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She must have been brainwashed by some useless Feminist, her body will come down later. Shior!

Gratefulheart01:
No mind dem people. When she dey alone dey sell bread with kids, where the hubby dey? People are too judgmental, especially Nigerians.

Nigerians are the most evil human on earth.

I agree with your last statement

Westsida:
Your just acting all blame on the man without even hearing the other side of the story. Nawao

I'm not blaming the wife nor the husband. Two people who are not married, there is no harm if any choose to go a separate way. Even married people dey divorce. With only this point, let's even forget any other ground; with only that point, she really did nothing amiss by leaving him. She could only be blamed if the guy has been a very responsible good man all the years bt she chose to leave him cos of fame.

frozen70:
Well marriage is not something to manage with both parties to an extent

Once the love is no longer there and your happiness is no longer guaranteed, just walk out gently without maiming any one

you are right but when the odds are against you, that could be "really harsh"

A pig never really leaves the gutters.

Lexusgs430:
Money and Fame, the root of all evil.......

Her ex husband should see this as a challenge........ Let's hope she does not regret this action........

Marriage is not by Fire or Force.........

even you is responding like this?

I am surprised

Oluromantic:
Nawa o. This is so obvious.. The normal trend of when a woman gets exposed to wealth, submission fades out. Its not new, everyone knows it. But how she's so undiplomatic about it is what's baffling me. Maybe cus she isn't educated.

The T.Y bello who helped her sef shd have showcased her family along in the fame progress.. That's how to help a family owner and not only she alone.

Its well!

Pls what was the man's occupation or was he solely relying on the woman's source of income and turning the woman to he's ATM because that's the part we forget easily

We are just talking even though we don't know the cause of the divorce. If the standard is not there she is right to move on. If where she is going will make her a billionaire, then she is right to leave. After all the husband will benefit through their children. And the likely cause of the divorce is over suspicious and inferiority complex of the man.

Gratefulheart01:
, i swear, i always thought they are useless (God forgive me). If not for their sex selling point, they will be irrelevant in life. Without women in the world, we will still have messi, guns, games, sports and russia, putin and every other important things. But without men in the world, things will be soo fcking shhiiiit.

Well your mother is at the top on the list of the most useless women in the world followed by your sisters. Condoms would have prevented nuisances like this.. And FYI Messi has a mother. He goat

Ugosample:
even you is responding like this?

I am surprised

Oga let's face facts and not sentiments........

When she was still selling bread, she probably never thought of divorcing him, she never had the platform to speak out.......

Now with fame & money, cometh popularity, endorsements, connections etc etc

The true pride of a real husband/wife, is to bring or assist the other party, to attain equal or much higher status, supporting themselves all the way.......

If you remember rightly when her story broke, i clearly stated this is the end of this marriage, if care and attention was not upholded........

Very crass Yoruba lady.

na to abuse, curse and use juju dem sabi.

Sally97:
Pls what was the man's occupation or was he solely relying on the woman's source of income and turning the woman to he's ATM because that's the part we forget easily

For better For worse remember.......... Did she have any plans to better or support his ministry?

Did she speak with her sponsors about assisting her husband’s ministry?.....

AmazonTopaz:
It is not a problem.
It is not only women that misbehave when they make money men are worse.
It is not a gender thing but a human thing.Money changes some people.
Please don't preach the bolded to women and girls who want to make it just limit this your reasoning to yourself.

I said that because men would always be jealous when a lady is richer than them. which will always cause problem in the family. They automatically see you as a prostitute when you're richer. With that, you will not be able to express your feelings. Whenever you try to correct him, he will always see it as disrespect. When you dress to much he will tell you that you're going to to your concubin's place and why you're dressed like that. He will always quarell over any little thing.

He may be pretending to be in support of you but deep down he is jealous.

I said that in other to avoid troubles. I don't have strength

Westsida:
No be Man take the pics on the street wey changed her life? Una go dey act as if una fit do without men.

Lol, no gender can do without the other. I have a boyfriend and i hope to get married someday but i will not stay with an abusive or a lazy husband. Nobody should endure a bad marriage in life, do what makes you happy and if she is wrong, let life deal with her. No one have the right to tell another how to live.

Let's ask ourselves what was the man doing when she was busy hawking bread before the fame? Cos all I saw was a man carrying handbag everywhere she went ,if he had something going on in his life ,I doubt he will have time to be a handbag carrier. The truth here is that man is a lazy ass freeloader.

And let's not also forget that they were not married to begin with, so I don't see the fuss about this. They have two children and he never thought of doing the needful,he is not the victim here and I wish people will stop thinking and making judgments with their emotions .

Lexusgs430:
Oga let's face facts and not sentiments........

When she was still selling bread, she probably never thought of divorcing him, she never had the platform to speak out.......

Now with fame & money, cometh popularity, endorsements, connections etc etc

The true pride of a real husband/wife, is to bring or assist the other party, to attain equal or much higher status, supporting themselves all the way.......

If you remember rightly when her story broke, i clearly stated this is the end of this marriage, if care and attention was not upholded........

nwanne listen....


By now you should know the way women behave


In a situation where she has no leverage, and the man is misbehaving, she will suck it up, but now the tables have changed, she is giving him the boot

I have seen this play out again and again in real life, that is why I am somewhat sympathetic to Jumoke.

Women with no leverage in relationships with typical naija men dey see pepper in many cases.
that is why when the opportunity comes to get even, unlike men, women are not that forgiving
they will get even ruthlessly

lordswill03:
No worries, let Nigerians start having pity on him now and shower him with car and plenty cash. Na she go even come back begging. Poverty is a disease I swear

Could this be what this whole drama is all about? Are this people trying to double the blessing?

blindjustice13:
Let's ask ourselves what was the man doing when she was busy hawking bread before the fame? Cos all I saw was a man carrying handbag everywhere she went ,if he had something going on in his life ,I doubt he will have time to be a handbag carrier. The truth here is that man is a lazy ass freeloader.

exactly

Ugosample:
nwanne listen....


By now you should know the way women behave


In a situation where she has no leverage, and the man is misbehaving, she will suck it up, but now the tables have changed, she is giving him the boot

I have seen this play out again and again in real life, that is why I am somewhat sympathetic to Jumoke.

Women with no leverage in relationships with typical naija men dey see pepper in many cases.
that is why when the opportunity comes to get even, unlike men, women are not that forgiving
they will get even ruthlessly

Sup Bro? I have seen a number of your comments...are you a feminist?

AntiWailer:
House boy ?

What was the lazy idiot expecting ?

When he sit his ass at home all day.

Have have u ever seen a Man that left his house 6am to return 7/8pm complain of being treated as house boy ?

This wouldn't matter to some women if she earns higher or is better placed than the man.

Moreover, some people can be bossy by nature. If you marry such a woman, no amount of work would save you.

delishpot:
This was why women were denied economic power in the olden days. They depended solely on the male folks (even if hubby dies they move her to his brother or another male in the family) they Could not escape abuse and even death. They had no hope living alone away from their husbands or husband family. If they even took the bold step to return home, Mothers would shoo them back to their husbands houses/families for fear of being shamed as a mother/father who welcomes back a married daughter. Greedy brothers and uncles would not give them land to do anything. They had to endure all types of shit in husbands House for the sake of their children who depend on the economic power of fathers to survive. Today women can earn their living, they can move on with their lives and not starve. Although society still expects women to eat shit nd endure, many bold women opt out of difficult marriages

Good for women, good for Jumoke. Me, I just hope that you will come back to write this kind of poem and story whenever it happens the other way round

AngelHoly:
See diswon oh

Dis bread seller of yesterday


Nawa oh...I'm getting scared of ladies
If she no go skul come dey do like dis

Talk of my babe wey don get her masters.....
She fit pin me if she later blow...

Dis example is enough...lemme change my pattern of loving

Lol.

Ugosample:
exactly

when I first saw a picture of him carrying her bag,I just knew the kind of person he was, no real hustler with dignity will do such . He is lazy and was laid back to even get something doing, a lot of smart men would have capitlaised on her fame to make a way for themselves.

I don't understand all these "she will regret her decision".....do you guys want her to live in a marriage that is bringing her no joy?

Shout out to all men and women that defy this vindictive society to get a divorce.....It is better to be divorced than have a lifetime of misery only so you can keep up appearance

afonja tufiakwa

Sally97:
Well your mother is at the top on the list of the most useless women in the world followed by your sisters. Condoms would have prevented nuisances like this.. And FYI Messi has a mother. He goat

, it hurts but it's seems to be the truth. And come to think of it, 90% of women in this generation have turned themselves into sex objects and happy about it. Naked dressers, twerkers, tiny wastes actresses, oloshos etc. It may not be out of place if one sees them as useless. If women dignify themselves, with no much they can do, one can still accept them but now that they are all bitches, they are useless intimacy gadgets. I can only take the generation of our dignified mothers serious. Fck this sex objects we have around nowadays.

blindjustice13:
Let's ask ourselves what was the man doing when she was busy hawking bread before the fame? Cos all I saw was a man carrying handbag everywhere she went ,if he had something going on in his life ,I doubt he will have time to be a handbag carrier. The truth here is that man is a lazy ass freeloader.

And let's not also forget that they were not married to begin with, so I don't see the fuss about this. They have two children and he never thought of doing the needful,he is not the victim here and I wish.peopt wi stop thinking and making judgments with their emotions .

May be we should ask you too what were they doing together back then? Why divorcing now? I'm still looking for the hard work that made her what she is today.

247naijamedia:
Olajumoke blasts, curses those telling her to return to her baby daddy after dropping his surname

https://www.everyvibes.com.ng/2019/04/Olajumoke-Curses-Those-Telling-Her-To-Return-To-Her-Baby-Daddy-After-Changing-His-Surname.html

See the stupid girl,
You see why God won't bless some people.
This one have started misbehaving.
She didn't experience misfortune when she was hawking bread , it is now she started experiencing misfortune.

Ugosample:
nwanne listen....


By now you should know the way women behave


In a situation where she has no leverage, and the man is misbehaving, she will suck it up, but now the tables have changed, she is giving him the boot

I have seen this play out again and again in real life, that is why I am somewhat sympathetic to Jumoke.

Women with no leverage in relationships with typical naija men dey see pepper in many cases.
that is why when the opportunity comes to get even, unlike men, women are not that forgiving
they will get even ruthlessly

But we cannot continue with this narrative....... Has marriage lost it's true core & meaning?

Why bother getting married, if at the slight show of wealth and change in status, the other party bails out.....


They say in marriage, marry your type...... They did that, so what's the next formula?.....

Gratefulheart01:
No mind dem people. When she dey alone dey sell bread with kids, where the hubby dey? People are too judgmental, especially Nigerians.

Nigerians are the most evil human on earth.

She wasn't with the kids at the time, the kids were actually with the husband. So, you see now!
The truth is that people had predicted this long time ago, knowing fully well the attitude of an average Nigerian celebrity

Gratefulheart01:
Dey were never married, get that. The guy just impregnated the girl. So even other point aside, only that point gives the lady opportunity to do whatever she wants.
If you win million naira lottery today, it's your choice to marry you baby mama or not. It depends if she's been nice to you or not and you think she deserves to enjoy your money with you.

But if you're married, then people can blame you. So, they were never married. Get that

It's nice to see all this stuff happen. Atleast we all know now that it's not only the man leaves a girl when he makes it in life. It's vise Vasa things. The main point is everyone should hustle to better themselves cause you don't know what will happen tomorrow.