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Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by ecstasy357(m): 2:37pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
There's a trend in Nigeria that ladies are only after the money. I recently watched a show, Steve Harvey's, where this question was asked by a man. He said, "When i got married to my ex, everything was fine until I lost my job and could no longer foot the bills. We had to stop going out for dinners. It also became extra difficult to please her as I could no longer buy her the things she likes. She became distant and started acting cold towards. And this was what led to the divorce." A lady replied the man based on her past relationship. She said, "when her man was down financially, he became angry. Everything angers him...he picks offense at every little thing I do. If I try to buy a shoe or take us out for dinner, he gets angry...complains all thru the date. He goes as far as condemning every choice I make. His presence became toxic for me. And that was how the relationship ended." I have never really been in this kinda situation but I'd really like know.... Is this how men are like when they can't provide? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by KpagoGIN(m): 2:58pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
am coming...... okay am back. the foundation on which such arrangement was made comes to question. anyone in such situation should look inward and ask how he ended up in such a case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by piippa(m): 3:58pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
Money is a woman's first love. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by aanuoluwami14(f): 4:34pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
I was a Victim, some guys are just ingrate, no matter how you you satisfied them financially. To come for visiting only, I would not require Kobo from him, he will eat and drink, when he reaches his place, to say ordinary thank you will love, for where? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by aanuoluwami14(f): 4:37pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
I was a Victim, some guys are just ingrate, no matter how you you satisfied them financially. To come for visiting only, I would not require Kobo from him, he will eat and drink, when he reaches his place, to say ordinary thank you will love, for where? :' |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by Nobody: 7:04am On Apr 05, 2019 |
If a lady is not comfortable spending on u . Kindly flee. Many women these days have become breadwinners. The one without sense belittled their man and divorced |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by faithfull18(f): 9:46am On Apr 05, 2019 |
Joromi12:So, you are encouraging women being breadwinners later you will come back and rant about women also taking the place of authority. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by ecstasy357(m): 10:12am On Apr 05, 2019 |
Joromi12: But ladies say they don't have a problem with spending but they hate the way we behave when we do not have |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by Nobody: 10:22am On Apr 05, 2019 |
faithfull18:it is happening these days. Men suffer joblessness or business downfall at some point. So who shud take over |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by ImaIma1(f): 10:42am On Apr 05, 2019 |
Sometimes people may not know that it is the guy that pushes the lady away because he cannot handle being broke and he doesn't want to string the babe along. And he could even become violent like a wounded lion. I dated someone like that. He succeeded in pushing me away saying he needed to sort things out. By the time he was back on his feet and he came back, i wasn't interested. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by Chiquitq(f): 12:53pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
because in the first place, the guy has spoiled them with it and made them to believe that it is their right and most importantly because the guy consciously or unconsciously sset out to be with such a materialistic girl as opposed to a reasonable, kind hearted and independent lady. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by KanwuliaExtra: 1:12pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
Same reason men run away from “barren women”. All about “productivity”! When financial problems become permanent, the strain on a woman to become the bread-winner and home-maker surpasses spiritual warfares. A woman’s tongue becomes poisonous and injurious to a broke man’s ego, all because of overwhelming stress. You do not want to be around a BROKE, NIGERIAN MAN especially. He becomes abusive, psychotic and unbearable to live with. He is worse than a DEMON. Even if the woman decides to assist, the pompous broke azzze of a man will NOT pick up the slack by taking care of the kids and doing the house chores. A woman being a bread-winner and a domestic goddess at the same time? Welcome to MARRIED-SINGLE WOMAN! ◄ 1 Timothy 5:8 ► 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by Nobody: 1:56pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
The same way you can’t marry a woman who will not cook clean and take care of the home. Once she stood performing these duties you look elsewhere for a replacement. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Run From A Relationship When The Guy Is Having Financial Problems by Nobody: 3:34pm On Apr 05, 2019 |
:oBecause of the way they behave when they are broke nagging, quickly prone to anger at this period. some even blame you for their financial woes 2 Likes |
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