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I have a fiancee I have met the parents, she doesn't know I login her Facebook.... Almost everyday she search for her exboyfriend on Facebook.... Not that this person post pictures often not even posted a picture this year.

Now I have blocked my fiancee on Facebook, but she doesn't know my mind or what happened. This his ex is married so in my heart is over between me and her.

We fixed our marriage already but I will cancel it in a couple of weeks.

if you do not break it now, get ready to see two babies from her ex in your house

most women are foolish, so I'd advice you to dump foolishness

It could mean something, but it could also mean nothing other than curiosity on her part.
I've been obsessed with checking out some exes in the past. It's usually a particular ex at a time. IDK why I do it because it's not like I want them back. This I know deep inside my heart. Well anyway, eventually I get bored with the stalking & find something else to do with my time. So don't rush into your decision until you're sure there's more to it. Social media makes things easily accessible, so sometimes it's hard to ignore the temptation of spying on a few people even when they mean absolutely nothing to you.

XhosaNostra:
It could mean something, but it could also mean nothing other than curiosity on her part.
I've been obsessed with checking out some exes in the past. It's usually a particular ex at a time. IDK why I do it because it's not like I want them back. This I know deep inside my heart. Well anyway, eventually I get bored with the stalking & find something else to do with my time. So don't rush into your decision until you're sure there's more to it. Social media makes things easily accessible, so sometimes it's hard to ignore the temptation of spying on a few people even when they mean absolutely nothing to you.

well said......oh could that be you?

SmellySperm:
well said......oh could that be you?

Lol, I have no fiance that I'm aware of.

Tell her your findings and let her know that the marriage can’t proceed again because she is not trustworthy.

XhosaNostra:
Lol, I have no fiance that I'm aware of.

told you I'll be coming to SA to check on you

SmellySperm:
told you I'll be coming to SA to check on you

Hahaha. Save your money, you'll be disappointed I'm a very shy person

XhosaNostra:
It could mean something, but it could also mean nothing other than curiosity on her part.
I've been obsessed with checking out some exes in the past. It's usually a particular ex at a time. IDK why I do it because it's not like I want them back. This I know deep inside my heart. Well anyway, eventually I get bored with the stalking & find something else to do with my time. So don't rush into your decision until you're sure there's more to it. Social media makes things easily accessible, so sometimes it's hard to ignore the temptation of spying on a few people even when they mean absolutely nothing to you.

I understand but stalking an ex like that is beyond imagination, and I'm not ok with that.

How can one know who searched who on facebook?

CyberWolf:
Tell her your findings and let her that the marriage can’t proceed again because she is not trustworthy.

I will after I cancel the marriage and inform her parents, but definitely I don't think I will change my mind and marry her. She checks his Facebook always which is a bad Omen.

MrExpensive:
I understand but stalking an ex like that is beyond imagination, and I'm not ok with that.

What's beyond imagination to you is possible to someone else, remember that. I do understand your concern though. Well if she's not reaching out to him or anything like that, perhaps she's just doing it because she can & not because she's still pining for him. Do you get the sense she still has feelings for him? I believe your intuition will provide a better answer than mere speculations from us.

Suit yourself, if meeting her parents and then dumping her for no reason is what makes you happy then do it. You say you check her FB often, the question is what do you see? Her checking her ex online means nothing, she may be curious to know his progress in life with no strings attached, you did not catch her cheating, so you can't conclude. How would you feel if she interferes with your privacy by checking you FB? Why do you want to wait for more weeks before you tell her you wanna quit? The earlier she moves on the better.

XhosaNostra:
What's beyond imagination to you is possible to someone else, remember that. I do understand your concern though. Well if she's not reaching out to him or anything like that, perhaps she's just doing it because she can & not because she's still pining for him. Do you get the sense she still has feelings for him? I believe your intuition will provide a better answer than mere speculations from us.

I have ex but don't check on her, if she checks once in a while ok. But almost daily is something else and it's up to her.. for whatever reason

LilMissFavvy:
Suit yourself, if meeting her parents and then dumping her for no reason is what makes you happy then do it. You say you check her FB often, the question is what do you see? Her checking her ex online means nothing, she may be curious to know his progress in life with no strings attached, you did not catch her cheating, so you can't conclude. How would you feel if she interferes with your privacy by checking you FB? Why do you want to wait for more weeks before you tell her you wanna quit? The earlier she moves on the better.

I understand you... But it's getting to another level and I'm not interested in her any longer.

MrExpensive:
I have ex but don't check on her, if she checks once in a while ok. But almost daily is something else and it's up to her.. for whatever reason

She's not you though. I'm not saying what she's doing is OK, but you don't know why she's doing it other than what you're basing your thoughts on eg. your unfounded beliefs, fears, insecurities etc. It could be nothing. You won't know until you bring the subject up with her. Feelings/suspicions are not facts.

MrExpensive:
I understand you... But it's getting to another level and I'm not interested in her any longer.

Na now you dey talk true, you are no longer interested. Lol, u better tell her now so she can find someone better o

MrExpensive:
I understand you... But it's getting to another level and I'm not interested in her any longer.

Why is that @ bolded? Because of the ex or you're harbouring secrets of your own?

XhosaNostra:
She's not you though. I'm not saying what she's doing is OK, but you don't know why she's doing it other than what you're basing your thoughts on eg. your unfounded beliefs, fears, insecurities etc. It could be nothing. You won't know until you bring the subject up with her. Feelings/suspicions are not facts.

I'm not suspecting her, I'm not an insecure man... But she stalking her ex and searching him on Facebook almost everyday is a no no for me... I have been following her records secretly because I logged in her Facebook unknowingly to her.

MrExpensive:
I'm not suspecting her, I'm not an insecure man... But she stalking her ex and searching him on Facebook almost everyday is a no no for me... I have been following her records secretly because I logged in her Facebook unknowingly to her.

In that case, suit yourself. Some of us have been explaining that there could be nothing behind her actions but mere curiosity. But since you're adamant, go well go shell ✌