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My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by SyberKate(f): 10:58am On Nov 25, 2018
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:01am On Nov 25, 2018
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs, to think the relationship is even a week old.

He dodged a missile. It's called the 'Butterfly effect'.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:02am On Nov 25, 2018
Ok

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Kenzico(m): 11:02am On Nov 25, 2018
SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship.


Wait oooo!! So you really quit the relationship....Just because he couldn't give you 15k

I think you were inconsiderate....The guy suppose don write you off by now

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Lloydthesaint: 11:03am On Nov 25, 2018
Early billing �

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:03am On Nov 25, 2018
So happy hearing this from a girl ;DYou have said it all
UyaiIncomparabl:
What if you hadn't known him, how would you have solved that problem? Just imagine he never existed, and get over yourself!

It's highly disgraceful. And yea, he was right. It's too early to start begging for stuffs.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by positivedaveyy(m): 11:07am On Nov 25, 2018
Just like that... You've moved on because he refused to give you 15k? How would you have solved your problem if you hadn't met him?


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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by abluck(m): 11:13am On Nov 25, 2018
He jaapa for his dear life shocked

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Ehiscotch(m): 11:16am On Nov 25, 2018
If you actually don't know you were wrong, inconsiderate, and irrational then I don't think any comment here would get to you.

Seriously, you messed up. In this modern age where internet scams - catfishing, yahoo and all - thrives and you expect him to send you 15k under a week.

Like even if you needed it so bad and you had to ask, his turning your request down shouldn't make you quit.

If I were him I would even be sure you are a scammer and were only out to swindle me. Like he said, if he had asked for sex in week would you have obliged?

The jury is out: you messed up, obviously.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by OgahBohz: 11:16am On Nov 25, 2018
I don't understand how some ladies think ...
azn honestly speaking ..
jst one week?
and ya already demanding...
without the 15k will you die?
and am very sure the 15k is not for smtn that important o...

please the reasonable ladies out there, advice your selves ..

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 25, 2018
Girl....solve your problems by yourself....he's not your ATM machine

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Tapout(m): 11:19am On Nov 25, 2018
SyberKate:
Hi

So I decided to go into a long distance relationship with this guy I have not met yet. We just met online and have exchanged pictures.

So far the relationship is just one week old and I was in a bit of a situation where I needed some money. Nothing much just about 15,000 to solve an issue.

So I asked my BF if he could assist me with the money, only for him to start saying things like the relationship is still young for me to be making demands, that what if he starts demanding for s3xx this early in the relationship.

I said I wish I could have solved my problem myself but I really need all the help I can get. He still insisted that he hasn't even met me physically and I could be trying to swindle him for all he knows.

Then I said if he feels that way then no need to continue with the relationship and it was over, just like that within one week.

So do you think I was being unreasonable to make demands this early in the relationship

it was a very reasonable demand dear... Very very reasonable. Kip it up.

This one below me na attention seeker

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by farano(f): 11:19am On Nov 25, 2018
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by clive2u(m): 11:21am On Nov 25, 2018
we are having a program tagged true color in church today, i think u showed him ur true color way too early and u even said. its over cos of money. i pray he's one genuine rich dude and you just lost him

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by eph12(m): 11:23am On Nov 25, 2018
farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..
Some guys mumu like that sha. Normal stuff

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Nobody: 11:24am On Nov 25, 2018


Some ladies sef, na your type they make guys abuse other ladies.


A week old relationship and you are making such unwarranted request already. To even think it is a blind date makes it look more irrational.


Just put yourself in the guy's shoe



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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:24am On Nov 25, 2018
You need a real job not a relationship

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:27am On Nov 25, 2018
farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..
And you think his village people are not playing draft with his destiny...

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by kiddoiLL(m): 11:29am On Nov 25, 2018
That guy has made us fellow guys proud.... haba!! hanty!! one week and he's yet to see you n you don request 15k.. You be scam jooor!! your format no catch am... even scammers wet I knw can't fit to demand 1st payment from dating clients within a week.... Abi shey ur own, na plus you dey do ni?

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by adewumiopeyemi(m): 11:30am On Nov 25, 2018
Do you think all guys are like that. Do you even asj how he get the money. undecided
farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Uglymind: 11:30am On Nov 25, 2018
Op........ undecided

How can you ask a guy for money on the net someone who hasn't seen you in person.. And in just a week
You must be high.. So you don't have close friends family members or siblings who can lend you the money..
Assuming I was that guy I would have deleted you with immediate alacrity.. Nonsense


BTW what is long distance relationship and how does that work.. The guy might be looking flashy on social media so maybe this stupid Op thought that she might eat him clean mouth.. Nonsense

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:35am On Nov 25, 2018
Relationship is not a transaction and your boyfriend is not ATM machine. What if the guy doesn't have money, I hope you are not funmi

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Gboyeboy(m): 11:41am On Nov 25, 2018
15K in one week. Not even recharge card money or data subscription and he never even see you sef. Hanty fear God nau. OP would be in Joro ranting if it were the other way round. Big ups to the guy, he get sense.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by nuggarito: 11:43am On Nov 25, 2018
Hungry hoes everywhere.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by Oreofepeters: 11:45am On Nov 25, 2018
This is isnt right Blind date for that matter....

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by b0rn2fuck(m): 11:49am On Nov 25, 2018
farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..
relationship has a source of income, people won't complain but when Yahoo boys turn up , una be they cry up and down. You still young anyway from your picture

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:50am On Nov 25, 2018
farano:
Smh..Everybody shouting it's too early for her to ask for money.. There's no right time to ask for money or sex in a relationship. I once dated a guy, I started dating him in the afternoon and that same evening, I asked for some money and he gave me. He was even happy I asked him for something..

Lol. Clap for your self. You made absolutely no sense!

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by highpriestess: 11:51am On Nov 25, 2018
1 week is too early abeg.


undecided

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by farano(f): 12:10pm On Nov 25, 2018
b0rn2fuck:
relationship has a source of income, people won't complain but when Yahoo boys turn up , una be they cry up and down. You still young anyway from your picture
Lmao..my dear I don't look my age.
Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by lefulefu(m): 12:11pm On Nov 25, 2018
i dont blame him one bit in his doubts in sending u money. u could be a yahoo boy in a possibilty. forget about d pictures u sent.yahooboyz have catalogues of female pics on their laptops and phones.if i sent pics of beyouncy to a dude over the internet does dat make me beyouncy? try and undetstand his position and stop having this entitlrnent issue.

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Re: My Long Distance Relationship Of One Week Just... by emmanuelpopson(m): 12:15pm On Nov 25, 2018
she thinks she don see maga to swindle... the guy Japa... Ji maSun ... why demands for cash gift from someone you haven't seen.. its so bad and suspicious... if NA me..I go insults you...

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