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For starters, I may or may not be considered antisocial and my beliefs, behaviours and other tendencies do not reflect the normal way of life I see people around me adhere to.

But I always notice that when I vibe with most quiet people, there's a crazy way of life behind their seemingly dry outlook. There's always that thing that bursts brains. They just have crazy behavioural patterns.

Share your experiences with people you've vibed with or share your own vibes

Man's in the comments.

Antisocial people are narcissist in nature that is my experience with them.

for freakiness, when someone is antisocial, he or she spends their time fantasizing and creating strange scenarios in their mind, many of them have these tendencies not to let go in a relationship because they fear they wont find another person because of their anti-social skills

so going out with an antisocial person can be depressing at first and also difficult to break up because of the uses of guilt entrapment to trap an individual

are they freaky on bed, it depends on the individual but what i know for sure many anti-social people get almost all their sexual fantasies from porn so when you meet them, they want to practicalise that on you so as to hook you with the sex, they give you sex every day, so that you get addicted and can't leave.

many antisocial people are self destructive and very hard to save.

lilwetdick:
Antisocial people are narcissist in nature that is my experience with them.

for freakiness, when someone is antisocial, he or she spends their time fantasizing and creating strange scenarios in their mind, many of them have these tendencies not to let go in a relationship because they fear they wont find another person because of their anti-social skills

so going out with an antisocial person can be depressing at first and also difficult to break up because of the uses of guilt entrapment to trap an individual

are they freaky on bed, it depends on the individual but what i know for sure many anit-social people get almost all their sexual fantasies from porn so when you meet them, they want to practicalise that on you so as to hook you with the sex, they give you sex every day, so that you get addicted and can't leave.

many antisocial people are self destructive and very hard to save.

You ain't lying about the first one. I do get delusions of grandeur

Man also has a phenomenal idc attitude.

LeiderJa:
You ain't lying about the first one. I do get delusions of grandeur

Man also has a phenomenal idc attitude.

i dont care attitude is good but to the extreme very bad... now delusions of grandeur is my opinion is craziness

Antisocial is an extreme disorder associated with terrorists and people who want to hurt the society.
The word you want to use is Asocial.

Dunno all about this but i know I love my inner self talks

Don't know if I'm antisocial but I know my serial killers than real life people.


Its all I read about when I'm not watching horror movies

CreepyBlackpool:
Don't know if I'm antisocial but I know my serial killers than real life people.


Its all I read about when I'm not watching horror movies

I know only Ted Bundy

I also feel most of the killers being put out there as evil and ruthless don't have as many kill counts as other clandestine ones. Do you think so?

lilwetdick:
Antisocial people are narcissist in nature that is my experience with them.

for freakiness, when someone is antisocial, he or she spends their time fantasizing and creating strange scenarios in their mind, many of them have these tendencies not to let go in a relationship because they fear they wont find another person because of their anti-social skills

so going out with an antisocial person can be depressing at first and also difficult to break up because of the uses of guilt entrapment to trap an individual

are they freaky on bed, it depends on the individual but what i know for sure many anit-social people get almost all their sexual fantasies from porn so when you meet them, they want to practicalise that on you so as to hook you with the sex, they give you sex every day, so that you get addicted and can't leave.

many antisocial people are self destructive and very hard to save.

You got the bolded wrong. They hate being dumped for two reasons 1)they think they're the best thing to happen to the person that dumped them, so 2) how dare they.
Narcissism & anti-social personality tend to go together. Both give a person an inflated sense of self aka big ego & glibness aka artificial charm. So no, they don't lack social skills. They have them by bucket loads, in fact, due to their chameleon & observant nature. They know just how to tailor-cut themselves to the needs & wants of people around them. Which is another one of their many talents, being manipulative & having the ability to transform themselves into whatever you want them to be. They don't have a problem ending relationships, but it must be on their terms. Remember you're a maggot that they're just gracing with their "awesomeness" to them, so they will dump you without second thought. The "narcissistic injury" only happens when they're unceremoniously dumped by a "non-entity" that they believe they're better than, which is 99.9% of the population as far as they're concerned.

Mum thinks am gay cos I dont talk to girls. Dad thinks I dont care about anybody/anything just because I dont show.
I might always be alone like am not doing anything,but deep down,I know how busy I am.

XhosaNostra:
You got the bolded wrong. They hate being dumped for two reasons 1)they think they're the best thing to happen to the person that dumped them, so 2) how dare they.
Narcissism & anti-social personality tend to go together. Both give a person an inflated sense of self aka big ego & glibness aka artificial charm. So no, they don't lack social skills. They have them by bucket loads, in fact, due to their chameleon & observant nature. They know just how to tailor-cut themselves to the needs & wants of people around them. Which is another one of their many talents, being manipulative & having the ability to transform themselves into whatever you want them to be. They don't have a problem ending relationships, but it must be on their terms. Remember you're a maggot that they're just gracing with their "awesomeness" to them, so they will dump you without second thought. The "narcissistic injury" only happens when they're unceremoniously dumped by a "non-entity" that they believe they're better than, which is 99.9% of the population as far as they're concerned.

i guess your observation is from the books and internet.. in reality it is different, i dated one and this girl was shy with low self esteem and anti-social, self destructive, almost blackmailed me when i left her...she wanted to commit sucide, stalked me and made life uncomfortable just because i said i dont want her again. called my phone number of times with threats, hooked me down with sex, got jealous if i talked to other girls, very obsessive and wanted me for her alone.

lilwetdick:
i guess your observation is from the books and internet.. in reality it is different, i dated one and this girl was shy with low self esteem and anti-social, self destructive, almost blackmailed me when i left her...she wanted to commit sucide, stalked me and made life uncomfortable just because i said i dont want her again. called my phone number of times with threats, hooked me down with sex, got jealous if i talked to other girls, very obsessive and wanted me for her alone.

Wtf.. she did all this you mentioned just because you have a wrtdick or what? she must be a very lonely person

Wiziman:
Wtf.. she did all this you mentioned just because you have a wrtdick or what? she must be a very lonely person

i know for her, she saw me like her jesus..she was down for anything i said..if i wanted to useless her life and make her a drug addict, so easy for me.

lilwetdick:
i guess your observation is from the books and internet.. in reality it is different, i dated one and this girl was shy with low self esteem and anti-social, self destructive, almost blackmailed me when i left her...she wanted to commit sucide, stalked me and made life uncomfortable just because i said i dont want her again. called my phone number of times with threats, hooked me down with sex, got jealous if i talked to other girls, very obsessive and wanted me for her alone.

Yeah, but the motivation behind that was most def "How date this louse ditch me?" & not "I can't do better". There's always a next sucker & nobody knows this more than someone with a dysfunctional personality. They can almost smell weakness/vulnerability in others & they also know when they're fighting a losing battle. If she stopped obsessing over you, she probably found someone else to feed her narcissism or whatever her issue was. These people are never short of suitors because they know how to play all the different parts perfectly & they're usually good in bed, so moving on or hooking the next one is a walk in the park. Remember that they have to survive (usually undetected until it's too late), so they come prepared with a useful bag of tricks up their sleeve. Underestimate psychopaths at your own peril. They rarely "need" anyone. They can fake it though.

lilwetdick:
i know for her, she saw me like her jesus..she was down for anything i said..if i wanted to useless her life and make her a drug addict, so easy for me.

I guess she was jobless as of then, busy people don't behave this way

lilwetdick:
Antisocial people are narcissist in nature that is my experience with them.

for freakiness, when someone is antisocial, he or she spends their time fantasizing and creating strange scenarios in their mind, many of them have these tendencies not to let go in a relationship because they fear they wont find another person because of their anti-social skills

so going out with an antisocial person can be depressing at first and also difficult to break up because of the uses of guilt entrapment to trap an individual

are they freaky on bed, it depends on the individual but what i know for sure many anit-social people get almost all their sexual fantasies from porn so when you meet them, they want to practicalise that on you so as to hook you with the sex, they give you sex every day, so that you get addicted and can't leave.

many antisocial people are self destructive and very hard to save.

Wait a minute! Are you some sort of therapist because you just read me completely, that's my whole live you just put out there, it's depressing being antisocial, both my parents thinks I'm gay because they don't see me with girls, then again they think I'm asexual because I have no friends, its really a downpour

CreepyBlackpool:
Don't know if I'm antisocial but I know my serial killers than real life people.


Its all I read about when I'm not watching horror movies

We are in the same pool, i love watching crime shows and psychological thrillers, horror is my favourite genre especially at night, mum thinks i'm possessed because I'm majoring in psychology, I just want to get into the heads of psychopaths and sociopaths and other form of mental illness, tap into that darkness to feel their pain and also help them
P.S: I know i'm completely weird and crazy, I don't need to hear it twice

XhosaNostra:
You got the bolded wrong. They hate being dumped for two reasons 1)they think they're the best thing to happen to the person that dumped them, so 2) how dare they.
Narcissism & anti-social personality tend to go together. Both give a person an inflated sense of self aka big ego & glibness aka artificial charm. So no, they don't lack social skills. They have them by bucket loads, in fact, due to their chameleon & observant nature. They know just how to tailor-cut themselves to the needs & wants of people around them. Which is another one of their many talents, being manipulative & having the ability to transform themselves into whatever you want them to be. They don't have a problem ending relationships, but it must be on their terms. Remember you're a maggot that they're just gracing with their "awesomeness" to them, so they will dump you without second thought. The "narcissistic injury" only happens when they're unceremoniously dumped by a "non-entity" that they believe they're better than, which is 99.9% of the population as far as they're concerned.

Why didn't the universe connect us together? I swear we would have been best friends, so spot on
(Your friend who nairastalks your comments)

Sasquatch:
Why didn't the universe connect us together? I swear we would have been best friends, so spot on
(Your friend who nairastalks your comments)

You're here & I'm here, who's to say it isn't fate?

XhosaNostra:
You're here & I'm here, who's to say it isn't fate?

Lol, it definitely is

Wiziman:
I guess she was jobless as of then, busy people don't behave this way

jobless.. someone that works with a reputable company

XhosaNostra:
Yeah, but the motivation behind that was most def "How date this louse ditch me?" & not "I can't do better". There's always a next sucker & nobody knows this more than someone with a dysfunctional personality. They can almost smell weakness/vulnerability in others & they also know when they're fighting a losing battle. If she stopped obsessing over you, she probably found someone else to feed her narcissism or whatever her issue was. These people are never short of suitors because they know how to play all the different parts perfectly & they're usually good in bed, so moving on or hooking the next one is a walk in the park. Remember that they have to survive (usually undetected until it's too late), so they come prepared with a useful bag of tricks up their sleeve. Underestimate psychopaths at your own peril. They rarely "need" anyone. They can fake it though.

I don't think so... this stuff you wrote are just something you read on the internet, this person I talked about went suicidal, depressed and aggressive.. this has nothing to do with only narcissism but her fear of losing someone and not being able to get another person because of her fear of being lonely.

i have met another set of narcissist like my former team head, who has no emotions and will do anything possible to Bleep you up when things go wrong, now this person is an example of what a narcissist is, does not care about your emotion, will be with you only when his interest is there, we send the blame to you but take all the success, very manipulative, not physically abusive, show love once in while then retrieve the love, keep you in destructive work pressure state and state of limbo, very outgoing.

Sasquatch:
We are in the same pool, i love watching crime shows and psychological thrillers, horror is my favourite genre especially at night, mum thinks i'm possessed because I'm majoring in psychology, I just want to get into the heads of psychopaths and sociopaths and other form of mental illness, tap into that darkness to feel their pain and also help them
P.S: I know i'm completely weird and crazy, I don't need to hear it twice

Hmmm...we really are like peas of the same pod.

lilwetdick:
jobless.. someone that works with a reputable company

My bad

XhosaNostra:
Hmmm...we really are like peas of the same pod.

Finally, i found my match

lilwetdick:
Antisocial people are narcissist in nature that is my experience with them.

for freakiness, when someone is antisocial, he or she spends their time fantasizing and creating strange scenarios in their mind, many of them have these tendencies not to let go in a relationship because they fear they wont find another person because of their anti-social skills

so going out with an antisocial person can be depressing at first and also difficult to break up because of the uses of guilt entrapment to trap an individual

are they freaky on bed, it depends on the individual but what i know for sure many anti-social people get almost all their sexual fantasies from porn so when you meet them, they want to practicalise that on you so as to hook you with the sex, they give you sex every day, so that you get addicted and can't leave.

many antisocial people are self destructive and very hard to save.

Oh my lawd!!! I am antisocial and all you said is a whole lot of rubbish

1) I am not a narcissist

2) I am not a freek, I let go of relationship very easily cos I like my peace of mind and I love and cherish being alone.

3) Yes I have fantasies and have done almost all, but I don't trap anyone with sex, infact sex is the farthest thing in our minds cos we look for other ways to entertain ourselves.

4) We don't watch porn, we hardly masturbate.

Antisocial humans are anti people, their world revolves around the Internet or phone.

The word is ASOCIAL

Antisocial hates/wants to hurt the society

ASOCIALS are just withdrawn from people

Biglittlelois:
Oh my lawd!!! I am antisocial and all you said is a whole lot of rubbish

1) I am not a narcissist

2) I am not a freek, I let go of relationship very easily cos I like my peace of mind and I love and cherish being alone.

3) Yes I have fantasies and have done almost all, but I don't trap anyone with sex, infact sex is the farthest thing in our minds cos we look for other ways to entertain ourselves.

4) We don't watch porn, we hardly masturbate.

Antisocial humans are anti people, their world revolves around the Internet or phone.

now someone agreed with me up their if you read the comment..funny how you went fast from i to we like you are the spokeman for anti-social people

just because you are not one of these doesnt mean others are not..it is a fact that anti-social people are destructive and commit most of crimes

just because you stay on your phone all days those not mean there are others not planing some havoc to society.

lilwetdick:
now someone agreed with me up their if you read the comment..funny how you went fast from i to we like you are the spokeman for anti-social people

just because you are not one of these doesnt mean others are not..it is a fact that anti-social people are destructive and commit most of crimes

just because you stay on your phone all days those not mean there are others not planing some havoc to society.

But you were quick to say antisocial or asocial people are narcissistic, destructive and freeks, you didn't specify "some" in your previous comment, and yes I went from I to we because majority of us are not what you stated up there, the fact that one or more persons supports your notion doesn't mean you're right, your thinking was purely based on the person you were once involved with as you stated in all your comments.

Fidelismaria:
The word is ASOCIAL

Antisocial hates/wants to hurt the society

ASOCIALS are just withdrawn from people

Thanks for the correction, I'm asocial then.

I am asocial and I don’t masturbate

Sasquatch:
We are in the same pool, i love watching crime shows and psychological thrillers, horror is my favourite genre especially at night, mum thinks i'm possessed because I'm majoring in psychology, I just want to get into the heads of psychopaths and sociopaths and other form of mental illness, tap into that darkness to feel their pain and also help them
P.S: I know i'm completely weird and crazy, I don't need to hear it twice

You think psychopaths are mentally ill?
Maybe they're mentally free!.