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Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality. Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude

You want another man to take responsibility of those two boys You Must be dreaming

luvyaself95:
You want another man to take responsibility of those two boys
You Must be dreaming

.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll not take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one and testify it here

coman adopt me abeg...

U did nt drop ur age range.
Wryt a lil detail abt ursef nah. U dnt xpct people 2 jump on ur pm wit dat lil info abt ursef. I may b interested. Young blood, fresh outta womb

You need to face the reality ma. From all that is listed here I feel you need a sponsor not a lover.
You need a man to be responsible in totality but What are you bringing to the table in that relationship? Don't tell us it's only s*x you have to offer

Alpha bleeps. Beta Bucks.

After one hard guy has drilled the toto beyond redemption. A kind hearted nice guy will invest in the offspring.

Then you'll be banging his gateman..

Culheart:
Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality.

Madam with the level weh u dey now na to manage the man weh God put ur love for him mind to a fair level. Na for heaven u go see totality when you die.

Culheart:
Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude

If you can't put ur travails behind you, even you won't enjoy the fun u seek.. Thats how men cope with such burden as providers. And this ur presentation would scare any man except for the likes of dangote and otedola

luvyaself95:
You want another man to take responsibility of those two boys
You Must be dreaming

It’s good to dream u know. I haven’t said that but don’t want additional responsibility all in the name of giving love a chance again. Thanks

TarOrfeek:
Alpha bleeps. Beta Bucks.

After one hard guy has drilled the toto beyond redemption. A kind hearted nice guy will invest in the offspring.

Then you'll be banging his gateman..

Sorry! Not all female are GOATS/DOGS

pls tell us are u a window or divorced ?

If u ar a widow God will surely send help, but den if u ar divorced: madam go and make ur relationship wth ur hubby straight, apologize if there is need to, sort out the whole trash for d sake of ur kids.

I doubt if any man will b willing to take responsibility of anoda man's child.

Be wise.

ipobarethieves:
.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one snd testify it here

Thanks bro. Left to me, I want to love my kids alone n enjoy life to its fullest but societal pressures no gree

PORNeliusHUBson:
U did nt drop ur age range.
Wryt a lil detail abt ursef nah. U dnt xpct people 2 jump on ur pm wit dat lil info abt ursef. I may b interested. Young blood, fresh outta womb

32yrs old and working

nosiebaba:
You need to face the reality ma. From all that is listed here I feel you need a sponsor not a lover.
You need a man to be responsible in totality but What are you bringing to the table in that relationship? Don't tell us it's only s*x you have to offer

I have a 9 to 5 job , independent but don’t want an additional baggage. Off course we should be able to help each other when there is need for that

TarOrfeek:
Alpha bleeps. Beta Bucks.

After one hard guy has drilled the toto beyond redemption. A kind hearted nice guy will invest in the offspring.

Then you'll be banging his gateman..

Very funny how people think. Anyway some of you talk from experience. Not my wish to be single again but what do I do

Oluromantic:
Madam with the level weh u dey now na to manage the man weh God put ur love for him mind to a fair level. Na for heaven u go see totality when you die.

Yeah, I tried to but it’s not just working. We all have our flaws but should not be too much.


If you can't put ur travails behind you, even you won't enjoy the fun u seek.. Thats how men cope with such burden as providers. And this ur presentation would scare any man except for the likes of dangote and otedola

Dear, I have that is why I am giving love a chance. Adelekes will suffice too

well, she doesn't want a baba ijebu, bet9ja punters peepz.She want happiness, not a fraudsters/hit and runz.if u are a pauper, FREE HER biko

madam, e go hard gan o, he go harrrrd. I doubt any sane man will take the responsibility of another mans kids when he can have a single, younger woman. Especially that no matter what he does, you'll always put your kids first, it's how women are wired. Also, the kids will never see him as a father, regardless if he loved them as his own. If he corrects them, them go change am for am. It's a bad deal for men.

Also, complications from the kid's father, and him being the only non-biological one in the mix. He has inadvertently accepted to be an accessory of convenience, to be disposed when he outlived his usefulness (as a provider for you all). Basically, you need money, and the man is just a vehicle to achieve it. You probably won't love him, that is reserved for the kid's father. The kind of man you want will be smart enough to understand these dynamics, and won't check in. He has better options. Good luck though.

Culheart:
It’s good to dream u know. I haven’t said that but don’t want additional responsibility all in the name of giving love a chance again. Thanks

Don't tie down another person future husband with jazz later
or you should go Shiloh

pansophist:
madam, e go hard gan o. He go hard. I doubt any sane man will take the responsibility of another mans kids, when he can have a single, younger woman. Especially that no matter what he does, you'll always put your kids first, it's how women are wired. Also, the kids will never see him as a father, regardless if he loved them as his own. If he corrects them, them go change am for am. It's a bad deal for men.

Real men and good women still exist though. I will get a man that will love me unconditionally I assure you that. Thanks for your advise

luvyaself95:
Don't tie down another person future husband with jazz later
or you should go Shiloh

Is that what u do? because I don’t know what u mean by Jazz darling. Educate me please

Culheart:
Real men and good women still exist though. I will get a man that will love me unconditionally I assure you that. Thanks for your advise

I wish you good luck though. Respect him sha

ipobarethieves:
well, she doesn't want a baba ijebu, bet9ja punters peepz.She want happiness, not a fraudsters/hit and runz.if u are a pauper, FREE HER biko

Exactly. Most people think happiness is all about money

Culheart:
Very funny how people think. Anyway some of you talk from experience. Not my wish to be single again but what do I do

.Stop wasting your time dey explain to anybody. U owe NOBODY any explanation. Kids will mock/kal u anything" but" as long as God neva mock /forsake u, , NOTHING DO U.

vibbb:
pls tell us are u a window or divorced ?

If u ar a widow God will surely send help, but den if u ar divorced: madam go and make ur relationship wth ur hubby straight, apologize if there is need to, sort out the whole trash for d sake of ur kids.

I doubt if any man will b willing to take responsibility of anoda man's child.

Be wise.

Not a widow. Separated n going through divorce process in court.

Culheart:
Exactly. Most people think happiness is all about money

if happiness is not about money, why do you want a man that is financially stable

ipobarethieves:
.Dreamers are WINNERS. To be dreamless is to be DOOMED. Who told U there's No responsible men that'll take care/accept responsibility/upkeep of the 2 boys and their mum? She'll surely get one snd testify it here

Happy Dreaming

Culheart:
Is that what u do? because I don’t know what u mean by Jazz darling. Educate me please

Don't act here you don't know charm

Culheart:
Is that what u do? because I don’t know what u mean by Jazz darling. Educate me please

Don't act here don't you know charm

Culheart:
32yrs old and working

Hello MA, I need ya contact

It's well ijn

dyangprof:
Hello MA, I need ya contact

It's well ijn

Amen. But don’t want to drop my number here. Email will do

Culheart:
Not a widow. Separated n going through divorce process in court.

Well if you were in an abusive marriage then I honestly wish you luck in your search for happiness,but if the marriage ended because it was your fault,or you were never married but just got pregnant out of wedlock then I have no sympathy for you because left for me I can't marry a lady with a kid let alone 2kids except she is a widow and it will take the grace of God self, that is how men are,no sane male will want to father another man's offspring. That is why even the lion will kill the cubs of a lioness that arnt his before he can mate with her,it's NOT just a man thing but the male species generally.Goodluck tho and it's ok to dream and hope.