you on SM. All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Nicole995: 12:51pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Shes doing these things as a duty. Shes a dutiful wife. rOsy247: |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Nobody: 12:51pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
victorian:Alright, that's good. I want to connect with u. I'll DM you via email |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by nwanyionitsha: 12:53pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Ttrrffyyghuuh:I agree with you. Probably the guy is an older ,rich handsome man. Definitely not younger. A younger rich and handsome man may not be this patient. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by nwanyionitsha: 12:56pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Acidosis:Another good response, but what if she decides to seek attention elsewhere when he withdraws his attention and affection? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by kyella(f): 1:08pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
just let her be..treat her d exact way she treats u. ..intentionally turn down her efforts to do something nice for u...and u stop doing same for her...not saying u should maltreat her ooo..am saying I should take care of urself ..intentionally forget a birthdays,don't hang with her family or tell her about ur day. .most times women take for granted men when they 're to affectionate. .live for ursrlf and us child 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by kyella(f): 1:11pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
nwanyionitsha:then it's not his fault...it is what she wanted all d while. .it's sickening to give love and receive nothing in return 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Evercurious(f): 1:14pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Bonebreaker: How can a 30 year old lady be termed 'old'? I really fear for our mentality here in Nigeria |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Omoluabi16(m): 1:15pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Ishilove:I disagree here. Uploading your wedding picture is not a sin.Using your better half as D.p on their special day is not bad. These are not everyday events.. Then going lengths as to cropping him out of a picture is something I fail to understand. This is just another way of showing you truly appreciate the person.He is not asking for too much. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by OILOFGLADNESS: 1:18pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Evercurious: DONT MIND THEM ,, A PRACTICING DOCTOR AT 30yrs. YOU GUYS THING MARRIAGE IS AN ACHIEVEMENT SHE SIMPLY DIDNT SEE IT AS AN ACHIEVEMENT, ITS SOMETHING ORDAINED BY GOD AND MUST HAPPEN. UNA THINK SAY < SHE BE JOBLESS HUSBAND SEEKING LADY < TO BE ADVERTISING HUSBAND ON SOCIAL MEDIA IS SHE A CELEBRITY ? OR IS THE HUSBAND A CELEBRITY? NKOGHERI 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Nobody: 1:23pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
OILOFGLADNESS: See....its one thing not too post ur man on ur cyber space...and do whatever u want with ur space....why on earth would a wife complain what a man does with his own cyber space to the extent of saying don't post my pics or tag me.....if that isn't selfishness then I don't know what is....it's not a surprise u don't see anything wrong with it...uve said u do the same as well...so best of luck with you and ur husband... |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by SamOyovwi: 1:33pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
And age nor dey your side. Women select too much until they get old start regretting because nobody will interested again. victorian: |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Nobody: 1:38pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Creampro: No she is a social media person because she posts her pictures, she posts her pictures with her kid, and she posts pictures of her male colleagues. I know a Sri Lankan woman like this who I used to work with she flirts with me a lot and she bugs me to let her move into my house because she wants to leave her husband, true story. She doesn’t have any of her husbands picture on fb either, I know for sure she cheats on her husband. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Evercurious(f): 1:42pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
koyyes: Hope you wont mind a peck from me. I still d9nt understand how people would term a 30 year old lasy as old. Sorry at that age , marriage wasnt evn close to my list 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by MrLankeeee(m): 1:45pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
constanceibe: You b goat, Mumu read the post well. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by SamOyovwi: 1:49pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
You don't need to watch are phone. It might cause you to do something you will regret forever. That's wrong fastseo: |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by gaby(m): 1:56pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
megareal: Do you also show off your pics and crop off your husband from the photograph or go chatty chatty with male colleagues online? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 1:56pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
MyFlair: OK cool. What's your email id? |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by victorian(f): 1:59pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Francejaik: Really? It's my real face. I like makeup, but light ones. If u see excessive makeup, u go bow. I'm even learning where makeup is concerned.
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Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Jennystyle(f): 2:01pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
This is too bad, and here I am, looking for someone to love me and display me to the world. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Evercurious(f): 2:07pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
SamOyovwi: Leave her to select as much as she wants to.. Naaa her life.. Me sef i still dey select at my 'old' age. Abeg make unaa free person.. Well naaa for thise wey e dey bother cos i care less |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by AkupeMBANO(m): 2:29pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Xaos:forget talk. that guy na heavy ju man. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by AkupeMBANO(m): 2:31pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
UyaiIncomparabl:women y'all don't really like yourselves. did she write more than that guy above her I actually enjoyed her write up, she expressed herself to an enjoyable extent. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by Francejaik(m): 2:39pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
victorian: Babe you fine joor I was only joking. Do have a splendid evening 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by LeoFish92(m): 2:41pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
CASTOSVILLA: By the Way, not between. |
Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by ityP(m): 2:42pm On Apr 02, 2019 |
Evercurious: Well, science tells us kids born by women 30 years and older have a very high chance of being challenged... Plus, considering the fact that menopause is just about 15 years from 30, it explains why some may consider age 30 to be a little late for a woman to get married. Then too, u are probably one of very few women who wasn't thinking of marriage at age 30... Even women in advanced countries, where age isn't really a thing, would be searching for a marriage mate on or before 30... 2 Likes |
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