I don't think I can feel comfortable creating a thread to seek advice or something similar concerning a critical/personal issue on second party most especially between my girlfriend, my ex or family member. Reason being that the question that do pop up in my mind: "What if the person in subject is viewing/reading the post?"

This particular question is what I was thinking reading a particular thread by a Nairalander about her ex that called her to see her after four years. What if the person is viewing the thread? Assuming the person is viewing the thread, I think the games is exposed. And this will help the guy in winning big time.

Do you have this thought too?

Yeah I do sometimes.