Toxic Relationships drains. It is better to end a relationship that makes no positive impact in your life than to remain in a cage (wrong relationship) with a toxic partner.

To end a friendship or relationship does not necessarily mean you are not capable of sustaining it, rather it is a way of setting yourself free from a wrong partner.

Many go into relationship only to find out that they are with the wrong person. They are signs that shows you are with the wrong person in a relationship.

It is better to end a Relationship at the initial stage than to end up in divorce after marriage. See also five reasons why people make the wrong choice in marriage. The fact is that you are the driver of your life. You determine who stays and who goes out.

Here are the signs that shows it is time to end your relationship.


1. There is lots of criticism from your partner:

One who truly love you will not criticize you, rather he/she will correct you in a loving manner. If your relationship is full of criticism then it is high time you put an end to it.

You ought to enjoy your relationship with your partner and not endure it. Relationship is not an avenue for criticism.





2. Constant quarrels and arguments:

Every relationship has its own challenges. The difference between your relationship and that of your friend is how you handle certain things.
If your relationship is full of quarrels and arguments, it may be a clear sign that shows you and your partner are not compatible.





3. He/she abuses you often:

A partner who abuses you in a relationship will do same when you get married. Be it sexual abuse, mental or any form of abuse, it is totally wrong.

Anyone who claims to love you but does not respect you nor your privacy is not worthy to be with you. Therefore, cut sure relationship and move on with your life.




4. Constant cheating in the relationship:

A partner who is not faithful in a relationship stage will never be faithful in marriage. Remember, marriage is for better for worse. Can you endure it if you should come back one day and see your husband or wife with another person on your matrimonial bed?




5. You are being taken for granted:

A good partner will always value his/her partner. You can never please anyone who takes you for granted. If your partner often take you for granted, discuss it with him/her. If he/she refuse to listen to you then go on and end the relationship.






6. You feel drained whenever you are with your partner:

A loving relationship ought to energize you and not drain you. If you always feel tired or not happy when and after being with your partner, it shows you are not compatible. It may be because of his/her attitude that makes you unhappy whenever you are together.
If you can't cope with it any longer then go on and end the relationship.





7. He/she does not value your opinion:

You are so important as your partner is. If he/she does not value or accept your advice then you are with the wrong person.
Any person or partner who look down on you will never make a good marriage.




8. You don't love him/her anymore:

You cannot remain in a relationship with someone you don't have feelings for anymore. When your love for someone departs, your spirit cannot walk together with him/her anymore.





9. The relationship is not balanced:

One person is benefiting from the relationship whereas the other is not. Such relationship is called "Parasitic relationship".

Every relationship ought to be balanced and not one sided. Even if you don't have anything to offer, contribute immensely for the success of the relationship.





10. You have totally become an option to him/her:

Those who make you an option are those who don't know your worth. You cannot make your partner your priority but you are an option to him/her. It is not wise.

If you are not important to him/her in the relationship, then put an end to it.




CONCLUSION:

Figure out what you cannot tolerate if you should get married to your partner. If you find those displeasing things in your partner and you know you cannot cope with it, then end the relationship. Never forget that no one is perfect not even you yourself. But your joy and happiness is the ultimate. Therefore; cut off any relationship that will take away your joy.

11. You don't have money

Nice one Op.