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Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sherylbakky:she said we can behave as friend during this period. I asked if I should call her and she replied with are you supposed to call or not call your friend |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:Smiles...You are free to call her then, don't panic, i believe she's not gonna leave u. Things will be fine, just look at ur moniker n smile |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by united442(m): 8:51pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sherylbakky: lolzz daft! she said she need SPACE!!! applying the no contact rule will benefit both o.p and his babe.. even if o.p call her once/per week, she may think o.p isn't giving her the space she want... moreover,it wont be easy for o.p to control the urge of not calling her,but O.P,the more you keep on calling or trying to checkup on her,the more you "MIGHT" be trying to push her away... o.p incase you still dnt understand, go and read about no contact rule. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by united442(m): 8:54pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: o.p if she really,......i mean actually told you thiss..ahahahahahahaha... sorry for the laugh... FZed |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
OP please give her the space she asked for. You have admitted you really hurt her and she needs some time to work through it. Do as Sherylbakky has advised. I personally don't like to be railroaded into forgiving too so I don't end up resenting the person. Give her some space and most importantly, show her you won't take her for granted again. Genuine love is hard to come by, if you are lucky to have it, cherish it. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by seoxpert(m): 9:35pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Bro, do whatever it takes to fix your relationship and don't be scared to admit your weakness. Healing comes from being yourself around her. Many men who are married to wolves right now have missed their ordained besties through acts of carelessness such as yours. Love is worth preserving if it is not based on material things. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
united442:why the laugh |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sherylbakky:Thanks. I'm just curious though because I know she loves me too much to break up with me just like that without trying to resolve things. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
united442:Do u have the no contact rule link? Plus I'm afraid she might read different meanings to me not actually calling her because she told me not to. U know with girls u never know |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
SBL28:How do I show her if I'm giving her space? |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by raphemmanuel(m): 10:02pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
sherylbakky:Gutsoverfear please don't play with this advice by sherylbakky. Let me just add to this: Try to buy her a very nice gift (it can be a wear). And don't disturb her with too many calls and text messages. All this will make her feel u value her. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
raphemmanuel:so you are saying I should buy her a gift but I shouldn't contact her too often.. Thanks. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by babyfaceafrica: 10:37pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
all these people seeking counsel online...don't you have people to advice you.. real life.... |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by aababalola001(m): 10:38pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
Admin401:Dont post pornography, bad guy
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Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by clive2u(m): 10:59pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
trust me she has some other dude that is less attractive than u bt the guy dey show her money. in her mind she loves u and she feels she is in control bt sooner or later wen that guy fvck her she wont b calling u baby, my love, etc again bt dear, dearie or worst one 'bro'. break up with her in ur mind so e no go pain u wen she does. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by clive2u(m): 11:03pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:this is the more reason she will leave you, you are too confident that she wont leave u |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Adhheir: 11:44pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
The kind of comments I've seen here have defeated the purpose of seeking advise from here. Plenty bitter people from terrible experiences and/or misogynism. kMT! |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 11:44pm On Apr 18, 2019 |
clive2u: I'm too confident because I know what we share. If she leaves me because of this, then I was wrong all along. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:00am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:Guy, this comment summarise it, SHE HAS RELEGATED YOU TO THE FRIENDZONE, this she long did. However, she is keeping you around as a fall back option (hence, she saying she isn't breaking up). A girl that takes you serious will NOT and will NEVER ask for space. In fact, she will not want space to exist. Your problem is that you are so much in love with her that you allowed your emotional feelings for her subdue logical reasoning. irrespective, you are responsible for your decisions. Be wise! 1 Like |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 1:28am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:because your Dick is made of gold lmfao 1 Like |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 1:30am On Apr 19, 2019 |
Adhheir:give us a break with your vagina worship 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 2:20am On Apr 19, 2019 |
ubunja:please don't derail this post ..this is uncalled for. |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 2:26am On Apr 19, 2019 |
ubunja:That's not what I meant by that.. Sex is a cheap commodity nowadays so everyone can buy it.. With this my girl it's not always about sex. We can be together for two days without sex and still feel like we have had the best sex of our lives. 1 Like |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by Nobody: 2:30am On Apr 19, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:Did u read the part where I said I hurt her very bad unintentionally to the point of crying? 1 Like |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 2:33am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:then best believe she went to get Dick |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 2:34am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:do you even hear yourself? |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by ubunja(m): 2:38am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:dude girls get hurt everyday but only your girl asked for space. What do you think she'll be doing all that time? Watching TV and reading romance novels? You blue pill guys can be naive to the point of dumb. 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by united442(m): 4:25am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: o.p i have the link but i dnt know if they will banned me if i post it.. please just try and google it...its everywhere on google.. it works very very well and help solve lots of problem in relationships. 1 Like |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by united442(m): 4:44am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: dude its now 98% certain that babe is no longer with you... please before you give her space/time or before you implement the no contact rule or whatever, please try to talk to her to know if everything is alright but DONT beg her, if you must do, just apologise alittle and dnt act wanting as if your life depends on her.. base on experience, when you offended her, you just gave her the excuse and chance she needed to push you away..now, even if you beg her a million times, its a NO NO!.. she can still tell you she love you,she can still cry for you or whatever, which is actually and currently giving you the mindset that she still love you,but deep down her mind,she might or she has already loss interest in you and dont have that much feeling for you again.. dude i might be wrong in all this, but just be careful,the relationship can still be save or still worth saving,its not late,but what ever happens, ensure she knows you are truly sorry just to ensure that you are not at fault if anything happens and DONT hand her your balls man.. well, enough of this my shit jhor 2 Likes |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by gykes(m): 7:27am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear: I laugh at the bolded 1 Like |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by rex444(m): 7:39am On Apr 19, 2019 |
Hmmmmmmm which kain yeye space? Chief make U sef go find your own space afterall na holidays be this and some Bobo fit show from Yankee sef |
Re: When She Says She Needs Some Space. by clive2u(m): 7:52am On Apr 19, 2019 |
GutsOverFear:yeah. girls change easily 1 Like |
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