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Dickhead02:
And what wrong with that. never despised the days of little beginnings,you never know what the future hold for this guy

If as a Nigerian girl i carry waste for survival, will you come close to me much more being Proud of me as you girlfriend? Answer this question sincerly

Silly men love giving women all sorts of ridiculous standards to live up to while they feel they can do whatever and women are still supposed to love and want them.

same bunch of clowns were supporting a thread on FP a while ago where the op was saying men can't remain with the g.f they had while they were broke if she cannot make money to match his new level too.

Yet these clowns always want to find a way to try to demonize women who even attempt to have any sort of financial standards for any man she wants to date.

Men love to raise their standards to the clouds yet bash any woman who attempts to raise hers above floor level.

I'm just glad women are now seeing through the hypocrisy of men and no longer falling for such trash.

CruellaDeVil:
You think abroad store manager is the same as a Nigerian manager? The manager of a big multinational like Starbucks earns between $50k to $70 k a year minus bonuses and other benefits while your typical Nigerian manager would not earn more that N 2 million per year, about $7k a year. Being a manager is not by any means a small job or a lowly job.

Exactly! You just took the words out of my mouth.

Oluromantic:
Nobody prays for it bro. No sane man does. But the vow... "For better, for worse till death do us part" is very deep!

Besides that picture does not look like a man who was rich before then became broke. That's simply a picture if a man who's proud of his job and his girl with open humility embraces it.

You sabi jare. Some people are reading several meanings to the post. Anyway, that is the idea -thought provoking.

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Good question

gloria34:
If as a Nigerian girl i carry waste for survival, will you come close to me much more being Proud of me as you girlfriend? Answer this question sincerly

Yes i will

Usamabutt333:
Yes i will

Fine, one dey my area, make i arrange her 4 you?

gloria34:
If as a Nigerian girl i carry waste for survival, will you come close to me much more being Proud of me as you girlfriend? Answer this question sincerly

There are worse things. and to your question ,no I won't.

Dickhead02:
There are worse things. and to your question ,no I won't.

Why then will a Nigerian girl be expected to do same? Waste management in most western countries is not same as Nigeria, the pix is enough evidence.

CruellaDeVil:
I don’t just know why you Nigerian men derive pleasure in seeing a woman stay with a struggling man, I don’t know if it massages your ego in some way. Why do you always come up with all these ridiculous scenarios? You just want an excuse to bash Nigerian women as usual or what? You’d expect us to be “proud” of a trash collector husband to show how loyal and good we are but let me ask you this: how many of you men would Resist the temptation to cheat on your wife after she’s had 3 children and her body isn’t the sexy body it used to be? You lot would be quick to shout “she let herself go, she’s supposed to remain sexy for me. Men are visual beings and we are moved by what we see. I don’t find her attractive anymore and she’s supposed to stay attractive for me so I won’t look outside”. Can you see the hypocrisy?
To answer your question, women are material beings and you’re supposed to stay rich for her. We are moved why what we can get from you and the moment that stops, we look outside

Yes women are materialistic

I don’t blame guys who cheat because most of this women are useless and lazy
Always looking for a man to spend money on them, a woman who is ineffectual and always looking for a rich man to lavish on her will always be treated like garbage!

Please travel out of this country and see what your female counterparts are doing over there

yes I agree, we are very materialistic so don't expect us to put up with a broke or struggling man
you that have travelled out, what exactly are my female counterparts doing? pls enlighten me

BEANSANDBREAD00:
Yes women are materialistic

I don’t blame guys who cheat because most of this women are useless and lazy
Always looking for a man to spend money on them, a woman who is ineffectual and always looking for a rich man to lavish on her will always be treated like garbage!

Please travel out of this country and see what your female counterparts are doing over there

CruellaDeVil:
yes I agree, we are very materialistic so don't expect us to put up with a broke or struggling man
you that have travelled out, what exactly are my female counterparts doing? pls enlighten me

I was shocked when my cousin took his gf out on a date and they only drank tea. If it is in Nigeria where most of our girls are gluttonous, they will buy what they can not finish and put the remaining in takeaway.
What I am trying to say is that ladies should try and do something to earn clean money!
But most of our ladies think with their breast ass and vagina.. If only guys would learn how to control their 3rd leg this rubbish wouldn’t be happening.

Your female counterparts abroad are doing well.. I have a female friend there who works at Walmart, she owns a car and she is just 19

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gloria34:
Why then will a Nigerian girl be expected to do same? Waste management in most western countries is not same as Nigeria, the pix is enough evidence.

In order words, if the pay is better, why not, eh?

CruellaDeVil:
I don’t just know why you Nigerian men derive pleasure in seeing a woman stay with a struggling man, I don’t know if it massages your ego in some way. Why do you always come up with all these ridiculous scenarios? You just want an excuse to bash Nigerian women as usual or what? You’d expect us to be “proud” of a trash collector husband to show how loyal and good we are but let me ask you this: how many of you men would Resist the temptation to cheat on your wife after she’s had 3 children and her body isn’t the sexy body it used to be? You lot would be quick to shout “she let herself go, she’s supposed to remain sexy for me. Men are visual beings and we are moved by what we see. I don’t find her attractive anymore and she’s supposed to stay attractive for me so I won’t look outside”. Can you see the hypocrisy?
To answer your question, women are material beings and you’re supposed to stay rich for her. We are moved why what we can get from you and the moment that stops, we look outside

I love you babe, MAY God bless you

it seems people are getting dumb daily, so you are telling me that man in the pic is paid well as a waste man.. this is the most poorly paid job in the western world..pls forget that photoshopped pic, it was made for an advert. the man isnt even driving the truck

pls get sense, to be a wasteman you need an iq of 45- 60, that is like retardness if he was that smart and educated he would have been an engineer and not a wasteman

which whitewoman will want to stay and live with a richman turn waste man standing at the back of a truck, when things go south white women leave very fast and even divorce you. pls forget all those fantasy from movies.

OkaNaUbe:
In order words, if the pay is better, why not, eh?

Maybe you Cant see how neat and organized it is. And yes, better pay. I Cant marry a broke guy

lilwetdick:
it seems people are getting dumb daily, so you are telling me that man in the pic is paid well as a waste man.. this is the most poorly paid job in the western world..pls forget that photoshopped pic, it was made for an advert. the man isnt even driving the truck

pls get sense, to be a wasteman you need an iq of 45- 60, that is like retardness if he was that smart and educated he would have been an engineer and not a wasteman

which whitewoman will want to stay and live with a richman turn waste man standing at the back of a truck, when things go south white women leave very fast and even divorce you. pls forget all those fantasy from movies.

Say what u know ok....
The average salary of a waste collector in UK is 25000 pounds, same as starting salary of a nurse....
In usa, it's around 35000 dollars, same as most non professional jobs....

Look here, the salary structure in western countries is different from Nigeria....
First, whatever u do, the salary package should be enough to last u the next pay check...
That's why there's minimum wage.....
2. There must be provision for career progression in the job based on experience n certification.....
This allows u build a career and move up the cadre, unlike in Nigeria where u are stuck as a trash collector for life.....

U will be surprise that trash collector in that picture has his own house, buys a latest average car and goes on foreign holiday with his girlfriend.....
So long u hardworking, u will be fine....

I'm not talking what I've heard but what I've seen and experienced with my own eyes.....
The lady who cleans my house isn't coming this weekend because she's gone on Easter holiday with her family....
It's 2 different world entirely that are irreconcilable.....

Chai see true love

All of you here are just talking based on your imaginations and insecurities the fact is everybody has their type and class a trash collector can still find a beautiful wife or g.f of his class yes nature has a way of favouring all humans .

if you have a standard for high class men or women to marry or date first ask yourself self if you are good enough for them meaning what you like may not like you which is sad.most men who crave beautiful and classy women do not have the financial means or even the confidence to attract such women .same thing with women too you may not match up with your dream man in terms of education,intellect

in reality most of women will later settle for less or average men and then love and compatibilty conquers all.
peace .

SIRTee15:
Say what u know ok....
The average salary of a waste collector in UK is 25000 pounds, same as starting salary of a nurse....
In usa, it's around 35000 dollars, same as most non professional jobs....

Look here, the salary structure in western countries is different from Nigeria....
First, whatever u do, the salary package should be enough to last u the next pay check...
That's why there's minimum wage.....
2. There must be provision for career progression in the job based on experience n certification.....
This allows u build a career and move up the cadre, unlike in Nigeria where u are stuck as a trash collector for life.....

U will be surprise that trash collector in that picture has his own house, buys a latest average car and goes on foreign holiday with his girlfriend.....
So long u hardworking, u will be fine....

I'm not talking what I've heard but what I've seen and experienced with my own eyes.....
The lady who cleans my house isn't coming this weekend because she's gone on Easter holiday with her family....
It's 2 different world entirely that are irreconcilable.....

i think, this is some fantasy... owning a garbage company is different from being a waste collector, owners of gabage companies make a hell lot of cash but being a worker there, they pay less, in the uk they pay £8.69 per hour .

we have different salary structures because of different standards of living and cost of living, i think you are writing fantasy..there are many jobs in Nigeria that gives you time for career development, the companies sometimes even sponsor you.

in nigeria, only an illitrate or a poor person does trash collection, he or she will be stuck for life there because he doesnt have the neccessary skills and knowledge to get a better job.

that trash collector doesn't own any shit like you wrote, as I wrote that was an ad

so the lady that cleans your house, who is paying her, is it not you that is paying her? so she is a millionaire..pls cleaning someone house is the lowest job ever in western society that s why the job is left for foreigners. it is not a high paying job, you ar typing like you pay her in millions. abeg stop your hype.

lilwetdick:
i think, this is some fantasy... owning a garbage company is different from being a waste collector, owners of gabage companies make a hell lot of cash but being a worker there, they pay less, in the uk they pay £8.69 per hour .

we have different salary structures because of different standards of living and cost of living, i think you are writing fantasy..there are many jobs in Nigeria that gives you time for career development, the companies sometimes even sponsor you.

in nigeria, only an illitrate or a poor person does trash collection, he or she will be stuck for life there because he doesnt have the neccessary skills and knowledge to get a better job.

that trash collector doesn't own any shit like you wrote, as I wrote that was an ad

so the lady that cleans your house, who is paying her, is it not you that is paying her? so she is a millionaire..pls cleaning someone house is the lowest job ever in western society that s why the job is left for foreigners. it is not a high paying job, you ar typing like you pay her in millions. abeg stop your hype.

I'm talking of a trash collector with possible high school certificate, maybe some added degree from some community college....
And am talking of building a career in the waste collection system not leaving for another job....
Yes, they live ok, own houses and cars because I see them everyday in my GP....
And yes, they retire on same job with good retirement benefit....
I once told a taxi driver how much I earn in a month based on my profession and was asking me if it's a weekly or forthnight....
I understand where u coming from.....
In naija, artisans are poorly paid and those jobs are considered dregs of the society.....
Here, its different....
Carpenters, builders, welders, electrician, mechanics, truck drivers are good career choice for non professionalsin most western countries....
My GP is in a rural community, so they are mostly my clients....
I don't pay my cleaner millions, but whatever she earns is enough for her to take a vacation with her family....
Here, vacation isn't a luxury but a must if u working....
It's a different world here bro.....

He was rich and then things went bad that he has to work with LAWMA. What kind of man is that? He must have the brains to do something better. Someone that had wealth before

SIRTee15:
I'm talking of a trash collector with possible high school certificate, maybe some added degree from some community college....
And am talking of building a career in the waste collection system not leaving for another job....
Yes, they live ok, own houses and cars because I see them everyday in my GP....
And yes, they retire on same job with good retirement benefit....
I once told a taxi driver how much I earn in a month based on my profession and was asking me if it's a weekly or forthnight....
I understand where u coming from.....
In naija, artisans are poorly paid and those jobs are considered dregs of the society.....
Here, its different....
Carpenters, builders, welders, electrician, mechanics, truck drivers are good career choice for non professionalsin most western countries....
My GP is in a rural community, so they are mostly my clients....
I don't pay my cleaner millions, but whatever she earns is enough for her to take a vacation with her family....
Here, vacation isn't a luxury but a must if u working....
It's a different world here bro.....

but are trash collectors not waste collectors also

building a career in the waste collection business is just the same everywhere in the world, if you are ambitious, you can get anywhere, it is also similar process in nigeria..waste collectors becoming owners of waste companies or being promoted that is if you work with govt or some private companies.

yes i understand that artisans jobs are well-paying jobs but a house cleaner isn't a well-paid job nor an artesian job

also going on vacation might not be necessary to travel abroad, it can be to another city to see family relations or just spending time with your family at home, I know for sure, a woman cleaning a houses can't afford to go overseas with her family for vacation except she works for a very rich family who does not need slave labor.

to add, not every worker in western world go or can afford to go on vocation abroad.

ImaIma1:
He was rich and then things went bad that he has to work with LAWMA. What kind of man is that? He must have the brains to do something better. Someone that had wealth before

exactly.. he has the network and also the brain.. i have never seen a once rich man who went broke and started collecting trash, if he was collecting trash that must be his company

My sweedish friend told me, the only reason Sweden is where it is today is becos they find dignity in labour, no matter what ur job is so long as it pays ur bills and keeps u from stealing or begging.... Its enough

lilwetdick:
but are trash collectors not waste collectors also

building a career in the waste collection business is just the same everywhere in the world, if you are ambitious, you can get anywhere, it is also similar process in nigeria..waste collectors becoming owners of waste companies or being promoted that is if you work with govt or some private companies.

yes i understand that artisans jobs are well-paying jobs but a house cleaner isn't a well-paid job nor an artesian job

also going on vacation might not be necessary to travel abroad, it can be to another city to see family relations or just spending time with your family at home, I know for sure, a woman cleaning a houses can't afford to go overseas with her family for vacation except she works for a very rich family who does not need slave labor.

to add, not every worker in western world go or can afford to go on vocation abroad.

My guy, she's gone to Greece with her family..
Uk people no dey joke with greece n spain....
If u see any british people who hasn't been to any of these countries, something must be wrong somewhere....
What u should be asking is how much does it cost to go on these vacations....
With 250 pounds, u can visit most european cities for weekend....
Students who work per time save n go on vacation....
Wetin come do full time worker....
My cousin who works 7.50 pounds per hour as HCA just came back from a 3 days trip in Portugal.....
I'm done talking about my cleaner, but people who earn minimum wage go on vacation if they want to.....

Look here, my aim is to disabuse your mind that thrash collectors live a wretched life....
No they don't, they should be able to afford basic necessities n some comfort if they manage their lives well....
They may not afford a 2017 bmw X7 or fly first class, but this is applicable to most middle class too....
Now this unlike what obtains in naija, where until u break into upper class, basic necessities aren't guaranteed n comfort of life is an illusion....

I looveeeeee youu!!!!

Preachhhh!!!!!

CruellaDeVil:
I don’t just know why you Nigerian men derive pleasure in seeing a woman stay with a struggling man, I don’t know if it massages your ego in some way. Why do you always come up with all these ridiculous scenarios? You just want an excuse to bash Nigerian women as usual or what? You’d expect us to be “proud” of a trash collector husband to show how loyal and good we are but let me ask you this: how many of you men would Resist the temptation to cheat on your wife after she’s had 3 children and her body isn’t the sexy body it used to be? You lot would be quick to shout “she let herself go, she’s supposed to remain sexy for me. Men are visual beings and we are moved by what we see. I don’t find her attractive anymore and she’s supposed to stay attractive for me so I won’t look outside”. Can you see the hypocrisy?
To answer your question, women are material beings and you’re supposed to stay rich for her. We are moved why what we can get from you and the moment that stops, we look outside

SIRTee15:
My guy, she's gone to Greece with her family..
Uk people no dey joke with greece n spain....
If u see any british people who hasn't been to any of these countries, something must be wrong somewhere....
What u should be asking is how much does it cost to go on these vacations....
With 250 pounds, u can visit most european cities for weekend....
Students who work per time save n go on vacation....
Wetin come do full time worker....
My cousin who works 7.50 pounds per hour as HCA just came back from a 3 days trip in Portugal.....
I'm done talking about my cleaner, but people who earn minimum wage go on vacation if they want to.....

Look here, my aim is to disabuse your mind that thrash collectors live a wretched life....
No they don't, they should be able to afford basic necessities n some comfort if they manage their lives well....
They may not afford a 2017 bmw X7 or fly first class, but this is applicable to most middle class too....
Now this unlike what obtains in naija, where until u break into upper class, basic necessities aren't guaranteed n comfort of life is an illusion....

basic necessities arent guarantee for anyone, you have to work for it everywhere in the world, one place might have opportunities than others but does mean, you get everything in a platter of gold.

as you wrote she went to greece because it is very cheap.. so it means she cant afford expensive places because of her pay, people who also earn 150,000-250,000 also go on a vocation to cheap places in Nigeria or outside nigeria too, i guess dubai is a destination for many of them

comfort in life is not an illusion in nigeria, you get comfort in life according to your pay and saving..

lilwetdick:
but are trash collectors not waste collectors also

building a career in the waste collection business is just the same everywhere in the world, if you are ambitious, you can get anywhere, it is also similar process in nigeria..waste collectors becoming owners of waste companies or being promoted that is if you work with govt or some private companies.

yes i understand that artisans jobs are well-paying jobs but a house cleaner isn't a well-paid job nor an artesian job

also going on vacation might not be necessary to travel abroad, it can be to another city to see family relations or just spending time with your family at home, I know for sure, a woman cleaning a houses can't afford to go overseas with her family for vacation except she works for a very rich family who does not need slave labor.

to add, not every worker in western world go or can afford to go on vocation abroad.

Because it's a job that most people won't do and the fact that you are exposed to hazards, they these guys a lot of money, more than the 8 something that you quoted. What that guy said is true, most of them earn a very good living from it.

I would prefer a bin man to a butcher because the smell when they get home will kill me.

lilwetdick:
basic necessities arent guarantee for anyone, you have to work for it everywhere in the world, one place might have opportunities than others but does mean, you get everything in a platter of gold.

as you wrote she went to greece because it is very cheap.. so it means she cant afford expensive places because of her pay, people who also earn 150,000-250,000 also go on a vocation to cheap places in Nigeria or outside nigeria too, i guess dubai is a destination for many of them

comfort in life is not an illusion in nigeria, you get comfort in life according to your pay and saving..

I now realised u are very ignorant of western nations wage structure relativity......
U know nothing about minimum wage n salary structure in western countries....
U have no idea the standard of living of cleaners or thrash collectors abroad....
Yet u came here and started acting like Mr know all....
Next time b4 u engage in any discussion, read very well b4 u comment....
Google is free....
Otherwise ask questioned n be schooled....
Rather than passing false information up n down, yet contending ignorantly....
Very annoying trait of so called educated Nigerians.....

SIRTee15:
I now realised u are very ignorant of western nations wage structure relativity......
U know nothing about minimum wage n salary structure in western countries....
U have no idea the standard of living of cleaners or thrash collectors abroad....
Yet u came here and started acting like Mr know all....
Next time b4 u engage in any discussion, read very well b4 u comment....
Google is free....
Otherwise ask questioned n be schooled....
Rather than passing false information up n down, yet contending ignorantly....
Very annoying trait of so called educated Nigerians.....

stop all your nonsense hype of western countries and so called wage and salary structures, writing like no poor people there, no homeless living on the street, everybody is living a comfortable life there free of charge. abegi.. stop hyping nonsense