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So my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years. She's a student so it's a distance relationship for now. She wasn't a student when we started dating and when she started schooling I was worried the distance would be a problem. I live in a different state, so it's about 4hrs by road to her school, due to the high rate of kidnapping along the highway I advised she comes 2 - 3 weeks instead of every week.
Now the issue we're seriously facing now is an almost sexless relationship and it's slowly getting worse. Since the beginning of this year, I don't think we've had sex upto 7 times in total. Because she comes by weekend ( Friday evening and leaves on Sunday afternoon). Friday she's usually tired and I don't want to stress her further so I let her be. Sometimes she comes visiting then her monthly visitor shows up and that's a deal breaker so it has to be 2 or 3 weeks later.
She came visiting today and holy crap her flow just began this night! Last time we had sometime was 2 weeks ago, I'll be traveling for about a month and this is the only time we have left. She's very worried and suggesting we try something new but everything she mentioned doesn't make sense to me. If it's not sex then it's not sex, I'm not into BJ that shiit doesn't make me cum and I don't even like it, am acting cool but deep down am frustrated. I don't cheat! Infact I can't make love to someone I'm not emotionally involved with, so I can't do Olosho or any random girl.
I need advice on how to survive times like this, if you're in a distant relationship please how do you go about issues like this?

Sex is not love, look for something else to spice up the relationship, abi you want scatter the puna for her husband or Marry her simple,

SUPERPACK:
Sex is not love, look for something else to spice up the relationship, abi you want scatter the puna for her husband or Marry her simple,

Sex is definitely not love, but sex strengthens bond in a relationship. And yes we're getting married soon and have plans to relocate to Canada. Infact I'm waiting for her to finish her schooling here since she's in her final year. She's going to a Federal Poly.

Sir go and cheat already, can you stop disturbing us ehn

Man shall not live by sex alone.
Patience is what you need.

I thought this E-diot have a problem, I clicked to advise him and I ended up reading crap about not having Bleep up-to 7 times this year.
So the most important thing about your relationship is Bleep? now I see reasons why marriages of this generation don't last, because they all have misplaced priorities.

Anyways, you don't have a girlfriend, but a Bleep mate... get that straight.



My generation are fücking away their youthful age, by 40 they'll run outta strength and result into taking all kinds of xxxual enhancing drugs.

Offpoint:
I thought this E-diot have a problem, I clicked to advise him and I ended up reading crap about not having Bleep up-to 7 times this year.
So the most important thing about your relationship is Bleep? now I see reasons why marriages of this generation don't last, because they all have misplaced priorities.

Anyways, you don't have a girlfriend, but a Bleep mate... get that straight.



My generation are fücking away their youthful age, by 40 they'll run outta strength and result into taking all kinds of xxxual enhancing drugs.

Nairalanders are so hypocritical! Yall fvck boys drunk with Olosho pvssy suddenly acting like my Sunday school Uncle. Guy shift! No come my thread dey talk Offpoint. I spell out my feelings and yes sex is my problem! I don't need to rape someones daughter first before I realize that hence I came to this forum to seek guidance from people in similar situations. If you don't have anything reasonable to say please shove your mouth in you paints and take a walk. I wasn't talking to you anyway.

toyflare:
Nairalanders are so hypocritical! Yall fvck boys drunk with Olosho pvssy suddenly acting like my Sunday school Uncle. Guy shift! No come my thread dey talk Offpoint. I spell out my feelings and yes sex is my problem! I don't need to rape someones daughter first before I realize that hence I came to this forum to seek guidance from people in similar situations. If you don't have anything reasonable to say please shove your mouth in you paints and take a walk. I wasn't talking to you anyway.

If you don't like or want my opinion, you should have shove your problem down the deepest part of your black azz. The moment you put it on a public forum, you got public opinions which aren't all gonna be in your favour. so bro! if you don't like my wordings please take a hike.

And lastly, there's nothing like "MY THREAD" and "I WASN'T TALKING TO YOU" the moment you clicked that "Submit" button, it becomes everyones thread and a public speech.

If you're sexually frustrated like you are, quit the relationship and date your landlord daughter's or still f<uk your neighbors goat... if you don't like any of that, nigga break your d*ck and fûck yourself. NO APOLOGIES

Patience is the key.
If you love your partner so much, you should be feeling for her in terms of period pains not about your sexual life.

Sex will always be there, it's not changing.
For the fact she risks her life ever month on the road just to come and see you should mean alot more to you than the sex itself, since, you guys will be getting married soon.

Offpoint:
[s]If you don't like or want my opinion, you should have shove your problem down the deepest part of your black azz. The moment you put it on a public forum, you got public opinions which aren't all gonna be in your favour. so bro! if you don't like my wordings please take a hike.

And lastly, there's nothing like "MY THREAD" and "I WASN'T TALKING TO YOU" the moment you clicked that "Submit" button, it becomes everyones thread and a public speech.

If you're sexually frustrated like you are, quit the relationship and date your landlord daughter's or still f<uk your neighbors goat... if you don't like any of that, nigga break your d*ck and fûck yourself. NO APOLOGIES [/s]

I'll save you the headache so you can go masturbate elsewhere.

Just an observation, don't take it as an insult.

I think you are selfish. You make another man's child to travel 4 hours on a dangerous road every other week to come and ride your dick. Will you be happy if your sister does that?

Even during her monthly flow, you still make her to give suggestions of how she can satisfy your sexual urge.

Why don't you travel to her school to be with her? That way you can go there and masturbate inside her anyday you feel like.

Preshy561:
Patience is the key.
If you love your partner so much, you should be feeling for her in terms of period pains not about your sexual life.

Sex will always be there, it's not changing.
For the fact she risks her life ever month on the road just to come and see you should mean alot more to you than the sex itself, since, you guys will be getting married soon.

I'm a very patient person, believe me I feel the pain she goes through during her flow and traveling all the way here every month so we can have sometime together. If I could make it every 2 months I would, I was thinking we could take turns to visit each other but my work won't let me. And even if I could, I don't like the idea of lugging in a hotel. She doesn't live alone and I don't want to meet her lodge mates or get to know anyone of them so they don't report her to me anytime she sneezes so I'd like to give her her space when it comes to that.

Atlanticfire:
Just an observation, don't take it as an insult.

I think you are selfish. You make another man's child to travel 4 hours on a dangerous road every other week to come and ride your dick. Will you be happy if your sister does that?

Even during her monthly flow, you still make her to give suggestions of how she can satisfy your sexual urge.

Why don't you travel to her school to be with her? That way you can go there and masturbate inside her anyday you feel like.

I don't want to insult you, so I'll pretend I didn't read this.

toyflare:
I'm a very patient person, believe me I feel the pain she goes through during her flow and traveling all the way here every month so we can have sometime together. If I could make it every 2 months I would, I was thinking we could take turns to visit each other but my work won't let me. And even if I could, I don't like the idea of lugging in a hotel. She doesn't live alone and I don't want to meet her lodge mates or get to know anyone of them so they don't report her to me anytime she sneezes so I'd like to give her her space when it comes to that.

Okay.
Just stay through with your woman whether in good or bad conditions, that's what real love demands of us.


Sex will always come and go, but the memory you share will last forever, after all, you won't be Hot forever.

Just enjoy this moment you have with her and forget about sex, it will help you

Preshy561:
Okay.
Just stay through with your woman whether in good or bad conditions, that's what real love demands of us.


Sex will always come and go, but the memory you share will last forever, after all, you won't be Hot forever.

Just enjoy this moment you have with her and forget about sex, it will help you

Lol, we have good memories. I mean I always try to make our time together worth it, we hang out, goto the movies, zoo and recreation parks when ever she comes visiting. It's just this part of things am worried about, thanks for your input. I appreciate.

toyflare:
Lol, we have good memories. I mean I always try to make our time together worth it, we hang out, goto the movies, zoo and recreation parks when ever she comes visiting. It's just this part of things am worried about, thanks for your input. I appreciate.

Alright.
I wish you well.

Offpoint:
If you don't like or want my opinion, you should have shove your problem down the deepest part of your black azz. The moment you put it on a public forum, you got public opinions which aren't all gonna be in your favour. so bro! if you don't like my wordings please take a hike.

And lastly, there's nothing like "MY THREAD" and "I WASN'T TALKING TO YOU" the moment you clicked that "Submit" button, it becomes everyones thread and a public speech.

If you're sexually frustrated like you are, quit the relationship and date your landlord daughter's or still f<uk your neighbors goat... if you don't like any of that, nigga break your d*ck and fûck yourself. NO APOLOGIES

Baaaad guy!! onpoint Sha!!lol.

This is serious. Just when I thought I have a problem by not having the urge for sex since November last year, I find another who is complaining of not having enough sex due to the distance.

The only advice I can give you is that when you learn how to exclude sex as the basic part of your relationship and get use to other stuffs that spicen up your relationship, you will practically enjoy your relationship more.

Just is just few hours away from you and you are lucky she even still find time to come around. Imagine six hours or more away by flight, I mean studying oversea, that means the end of the relationship because no sex with her for at least more than a year.