₦airaland Forum

THE CHEATING WIFE, WHO IS THE CAUSE; THE MAN OR WOMAN?

There is usually a negative out cry and condemnation of a woman who cheats sexually on her husband, when they are caught,the society blame the woman for been a disgrace, bad wife, unfaithful wife and all kinds of words are used on the woman.
As a sex therapist,I write this article for people to know why some women cheat on the husbands and who is actually the fault. I am not saying that it is right or good for women to cheat on her husband,and I am not writing this piece to destroy any marriage but to give married people information about sexual components of a woman and why some of them have extra marital affairs.
About ninety percent of women who cheat sexually on their husbands do it simply because of what I call sephism.This the inability of a person not to enjoy sex or be satisfy after love making.The climax of love making is when the people reach orgasm,when there is no orgasm after love making,the person that did not climax will be unhappy and hungry for more,hence sephism has taking place.
Women are most victim of sephism or sexually unsatisfied,because many men all over the world are selfish during and after love making.They are only after their selfish sexual satisfaction,they usually abandon their wives when they climax and do not bother to know if the wife also climax.How many men after orgasm in love making ask their wives if she also reach orgasm,the answer is discouraging because about ninety-five percent of men don”t ask their wives.I have ask mahy men,the men I ask say they don’t ask their wives, they assume she is alright. So men are naturally selfish when it comes to love making.
In love making,a man needs a place for love making,while a woman needs a purpose for love making.
1.A man needs a place for love making means that he needs just penis erection and he is ready for sex not minding romance or the environment, as far as there is penis erection, he is ready.
2.A woman needs a purpose for love making means she needs the following for her to enjoy sex;
I. Security
II. Love
III. Attention
IV. Comfort
V. Care
The woman body is made in such a way that for her to be happy, she have to receive or get good things. For example, woman is happy when you tell them sweet words, give her good gift, the husband gives her money for the house expenses, get moved more sexually by touching during sex, her virginal receives the man’s penis. So the same thing applies in love making, for her to enjoy sex ,the man must give her the five things stated which I will explain below:
a. Security :The only thing every man provide for his wife during love making is security. No man wants another man to have sex with his wife when is making love to her or want somebody to be looking at them during love making. The wife will fill secure and relax when there is full security during love making.

b. Love :For a woman to enjoy sex, there has to love between the man and the womat. You will agree with me that there is no love in many marriages today, many couples are just living together because of their children and not because they love themselves. When there is no love between the man and the woman, the woman will not always enjoy love making because she is not getting love from the man.

c. Attention :Many men don’t pay attention to know if their wives are enjoying or is fine during love making .They just insert their penis without knowing if the woman is ready for it. A woman is ready when she tells you to enter or Bleep her, if she did not tell you to enter her, then she is not ready for you to insert your penis into her virginal, but men don’t pay attention to that, they just put in their penis because it is fully erected. Please pay attention to your wife during love making and what is happening to her or how she feels.

d. Comfort: Every woman needs good romance for her to enjoy sex, without good romance, she wouldn’t be comfortable during sex. Many men don’t even romance their wives, some men just do a little romance before the woman know it, his penis is already inside .Also many men don’t know their wives sensitive sexual parts, this are parts of a woman’s body that makes her more sexually arouse and to enjoy love making. You have to provide comfort for your wife by giving her a good romance, touch her sexual sensitive parts and wait until she says enter or Bleep me before you insert your penis. Ask your wife of her sexual sensitive parts and she will gladly tell you.

e. Care: Before inserting your penis, do you care to ask your wife if she is well position, the position of your wife during love making will make her enjoy sex or not to enjoy it. If her position is not comfortable, she wouldn’t enjoy it. The main question to all married men, how many men care to ask their wives if they climax or reach orgasm after love making. As stated above, many men don’t care to ask their wives such question, they just leave the woman unsatisfied while they are satisfied.
I will ask this question, how many men provide this five things when making love with their wives ,as I said earlier, the only thing all men provide for their wives is SECURITY, apart from that, men don’t do others things stated above, leaving the woman unsatisfy and hungry for more after love making.
When a woman did not climax after love making, it makes her whole body system restless, disorganized, unhappy and abandoned.
This is simply why some women go outside their marriage to get that sexual climax or orgasm which their husband could not give them.
Research I conducted which is In line with other research worldwide, shows that about fifty percent of married women don’t always climax or reach orgasm after sex, thirty percent have not climax or experience orgasm, while only twenty percent of married women climax or reach orgasm after love making. This shows that many married men are not performing there sexual functions and responsibilities on their wives.
In conclution,men have to look into their sexual life and make the necessary things that will make their wives to climax and enjoy love making.

The topic of this article is” THE CHEATING WIFE,WHO IS TO BLAME,THE MAN OR THE WOMAN”. The piece has answered the question, except you don’t agree with me, and I want to know why your answer is different by sending your comments through link below.

This article is written by Amaechi David,a Sex Therapist and Herbal Doctor.
For comments and contribution:Mddavidblog..
Phone: 08038456487,08188167459

Abeg, someone should summarize

there is no justification for cheating... simple!!..if you are unhappy... Leave!!!

cheating is never a solution, if u can't continue, go ur way

See them with their pride unable unwilling to take corrections

Azimovic9:
Abeg, someone should summarize

The topic is very clear,most men are guilty of sephism in their wives.

anthonyuncle:
cheating is never a solution,
if can't continue, go ur way

I am not saying it is justified for a married woman to cheat,but the reason why some married women cheat and that most men are sexually selfish.

chiommy123:
See them with their pride unable unwilling to take corrections

Thanks, you got the full message

babyfaceafrica:
there is no justification for cheating... simple!!..if you are unhappy... Leave!!!

I never justify cheating, but men should not be sexually selfish.
If you are climax after love making and your.
wife did not and you didn't do any thing to make her clinax,then you been selfish.Sex is a two way game, not one way game.

mddavid:
I never justify cheating, but men should not be sexually selfish.
If you are climax after love making and your.
wife did not and you didn't do any thing to make her clinax,then you been selfish.Sex is a two way game, not one way game.

is sex everything?.. if the wife feels the man cannot satisfy her..she should leave the union?...cheating is not allowed!!

mddavid:
I am not saying it is justified for a married woman to cheat,but the reason why some married women cheat and that most men are sexually selfish.

only cowards cheat!

babyfaceafrica:
there is no justification for cheating... simple!!..if you are unhappy... Leave!!!

After love making, you happy, but don't care if your wife is happy.
Please don't be sexually selfish

mddavid:
After love making, you happy, but don't care if your wife is happy. Please don't be sexually selfish

OK..be encouraging them o

babyfaceafrica:
only cowards cheat!

I don't agree with you,some men make their wives to cheat.I am saying this from my chat with some women all over the world.

babyfaceafrica:
OK..be encouraging them o

I am not encouraging cheating, but advice for men not to be sexually selfish

babyfaceafrica:
is sex everything?.. if the wife feels the man cannot satisfy her..she should leave the union?...cheating is not allowed!!

Please understand my message, I never said cheating is good or encourage it,but what I am saying is some reasons why most women cheat and how men can prevent it.

babyfaceafrica:
is sex everything?.. if the wife feels the man cannot satisfy her..she should leave trhe union?...cheating is not allowed!!

Sex is the food of marriage.

mddavid:
I don't agree with you,some men make their wives to cheat.I am saying this from my chat with some women all over the world.

no one can make you go astray..you go astray because that is where you want to go.. no one.. I repeat no one can make be cheat!!

mddavid:
I am not encouraging cheating, but advice for men not to be sexually selfish

na today

mddavid:
Please understand my message, I never said cheating is good or encourage it,but what I saying is some reasons why most women cheat

there is no reason to cheat sir..

mddavid:
Sex is the food of marriage.

for you

babyfaceafrica:
for you

Remove sex from Marriage and see what will happen, except one of them is sick, the partner will understand and cope,but apart form it,you are looking for trouble.
I chat with women worldwide, so I know what I am saying..
What is the food for marriage?

Married women are very sweet

BareFacedLies:
Married women are very sweet

lmfao

chiommy123:
See them with their pride unable unwilling to take corrections

Don't mind them

mddavid:
I am not saying it is justified for a married woman to cheat,but the reason why some married women cheat and that most men are sexually selfish.

whether than man is selfish or whatever, it's better she ends da marriage and live her life than cheating