I couldn't read all, but nomatter the wife shouldn't have gone to that level. May his soul rest in peace.

ikorodureporta:
D wyf no get name??

Name is Princess. Information gotten from the narration by the wife's friend and activist.

The way I see it, there were two problems in this marriage

Trouble started when Alloy's older sister had accommodation crisis and she had to move in with the Alloys. Alloy's wife vehemently refused that the sister stay in the guest house. Alloy's house is a three bedroom bungalow with a two bedroom guest house behind. The guest house is vacant but his wife insisted that the sister and kids should keep their properties there but sleep in the sitting room of the bungalow.

Problem no 1. Don't bring the relatives home.

(My parents before they got married promised each other that they won't have relations from either side of the family on 'long term stay', no matter what. A promise they largely kept.)

he was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased.

1.He married a 'docile' woman, a beauty...used her as a 'child production machine', treated her as a 'child' and never showed her 'intimacy'

Note...women LIVE on intimacy. Not sex...intimacy.

2.And the man was jealous.

The house will now be owned by the elder sister. Foolish wife

Hiring tugs to beat a husband is the worst any woman can do.
Lesson to learn- never overlook danger staring at u in the name of love.

IamD18:
Typical Nigerian lady.
Believe me; Those thugs that beat her husband to death are fvckin her.

u don't mean it

That’s the friend’s version

He probably abused her often until she decided to retaliate. I don’t have RIP to waste on him

Even if for any reason she comes out of this, she will explain to the kids how their father died. Many die this way. If you have a spouse that behaves this way, it is better you run for your life. People that are proud with unforgiving spirit never make good partners.

opella:


This is from her friend

Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years.

I believe the story.

HOWEVER....beating up someone can be fatal

In a hospital where I worked, they brought in a guy who was beaten up (traffic dispute, car bashed, argument started, got out of hand). Turned out he had a bleed in the brain and had to be refered to a teaching hospital for neurological care (he survived).

Mmm hmm. Now her friend has come with her own version.

It’s rare for one slap to degenerate into a thug fest. He was abusing her most likely

opella:


This is from her friend

Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years.

Serious these for the woman , she will be filled with regrets, now alloy sister wey she no wan accommodate go take over the house[/color][color=#990000]

So, final analysis

1.The guy married a vulnerable 16 year old girl...because he had found 'easily controllable babe' .meanwhile, girl has found a 'source of sustenance'

2.Something tells me that he was beating up the woman, and that what happened recently was the last straw.

3.The girl called her relations who beat the guy up.

4.Guy dies ten days later.

5.The issue of the relation coming in to stay with her brother...and something tells me that the sister too is something of an entitled person.

The case gets interesting, and more interesting.

The two accounts show that the man was an abusive husband. The first account was a biased one.

Generally, two adult women can't live together if they don't take necessary steps to respect the landlady's space.

Divorce is easier if a woman can take care of herself and the children. The wife here couldn't so she bore the abuse.

I don't believe her siblings meant to kill him. I have an uncle whose wife was a VERY hardworking woman. However, he was an abusive husband. For many years, she suffered the abuse and would sometimes flee the home. My uncle didn't listen to counsel. They had 4 children.

Then her brothers got together and visited him. They gave him a good beating and promised him the same anytime he beat their sister again. That was how the abuse ended.

The couple are now grandparents and have been together for over 36 years.

cococandy:
Mmm hmm. Now her friend has come with her own version.

It’s rare for one slap to degenerate into a thug fest. He was abusing her most likely

Exactly.

Omudia11:
This account is more realistic than the first. It's obvious the writer wrote that epistle in support of his friend.

It is more realistic, how? Both are painting pictures to serve their own purpose: support their person. Also I dislike people who raise their self-importance. Does she really need to say she 'owns a foundation'? Will that make us believe her story more or what?

No matter what the woman’s story is, Alloy is dead and he cannot answer again. The woman even if she was right, she already lost her husband and will also be prosecuted for that. Alloy is resting while she will rest in jail for murder. I pity the kids alone.
Now the Older sister she don’t want in the house will now be in charge of the house

Officialgarri:
This is the story from Alloy's friend . I'd like to hear the side of his wife's friend too .....

Oh Alloy!!u married a monster

Omudia11:
Do you know what it means for someone to be culpable?

Did she say her hands on him? Did she send her siblings to beat him? Didn't you read that there was a confrontation and they started fighting?

CULPABLE | meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary
https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/culpable
culpable definition: 1. deserving to be blamed or considered responsible for something bad: 2. deserving to be blamed or considered responsible for something ...

She is responsible for what happened because she reported the matter to the third-party that carried out the beating (be it her sibling or thugs).

Sad

poseidon12:


I believe he was giving money to the wife for the family expenses. It's likely the wife is a fulltime housewife mother.

See poseidon12, I agree with you. But when one start having extra money on hand without a real purpose, there lies a potential danger especially a full-time mother. These are the potential dangers:

1) Start buying clothes for weddings/burials anyhow (aso-ebi in our nomenclature)
2) Looking for frivolities
3) Paying for side-chicks (side guys too )
4) You can add yours...

Oceanblaze:
Oh Alloy!!u married a monster

What if he was the monster? You can't just conclude.

dinodangana:
Moral of the story: Don't hit a woman no matter what.

Fvck off

opella:


This is from her friend

Good evening, Mr Ufuoma Bernard I truly sympathise with you. I'm the founder of Afulenu cares foundation and these are the kind of situations we fight for. Its very sad you do not know the true story and all that glitters is not gold. I'm sorry my dearest friend and sister Princess , but I have to tell your story, she was 16 when her father died and due to poverty she was forced to marry Odi who was 40 then, she was a baby making machine, started giving birth from 17, Odi would only sleep with her for procreation and never showed her intimacy, he beat her up to stupor some nights she didn't agree, she suffered from depression which led to her weight gain, she was unhappy and had no one to turn to until she registered herself at the stadium not a gym and not by Odi. Now working out was the only thing that made her happy, when Odi saw the wife was happy he started his rounds of lies that she was being unfaithful and the beatings increased. Many times my friend will hide until her wounds heal, she will always say he is not perfect but at least he is taking care of the children. My friend endured the beating and domestic violence for 12 years but still kept quiet. Now the sister to Odi who is divorced came to live with them, instead of going to the one bedroom she insisted it's her brothers house and decided to stay in the living room, princess disagreed and asked her to move to the one bedroom that it won't be nice when visitors come to visit and see her in the parlour with her belongings so an argument started which led to Odi slapping Princess, as if that was not enough, the sister held princess hands while Odi punched and blew princess in his usual manner, she suffered a wrist and shoulder fracture, I have the report from the hospital and I will post pictures as well. This beating happened on Saturday the 30th of March, now In 12 years of marriage princess has never retaliated but due to the beating she received, she sent the pictures to her family, the next day which was Sunday, the siblings arrived and wanted to know why Odi has been beating up their sister all these years and Odi asked them all to get out and this led to a confrontation and they all started fighting, the elder brother to my friend princess is younger and stronger so he was able to overpower Odi. Now Odi had some cuts and bruises, I'm not supporting taking laws into your hands but the beating was just to give him a taste of his own medicine, now unfortunately after 10 days Odi died, we couldn't believe it bcoz the intention was just to beat him up so he won't touch their sister again. Now my friend with her broken wrist, shoulder, badly beaten face was arrested but when God is at work, you will suffer tribulations but he will always rescue his own, today I was at the police station after 6 days of her arrest and to God be the glory she has been released because the autopsy showed the real cause of his death, I have first hand information from the police and hospital so please before you defame anyone on social media please know the facts, I don't support evil but I know many men who have fought their sister's husband, even their daughter's husbands for beating them up, domestic violence should not be supported no matter what, this is the whole truth about this case and God will vindicate my friend. I leave you with some of the pictures of my friend when Odi uses her as a punching bag, she endured for 12 years.

THIS STORY ALSO SMELLS LIKE IT WAS GARNISHED WITH LIES...

in my own opinion, Alloy's friend is the man in the other room because his story says it all.

her clear don eye

What am i typing sef.

cococandy:
That’s the friend’s version

He probably abused her often until she decided to retaliate. I don’t have RIP to waste on him

Yea.... I think you should go and tell the police to let her go because he probably abused her until she killed him in retaliation. It's enough reason to free her.

Noblefirstlady:

This story got nothing to do with the sister, I think Alloy's friend has been secretly beefing that woman for long. I mean they were talking about cheating before the fight right? So why all this story about sister, car, Alloy traveling abroad and all. It's not like I'm in support of that woman's action o but don't you think this story is just too much info.

seems plausible, you may be right though.
we may never know until we see or have heard the truth.

cococandy:
That’s the friend’s version

He probably abused her often until she decided to retaliate. I don’t have RIP to waste on him

Dead men don't talk. That is her words against a corpse. Why didn't she report to the police during those 12 years? She is obviously a murderous psychopath who should be jailed for at least 40 years.

See what your moment of madness has cost. Your husband and your life. No judge is going to hear "I only wanted them to beat him". She is now an accessory to murder

The moment u allow a woman go to the gym, u invite rats to come and feast on ur dried fish�. Useless women everywhere.. She should help the police apprehend those guys or suffer and die alone. But aloy was a very weak man, how can u kneel down to beg a wife because u slapped her? Na wa o

Umuahia woman indeed

Women the most dreaded creature.