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Creampro:
Op I think you are only looking for ATM and bank for relationship

Tunagee:
To be a single mother means you were not ready for the sacrifice in marriage, or you probably gave birth out of wedlock for some irresponsible fathers due to your quest for material things. Pls deal with your issue and carry your cross; or go and reconcile with the kids father or fathers.

vibbb:
pls tell us are u a window or divorced ?

If u ar a widow God will surely send help, but den if u ar divorced: madam go and make ur relationship wth ur hubby straight, apologize if there is need to, sort out the whole trash for d sake of ur kids.

I doubt if any man will b willing to take responsibility of anoda man's child.

Be wise.

Culheart:
As in still married?

Culheart:
Real men and good women still exist though. I will get a man that will love me unconditionally I assure you that. Thanks for your advise

Culheart:
As in still married?

Culheart:
I have a 9 to 5 job , independent but don’t want an additional baggage. Off course we should be able to help each other when there is need for that

babatubde2:
Dont let anyone put fire in your mind that its only married men that would come to your life.


even the single men out there are never for once serious and they dont wanna get Hooked by any woman


they dont wanna take responsibility of anything in life.90% Gold digger.

they preferred fucking around


this days Ladies Run after married men,aside been caring they do what the singles cannot do.so my sister wise Up.


Happiness is all about the mind and not what anyone says.

lilwetdick:
if happiness is not about money, why do you want a man that is financially stable

deniguy01:
So she should marry a poor man in the name of love
You guys reasoning are daft. People get married to ladies with 3-6 kids here in Florida. I see no reason why she cant get. Its not a must you comment and sis, stop replying them. Another man offspring. What if it was your kids. Cant you put yourself in her shoes. She should go back and reverse it. We Africans have limited brain or did she state she can’t give birth again??

cowardafonja:
it's one and the same person with op. Ipobarethieves is the account she uses when she wants to attack people. she is a big tribal bigot.

cowardafonja:
it's one and the same person with op. Ipobarethieves is the account she uses when she wants to attack people. she is a big tribal bigot.

cowardafonja:
You are a very terrible bigot who goes by another moniker ipobarethieves. You think I won't find out.

cowardafonja:
You are a very terrible bigot who goes by another moniker ipobarethieves. You think I won't find out.

Vellichor:
OP, see to work things out with ur husband. You looking for a man to take care of u and ur kids in totality comes down to finances being the major reason behind your leaving. Go and figure things out with him but if divorce is what u want, be fully divorced before leaping into another relationship. You're separated and not divorced. At least finish the divorce process, give time to u and ur kids too, then bring another man into the picture. You're technically still married to your husband at this time and you're looking for another man.


I'm wondering o. Ipobarethieves or whatever the name is is always the first to jump on threads in Dating and criticise people, stop othersfrom replying them but here supporting the OP. Strange

Vellichor:
OP, see to work things out with ur husband. You looking for a man to take care of u and ur kids in totality comes down to finances being the major reason behind your leaving. Go and figure things out with him but if divorce is what u want, be fully divorced before leaping into another relationship. You're separated and not divorced. At least finish the divorce process, give time to u and ur kids too, then bring another man into the picture. You're technically still married to your husband at this time and you're looking for another man.


I'm wondering o. Ipobarethieves or whatever the name is is always the first to jump on threads in Dating and criticise people, stop othersfrom replying them but here supporting the OP. Strange

Culheart:
Hi NL. I am actually not new to this platform but had to create another moniker to remain anonymous. I need to give love a chance hence my reason for this. I am a single mum of two boys. I need a man who will cherish me, love me n be responsible in totality. Could be a divorcee or widower. Please he should be one who is financially stable. I know what I went through as a mother, a father, breadwinner n all u can think of. I was totally worn out with financial burden n wouldn’t want to tow that path again. U must love me n my kids n I promise u won’t regret it. Enough said until I meet that responsible dude

yMcy56:
Think your plight is understandable. Only you knows where the shoe is pinching you.
Stop replying those kids, they knew nothing about life yet, you already made your intentions known. Anyone interested will pm you.
I wish you good luck.

deniguy01:
So she should marry a poor man in the name of love
You guys reasoning are daft. People get married to ladies with 3-6 kids here in Florida. I see no reason why she cant get. Its not a must you comment and sis, stop replying them. Another man offspring. What if it was your kids. Cant you put yourself in her shoes. She should go back and reverse it. We Africans have limited brain or did she state she can’t give birth again??

PenSniper:
@Op, i must say i am highly impressed by the way you absorbed unpalatable comnents and level-headedness.
I wish you good luck.

savior22:
What happen to your husband?

lilwetdick:
if happiness is not about money, why do you want a man that is financially stable

ipobarethieves:
marriage is NOY%T by FORCE

are you the lady?

ipobarethieves:
I believe she's a strong lady.The insult of the kindergarten ones hold no wota.Only a poor man complain

area74:
Hi. It my pleasure to have u here. I am from the western part of the country. I currently work as an accountant with a reputable company in Lagos. Can we get to know each other? I already sent u a mail. Thanks

Creampro:
The above may not be true...her complain is financial hardships...so she may just be one of those women who get married for richer and good times only and are quick to divorce and start looking for ATM men when the for poorer part of the marriage comes up rather than helping the man overcome the temporary challenges.

savior22:
are you the lady?