I am both

Because they are not always organized as a real man is supposed to be,they practically live their lives on their mummy's instructions, it takes only the grace of God for a marriage to work with them.

Iyaebe:
Because they are not always organized as a real man is supposed to be,they practically live their lives on their mummy's instructions, it takes only the grace of God for a marriage to work with them.

You and your wrong assertions.

I'm the only child and only son and nobody can dictate my life for me! Y'all should stop generalizing this shit.

Iyaebe:
Because they are not always organized as a real man is supposed to be,they practically live their lives on their mummy's instructions, it takes only the grace of God for a marriage to work with them.

change ur environment...its affecting ur thinking.

Well I believe its because of the tons of responsibilities that lies on our shoulder,even been a mummy's boy or however you choose to paint the picture is one of the toughest responsibilities.. Nobody is controlling anybodies life, the female gender are just naturally selfish and possessive that they want there husband and sons to themselves alone..

So many first sons are cursed,they are simps and most times it's the younger ones covering their arses and uplifting them. They always got their mothers backings and supports. Many inherits their family curses that's why it takes grace of God to see them suceed in life.. senior sons needs to be very prayerful because just as they are always looking small in stature physically na so most of them destiny small if Dem no strong spiritually, especially those whose hobbies are to beat younger ones.

MufasaLion:
I'm the only child and only son and nobody can dictate my life for me! Y'all should stop generalizing this shit.

The only child? I use to see your comment where you said marriage is not for you, does your mum know about it? If you don't mind me asking?

donbachi:
change ur environment...its affecting ur thinking.

She isn't totally wrong though.

Biglittlelois:



The only child? I use to see your comment where you said marriage is not for you, does your mum know about it? If you don't mind me asking?

Naw, she doesn't but she will.

MufasaLion:


Naw, she doesn't but she will.

I wonder how she'd react to that kind of news.

Biglittlelois:



I wonder how she'd react to that kind of news.

Lol

I'm not interested in this talk.

MufasaLion:


Lol

I'm not interested in this talk.

That was rhetorical, but okay.

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No one runs just because you are an only son, but because of other things attached to it…

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Ladies want whom they can control. First borns are determined and uncontrollable. Only sons are monitored closely by family and relatives, so evil wives cannot control only sons.

Iyaebe:
Because they are not always organized as a real man is supposed to be,they practically live their lives on their mummy's instructions, it takes only the grace of God for a marriage to work with them.

Whatever you are smoking, stop it.

Lol @poco,all this because he is the first son and supportive to his loved ones....

you will be a MOTHER some day sha and crazy enough na people like you dey like turn your son to "mummy boy",a control freak,audit women dey hang around with and be the decision maker....

Manesalah:
Lol @poco,all this because he is the first son and supportive to his loved ones....

you will be a MOTHER some day sha and crazy enough na people like you dey like turn your son to "mummy boy"

My dear, if you are here for guilt tripping and emotional posts, then you might count me out of such. I didn’t ask you not to support your siblings. Maybe you can show me just one single part of my posts that said such. You asked questions, you got answers and you are twisting like earthworm they poured salt.

Men also run from first daughters with plenty younger siblings. So? Has that stopped them from being fathers one day?

Abeg, carry your gaslighting to someone else.

Iyaebe:
Because they are not always organized as a real man is supposed to be,they practically live their lives on their mummy's instructions, it takes only the grace of God for a marriage to work with them.

What is bad in taking mummy's instructions as you will be a MOTHER yourself someday....Your sons shouldn't take your instructions?

Manesalah:


I am both

They run away from you not because you're the first born, probably because you're a mama's boy and don't have a mind of your own.
It is about the way you are.

First borns, whether sons or daughters are usually strong minded people who know how to handle their sh!t. They're born leaders who hardly wait or depend on anyone.
They are daring. They take charge.
Entitlement or victim mentality is hardly their trait.
Their sense of protection and responsibility to family na follow come.
One of the attractive thing about them is that they're hardly weak minded.

Are you an only child?

efighter:
Ladies want whom they can control. First borns are determined and uncontrollable. Only sons are monitored closely by family and relatives, so evil wives cannot control only sons.

Another angle ee...

Let's be real here...
The fact that a man is controlled by his mum doesn't automatically mean he is the first son or he is an only son...

Anyone can be a mummies boy, not just the first son or the only child!! So stop all these assertions, it's baseless!!!!!!

Have you seen how some married last borns behave around their mothers?? How're bout the 2nd son who is "mummies favorite"??

And for some of y'all ladies who are saying they can't marry first born or only sons, well I respect your views on the matter, na your own Kaya be that, let everyone just do whatever works for them...

Buh just know that the reasons y'all giving up there, reeks of insecurities!!!!! You forget that the moment you said I do to that man, his mother became YOUR mother and if a man can't treat his mother and sisters right ((the first females in his life)), what are the chances that he will treat you right??

They don't run where the man is a man of means unless he rejected them; forget about any false claim any one of them might put up here to feel good.

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but almost all the first/only sons that I know are married and quite doing well.

so where una for see all these talks

Uyi168:
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but almost all the first/only sons that I know are married and quite doing well.

so where una for see all these talks

Why won’t they marry? Almost everyone would marry. Even some first daughters with 6 younger ones are married . Some variables would just make things tougher.

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samuel051:
So many first sons are cursed,they are simps and most times it's the younger ones covering their arses and uplifting them. They always got their mothers backings and supports. Many inherits their family curses that's why it takes grace of God to see them suceed in life.. senior sons needs to be very prayerful because just as they are always looking small in stature physically na so most of them destiny small if Dem no strong spiritually, especially those whose hobbies are to beat younger ones.

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Damn Nonsensical.

pocohantas:


Why won’t they marry? Almost everyone would marry. Even some first daughters with 6 younger ones are married . Some variables would just make things tougher.

.true sha.
anyone that wish to marry will eventually get marry.

samuel051:
So many first sons are cursed,they are simps and most times it's the younger ones covering their arses and uplifting them. They always got their mothers backings and supports. Many inherits their family curses that's why it takes grace of God to see them suceed in life.. senior sons needs to be very prayerful because just as they are always looking small in stature physically na so most of them destiny small if Dem no strong spiritually, especially those whose hobbies are to beat younger ones.

This one is still bitter because his elder brother showed him shege while growing up.

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samuel051:
So many first sons are cursed,they are simps and most times it's the younger ones covering their arses and uplifting them. They always got their mothers backings and supports. Many inherits their family curses that's why it takes grace of God to see them suceed in life.. senior sons needs to be very prayerful because just as they are always looking small in stature physically na so most of them destiny small if Dem no strong spiritually, especially those whose hobbies are to beat younger ones.

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MufasaLion:
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